BACK TO 2012

[BachelorlifestyleParticipant 291]

2012 the woman I thought loved every piece of my body LEFT. Now I’m back to myself and doing well I saw her and thought I’d be nice and say hello.she saw my camaro and got behind me so I got out and said hello.what I didn’t know was her NEW NEW bf was in the car but I said hello anyway and left. A day later my friends calls me saying she would like my number me thinking she wanted to only be friendly I say yes.

I received a call lastnite saying “what I did was not cool and me and her are not friends at all”. I kept my cool and said okay and hung up. Now mind you I’ve been to the gym and have seen her and said hello one time. The other times there was no need to speak. And it’s been since 2012 since I’ve hung with her WTF makes her think I believe we are some kinda BUDDY BUDDY type friends where we hang out and chill. Guess I should’ve listened and #icethemout. Lesson learnt tho lesson learnt!

Me first

[TaxGuyParticipant]

New BF was probably sitting right there making sure she made that call. But whatever.

One chance, per person, per lifetime. NO exceptions. You broke up for a reason. Leave the past in the past and keep moving forward. Life is too short to relive old crap.

Bachelorlifestyle wrote:

Lesson learnt tho lesson learnt!

Great! Never forget what brought you here.

Order the good wine

[Buller100Participant 2189]

New BF told your ex off , she is also jealous you have the camero , as has been said move on ..

[MonkParticipant 16977]

Bachelorlifestyle wrote:

[quote]I received a call last nite saying “what I did was not cool and me and her are not friends at all”. I kept my cool and said okay and hung up.

You’ve had your warning.

There’s a whole s~~~storm here waiting to happen. A stalking allegation is a distinct possibility, or she may wind up her White Knight to the point where he becomes a problem.

No contact. Once out, you stay out.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

When you called her, it is possible her new bf was present also so she could make sure he heard her tell you what she did. Block that bitch and erase the number.

[BachelorlifestyleParticipant 291]

Duke Togo wrote:

When you called her, it is possible her new bf was present also so she could make sure he heard her tell you what she did. Block that bitch and erase the number.

Naw I never called her she went and asked for my number through fb and my friend asked me was it ok to give it to her. Yes I’m sure he was present I heard the background which it sounded like I was on speaker phone. Her saying she didn’t wanna be my friend at all did not phase me one bit. I agreed and hung up erased and kept moving. It only bothered me she went so far to get my number just to say that dumb s~~~. It’s clear we ain’t been friends since 2012

Me first

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Bachelorlifestyle wrote:

It only bothered me she went so far to get my number just to say that dumb s~~~. It’s clear we ain’t been friends since 2012

Isn’t that funny? She goes out of her way to make an effort to get your number so she can call you and tell you to go away (which you’d already done). It would be way easier to just not get your number and never talk to you again.

I vote BF made her make the call. No dick for her until she does as she’s told. Probably made her wet submitting to Chad’s demands.

Order the good wine

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

WTF are you thinkin’, dude?? You want more pain, go ahead and stick your hand (or whatever) into that meat grinder.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

That dude will probably propose to her at Christmas.

I was as blue pilled as they come, I never once thought of making my GF call some ex that we met in public. I guess I never cared enough to regulate a woman at all. They get off on their guy controlling them and the drama that’s created. It gives them a reason to act the way they do.

If I was dating and I got a bad vibe from my GF meeting an ex, I would just dump her, that voice is always right! Another reason why I’m monk. Don’t have to worry about nothing.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[BachelorlifestyleParticipant 291]

Spleefer wrote:

That dude will probably propose to her at Christmas.
I was as blue pilled as they come, I never once thought of making my GF call some ex that we met in public. I guess I never cared enough to regulate a woman at all. They get off on their guy controlling them and the drama that’s created. It gives them a reason to act the way they do.
If I was dating and I got a bad vibe from my GF meeting an ex, I would just dump her, that voice is always right! Another reason why I’m monk. Don’t have to worry about nothing.

Well I see why she’s doing this she is 33 and she has not been married nor has she any kids. All the while ALL HER HIVE FRIENDS have kids and are married so I looked at it as her tryna secure a wallet. She has her own home a college degree and she runs her “hair salon” business out of her house which is hilarious to me. I believe she’s not doing so well and she’s clinging to the new new BF. All the while I get to laugh and agree with her situation and go about my business.

Me first

[JVBParticipant]

She’s not happy you’re not miserable, she’s trying to change that.

Peace is > piece.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

JVB wrote:

She’s not happy you’re not miserable, she’s trying to change that.

LOL…This is just right…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Steve McQueenParticipant 30]

The point is… your ex, inside, began to feel down when saw that you were doing fine. So, she tried to make you feel as miserable as her. That’s all some girls likes to do, just like the devil.

I also came back to 2012 last week.
What I saw I don’t desire to anyone.

But still, she was the best thing that happened.
Because I lost all ilusions about romantic relationship that societies feed us up.
She freed me.

Let’s thank our exes.

[BachelorlifestyleParticipant 291]

Okay okay so the devil was on my back and I had to finally be evil to her the first time ever in my life. I sent that I don’t give a f~~~ about you Email to her job email.

Me first

[Steve McQueenParticipant 30]

No, you don’t have to be the devil. You have to be fair.
She made herself a nothing for you, so, just ignore her.

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Bachelorlifestyle wrote:

Okay okay so the devil was on my back and I had to finally be evil to her the first time ever in my life. I sent that I don’t give a f~~~ about you Email to her job email.

That was dumb. She will dramatize that one real easy. You might even get a restraining order now. Lesson learned here is don’t engage Women, Period.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[BachelorlifestyleParticipant 291]

True but at this point I don’t give a f~~~. I’ve never said anything negative towards her since 2005 everything was explained and I tried to compromise. Now I’m going my own way i was just like I DONT GIVE A F~~~ IF IM NOT YOUR FRIEND IM NOT TRIPPING.

Me first

[Steve McQueenParticipant 30]

There’s nothing wrong in saying hello to someone at street. Nothing.
She’s the problem, not you.
Forgive and forget.

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