Beware the mangina

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Hello again all. Havn’t been an active writer, but have not ceased reading since long before joining.

My topic shines a light on the type of person that could have been any one of us here. This experience has happened to myself personally twice. Both times were under the same pre-cicumstance. Friend divorces woman, guy goes downhill.

The thing that resonates
and is relateable is that we have all experienced or heard of the experience associated with divorce, with children. It takes the breath out of us. It takes away our motivation to do well. But in my circumstance and hopefully many more among you is that it is a temporary viewpoint. That a little bit down the road, we see a path that is obtainable to justify the means to the end. To be able to continue to raise our children as our own. To be able to pass down the morality needed that enables them to be able to succeed at life.

Both times. I offered residence to these friends to keep them above water. Asking only honesty in return, as I was away for work. Both times had the same outcome.

They drank and drugged themselves into a state beyond comprehension. They used my goodwill to entitle themselves into the perspective of what was mine was theirs. Property of mine came up missing, accompanied with excuses. Two strikes was too many. Because i never recouped any of my losses.

I don’t know if it was the type of people I was helping, or if I was just the enabler keeping them from hitting the bottom before they chose to come back up to the surface. But I can tell you one thing. Don’t fk with these people. There is a reason no one else was there for me when i went through mine. These brothers did more damage to me than any clam ever has. The first one is long gone, died in his late twenties.Found out his second kid wasn’t even his after the divorce (redpill). Said it was heart failure. But i know better.

Second is more recent. He gets off on his perception of slyness. But he is a fkn plane glass window. See right through him. A friend i had in my teens that resurfaced back into my state, begging me for a place to stay. Knew better. But gave him the benifeit of the doubt for ol’ times sake. He took much more, for the sake of entitlement.

Please listen. There is a boundary that men should not cross with other men. Just as there is with women. Don’t be fooled that it only applies to one sex. It is universal.

Keep your guard up. Build your empire and freedom boys. And don’t let the clams or mangina swingin willys anywhere close to it. Guard it. Cherish it.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

To summarize, protect your resources. Great post!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22524]

A white knight will not pretend to be anything else. You can see a white knight coming a mile away.

A mangina pretends to have friends and stabs them in the back when they are no longer useful. A mangina is a feminist with a penis.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Beware the Mangina, my son,
The knee that bends,
The lips that kiss ass,
Beware the pussy-chaser, boy,
Or else your ass is grass.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

I had a mangina from my past try to waltz back into my life recently. Pretending the s~~~ he did to me never happened. As a man I probably would have forgiven him had he sincerely owned his s~~~, but luckily he did not.

I thanked him for being a friend in High school when I was going through some rough s~~~ with my family, but made it clear we were not still friends.
I didn’t drudge up the s~~~ he did, but I didn’t hear from him again.
Glad he got the message.

OP and the others are spot on. Don’t trust them. Don’t give them a foothold into your life, if you can avoid it.

[AttonParticipant]

MarketWatcher wrote:

To summarize, protect your resources. Great post!

Common sense appears to be far less common than one would think.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Hindsight is 20/20. The thing that got me, and the point I kinda missed due to writing it after c~~~tail hour, was the fact that both of these were standup guys and had backed me up proir to their own self destruction. They let their women turn them against themselves and they lost the morality that they once had towards me, the one that was actually helping them.

I deffinitly had to learn it the hard way twice. But at the time, didn’t think I was doing anything that they wouldn’t have done for me.

All that you can do is offer them words of wisdom on their deaf ears. Anything beyond that is good deeds that will not go unpunished.

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