Biased Judges

[TrainmanHaleParticipant 11]

Y’all know what? I have one for ya that will make y’all sick. Imagine the setting. Weld County Colorado. Rural. Conservative. The judge who got me an order of protection was awesome. Then my ex wife decided to evade police for a week. Checked into an abused women’s shelter (Which she later admitted to the court psychiatrist was something she did just because she could). And District judge Strobel took over. She nixed my order of protection before the hearing date without notifying me. She enforced the one my ex got against me (Now dropped, thank God). On the day of the hearing for the divorce papers I filed, my ex’s lawyer harassed and badgered me in the hallway of the court room. No penalty. She got to present her side of the case. The judge told me and my lawyer that she didn’t care and didn’t want to hear anything from me. I was blatantly denied my right to a fair hearing by judicial activism. I did everything by the book to the letter. My ex violated court orders and had contempt charges against her dropped by the judge. The judge also said that she didn’t have the time to enforce anything and that it wasn’t her priority. I missed out on everything that was a milestone in my daughter’s life. Because I work full time and have male parts. The judge reasoned that “biologically, I was not able to be a proper parent.” Fast forward to now. I only get to see my daughter for four weeks out of the next three years. They allowed my ex to take her out of state. The next time I see my daughter, she won’t know who I am. This judge went on and on about the best interests of the child. Yet, she is forcing me to become a psychological stranger to my own child, because, you know, that won’t damage my child at all. So, even now, my ex violates the court orders, and there is nothing I can do. The judge will not give me the time of day, and flat out says that she doesn’t care what I have to say about it because I have no right to say anything about it. What? Yeah. How this happens is beyond me. My constitutional rights have been ignored, and the judge enabled my ex to go further in her abuse by dragging me through the mud and using my daughter as a tool to continue her abuse. Honestly, corrective action needs to be taken here. It’s really screwed up. What can I do to have this judge thrown off this case and all of her orders revoked?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKKKK……..

Just reading that made me mad. I would say “welcome!” and all that friendly s~~~, but I’m too p~~~ed. I don’t even know where to begin! Any woman who uses the words “deadbeat dad” in a sentence again is going to get a f~~~ing earful from me. (Like it matters)

What is with these c~~~s who are OK with this s~~~?

Can you see another judge? Find a lawyer in your corner? A men’s rights expert? I’m so totally lost for words. Knowing me, they would NOT get away with it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

@trainmanhale

Its a sobering and depressing fact that this is what “family courts” have turned into in America. The judge wasn’t biased against you I don’t think (certainly possible though), but it is more likely that she was biased against your attorney. Family court judges and lawyers develop backroom kickbacks and “partnerships” to an extent that you would not believe. One of the first things an attorney wants to know is who is representing your spouse, this is because they can foretell the inevitable decision of the judge, more often than not, on this one piece of information. The family court is a lawless, authoritative, abusive, immoral, corrupt, and disgusting pit full of vipers and thieves. But you know this already.

As far as your child goes, I’m no expert. If I was in your shoes I would document everything that my ex, the court, and the lawyers have done to me and then put it all into a nice little presentation to give to her when she is old enough to make up her own mind. There is no doubt that your ex will poison her mind with lies about you, this is what vindictive women do. You are left with no recourse but to continue fighting for her and to hope that one day she will see her mother for what she really is.

You are not a victim. You are a man who has been severely wronged by forces beyond your control, but you can adapt, you can survive, you can prosper. If you don’t fall prey to the lure of “playing the victim” then you have won the war and your ex is powerless over you.

Nice mechanical mod BTW!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

You should contact National Coalition For Men http://ncfm.org/get-help/. They can either provide help or tell you how to get help.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

“In 1971, the U.S. Supreme Court decided Reed v. Reed, extending the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to protect women from gender discrimination, in situations where there is no rational basis for the discrimination.  That level of scrutiny was boosted to an intermediate level in Craig v. Boren (1976).”   (From Wikipedia) – Yay Feminism!  But it works both ways:  EQUAL PROTECTION.

Equal protection.  Family law has gone so f~~~ing far from the concept of Equal protection that it makes my head hurt.  The whole thing should be thrown out by the supreme court on the basis of violation of the constitution, specifically Equal Protection & gender discrimination.  I really hope that someone is working on this.  If there is, I would love to know who, and what case?

Here, in Canada, the supreme court just threw out all of the old laws that governed prostitution, citing that they were in violation of sex workers’ rights to safety of the person (safe work environment).  Of course, our f~~~ed up government’s response was to come up with new laws that endanger sex workers even further.  Uphill battles on all sides.

One would logically think that the right to work somewhere safe for sex workers would be just a little less “personal domain,” and effect fewer citizens, than the rights of all parents to keep their children (very personal, effects everyone).  One would also logically think that if a right is more “personal domain” and effects more citizens, that the right would have to be at treated in a more constitutionally sound way – equal and fair treatment.  By that test, current family law should have been thrown out long before the prostitution laws were.

Feminist groups lobbied for the current Family Law structures in Canada and the USA.  Both Family Law structures are in violation of the concept of “fair and equal treatment under the law”.  By logic alone, I have to draw the conclusion that Feminism is NOT ABOUT EQUALITY, not even one little bit.

Where does the logic break down?  Is it as simple as the fact that there are more female voters than male?  That’s what the constitution is designed to do:  protect the individuals from…the majority (government).  Or are we being governed by thieves and liars?  History has taught us that once the populace is convinced of the corruption in government, anarchy and revolution are the usual results.

It Ain’t Right – One Bad Son

BVC

 

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I think that donations to the campaigns of publicly elected officials must be made public above a certain amount…(???). If yours is a publicly elected judge, and it’s possible to see how much was donated to her campaign and by whom, it might make her actions easier to explain…

One more thing on my list of ‘what a woman will do for money…’

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

That sort of thing couldn’t hurt.  Truthfully, I had no idea that judges could get bonuses based on the size of alimony and/or child support judgements.  Pretty crooked sounding…

No conflict of interest there…LOL

BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

…as if I needed another reason to avoid “relatoins~~~s” and female nonsense in general…

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I remember when my parents were divorcing in 2009.  They had been together almost 20 years.  I was 20, going on 21 at the time, so it only affected me semi-emotionally.  My younger sister (she was about 15 that year) actually wanted to live with my father, as she didn’t feel safe around my mother due to her outbursts, sometimes violent…like, scary violent.  When my father presented his case to keeping my sister (with my sister serving as a witness to her statement wishing to be with my father), the judges and mediator simply said that my mother’s outbursts were because my father, my sister, and myself “had to have been doing something to cause her to behave that way.”  Ultimately, my mother won most of the case, being able to keep my sister for 2 weeks at a time, and my father would have to pay her child support that didn’t fully go to my sister.

When my parents were married, and my dad would finally lose his cool over my mother’s outbursts, she would call the police on my father for being “violent” against her.  The police, of course, took her side.  Once he was gone, I was the new target…my sister wasn’t a big fan of that, either.  I won’t forget when my mother once called the police on me for “buying alcohol.”  It was kept in the closet of my room where no one knew except myself.  She then proceeded to kick me out of the house, and when I calmly tried to reason with her, she blew up and called the police on me for “being belligerent.”  The police then proceeded to speak to my mother and myself separately, treating me like I had a weapon and was about to attack them, while talking to my mother calmly.  They then told me to leave, much to her happiness.  Having nowhere to go, my mother eventually let me back in after a short span of time sleeping in my car (this happened frequently).  She then called the police on me again for the same reason.  When this happened, my sister stood up for me and said I was doing nothing wrong, and that my mother was just having “another bi-polar moment that she’ll end up apologizing for later.”  The police told my sister to shut up and go back into her room, then told me if they have to be called again, either my mother and I would be going to jail, or only I would be going.

The legal system is horrible.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

I remember when my parents were divorcing in 2009.  They had been together almost 20 years.

This was around the age when my own mother began to turn on my father which conveniently coincided with the house finally being paid off, like she was saying “OK your job is done and now the house is mine you can sleep anywhere but in your own house”. She did her best to try to turn me against him too but it was all puppetry, smoke and mirrors.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I think that was about the same time my parents had their house paid off.  If not, it was pretty close.  I think some of the child support money went to paying it off, too…but I could be mistaken.  I just remember being told by my dad as the police told him to leave the last night that my mother had seen about 5 men over the course of the 20 years they were together…when he was gone, my mother told me as she was in tears that it was “only 3 men.”

My dad told me months later the 5 men in detail.  When I mentioned “what about [insert two of the three my mother mentioned here], he said ‘well, those are some I didn’t know about.'”  I fell for the lies, and it was once I discovered them that my mother didn’t want me living there at her house either, saying how I was an inconvenience.  Huh.  Convenient that I suddenly became the inconvenience.

[lowkeyParticipant 37]

Live in the same county.Raked over the coals in the same building.Entire experience leaves you looking for reality tv cameras , or
a reasonable adult to put an end to it.In the end you shuffle out the door thinking did that really just happen? How did we let this
get this far? ANSWER we were working 90 hrs a week knockin iron. Sorry brother.

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