Becoming a Perpetual Virgin

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

I’m debating the idea of becoming a perpetual virgin for the rest of my life.

Here’s a bit of background: I recently transitioned to an online school (17 and in my 11th year), so I wanted to perform an experiment before I left physical school for the rest of the year. The goal was to confess to as many women as possible just to see what would happen. Needless to say, the women I confessed to either had a boyfriend, weren’t looking for a relationship or were not allowed to date. The first result was the most common. I managed to acquire this girl’s Kik, but she never texted me back. I did get some phone numbers, though.

I’m trying to get my s~~~ together and start doing all of the things I couldn’t do in school, such as learning how to program and starting my own software company, starting a business, investing in real estate, and much more. I’ve been reading so much more. I’ve already made great strides in programming in Assembly X86. Hopefully, I can get started with my business soon and try to balance it with my 4 classes online.

I’ve been in the MGTOW community for a while now (almost a year), and I don’t know if it’s worth it to even date nowadays with the rise of feminism and the effort just to pick up women. Plus, I have a noncombative attitude towards others, so I don’t feel like getting into pointless altercations with both men and women over some organ that provides a temporary pleasure. I’m not sure I even want to get married and risk having my life ruined with a false rape accusation or 70% of my assets being seized. With what the world is coming to, I don’t know if it’s a wise decision to bring children into this world. Hell, I don’t even know if we will survive to the see the next 10-20 years.

I’d like to know your guys’ opinion on this, especially some of the veterans here. Thanks to everyone who responds.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Go monk–stay monk you and your wallet will be much happier in the end.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

This young man is both mysterious and wise beyond his years. Study. Observe. Learn women’s nature and visit MGTOW for a daily dose of red pill dispensed by wise men. Your journey has just begun. I would bang a few but be careful. Have some fun.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Joey BrooksSpectator 29]

Mysterious Man wrote:

…I don’t feel like getting into pointless altercations with both men and women over some organ that provides a temporary pleasure…

I can’t tackle your entire post at once but this sentence of yours kinda stood out. The “organ” of interest here is the BRAIN. Chemicals (drugs) created inside of your body (opiates, amphetamine-like substances, testosterone, theobromine, etc.) have evolved over millions of years as a survival mechanism for the human species. The entire purpose for you and I being here is, sadly, to make more humans. The urge for a man to impregnate women is near irresistible for a reason. Most of your human circuitry and chemistry has been fine tuned for one grand purpose, like it or not.

So…going against that grain is going to be a real struggle for most men, and why is this? Because instead of thinking things out with the BRAIN, many men think with the wrong head.

A secondary problem for most of us is the culture we live in that expects the same man and woman to mate with each other exclusively for life. This is a fairly new concept and totally against human nature. The most primitive people that could be called humans very seldom bonded for life. Actually, almost never.

So the conflict is human nature vs cultural “norms”. In these troubled times with issues like Date Rape, just picking up a willing woman at a club could send us to jail. This is where your BRAIN comes in. Resist the urge to jump in the sack with a woman instantly. If you really think she is right for you, give it six months. She might still fool you, but most women can’t fake it that long. Gold diggers will move on much faster.

Or, you could stay a virgin. I highly do not recommend this. It makes you so much more susceptible to the “charms” of women. But that is another really long story.

Either you bow to your human nature or live a life full of frustration trying to go against your wiring. Sure, you can climb all the highest peaks on earth, trek across China and India on a skateboard, hunt big game in Africa, start a huge company, and stay distracted and “fulfilled” in many ways. You should at least know what you are missing out on by blindly avoiding all 3.5 Billion females on this planet even though many here think every one of them is Satan. Statistically speaking, this is impossible to be true. Just be sure to think with the big head.

Hope this helps. You are free to ignore it as well.

If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

[Joey BrooksSpectator 29]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

…I would bang a few but be careful. Have some fun.

Yeah…^^this. Much shorter than my post.

If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

PistolPete wrote:

Go monk–stay monk you and your wallet will be much happier in the end.

Thanks, friend. 🙂

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

This young man is both mysterious and wise beyond his years. Study. Observe. Learn women’s nature and visit MGTOW for a daily dose of red pill dispensed by wise men. Your journey has just begun. I would bang a few but be careful. Have some fun.

Thanks, friend. I’ve been going deeper and deeper into MGTOW, but I’m still not sure how to even pick up women. Maybe they’ll come along once I focus on myself.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Joey Brooks wrote:

Mysterious Man wrote:

…I don’t feel like getting into pointless altercations with both men and women over some organ that provides a temporary pleasure…

I can’t tackle your entire post at once but this sentence of yours kinda stood out. The “organ” of interest here is the BRAIN. Chemicals (drugs) created inside of your body (opiates, amphetamine-like substances, testosterone, theobromine, etc.) have evolved over millions of years as a survival mechanism for the human species. The entire purpose for you and I being here is, sadly, to make more humans. The urge for a man to impregnate women is near irresistible for a reason. Most of your human circuitry and chemistry has been fine tuned for one grand purpose, like it or not.

So…going against that grain is going to be a real struggle for most men, and why is this? Because instead of thinking things out with the BRAIN, many men think with the wrong head.

A secondary problem for most of us is the culture we live in that expects the same man and woman to mate with each other exclusively for life. This is a fairly new concept and totally against human nature. The most primitive people that could be called humans very seldom bonded for life. Actually, almost never.

So the conflict is human nature vs cultural “norms”. In these troubled times with issues like Date Rape, just picking up a willing woman at a club could send us to jail. This is where your BRAIN comes in. Resist the urge to jump in the sack with a woman instantly. If you really think she is right for you, give it six months. She might still fool you, but most women can’t fake it that long. Gold diggers will move on much faster.

Either you bow to your human nature or live a life full of frustration trying to go against your wiring. Sure, you can climb all the highest peaks on earth, trek across China and India on a skateboard, hunt big game in Africa, start a huge company, and stay distracted and “fulfilled” in many ways. You should at least know what you are missing out on by blindly avoiding all 3.5 Billion females on this planet even though many here think every one of them is Satan. Statistically speaking, this is impossible to be true. Just be sure to think with the big head.

Hope this helps. You are free to ignore it as well.

Thanks, Joey. You made a lot of great points and I certainly agree with everything you’ve said; it will be a challenge breaking from my genetic programming.

I generally possess an analytical view towards life, and generally think about the long-term consequences of my actions. I usually try to think with my head over my emotions as well, since my brain is what ultimately wins out in the end.

Thanks for the dating advice as well; I’ll be sure to remember that if I do decide to enter the dating scene. 🙂

Or, you could stay a virgin. I highly do not recommend this. It makes you so much more susceptible to the “charms” of women. But that is another really long story.

If you may, could you elaborate on this if possible?

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Akhilleus wrote:

Thanks for the photo, friend. Really does say a lot about our culture today.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[bladeParticipant]

I am monk and rarely wank anymore . Hard these days to find a decent vagina that hasn’t been threw the ringer to .

Love been free and all woman do is speak s~~~ .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

Just turned ya star rating to 69 lol .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

blade wrote:

I am monk and rarely wank anymore . Hard these days to find a decent vagina that hasn’t been threw the ringer to .

Love been free and all woman do is speak s~~~ .

Thanks, friend. Good insight.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

The longer you remain a virgin, the easier it is to remain one, more so when your sex-drive starts to take a dive in your mid-late 30s.

I am a virgin in my mid 40s now and frankly I am perfectly content with remaining a virgin for the rest of my days, after all, pussy is just a wet hole that is often attached to a c~~~.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[Joey BrooksSpectator 29]

Mysterious Man wrote:

If you may, could you elaborate on this if possible?

This guy is much better at this subject than I. Go all the way down to #7, read that, then go back to the top of the page and read the whole thing.

Nine Steps To Avoid Neediness and Oneitis

Basically, lack of sex sets you up to get yourself more easily bedazzled by women in general and becoming overwhelmed by those chemicals in your brain that makes you do stupid things.

I would think that BlackDragonBlog is well known around this place.

If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Cataphract wrote:

The longer you remain a virgin, the easier it is to remain one, more so when your sex-drive starts to take a dive in your mid-late 30s.

I am a virgin in my mid 40s now and frankly I am perfectly content with remaining a virgin for the rest of my days, after all, pussy is just a wet hole that is often attached to a c~~~.

Awesome. Thanks, friend. 🙂

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

Joey Brooks wrote:

Mysterious Man wrote:

If you may, could you elaborate on this if possible?

This guy is much better at this subject than I. Go all the way down to #7, read that, then go back to the top of the page and read the whole thing.

Nine Steps To Avoid Neediness and Oneitis

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Basically, lack of sex sets you up to get yourself more easily bedazzled by women in general and becoming overwhelmed by those chemicals in your brain that makes you do stupid things.

I would think that BlackDragonBlog is well known around this place.

Thanks, Joey. Just read the entire blog post and delved into the site some more. 🙂

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[narwhalParticipant]

At your age, I would be careful about making life long commitments like this. The reasons and understanding you have about sex and women are much more important then making a commitment to stay a virgin. I would setup the qualifications and circumstances in which you are willing to have sex…and most importantly why…rather just make a commitment.

I say this because there will come a time when the temptation is so strong and your commitment my not be enough from making a mistake…but the reasons not to have sex will be able to pull you through. At the same time, there be a situation where sex can happen without all the risks and dangers. I don’t know that you’d want to miss out on the experience based on a ‘blind’ commitment.

Personally, it’s been over a year for me, and I would not be too surprised if it goes on like this for several more years or the rest of my life. I have no commitment, but my standards are high (or low, depending on your POV).

And I’m not saying commitments are bad. Make logical commitments with other people, not yourself.

Ok. Then do it.

[Mysterious ManParticipant 337]

narwhal wrote:

At your age, I would be careful about making life long commitments like this. The reasons and understanding you have about sex and women are much more important then making a commitment to stay a virgin. I would setup the qualifications and circumstances in which you are willing to have sex…and most importantly why…rather just make a commitment.

I say this because there will come a time when the temptation is so strong and your commitment my not be enough from making a mistake…but the reasons not to have sex will be able to pull you through. At the same time, there be a situation where sex can happen without all the risks and dangers. I don’t know that you’d want to miss out on the experience based on a ‘blind’ commitment.

Personally, it’s been over a year for me, and I would not be too surprised if it goes on like this for several more years or the rest of my life. I have no commitment, but my standards are high (or low, depending on your POV).

And I’m not saying commitments are bad. Make logical commitments with other people, not yourself.

Thanks, narwhal. Good to see you again.

I may or may not end up having sex in the future, although I do have visions of me being thrown in jail for the rest of my life based on a false rape charge. That alone is enough to scare me away from pursuing any kind of relationship.

"Our virtues and our failings are inseparable, like force and matter. When they separate, man is no more." -Nikola Tesla

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Joey Brooks wrote:

Basically, lack of sex sets you up to get yourself more easily bedazzled by women in general and becoming overwhelmed by those chemicals in your brain that makes you do stupid things.

Beating off on a regular basis solves that.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

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