Beating yourself up for not making a girl happy

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi Gents,

This thread is dedicated to all those times us men have blamed ourselves for not making a girl happy.

For me it all started in childhood when I sought the approval of my mother. ‘Look at me mum look at me’ is the anthem sung by young boys to their mothers across the globe. I would do anything for that approval, like a crack addict jerking dudes off under the bridge for $5/pull – it was pathetic.

Then came adolescence and the testosterone took over my body which turned me into a zombie looking not for brains but for pussy. If I was looking for brains, I would have steered clear of women. I was not very successful in this pursuit and so like many men I researched
‘how to pick up girls’ and found PUA. PUA teaches you to be even hungrier for pussy than you already were. Don’t jerk off, go out by yourself and compete with other guys for girls’ attention – do this forever. If you go home by yourself, you must be doing something wrong. Re-read the manual, watch some more pua videos, forums and articles and keep practising until your self-esteem has reached suicidal levels.

Then I stumbled into 4 relations~~~s, each worse than the last. The women would act like self-entitled c~~~s and blame me for not making them happy. All I would hear is “do more Jack123, jump through my endless hoops, do more, do more, do more!!” Like a show pony I jumped higher and higher until I threw up and collapsed from exhaustion. I didn’t understand what I was doing wrong and so I took to the Internet to research ‘relationships’. I read every gynocentric bulls~~~ article there was and learned that it was my fault and I needed to make her happy.

I believed women weren’t happy because of me. I believed it was all my fault and I needed to do more. I f~~~ing believed it! I imagine this thought pattern is standard in our culture.

Did you blame yourself for female bulls~~~ and how far did you go to try to make a c~~~ happy?

[Anonymous 5]

Did I ever make a women happy at the expense of my own? Yes. Ha. That said was It not like I did it without a slight feeling am being f~~~ed over? Every goddam time. Now that is impossible.

[HitmanParticipant]

Beating yourself up because you didn’t make a woman happy?
Many times.
Funny how I didn’t beat myself up for not being able to hold my breath under water for an hour at a time. ..Both are impossible.
Only difference is that society doesn’t shame men for not being Harry f~~~ing Houdini !!!

[Anonymous 18]

I have a new handle on life – be scarce.

With women, with people, with co-workers.

In my world I am the s~~~. And I don’t need external validation for this.

I don’t set goals – I live in the present and live one day at a time.

If a woman isn’t making me happy, she isn’t worth it. But again I like my own company too damn f~~~ing much. And women are too boring for me to stop my path of being the best version I can be.

Eat, work, study, work out, sleep, post on mgtow dot com, s~~~, and s~~~ some more.

🙂

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I am generally a happy, funny guy, and that attracts a lot of female attention. But I’ve never been a total mangina (white knight, yes), and so very early on developed a line that shuts down women when they demand I entertain them further.

I forgot what comedian or movie it comes from, but I look them straight in the eye and say, “I’m not your own, personal circus pony to entertain you.” It shuts them down pretty quickly.

Now I’m not a total dick who spouts this all the time. I only use this line when there is a certain entitlement to the request that I entertain some specific skank. No, Hominid don’t play that. We are either all having fun, or not. I will not dance for you in your own private circus.

[Anonymous 0]

Stop that,
They will never be happy no matter what you do!
Think, right now, what would make me happy?
Doesn’t matter if it is buying an airplane, a boat, or just hiking up into the wilderness. Do it! Just deciding will make you happy.

[sidecarParticipant 35851]

When a woman is unhappy, that’s your sign you are doing things right. Stay the course.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Falling in Love haha with a little hottie in my early twenties evolved into my slavery until age 48. 28 years was enough but oh no I couldn’t have settle for just that. No I have a relationship while I am in divorce however this was a very beneficial thing for me. Can you imagine getting slammed 4 28 years? What Paul Elam describes as a borderline personality disorder is simply the same woman in a different package every single time I’m thinking from birth until. Almost 60 now realizing the female nature it’s a beautiful thing I can be a monk

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Anonymous wrote:

Think, right now, what would make me happy?
Doesn’t matter if it is buying an airplane, a boat, or just hiking up into the wilderness. Do it! Just deciding will make you happy.

Wilderness. That’s all wilderness.

[Jack123Participant 324]

Sidecar,

I usually hate advertising but that is the best commercial ever.

Marketing revolves around the standardised rule that men should go broke buying gifts for women otherwise = meltdown.
If you don’t buy enough s~~~ for women = meltdown
If the s~~~ that you buy a woman isn’t expensive enough = meltdown
If you don’t buy s~~~ frequently enough for women = meltdown
If you don’t buy s~~~ for women at the right time = meltdown
If you buy something for yourself = meltdown

F~~~ women – they’ll never be happy, buy whatever you want, whenever you want.

[Anonymous 43]

F~~~ happiness.

If you are not on fire, you are fine.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

You can’t make them happy. They are either happy or not. Don’t waste your time on one that is not happy. A white knight is just being used. Find one who makes you happy.

Be happy and complete without one, it makes you more attractive to them. If you find one, make sure she adds to your life.

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

Jack123 wrote:

For me it all started in childhood when I sought the approval of my mother. ‘Look at me mum look at me’ is the anthem sung by young boys to their mothers across the globe. I would do anything for that approval, like a crack addict jerking dudes off under the bridge for $5/pull – it was pathetic.

Hahaha dude you just made my day with that paragraph. high five brother

Jack123 wrote:

Did you blame yourself for female bulls~~~ and how far did you go to try to make a c~~~ happy?

I never really blamed myself but I too have been young and uneducated and went far out of my way to please them on many occassions. To no avail. There is no point of satisfaction. This is what we as men were striving for to satisfy our women. Traditionally we used to be able to do that because there was respect. Now in modern times it’s mostly about exploiting us, not respecting us. I say fine no respect shown none given. They can p~~~ off.

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[WarratahParticipant 895]

1. You CANNOT make someone else happy.
2. You CANNOT expect someone else to make you happy.
These are two important lessons that my girlfriend, a professional counsellor and psychotherapist, taught me just before leaving me because I ‘wasn’t making her happy’.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

Now that I’m older (and a bit wiser) I realize that each person is responsible for his/her happiness. I don’t have control over another person’s feelings. I can only influence other people with my words and actions.

I feel that it’s important for me to gain as much control over my own life as I can. If I were to accomplish that goal, I’d feel better and (perhaps) the women I date will sense this and react to my vibe in a positive way. If they don’t, I have the ability to move on with no f~~~s given. MGTOW is the cure for silly women and their emotions.

Women are cute like feral cats—-but if you let them inside your home, they may p~~~ on/scratch up your furniture. So I recommend petting them for a while and then putting them back outside.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Men beat themselves up over it, because men assume they wont get laid.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Warratah wrote:

1. You CANNOT make someone else happy.
2. You CANNOT expect someone else to make you happy.
These are two important lessons that my girlfriend, a professional counsellor and psychotherapist, taught me just before leaving me because I ‘wasn’t making her happy’.

Ahahaha !!! ahaaa

Now that’s an unfiltered illustration of female nature if i’ve ever seen one LOL.

[Anonymous 1]

The best happiness that a woman can have is to manipulate a man, screaming at him that he must “man up” and do the deeds he is supposed to do(and pretending she is never happy is part of the plan). The joy of winning towards a superior being with psycological tricks makes them so wet that when you are done making her laugh, she is ready for Chad to step by. Then she will tell her girlfriends how good are you as a cuckfriend.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Anonymous wrote:

F~~~ happiness.

If you are not on fire, you are fine.

THIS^^^^^^^^ Truer words have never been spoken!

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

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