Best protection

[Anonymous 1]

Any advice on the best way to protect yourself from someone that is trying to pressure or affect you if you want to cut them out but they are constantly around you and ignoring them can lead to a negative?

[Anonymous 42]

Tip them over and shove the word NO up their ass!

[Anonymous 0]

Pretty vague situation so I can’t give you the best advice for the situation.

However that being said at some point you will be sick of tiptoeing around the elephant in the room and letting it go on could be worse than hashing it out now what ever the negative may be, better now than later. In your situation I would just tell them to p~~~ of a bridge, I am not for keeping in an unpleasant situation with someone I want to cut out. I will cut them out and deal with what I have to on my end and be happier in the end for having done so. If you wish not to deal with someone in your life, do not, that is in my eyes a vital element of going your own way.

Also tell them to mind their own godforsaken business and that its your life and decisions to make not theirs.

Look at the moron and say “I didn’t realize I needed your f~~~ing input to make my own decisions!”

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

at some point you will be sick of tiptoeing around the elephant in the room

Flip it around on them and be that elephant in the room!
They dare not f~~~ with you only because they know they’re opening the valve to streaming asshole that’s throwing the s~~~ straight back in their face!
Hard nose everything like a raging bull when anything or anyone tries to over ride your sovereignty, decisions, and principles. You don’t have to agree or negotiate a damn thing with anyone.

No means no, the only other no I know is F~~~ NO!

Be this guy, control the narrative!

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

SoylentGeneration wrote:

at some point you will be sick of tiptoeing around the elephant in the room

Flip it around on them and be that elephant in the room!
They dare not f~~~ with you only because they know they’re opening the valve to streaming asshole that’s throwing the s~~~ straight back in their face!
Hard nose everything like a raging bull when anything or anyone tries to over ride your sovereignty, decisions, and principles. You don’t have to agree or negotiate a damn thing with anyone.

No means no, the only other no I know is F~~~ NO!

Be this guy, control the narrative!

I didn’t think of it like that. Great way to look at it.

[Anonymous 0]

Sounds like a tuna question. Clarify.

[HitmanParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Sounds like a tuna question.

why M52 ?
it’s vauge..o.k.
but it doesn’t smell to me..
just a bit of desperation maybe..
i know this is MGTOW and not Dear Abbey..
so i do get where you are coming from M52..
no disrespect to you.
where is the OP coming from , i’m not exactly sure …

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Walk away.
If you’re around them, be nice, be polite, but limit conversation.

[BoarParticipant]

Do you need them in your life? If not, excise them. Trust me, walking away from a long-standing social circle is the best form of growth you can encounter.

If they are in your life whether you want them to be or not, then learn boundaries and deflections. Separate your personal life from their interactions. Starve the parasite and elude the stalkers.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Any advice on the best way to protect yourself from someone that is trying to pressure or affect you if you want to cut them out but they are constantly around you and ignoring them can lead to a negative?

Care to write that in English?

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Herr.KaufmannParticipant 78]

Anonymous wrote:

Any advice on the best way to protect yourself from someone that is trying to pressure or affect you if you want to cut them out but they are constantly around you and ignoring them can lead to a negative?

Its in your username. Go Anonymous online if that’s where the source of annoyance is coming from.
Do what MG-ɹǝʍoʇ said and tell them no to their face, don’t get mad at them if its a woman as she will know she is getting on your nerves and that might be what she wants. Keep it calm but stern and serious. Make eye contact at all times.

Drop out from mainstream social media sites such as Twitter, Yahoo, Gmail, Microsoft, Facebook.
Go grab a new email from Protonmail.ch, most secure in the world. If it is not a convenience, then change your number. Up to you tho.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Any advice on the best way to protect yourself from someone that is trying to pressure or affect you if you want to cut them out but they are constantly around you and ignoring them can lead to a negative?

Do a little work and look up the word “sociopath” and see if that person fits the profile.

Not “psychopath”. A “sociopath”. If you think they might be, confronting them directly can lead to them becoming extremely hostile like a parasite that needs a host to survive. Remove yourself from them at once, and stop associating with them. Don’t worry about being rude about it.

If it’s not that extreme, then apply some “amused mastery” and just ease back on responding to everything they say. Let them wonder what you’re thinking. Flash a knowing smile like you know what they are up to. If they are trying to get a rise out of you, find it funny instead. Always remember, you don’t have to respond or react to *everything*. That’s the beauty of it all.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

Don’t answer door. Get a blacklisting app for your phone. No is your best friend.

One trick is to always have something else to do when they call or show up.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

To chime in with the others, if you are dealing with a real piece of work, like my 2nd xwife, it wont be easy, and there is no quick exit.

In the end, the only strategy that worked for me with her was to act like I no longer cared anymore about anything…

Ironically, not only did it work, but I no longer even have to keep up the act. I do it now with gusto and no acting is required.

It was then, that I actually realized indifference is KEY to MY sanity.

[Anonymous 1]

What do you do if they start treating you differently and you know/knew the reason? I did certain things on purpose and knew they would change their tune in the long run.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

It’s a tuna. Look at her introduction post and replys.

[Anonymous 1]

I think so too.. So how do we report it ? There used to be a button, I think….

[Anonymous 1]

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

What do you do if they start treating you differently and you know/knew the reason? I did certain things on purpose and knew they would change their tune in the long run.

Anyone good at deciphering cryptic clues?

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