Blokes Advice Facebook Group

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

So there’s a ‘secret’ Australian Facebook Page called ‘Blokes Advice’ which today has more than 210,000 members. Like MGTOW.com, it’s a small space on the internet where blokes can swap war stories, jokes, banter and ask for advice and give each other support in areas such as relationships, divorce, crazy women, metal health, child support, parenting, employment and career options. It’s a bit like Fight Club in that you can’t just join but have to be ‘added’ by a good male friend. A great system that helps keep the women, cucks and manginas out. And just like MGTOW.com, the page has helped bring some suicidal men in from the window ledge.

But God forbid men have any men-only nooks on the internet or in real-life where they can commune, have a few laughs and support each other. The feminists and easily-triggered want it shut down. Yes, a few of the more ‘cooked c~~~s’ (members) have crossed the line and posted sex videos of their conquests, but those posts are removed as per Facebook community standards. But every now and then some wife or girlfriend snoops around the page when a bloke is signed-in and leaves his computer or device or unattended, or looks over his shoulder while his is browsing (i.e. – spying), grabs some screenshots of a rude joke or meme, and then tries to get the page shut down because they are ‘triggered’. They even take screenshots of the poster’s names and try and shame them to family and friends or try to get them sacked from their jobs. Why can’t the feminazis just accept the backlash their extremism has caused and that more and more men will seek out estrogen-free zones like Blokes Advice and MGTOW.com?

Thankfully, for now, Facebook respects the right for men to have a ‘virtual shed’ when they can support each other and make posts like these from Blokes Advice –

1) So fellas, I’ve caught myself in a bit of a dilemma- Apprenticeship or University? I’ve been toying with the idea of both since I graduated high school last year, and still don’t have much of a clue what I was to pursue as a career as I have a vast range of interests; from office jobs working with computers to working in the construction industry. I was lucky enough to find myself a contracted full time job until the end of this year which fit in perfectly; however, coming to the end of the year I still have been unable to make an outright decision. Calling upon you fellow blokes to throw in your opinion to perhaps sway me one way or another because I’d rather not be another 25 year dole-bludger with some s~~~ty excuse as to why I don’t have a career yet.

2) Hey c~~~s! Tomorrow my beautiful mother goes under the knife for her second open heart surgery and it’s safe to say I’m just a tad bloody nervous and upset, but I know she’ll be fine and I’m sure she will make a full recovery! But if you blokes could leave some reassuring messages to give me a little more confidence I’d really appreciate it! Cheers!

3) Currently 21 fathers commit suicide every week due to child custody issues. That’s 3 of our best mates every f~~~ing day!
As a young dad myself, these statistics scare the f~~~ out of me. we’ve all been through depressing times and felt like no one is there In our darkest hours! This page has potential for so much more than just nudes and I hope you boys can stand with our blokes against evil women and bulls~~~ courts!

4) Righto blokes
After a bit of advice
The ex misses who I just had a kid to is sleeping with me dero “mate” I was supposed to fly to Brisbane this weekend to have a dna test done. But me good old soft c~~~ mate has said it can’t happen and now I have to go through courts
She didn’t tell me she was preggers till she was 17 weeks and is now saying its a 10% chance the kid isn’t mine
She also didn’t tell me she had “our” kid till 15 days after he was born just so she could get legal aid before me so I couldn’t get it
Also anyone here a family lawyer or know the best place to go ?

5) Hey lads thought I’d post this men’s depression is real I know i have it atm and was scared s~~~less of doing something stupid which I nearly did. But I was happy as s~~~ this morning when I seen old mate reach out to blokes advice for help…bunch of good c~~~s in here and its good to know you’s are willing to help a brother out.

I’m sure many of these brothers will find MGTOW in their own way and their own time, after a bout or two of divorce-rape and being victims of the gynocentric system. In the meantime I will enjoy some of the pure GOLD comedy that gets posted on Blokes Advice –

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#ManOut

[Anonymous 24]

Most guys here, at least the ones who will talk about it are not on Facebook. Those of you who are and fight the good fight in a sea of stupid, I commend you.

As to your kid/ex problems, that sucks, and I have no idea who to contact down under, but I would advise you to lawyer up if you can. I have a feeling this is just the beginning of a long nightmare for you.

School? A waste of time unless you are sure you will use it to get into a field you would have otherwise not been able to without the degree.

And best wishes with the mom surgery, I am sure it is stressful.

[HitmanParticipant]

oz bloke,
time to talk to a lawyer.
don’t worry too much about mom..she’ll pull through !
and throw the MGTOW name into your facebook site..
lastly, for whatever it’s worth..
we are here for you brother .
keep the faith .

[RennieParticipant]

Oz-Bloke wrote:

Thankfully, for now, Facebook respects the right for men to have a ‘virtual shed’ when they can support each other and make posts like these from Blokes Advice –

I wouldn’t count on that being the case in the not too distant future. Facebook and social media sites are cracking down on “hate speech”. Translation anything that opposes SJW, or liberal agendas. The group will get collared eventually.

Better to make your own forum, similar to this one.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

These guys definitely need to find this website. It’s the last free space for men on the internet for us to communicate through. All other facets, like Google/Youtube, Femmebook, T~~~ter, G+, Reddit, etc. have all been taken over by PC c~~~s who want to silence free speech and free thought.

MGTOW.com is the only place online men can really talk about anything they want.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Rennie wrote:

I wouldn’t count on that being the case in the not too distant future. Facebook and social media sites are cracking down on “hate speech”.

Even Google has taken down recent channels like Thorium. And they’ve also started censoring videos such as Undoomed’s because of “online bullying.”

Even Youtube isn’t safe anymore, and at one time, you could pretty much talk about anything you wanted to on that website.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

MGTOW is now hate speech. Find a site you belive in an support it if you can.

I support this site to help save men. Mgtow saves lives.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Hitman wrote:

oz bloke,
time to talk to a lawyer.
don’t worry too much about mom..she’ll pull through !

Hi Hitman and others, thanks for the feedback. The numbered examples in my original post are not my posts on the Blokes Advice Facebook page, but posts by others members (names removed to protect the posters – unlike the feminists I don’t ‘out’ people in a secret group).

I personally use Facebook very little, but use it mainly as a directory of interesting links to career and industry related pages, technology updates and male-orientated comedy like Blokes Advice’.

#ManOut

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

1). It depends on what you want to do, but currently there is a glut of university students all around Australia. If you want to get into computers a degree will help, but I think employers would want to see initiative of learning and actual interest ‘raging on your own projects’ as Stealthy might say.

If you get an apprenticeship you get paid to learn unlike uni, even though it’s pretty low. Established tradies seem to have a pretty good amount of autonomy (less bureacracy BS) so that’s another advantage over an office job.

That’s cool you’ve got a temp contract at the moment, many people are having difficulty finding jobs. The guys that installed the NBN for us had mechanical engineering degrees, yet couldn’t find work. So I think whatever you get find a way to be greatful.

2). It’s absolutely OK to be worried about your Mum. The surgeons wouldn’t be performing the procedure if it was too great a risk or there was a better option.

3). It is sad that many men feel the need to suicide due to their circumstances, but suicide does not just happen. It is a choice. What happens around us does not dictate how we act. There is a mental space between these two things. Trigglypuff chose to lose her cool in the lecture theatre. If she had some self-accountability and practice she could have easily acknowledged she felt stressed and acted in another manner. I would think that the men who chose to end their life had an external locus of control rather than internal. It is our own responsibility to look after ourselves and seek help if we need it. There are mens hotlines and professionals who we can talk to along with friends, family and bros on here.

Reframing how we see life and living for today (not catastrophising about the future) is how we change our future, ironic isn’t it?

Furtermore, if Viktor Frankl can find meaning from his suffering in German concentration camps what excuse do we have?

See the cycle here, you want to be behave differently, then you need to think differently. Find another way to reframe our circumstances. That’s how some people can bounce back from any challenges they face in life and others don’t cope nearly as well. Great thing is you can change that.

https://www.google.com.au/search?
q=thoughts+beliefs+feelings+actions&espv=2&biw=1920&bih=935&tbm=isch&imgil=Zvel8UkzUgjZPM%253A%253B7c8hMlfvJIe-lM%253Bhttp%25253A%25252F%25252Fwww.yolandadeloach.com%25252Ftag%25252Fself-worth%25252F&source=iu&pf=m&fir=Zvel8UkzUgjZPM%253A%252C7c8hMlfvJIe-lM%252C_&usg=__ebA2az-P-NLFgO3zGPVdCN-PftI%3D&ved=0ahUKEwiMnfae6Z_OAhVCkJQKHTJNArgQyjcIJg&ei=aQufV8zECsKg0gSymonACw#imgrc=Pl8TGfu66C8_0M%3A

Worrying about that statistic is unhelpful rumination. To overcome rumination one can make it a lot easier for themselves if when they become aware of the rumination to gently accept that it is occuring and use mindfullness to become aware of the present moment, whether that’s driving your car to work or breathing as you lay your head on the pillow. Often during rumination one may ask ‘why?’ This is a trick question that doesn’t have an answer! This means that the suffering is pointless. A better way to approach problems is to ask ‘how can I overcome this obstacle?’ Rather than focus on the obstacle and panic. This way we can address our emotions and find a solution to the problem. You may find writing this down in a rumination diary (plenty on the internet) will help organise your feelings too and get it off your chest.

Ever hear the parable about the little girl picking up starfish off the beach and putting them in the water? She didn’t worry about the futility of saving them all, she just did what she could and it mattered to those that she helped.

Women aren’t evil, in fact I think the idea of ‘good and evil’ is absurd. Why? Because people often act out of their own insecurity to obtain more control over their lives from their own misperceptions. I would substitute this ideology with wholesome and unwholesome thoughts and actions. Believing women are evil will only create an aversion to them affecting your own health in the long-term, not to mention good and evil as a whole creates an internal battle and makes one feel weary. You don’t have to marry women, but you can learn to accept that they are a part of society. Acceptance is afterall the goal of the grief process. Kinda like Jim Jeffries becoming tolerant of christians including those who ask him to be their child’s Godfather haha. Notice how Stealthy has become more Zen from accepting the women in his workplace.

4). Have you been to Legal Aid? In the state I’m in Legal Aid goes to the person with the least assets, not who got there first, if you both apply. I would go to a family lawyer and apply for legal aid there. Might take between 1 and 3 months before you find out if you get legal aid or not, but either way getting a family lawyer to help you is wise. There may also be a Legal Aid number you can call on there website to help clarify your questions related to the process and who gets Legal Aid.

5). Yep, many guys live with personality disorders, myself included. But it’s something you take moment by moment, day by day and no further. I mentioned in another thread that worrying about the future is pointless as the future is made on the efforts of today. Ever said, I’ll do X tomorrow? Then it never happens 😀 . But when you say I’ll do this today at this time and stick to it and do that often then changes gradually occur and s~~~ gets done. Whenever I worry about the future now I accept I’m feeling this way and remind myself that it’s a trick. Ha caught ya anxiety!

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Noticed my link didn’t work, it’s a cycle of :

Thoughts > beliefs > feelings > actions

To change one’s feelings and behaviour one needs to change the way they percieve their situation. This is the power of true optimism.

Eg. This situation was horrible, why does this s~~~ happen to me?

Can become:

Yes this situation was painful, but I gained a lot of wisdom from it. Not only that, but I can share it with the boys at MGTOW.com and possibly help others who are looking for guidance.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[AttonParticipant]

They even take screenshots of the poster’s names and try and shame them to family and friends or try to get them sacked from their jobs.

The nature of MGTOW makes anonymity preferable in almost all circumstances. There just doesn’t exist a better protection than that.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 0]

G’day mate and welcome. I’m a fellow Aussie. My input as follows.
1. I did a four year apprenticeship in a trade, then left and followed my passion in music but also worked at a Piggery, Slaughter house, forest plantation nursery, tropical island resort, entertainment, Music Shop and Pub before going to Uni and reinventing myself at the age of 32. So just do whatever you want mate. Its never too late to reinvent yourself.

2. She’s in a hospital mate- there are doctors there. Relax!

3. You wanna see a train wreck? Read my intro and know i was nearly one of them.

4. If you and the bitch live in a rural town and you actually want something to do with the kid, then go legal aid. Just because Bitch is on it doesn’t mean you cant get it unless you live in a town with only one lawyer. So get another lawyer in the city, do it online. Do it yourself. If you are of reasonable sensibilities and character there is no way you will denied access and an on-going relationship with your child. I know really sad bitch who tried really hard to deny thins happening-even moved 7 hours away. The father won access. Because the child will be young, dont’ expect too much too soon. But definitely expect graduated increases as the years play out. You will have to decide how much effort you want to put in. Just MAKE SURE that you have the gradual increases continuing up to 50/50 when the child is 8. This should be expected because that’s when Pappa Gov stops paying her the pension. Its not about the kid. Don’t bother trying for anything too much too soon. You will f~~~ing LOOOOOSE. Just get it nailed down so you can just relax. Family court is an evil hole.
5. Cheers and good luck.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Um guys..

OzBloke just said that he reposted that stuff from a FaceBook group posted by other men looking for advice and other men to share what they are dealing with.

Ok??

The FaceBook and SJW crowd want the Group shut down.

Male Mental Health is looked down upon until its wanted to help accomplish something that women want for a moment and when the moment is over its looked down upon again.

Because nobody gives a damn what men go thru.
Not women,not government ,nobody.

Men are not supposed to help each other out and support eachother without government and female oversight.

Understand?

I hope those men find their way here.

Im not an Ozz ,i live not far from Orlando and have done construction within blocks of Club Pulse.

To the one young man if he ever reads this.Electricians and plumbers and heavy equipment operators can make pretty good money.

Universitys are hazardus places for men now.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Anti-Feminism-AustraliaParticipant 25]

Well it happened, the group has been shut down.

http://www.antifeminismaustralia.com/news/feminists-shut-blokes-advice-group/

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