Benefits of Not Belonging

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

This guy kind of brings together some of the idea of mgtow.
The energy you have to put into belonging, for most of us abruptly changed one day. For me it took years to figure out not belong was a good thing.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2144]

I was never a ‘joiner’ either.

Once you join any group your individuality and independence automatically lessen – and that’s always been a ‘non-negotiable’ in my life.

I guess I’m one of those Sigma males too!

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[foolsgoldParticipant 5643]

Not long ago there was a group of people at work arguing about an incident they knew nothing about. They didn’t include me in the discussion because I don’t “belong”. Like usual I went home at the end of my shift and forgot about it. I knew more than anyone else did about the incident because I was the one that had to defuse it and make sure it didn’t escalate. That group of people didn’t know that because I don’t “belong”.

Not belonging has a lot more advantages than you could ever imagine. That group of people is too stupid to realize how much trouble they would have been in if I didn’t fix it before it got out of control. Unbelievable. I’m sure glad I don’t “belong”. I’m even more glad that I’m not them. Thanks again MGTOW.

[EGParticipant 1851]

I grew up across the street from a little-league park and to this day I still don’t know how to throw a ball. But I taught myself how to type at 11 years old, and by high school this skill was making me some unexpected friends (later to be known as “chads”).

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

This has been my Credo in life even though I never knew it. People always get themselves in a small box. WHY?

I noticed this WAY WAY BACK when I seen other groups all seem to group together. It seemed odd for me. It was that they just kept doing the same thing. It was Boring!

Even the when someone calls you a racist? THAT”S when the Switch just FLIPPED in my head. What I saw was people just trying to get one to join the group of thought. It was not to accomplish anything. It was all about becoming BORG like.

They Never cared about anything but some weird “Lets all be Brown Bulls~~~”-Carlos Mencia.

It never fails to amaze me just how very little people really spend on being who they are. But what they want to be for others. Even I have been guilty of that from time to time. But it does feel good to be apart of a group.

In Patch Adams, this plays out throughout the movie.

If you have not watched it? Your missing out on life. That’s just MY opinion.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[MonkParticipant 16978]

I’ve been respected, but never ‘belonged’. Always the outsider.

The herd sense that you are not one of them. It’s a primitive thing. I’ve come to understand and accept it – and learned to say No when the herd suddenly needs me.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2144]

Monk wrote:

and learned to say No when the herd suddenly needs me.

A VERY important point.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9541]

I grew up feeling like why didn’t I belong with the other kids in school. I was picked on, bullied and terrorized by the school kids. I felt bad being alone with no friends. As I got older and I had my TV, video games, VCR/DVD/Blu-Ray/and 4K players and now my computer I realized being alone with my technology is a better way of life. The less people in my life, the better I say.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Coworker: Do you want to join us for ___________?
Me: No thank you. Just listening to you and being here is already proof enough I must hate myself.

I get left alone. I like it that way.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

It’s contradictory to “belong” and wish to “ghost” at the same time.

Personally, I choose Ghosting.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[DocParticipant]

Look at author Jack Donovan’s writing on ‘them’ vs ‘us’

Loosely speaking we break the world into them and us but it changes depending on the value of being ‘us’ vs ‘them’

Being here makes us an ‘us’. We are MGTOW. Everyone else is ‘them’

Spend an afternoons in with your kids and you and your kids become ‘us’ while everyone else becomes ‘them’.

Our view of ‘us’ and ‘them’ is transient in many instances and stable in others.

I am white. My ‘us’ is white people. Non whites are ‘them’
No racism intended of course.
That is just an example of a stable ‘us’ vs ‘them’.

I am a man so all men whether they be white or non white are my ‘us’

You get the picture.

This dichotomy is what has helped us survive. The idea being that when it comes down to it we need to know one thing – who can I trust and who do I need to eliminate. From a pure survival point of view.

Check out what Jack Donovan says.

I see myself as Sigma. I have never fitted although have moved through many circles.

We sigmas paradoxically create an ‘us’ be hanging together here.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[HermitParticipant]

When I was young, I thought you were supposed to belong and I tried to fit in, but it never worked out. I quickly realized that it was better not to belong and those who did belong respected me for always being an outsider. Some of the others who didn’t belong tried to belong with me. I didn’t even fit in with the non-belongers.

Those who do belong get shunned and excommunicated eventually. The lone wolf life is so much easier. I sometimes hang around with some outsiders who don’t fit in or belong, but even then, I’m anxious to get away from them and get back to being alone.

I don’t mind hanging out with a few people sometimes and I do so every week, but I always feel best when I’m home alone, where I belong.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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