Since we all now what traits and characteristics define a woman that is a narcissist, I will skip that part of things.
However, I was recently reading a couple of articles related to ‘inverted narcissists’ and they were very informative regarding the topic. None of the material I read touched on any MGTOW themed stuff but I came to realize afterwards when thinking about Beta males and their behavior that most of them must be inverted narcissists on some level.
An inverted narcissist is someone that is essentially narcissistic at their core, but either due to life circumstances or early childhood preconditioning (by a narcissistic mother or female primary caregiver), their narcissistic traits and characteristics are never fully exhibited. They rely on a narcissistic false self, but lost their true self along the way and for men in a position like that, enter adulthood unable to express any level of either healthy self esteem (needed by all humans) or it’s hybrid counterpart narcissism.
As a result, their quest to experience their own trapped and shackled narcissism, leads them to rely on a narcissistic host (princess) and they decide at some point to subjugate their own needs, desires, dreams and goals to that of the narcissistic female that they attach to. As the narcissistic slut is simultaneously attaching to the male inverted narcissist for a wide range of things: resources, money, social status, etc.
The beta male (inverted narcissist) is unable to experience fulfillment and happiness without channeling it through a narcissistic host and that is why in some cases, those matches seem perfect to a casual observer because both the needs of the inverted narcissist (beta male) and narcissistic female are being met by their co-delusional and mutually parasitical attachment bond.
If allowed to have developed normally, the beta male – inverted narcissists, early childhood narcissism would not have been caged but rather evolved into normal, healthy and much needed self esteem and his desire and need for a narcissistic woman would not exist. He more than likely upon reaching adulthood and in the absence of any need to fit societal norms and in the absence of preconditioning by a narcissistic mother/caregiver would become a normal, healthy and functional male. Possibly even eventually finding his way to MGTOW.
Instead, and almost as a means of emotional and psychological survival, he finds a narcissistic, self absorbed princess and attaches within the façade of a relationship and temporarily meets his own need for self esteem by assigning his self worth, happiness and life over to a host that despite not loving him, allows him to fulfill an empty part of his soul. And once again, only for a short time, until she transitions to the next c~~~ and wallet.
In extreme cases: If allowed to develop unrestricted, a worst case scenario of a beta male – inverted narcissist is the type of guy that would let his girlfriend or wife take part in a gangbang (that he sits by and watches) because her needs, happiness and desires eventually and in an unhealthy way become his own way of being happy and satisfied and if he can facilitate, sanction and allow anything she wants, his own primitive and undeveloped sense of self allows it in an attempt to at the same time be seen by her as loving and capable of meeting those needs.
Ned Trent 4 years, 9 months ago.
