Bad relapse

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

OK I dipped my toe back in. I started seeing a woman – trips out to the cinema and meals ( guess who paid each time).

She said she wasnt ready for a relationship but was up for an affair (even though we are both single, she wanted an affair )
Anyway last week she came back to mine and I cooked for her. Then we had a mammoth kiissing session and some heavy stuff . She asked me if I was going to f~~~ her and thankfully I passed that up. But it was good and I  stupidly started feeling a bit soft about her
Any way today I got a series of messages as below

Her
Good morning! Cinema on Thursday is good, have ballet on Friday. No not scared at all!😊 Though life has cast it’s complex web and caused some confusion. I’ll explain on Thursday. Have a lovely day

(I smelt something fishy and didn’t want to waste more money taking her out again )

Me
Lets just meet for a quick drink if you need to chat

Her
I’m happy either way. It doesn’t need to get too heavy. Sorry I hope my text wasn’t disruptive to your day! In a nut shell our little affair is likely to be time limited or postponed for while- wanted to explain.

Me
Thats OK.. Are you going away?

Her
 No, sorry it feels weird to do this via text. Went out at weekend with someone I had relationship with in the past. I agreed to slowly re-engage and give it a go.  Not initially seeing them a lot and to be honest had you in the back of my mind and our new playing. Not sure if that makes sense?!

 Me
It’s all a bit complicated for me when I just want something simple and fun so it’s best we leave it. I hope everything works out for you

Her
 I’m happy to keep playing for a while but I would need to stop at some point if I am really going to engage.

Me
 I don’t really think that’s fair on him if he wants a relationship with you. Lets leave it. Honestly. I prefer that

 Got to go. Bye x (my last ever message to her)

Her

 Okay. Really don’t want to mess you around. I’m ambivalent (shocker) about this other relationship and haven’t really jumped in yet and said I’d only invest for a couple months and make a final decision. Bloody life😊 xx

Ok guys you can pile in. I started getting feelings for this headbanger. I suppose at least I didn’t admit to her I wanted more and I didn’t f~~~ her and I wasn’t going to be fed crumbs from the table. I’ve deleted all her details from my phone. I wouldn’t date her now if she begged me.

[ghostParticipant]

Sparticus, brother, why are you doing this to yourself?

Dating is the most degrading thing a man can do to himself. If I were you, I would stop dating, period. There is no upside for a man to “date”. This concept is entirely blue pill and not something a MGTOW should be doing.

Marriage is no longer viable in this country so there is no reason to even talk to women outside of a professional setting. Spend your time, money and energy on something else. Your older version will be proud of you one day.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

At least you got out before you got in to deep.

I think that’s one of the problems with dating.

It can start out slow, easy, and fun if you will, but at some point, they can begin to try and pull you into their web.

It seems like she was trying to game you as well as AT LEAST one other Man.

The whole f~~~in thing seems like a messy brewin s~~~ storm.

Like ya said, “complicated” because SHE is making it that way, that’s just PART of HER GAME !!

Good thing you didn’t hang around for the NEXT PART !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

You are right of course. Perhaps others can learn from my lesson if nothing else. As I say, a relapse. Back on the road of happy destiny

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

God forbid you go down this road again, the 2nd best response to any woman’s text is: “k”.
That’s it.

The best response is no response at all.

Honest question time: what were you looking for in dating? Were you unicorn-hunting? Did you just want to get laid? Do you have too much money and are looking for ways to spend it?

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

It can start out slow, easy, and fun if you will, but at some point, they can begin to try and pull you into their web

Absolutely 100 percent the truth. Don’t even think you can somehow manage it, because like Awakened said, its all going along so fine and you think everything is managed and then….bam, you’re in a relationship and she wants to talk about where you are with each other or some s~~~ like that!

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Well see it this way, you had You fun with a loaded gun and all you lose was a few bucks, and gained another redpill.

Lucky you, now pass over that s~~~ and keep going.

And remember like Jesus said: “if she breathes, she’s a THOT”

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

like Jesus said

Jesus? When did you start quoting Jesus, Mr. NFG 3,000 full throttle?

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

By the way, she was probably seeing a few guys at a time, she didn’t want anything serious to keep her “choices open”

That’s a very dangerous woman there, a loaded gun.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

ghost wrote:

Carnage wrote:

like Jesus said

Jesus? When did you start quoting Jesus, Mr. NFG 3,000 full throttle?

Dude that’s as serius as me in a jewelry store looking for an engagement ring.

If I ever meet Jesus he better run.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

me in a jewelry store looking for an engagement ring.

I will shoot you if I ever see you doing this.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

ghost wrote:

Carnage wrote:

me in a jewelry store looking for an engagement ring.

I will shoot you if I ever see you doing this.

Thanks men, I’m counting on you.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Now a days its women fooling around and having sex before even knowing what the guy is about. You were her boy toy till she found out what she really wanted.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[DocParticipant]

Spartacus,
It sounds as if she might have been sending similar texts to the other guy and trying to play both of you.

Your post is understandable as you want to share th experience as you make sense of it.

Just let it slide Brother and walk away. Try not to make sense out of nonsense.
What a chick.
I hate those type who manipulate and play multiple men while acting all sugar and spice.

If she really had a guy from the past who wanted to re-engage with her he clearly had no idea what type of character she is.
You could always try and locate him and let him know what she said to you. Spare him the agony of being bitten by the snake.

By for you – just walk. Clear you thoughts and walk. Keep waking.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 42]

I was gonna go into detail about SMV and how women hedge themselves between bidders and how they keep orbiters (even when married) and how they’re always full of tricks, games, and non commitment, with all the earmarks of a conniving whore but you already knew that!

All I can say is AWALT! Why bother?

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Seriously. Fleshlight or sex doll. Cripes.

AWALT

AWALT

AWALT

She cannot figure out which one is better and which one to branch to.

Jeebus.

AWALT

We need a big f~~~ing blinking klaxon screaming AWALT for these posts.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MonkParticipant 16984]

Sparticus66 wrote:

OK I dipped my toe back in. I started seeing a woman – trips out to the cinema and meals ( guess who paid each time).

Change your avatar immediately.

You have been demoted to a Sopwith Camel.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Should a said threesome?

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Your mistake was not f~~~ing her when she asked. After that it is pure profit, whether she wants a relationship or not. I can date a woman for 3 months, and still dump her instantly if she p~~~ed me off. Stay cold…

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 12]

You got away unscathed and are bending the grass in your Propwash once more, there was no need to fight and the Hispanos still got full drums.

Relapse?
Only on a Physical level.
You took your red pill knowledge, and applied it at all times, disengaged when you were confronted with a s~~~test and a Catch-22.
Welcome back to Base.

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