Being Good Enough To Date/Marry

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Isn’t it interesting that the majority of men on this planet don’t have an abundance of resources, yet they can still get a girlfriend and woo her into marriage? Over here, in the USA (and most economically developed nations, it seems), women have all sorts of interesting standards for a man to be qualified to date them such as:

1. He must be tall.
2. He must have a college degree and a job with a good salary.
3. He must be sociable.
4. He must be a good dancer.
5. He has to know how to “handle” a woman (her f~~~ing mood swings/s~~~ tests).
6. He must take his woman out on romantic getaways, and find creative ways to entertain and seduce her.
7. He must be goal-oriented, highly intelligent, have an amazing personality, have a positive outlook on life, love kids, have an athletic body, blah, blah, blah…(I’m sure you’ve seen these type of dating ads).

But alas: there are guys around the world who live in tents and wood shacks, and women will date & marry them. These women are willing to accept a guy who’s seasonally employed, has few material possessions, and doesn’t have much of a future as far as getting a good education and having a career doing something that will earn enough money to increase his standard of living significantly.

I find these social/economic extremes to be amusing because I’ve never been an “eligible bachelor” in the eyes of American women because my income & personality sucks. But millions of men in the world don’t make more than $5000 (USD) a year…yet they’re good enough for dating/marriage.

WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 42]

“She” must be under a set of laws that keep her wanderlust in check, not reward it with half her man’s s~~~ and 216 child support payments for children he cannot see and pussy someone else if f~~~ing for absolutely FREE!

I’ll find a workable relationship when Washington D.C. is being quarantined as a nuclear contamination zone.

I have no interest whatsoever in marrying my own demise with liberal heaps of endless suffering.

I pulled the plug on women to avoid going down the drain of gynocentric mandated law with it’s tyrannical and destructive orders. That s~~~ went into the garbage dump of feminism where all the bad women are.

It’s a blessing not having to live with garbage in my life, leave alone being buried alive in the dump.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I understand the point you’ve made. However, you’re assuming the married man living in the shack is a happily married man. And I doubt that very much.

Besides, I’ve read so many threads from men who’ve fallen in love with a rural, shack-living girl, and then brought her into the modern world only to discover that she’s just like every other modern woman he’s ever met.

Here’s a case in point. When I was stationed on Okinawa, Japan, a friend fell in love with a beautiful and charming, young Filipio girl. She came from a very rural part of the Philippine Islands and literally lived in a shack, as did everyone else in her village. He does what every midwestern guy does in that situation, he wifes her up.

He thought he was signing up for a lifetime of marital bliss, when in fact, his new wife was already married. She had taken control of the budget and so was sending money back to her real family in the village.

So this demure, innocent village girl was living with and f~~~ing an American husband in order to support her husband and child in the PI. How f~~~ed up is that! And how do you think the shack-living husband felt about that?

Though my friend was emotionally crushed by this whole ordeal, at least he did the wise thing and divorced her. No longer married to an American, the little skank had to return to the Philippines.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

I, like all of you are perfectly good enough, if totally unwilling to date and/or marry. Or at the very least, most of us are. It is women who are completely off the scale off being “good enough” to want to even spend time with. I look around and see zero women good enough to have a piece of either me or my magnificent life. Give them exactly what they deserve. Nothing from you and a life time of chad if she can get him to do more than f~~~ her. Women who spend their best years chasing chad are not good enough for me. No questions and no exceptions. I spent too many years actually believing I was the problem. Well friends, I am not, and neither are you. They are. Not. Good. Enough.

[narwhalParticipant]

It’s a matter of relativity. Of course the shack-living girl is willing to settle for less of a husband, because it’s a lot more then what she has on her own. A middle-class American woman would not, because it gains her nothing.

I can’t say I’m not any different. When I was a teenager, a teenage girl with teenage maturity was great. Now, as I’m much more mature, I couldn’t accept that level of immaturity. Same goes with my cost of living. I could happily live on very little when I was in my early 20s. Now, I’d be freaking miserable trying to do that again.

‘Never raise your standard of living’, can be rather good advice. It’s easy to move up, but very difficult to move back down.

Ok. Then do it.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

I’ll compare it to a ladder (of status/money/resources/etc).

Take any random man in any random location in the world.
It doesn’t matter if he makes $500, $50,000, or $500,000.

There are men “below” him on the ladder, and men “above” him on the ladder.

Any women dating/married to him has “moved up” from a man that was “below” him.

Unfortunately, she will attempt to “move up” (to any man higher on the ladder) indefinitely.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

I don’t see the “edit” option this morning for whatever reason, but that should read….I am, like all of you are…..Thanks.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

Even in the poorest of societies in the 3rd world countries a man with a hut and dirty ripped clothes is better than nothing at all to a woman. He is still a catch to the local women because just like the western bitches, women can’t survive on their own. I was watching a show on the pygmies in Africa and these people are so poor that they rely on illegally selling marijuana to survive. The man interviewing the community leader asked whether they could make more money doing other things. A woman said via translator that “selling marijuana brings in more money than prostitution”.
Who would’ve thought that pussy has such little value?

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

FunInTheSun wrote:

But millions of men in the world don’t make more than $5000 (USD) a year…

Make that Billions.
But that does not matter. Given the circumstances, some women have to “settle” for those guys too because they could not get the next guy up.
And therein lies the the whole issue. That is why all women are miserable c~~~s and can never be “made happy”. Because in their mind, they believe they had to settle for their husband when in fact they wanted someone else.
Whereas men can fall in love and be happy and content with a woman despite her faults, for all his life, a woman expects perfection and will be unhappy and discontent forever if she ‘settles’ for less that that.
And since perfection does not exist, AWALT.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Who would’ve thought that pussy has such little value?

The price of pussy, like any other price, is artificially inflated in the civilized/1st world.
From a usage perspective, a rough calculation would give you a demand/supply ratio of about 1 to 5. That is 1 demand and 5 pussies available to fulfill the demand at any given time, some of which FREE.
I can elaborate on the method of calculation if you want.
Here are some rhetorical questions:
How much would you pay to rent a car if there would always be 5 cars available for rent within walking distance from you at any given time, AND you could choose to rent an older/more-used model for FREE?
How much would you pay?
And another question. Would you BUY a car under those circumstances?

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Mr. Spock wrote:

A woman said via translator that “selling marijuana brings in more money than prostitution”.
Who would’ve thought that pussy has such little value?

After mulling it over, I’d rather have a thriving marijuana business. There is no expiration date on MJ, but there sure is on pussy!

Edit: I used to be a big fan of the TV show Weeds. I thought the lead actress was adorable; she is a true MILF. Even so, I would rather have a stack of cash than an over-the-hill (albeit adorable) woman.

Edit the 2nd: That actress is a fixture in the movie franchise RED http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1245526/?ref_=nv_sr_4 I am hoping they crank out a few more of these mindlessly violent gems!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[JasonParticipant 5]

I’m a physician, which means I have a doctorate and am in the high top 1% of the populace worldwide in terms of education. I’m sociable. I make over $250,000 per year. I’m 5’8″ so I’m not really tall. I’d love to find a woman to be romantic with if she was willing. I have to be goal-oriented. I must like kids considering that I’m a f~~~ing pediatrician.

So, it must be that I’m not tall, not athletic (I’m normal, not Fat Bastard either), or maybe not a good dancer.

Or perhaps, despite what they claim, the women in question are worried that if it doesn’t work out that their friends might ask what the hell is wrong with Them.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

narwhal wrote:

It’s a matter of relativity. Of course the shack-living girl is willing to settle for less of a husband, because it’s a lot more then what she has on her own. A middle-class American woman would not, because it gains her nothing.

Oh yeah…that’s what I was thinking. If the other 10 girls in your village all married guys making 100k a year you wouldn’t want to live in a shack…but when the other 10 girls in your village married a guy living in a one room shack and you married the guy with the two room shack, you got the pick of the litter.

America and Europe are just ridiculously rich compared to how a lot of people in Asia and Africa live…they’d think a middle class American is loaded beyond all belief even though that middle class American is just average here.

xenon wrote:

I, like all of you are perfectly good enough, if totally unwilling to date and/or marry. Or at the very least, most of us are. It is women who are completely off the scale off being “good enough” to want to even spend time with. I look around and see zero women good enough to have a piece of either me or my magnificent life. Give them exactly what they deserve. Nothing from you and a life time of chad if she can get him to do more than f~~~ her. Women who spend their best years chasing chad are not good enough for me. No questions and no exceptions. I spent too many years actually believing I was the problem. Well friends, I am not, and neither are you. They are. Not. Good. Enough.

I’ve had a few girlfriends over the years but I’ve never really been a pussy magnet. Over the last few years though, I’ve noticed I’ve been getting a lot more female attention. What’s changed about me? I eat well and take care of myself while most people my age now are obviously packing pounds on and aging like s~~~ from too much partying/sun, and I finished school with no debt, got a much better job, and am stacking some serious money in the bank although I’m a huge fan of stealth wealth so nobody really knows how much I have while most people my age are buried in debt, working a s~~~ job, and live paycheck to paycheck. Why do I want that beat up 30 year old that ignored me the last 10 years, and now that my good choices are paying dividends and her bad choices have pushed her to an all time low she thinks its time to marry up lol. I don’t walk around thinking I’m too good for everyone…but I certainly do feel like most women my age are f~~~ed in the head from riding the carousel too long, past their prime physically, and in general just don’t offer enough pros to offset all the cons they bring to the table. Chads were good enough for the last 10 years…hopefully they’re good enough for the next 10, but before I find out if they are I’ll be retired living on a beach somewhere lol.

[Anonymous 11]

1. He must be tall. – Check
2. He must have a college degree and a job with a good salary. -Check
3. He must be sociable. – Check
4. He must be a good dancer. – Fail
5. He has to know how to “handle” a woman (her f~~~ing mood swings/s~~~ tests). I go John Wayne on them. -Fail
6. He must take his woman out on romantic getaways, and find creative ways to entertain and seduce her. – Epic Fail. F~~~ that s~~~! If Chad does not have to do it, I’m not doing it.
7. He must be goal-oriented, highly intelligent, have an amazing personality, have a positive outlook on life, love kids, have an athletic body, -I hate other men’s kids. So, fail

I fail on 4 of 7 counts. Passing all entitles one for a future divorce rape. So, I win.

[dobieParticipant 100]

All so true CP
just reading it makes me feel exhausted .

The narcosis (a mix between narcissism and psychosis ) that these deluded c~~~s think they are owed from us is jaw dropping.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Personally.
I am quite content and rather happy about being NOT good enough to date/marry.
There are so many hoops to jump through, I’s to dot, T’s to cross, and demands to be met in life already.
Playing trained monkey for a piece of ass just isn’t something I would contemplate wasting time on anymore.
For me, if a decent looking woman is interested in me, she can make the effort and vocalize/initiate contact.
I’m too f~~~ing exhausted to play those games anymore.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

FunInTheSun wrote:

I find these social/economic extremes to be amusing because I’ve never been an “eligible bachelor” in the eyes of American women because my income & personality sucks. But millions of men in the world don’t make more than $5000 (USD) a year…yet they’re good enough for dating/marriage.

Hypergamy floats.

It ultimately doesn’t matter what he has to offer, because no matter how much or how little, she will take it all for granted the moment he f~~~s up and signs on the dotted line.

What actually does matter is what women themselves bring to the table. All around the world it’s all the same thing: nothing. First world, third world, no difference. All they have to offer are just drama and pussy. What man wants more drama in his life? And pussy is less than worthless.

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