Being a MGTOW is so liberating!

[LucidLeoParticipant 65]

For the first time in my adult life, I am looking at myself as a man, and as a man that is as important as any other man.  I no longer feel inferior to women my age or younger. I do not feel like less of a man when near other men. Life is so good now and nothing can stop my forward progress. Sadly, about 7 months ago I made the choice to leave a wilderness survival school in Washington state and move in with a woman I thought was my “true love” and it seemed for the first month I made the right decision. But the romance quickly died after the second month and we became “companions” and close friends. She stated that sexual  relations with men was a weak point for her and it ruins friendships. She was always ranting about her psycho ex who she hated, but she was always telling how good the  sex was with him, as if to tell me I failed in that department. It was f~~~ing infuriating but I was not allowed to get angry, because of course then I was just getting angry for no reason.

I am barely friends with her now, we hardly talk at all now and when we do it is about very generic stuff. She ignores the advice of her friends and family about her parenting and will not allow me to voice my concerns either. I am putting out job applications like mad, and as soon as I get some money I am going my own way. I was a fool to get myself in the situation I am in. Live and learn I guess. But MGTOW’s give me a lot of much needed strength and resolve.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Wait until you learn the word “no” and make it your go-to default response.
It’s like wearing a Superman cape.

Liberating? You’ll think you can fly. No exaggeration.

What we tend to do whenever possible is say “yes” when someone wants and needs something. Its how we live with ourselves. But women know this, and they use it. They EXPECT it. Try “no” for a change and watch what happens. Holy s~~~, it’s like an alternate universe. Don’t explain yourself. Don’t make an excuse.

Just…. “No”.

… and enjoy the expression on her face. Sometimes they will even get hostile.

Do you have an extra cigarette?
No.

Do you have a light?
No.

Can I get a ride with you?
No.

Oh come on it’s on your way!
No.

OMG you’re such an asshole!
Thank you for noticing.

We tend to automatically want to spit out ANYTHING BUT “no” – or even attach an apology to it.

• “Can’t, sorry, I have a drink thing tonight….”
• “Gosh it’s late and I have to be up early….”
• “MMMMnnnn not really, that may not be such a good idea.”
(jesus christ how non-committal does it get?)

But just say “no” and append it with nothing. The entire world changes. The problem with men , is we spit out “yes”, and will even inconvenience ourselves when we don’t even WANT to. We say yes because we “should” – or at least, because we were conditioned to think we should.

But no. You SHOULD nothing.
“No” is so freeing and fantastic I can’t even put it into words!

When it comes to when women want something, “no” must be the first response. Not because I said so, but because you put yourself in a position where she is now required to WORK and OFFER SOMETHING to try and turn your “no” into a yes. You can end up agreeing and saying yes, but if you start out that way, she will never see the value in it.

That’s key. YES is valueless because women expect it.

Enjoy! And report back when you have a breakthrough!
NO is the first letter of the MGTOW alphabet. Learn it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Great point KM, and “no” attitude benefits aren’t limited just to M/F romantic relationships, but all of them.

“I could, but I won’t” – I like this one even better than plain “no”, although sometimes “no” sounds less arrogant

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

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