Better Late Than Never

[RoninParticipant 128]

To be honest, I wish I were a younger man and happened upon this digital codex of manliness. Well, I am the product of a female dominated family. However, there is something within me that hated what I experienced and something fought hard against it. I am grateful for whatever it is or was.
I really did not understand why I felt so conflicted up until three days ago in my four year exodus from the world to understand what I am about. If I can impart any ham-fisted wisdom to help any other man it would be this,

A man in conflict with himself cannot build anything of substance and will fail.

My entire life is a journey of understanding of self. I even tried to escape estropit via the Army for thirteen years. To be honest, I am on my way out and miss the thrill of being deployed under the pretense of war. I am still on this journey, but I do have a few absolutes:

1. I detest White Knighting, especially when it comes at the expense of another man who has done no wrong.
–So, you are going to crap on this dude for the chance to plow this chick’s stink trench? You are dishonorable on two levels. A) No discipline B) No standard

2. I kinda have a strong aversion towards women aside from the occasional physical release. I believe that a man cannot truly be friends with a woman. It took a long time to understand this.
–How can you develop a bond of friendship, if you are diverting 25% of your brain power to suppress your biological urge/functions? It’s like driving with your feet. Sure, it could be done, but is it under the best conditions?

I have been married twice at the age of 33. I want you to refer to my ten seconds of wisdom above to understand why that did not work. I will not get married again, the odds are stacked against men. Also, I refuse to have children. My rationale on that is I will not subject a son to my “winging” it as a man. The stewardship of children is to protect and impart knowledge, so they are essentially not a jackass. I am playing catch-up, so that is a no go.

With that aside, I am glad to be here and want to glean as much knowledge from other men as possible.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Ronin. Glad you found us in one piece. Best wishes on your journey of personal discovery.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Ronin
Beer’s in the fridge

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome brother! Thanks for the good read. You are headed in the right direction!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Welcome Ronin!

Ronin wrote:

To be honest

Noticed you started two statements with that.

(IRL – in real life) A few years ago, I became aware I also frequently began statement that way …. and realized it was because I felt I couldn’t just say something it plainly, openly and honestly. I couldn’t help but wonder why we are conditioned to do that. So then I stopped opening with that, and just SAID it.

Now I was just “being honest” without announcing it first. It gets funny when others start wondering “is he serious or kidding?”.

Ronin wrote:

I detest White Knighting, especially when it comes at the expense of another man who has done no wrong

It’s the “virtue signaling” aspect that’s most irritating.

WHITE KNIGHT: “I’m a better man than you, because I would remove my jacket and lay it over a puddle so a woman doesn’t dirty her shoes. You’re an asshole if you don’t do that too.”.

As if not lowering yourself to the same phenomenal depths is the same as “treating women badly”.

It’s sickening.

Ronin wrote:

I believe that a man cannot truly be friends with a woman.

When you want a friend, get a dog.
It’s really true.

You know the question “can men and women really be friends”? I would like to have a few words with the person who first suggested the possibility. You know it’s crap because women don’t even treat their boyfriends and husbands like a “friend”. They will tell their girl-friends every last intimate thought and detail, but her man is the last to know. And that’s the man she pretends to “love”. Often, they end up treating him WORSE than if she never met him at all. So what idiot would even imply men and women can be “friends”?

How “friendly” are women, really?

Yesterday, I was about 50 paces behind a woman and she was about to cross the street. 2 guys stopped at the cross walk in a car and said “Hi. how are you today?”. Smiling and were cheerful. She acted like that were being “creepy” and said nothing.

Forget being actual “friends”. They can try being friendly first.

MarketWatcher wrote:

Thanks for the good read. You are headed in the right direction!

Second that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Ronin…good name, you don’t serve the feminist feudal lords any longer!

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[RoninParticipant 128]

After spending a majority of my life, obliging the madness of society, it seems natural to open with “to be honest”. Reflecting upon your reply, it is a sense of relief to see something like that. “To be honest”, have I spent my entire life barking lies? I can argue that I have been lying… to self. Somewhere deep down in the core of my being, I know its wrong and the man that I am is raging against the prison I constructed, I am the warden. That’s a FUBAR, if I ever pointed one out. To have such things to be made right, you must be in the council of men, so that you can be tempered in mind, body and spirit.

From my layman’s knowledge of it is and what it shouldn’t be, is society producing a pseudo man in women? The pseudo man will always be hostile to the natural man. The ideals of the natural man will be alien to the pseudo man. These ideals can be taught, however the proper execution lies upon the mantle of the natural man. This thought came about with the idea of women being friendly and possible explanation of the enmity between them.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

[RoninParticipant 128]

No gods, no masters.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Ronin wrote:

After spending a majority of my life, obliging the madness of society, it seems natural to open with “to be honest”. Reflecting upon your reply, it is a sense of relief to see something like that.

It took me about 3 minutes to phrase it properly, because you could easily interpret it as a criticism. And you don’t deserve one here – especially upon arrival and the first moment you open your mouth. So I’m delighted you saw the value in it.

Ronin wrote:

“To be honest”, have I spent my entire life barking lies?

Mostly it’s just sugar-coating for someone else’s benefit – and buffering the truth.

EXAMPLE:

“Do you want to go out tonight?”

“To be honest, I just want to order a bucket of KFC, switch off and watch some mindless TV and empty my head.”

Now you’re explaining yourself and apologizing for “being honest” when a simple “NO” will do.

Just “No”.

It’s really that easy. And liberating! That’s why I said: It gets funny when others start wondering “is he serious or kidding?”. A “no” with no apology (or explanation attached) will generate that reaction.

When people open with “to be honest”, it’s an indication they aren’t usually being honest, so they feel a need to announce it first. But “no” is a perfectly acceptable answer. When a man just says “no” the world really wonders “is he serious?”. Especially when women want something! They expect an automatic “yes”.

Try it! It’s remarkable.

Ronin wrote:

it seems natural to open with “to be honest”

It’s unnatural and a product of conditioning & social programming. Now that you’re aware of it, you’ll hear it ALL THE TIME. Its’ natural for others because they are not usually direct in their communications. For some reason, they believe they CAN’T be.

You say you were the product of a female dominated family? Et voilá!

“No” is the man’s first natural response (in this case), but he buffers it because “feelings are more important than facts”…. and “sensitivity is more important than truth”.

Those are FEMALE values.
And in a female-dominated family, female values are IMPOSED on you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoninParticipant 128]

Keymaster wrote:

It took me about 3 minutes to phrase it properly, because you could easily interpret it as a criticism. And you don’t deserve one here – especially upon arrival and the first moment you open your mouth. So I’m delighted you saw the value in it.

If I were in my feelings, then I would not belong here. I am liking the underlying intent of this site. I expect to only discuss with men of substance, so it’s all good.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Welcome to the forums, Ronin. Pleased to meet you!

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome .
glad you found the site.
enjoy !

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome Ronin. I like your name.

And the talk about buffering the no is eye opening. Enjoy the forum

[RoninParticipant 128]

Anonymous wrote:

And the talk about buffering the no is eye opening. Enjoy the forum

I have been searching all day for more indicators of female values in the MGTOW law library. Thank you for the welcome.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

[roninParticipant 341]

Welcome, it’s good to see another great man joined. Your intro, signature and avatar are awesome.Enjoy.

We are at the dawn of a New Era. We are the Vanguard.-Greg Honda.

[Anonymous 1]

Sir, welcome to the real deal, enjoy your stay and feel free to share your redpills, we can use some more.

[RoninParticipant 128]

Now if I get a Darkwing Duck avatar, we would have a party.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

[Anonymous 1]

How is 2 same name allowed by the system? Is it because the caps?

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Sir, great intro ..I am looking forward to reading your postings.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[RoninParticipant 128]

MACHO wrote:

Welcome Sir, great intro ..I am looking forward to reading your postings.

One of my fantasy professions was to be a writer. I believe that I need to flush female patterns from my style.

Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.

Listen, and understand! That C-1000 is out there! It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!

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