best friend turned blue pill as phuck :-/

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Pre-relationship:

We moved in together which marked legit adulthood for us because we finally left the coop.  He was an ambitious dude who took on the world and brought me up with him.  I was lazy but trying.  He had that burning desire to further his life and it was infectious for sure, and it was what I needed to get where I am today.  He phucked a few girls here and then but never kept them around.  I wasn’t getting any back then.

Post-relationship:
Fast forward to present-day.  He has been in a relationship with a single mom with an annoying two year old for almost a f~~~ing year.  She is (obviously) crazy.  She broke up with him and I told him how he wasn’t the same anymore and how he got complacent and he is letting this toxic relationship ruin his life.   I invested so much energy and advice into hoping that he would toss her to the side for BOTH of our well-being.  He was honestly kind of a friend AND father figure to me and the better HE did in life, the better I did.  He took her back like an idiot and I was crushed.
They make loud noise in the apartment complex all the time whether it be sex or arguing.  She brings too much drama into our house.  He seemingly spends every goddamn waking second with her and she is ALWAYS here…so much that he realized that our relationship was slipping because he was pussy whipped and only wanted to hang out with her and I just started doing my own thing and stopped investing so much useless energy into helping him out.

We made a deal to always have a saturdays bros night out to keep a healthy house.  It went well for a little bit until he started breaking the rules and letting her hang out with us on a couple occassions on saturday and even arguing on the phone with her the whole time we were out one time.  She eventually manipulated him and told him that she doesn’t like when me and him go out alone on the weekends because I’m single (bitch).
He spends time with her and her two year old son and complains about it all the time and i eventually told him that I am drawing my own boundaries and am staying out of his drama because it had a mental effect on me and I don’t want to get pulled in (because this bitch is a wrecking ball).  Now, he hardly talks about her drama and I’m glad for it (but he doesn’t have to because I hear it in the next room over anyway)….but when he does, all i say is “oh….yeah….uh huh” etc.

I am now the one who is extremely motivated and am f~~~ing different women on rotation.  I’ve tried talking to him about red pill stuff but he is too far gone.  I am honestly just waiting for this bitch to wreck his life (hopefully not too much) so he can learn his lesson.  He is 26 and playing daddy with a crazy single mom with an annoying 2 year old and she still just might be f~~~ing the baby daddy….who knows.  I’ve cleansed my hands of the situation for my sanity and am only worried about me at this point.  It’s frustrating to see ya boy who brought you up turn into a pile of beta mush, but what can you do.

I hope i never fall in love bros.

[RoyDalParticipant]

This has happened to men I know too. One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat. Oh well, they chose their paths in life, and I chose mine. That’s just about all we can do: Go our own ways and let others do the same, no matter what theirs may be.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

RoyDal wrote:

This has happened to men I know too. One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat. Oh well, they chose their paths in life, and I chose mine. That’s just about all we can do: Go our own ways and let others do the same, no matter what theirs may be.

It seriously infuriates me to see him being controlled by her strings.  It’s like seeing a feared lion roaring at the world turn into a freaking yippy chihuahua.  How the phuck does she have so much power over him?  (rhetorical question)

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

RoyDal wrote:

One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat.

One blowjob away from the blue pill.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Mango Ingaway wrote:

RoyDal wrote:

One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat.

One blowjob away from the blue pill.

That’s a scary truth.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Some of my posts I have made have been extremely long winded, when I go to the relations~~~s, and marriage/divorce threads…

I typically do not have this driving determination in any other area of life, but this area almost destroyed me and I barely made out with my life.

It sucks to see it happening to other guys that you want to help and they seem set(up) for destruction.

4 yrs ago, I was beyond a lost cause (part time mangina & part time white knight)…

I can’t even tell you the cluster f~~~ of emotions and thoughts that used to fly through my head.

That damn divide & conquer strategy they use is like their ace of spades.

Of course, the getting pregnant is their wild card to me…

While the marriage/(victim)/divorce card is their Joker card

BlackPill wrote:

I am honestly just waiting for this bitch to wreck his life (hopefully not too much) so he can learn his lesson.

I hope so too, and the longer he is in her web, the more of a train wreck it will most likely be.

Make no mistake, he’s in a web, and the more he struggles, the more it ensnares him.

Sucks to hear that, but agree on your mental health man.

“A man has got to know his limitations” Clint Eastwood

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Why on earth would anyone waste their 20s on single mothers? Seriously?

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Phantom wrote:

Some of my posts I have made have been extremely long winded, when I go to the relations~~~s, and marriage/divorce threads… I typically do not have this driving determination in any other area of life, but this area almost destroyed me and I barely made out with my life. It sucks to see it happening to other guys that you want to help and they seem set(up) for destruction. 4 yrs ago, I was beyond a lost cause (part time mangina & part time white knight)… I can’t even tell you the cluster f~~~ of emotions and thoughts that used to fly through my head. [b]That damn divide & conquer strategy they use is like their ace of spades.[/b] Of course, the getting pregnant is their wild card to me… While the marriage/(victim)/divorce card is their Joker card

BlackPill wrote:

I am honestly just waiting for this bitch to wreck his life (hopefully not too much) so he can learn his lesson.

I hope so too, and the longer he is in her web, the more of a train wreck it will most likely be. Make no mistake, he’s in a web, and the more he struggles, the more it ensnares him. Sucks to hear that, but agree on your mental health man. “A man has got to know his limitations” Clint  Eastwood

that p~~~ed me off the most.  My relationship with my best friend has been nothing but positive and for her to attempt to ruin that with her manipulative insecure bullsh it and for or to ACTUALLY WORK ON HIM makes me almost rage.   If ANY woman tried that with me, I’d either put that bitch in her place REALLY quick or drop her altogether.  I feel like I’m such a loser for having that much loyalty when others don’t.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Fermat wrote:

Why on earth would anyone waste their 20s on single mothers? Seriously?

because pussy.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

The controlling patterns of being in a relationship can end up undermining a lot of desire for autonomy by a man, and a man acting like that.  A bent to naturally be lazy will allow all the structures of a relationship to end up providing a ton of excuses for a guy to not do anything.  A guy MAYBE can do the relationship thing, and be able to still show autonomy, if he has a woman who will be submissive and supportive of him.  But for a guy who is on the lazy side, and passive (go with the flow) a relationship will make him full-blown blue pill.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[AshcroftParticipant 59]

I had a friend similar to your friend. He was 20, dated a 36 year old cashier in a beaten down supermarket with a 2 year old son.

The guy was happy that he had somebody, as he was not what you would call a Hank Moody.

Back than I felt bad for him and didn’t understand why he would do that. That was before MGTOW and men stuff. And I tried to steer him away from her as he should not waste his time with her. But the blow job or f~~~ here and there had him by the b~~~~. I don’t know what he is doing now, but I hope he got rid of her.

Sorry for speeling or gramatical mishaps. It is not my first language and it has been ages since I learned it in school.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

BlackPill wrote:

that p~~~ed me off the most.  My relationship with my best friend has been nothing but positive and for her to attempt to ruin that with her manipulative insecure bullsh it and for or to ACTUALLY WORK ON HIM makes me almost rage.   If ANY woman tried that with me, I’d either put that bitch in her place REALLY quick or drop her altogether.  I feel like I’m such a loser for having that much loyalty when others don’t.

I know what you mean on being p~~~ed about it.

After I finally got out of the s~~~, I had that rage towards myself for a long time.
It’s a vicious self destruct cycle (How could I have been so stupid, etc, BS)?

The mind games she is playing on him is hardcore.

BlackPill wrote:

We made a deal to always have a saturdays bros night out to keep a healthy house.  It went well for a little bit until he started breaking the rules and letting her hang out with us on a couple occassions on saturday and even arguing on the phone with her the whole time we were out one time.  She eventually manipulated him and told him that she doesn’t like when me and him go out alone on the weekends because I’m single (bitch).

This is her Ace of spades here.

She can’t have you reminding him of sanity or freedom, at the risk of losing her strangle hold on him.
I am in no means by any stretch of the imagination, saying or hinting blame towards you. Only his peril and how she is keeping him in check.

But she even manipulated that with “because you are single” …it may have some truth in it…but to translate it:

She doesn’t like you reminding him of what he is losing, and as a bonus, pinned the guilt on you for being single as the reason.

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

I would kick him and his “family” to the curb.  The bitch is just trying to start problems and just wants a false sense of security because she forgot to put a condom on the dude she f~~~ed. Watch he’ll f~~~ up big time and he will pay for it.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

 

 

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IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

The controlling patterns of being in a relationship can end up undermining a lot of desire for autonomy by a man, and a man acting like that. A bent to naturally be lazy will allow all the structures of a relationship to end up providing a ton of excuses for a guy to not do anything. A guy MAYBE can do the relationship thing, and be able to still show autonomy, if he has a woman who will be submissive and supportive of him. But for a guy who is on the lazy side, and passive (go with the flow) a relationship will make him full-blown blue pill.

it’s because once dudes get a taste of the pussy, it becomes all that they desire. It’s like nothing else even exists after that.  It turned my ambitious friend into a blue pill complacent f~~~, so I can only imagine if he was already lazy.  </span>

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Ashcroft wrote:

I had a friend similar to your friend. He was 20, dated a 36 year old cashier in a beaten down supermarket with a 2 year old son. The guy was happy that he had somebody, as he was not what you would call a Hank Moody. Back than I felt bad for him and didn’t understand why he would do that. That was before MGTOW and men stuff. And I tried to steer him away from her as he should not waste his time with her. But the blow job or f~~~ here and there had him by the b~~~~. I don’t know what he is doing now, but I hope he got rid of her.

i really saw a future in business with this friend, but I really feel like just leading my own path and can see the fork in the road like your situation with your friend.</span>

 

Phantom wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

that p~~~ed me off the most. My relationship with my best friend has been nothing but positive and for her to attempt to ruin that with her manipulative insecure bullsh it and for or to ACTUALLY WORK ON HIM makes me almost rage. If ANY woman tried that with me, I’d either put that bitch in her place REALLY quick or drop her altogether. I feel like I’m such a loser for having that much loyalty when others don’t.

I know what you mean on being p~~~ed about it. After I finally got out of the s~~~, I had that rage towards myself for a long time. It’s a vicious self destruct cycle (How could I have been so stupid, etc, BS)? The mind games she is playing on him is hardcore.

BlackPill wrote:

We made a deal to always have a saturdays bros night out to keep a healthy house. It went well for a little bit until he started breaking the rules and letting her hang out with us on a couple occassions on saturday and even arguing on the phone with her the whole time we were out one time. She eventually manipulated him and told him that she doesn’t like when me and him go out alone on the weekends because I’m single (bitch).

This is her Ace of spades here. She can’t have you reminding him of sanity or freedom, at the risk of losing her strangle hold on him. I am in no means by any stretch of the imagination, saying or hinting blame towards you. Only his peril and how she is keeping him in check. But she even manipulated that with “because you are single” …it may have some truth in it…but to translate it: She doesn’t like you reminding him of what he is losing, and as a bonus, pinned the guilt on you for being single as the reason.

yea, this bitch even tried hooking me up with her friends and eventually I told her firmly to STOP.  I didn’t need her pity, and I don’t want to be on the same page as her and my friend in their relationship.  She even tried some passive shaming tactics on me.  She told my friend how insecure I made her felt when I essentially ignored her.  Lol.

[Anonymous 5]

Let’s just hope your friend doesn’t knock that c~~~ up.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

BlackPill wrote:

She even tried some passive shaming tactics on me.  She told my friend how insecure I made her felt when I essentially ignored her.  Lol.

That is golden right there. Kudos

She may as well said,

“Damn, I gave it my best shot, and you alpha-slammed it into dust”

Yeah, I had to stop chasing the cat, to get the time of day…

Funny how that ignore s~~~ works lol

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Phantom wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

She even tried some passive shaming tactics on me. She told my friend how insecure I made her felt when I essentially ignored her. Lol.

That is golden right there. Kudos She may as well said, “Damn, I gave it my best shot, and you alpha-slammed it into dust” Yeah, I had to stop chasing the cat, to get the time of day… Funny how that ignore s~~~ works lol

“Alpha slammed it into dust”. Awwww yea I like that phrase. And that is funny how it works.  It’s like once I did that bitches wouldn’t leave me alone.

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Anonymous wrote:

Let’s just hope your friend doesn’t knock that c~~~ up.

he cums inside her multiple times a day because she is on the IED birth control.  I say IED because that situation is gonna BLOW UP in his face real quick.  I told dude she can easily get off the s~~~ and take it out JUST to trap him and he is just all “lol she doesn’t want any more kids…she already has one ?” what an idiot.</span>

 

[Sessna12Participant 119]

BlackPill wrote:

MGTOW Age wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

She even tried some passive shaming tactics on me. She told my friend how insecure I made her felt when I essentially ignored her. Lol.

That is golden right there. Kudos She may as well said, “Damn, I gave it my best shot, and you alpha-slammed it into dust” Yeah, I had to stop chasing the cat, to get the time of day… Funny how that ignore s~~~ works lol

“Alpha slammed it into dust”. Awwww yea I like that phrase. And that is funny how it works. It’s like once I did that bitches wouldn’t leave me alone. <span style=”background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);”>

mrpops238 wrote:

Let’s just hope your friend doesn’t knock that c~~~ up.

he cums inside her multiple times a day because she is on the IED birth control. I say IED because that situation is gonna BLOW UP in his face real quick. I told dude she can easily get off the s~~~ and take it out JUST to trap him and he is just all “lol she doesn’t want any more kids…she already has one ” what an idiot.</span>

 

witty! your friend is screwed. Had a couple friends like that: if someone is walking with a grenade with the pin pulled… best to give them some distance. some ppl just need to touch the stove to know what heat is. Build your life up and if you want to help him- lead by example, and don’t wait for people to follow.

 

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
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