Back on track – thank you guys

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

After an horrific 2 year divorce (due to a bat s~~~ crazy ex) which ended up with me losing everything (including my home) – I now have my own place and life back.

It’s great – it’s only when you lose everything you really appreciate the simple things. I am off grid – well sort of… living in the country – no gas – just electricity and wood-burner.

Working hard in my job which is going from strength to strength and keeping fit and staying healthy

I have access to my young son at the weekends and focus a lot of my free time on him. Helping him start his own journey so he can learn from my experiences.

In short my life is so much richer. I feel re-energised and well just a different person and intend to keep it that way.

I am not sure I would have kept my focus without the forums and this community – so a big thank you to you all.

For those of you thinking of divorce – just do it……….women are the worst sort of influence. You will never be free, happy and always broke. Just a few of my experiences since being divorced:-

1) Greater financial freedom and improved wealth
2) More job opportunities
3) More time….. to do things I want without an interrogation or time limit.
4) Pursuing new interests/hobbies/hidden passions
5) Mental peace and improved mental health
6) Greater focus and determination to succeed
7) Re-energised
8) Understanding what is actually important in life (and it doesn’t involve women)
9) Understanding that I am “complete” as person
10) Understanding that most people are not happy but go around pretending they are.
11) I am sleeping so much better
12) Living a healthy life – better diet and more exercise.
13) Less pressure in everything I do
14) Just general contentment with my existence whereas before I generally loathed it.

Of course everyone has different experiences but if you are thinking of divorce hopefully the above will give you reason enough. As the old saying goes …..why is divorce so expensive ? Because it’s worth it.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Great to hear! “It is only after you lose everything that you are free to do anything”. FC

Enjoy your freedom!

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Best of everything to you and your son.
I enjoy life and appreciate nature, fresh air, water and good weather every day.
Cheers !

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[Anonymous 0]

Awesome NS. Appreciate the most excellent feedback.

[joetechParticipant]

Congratulations on your emancipation.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Great post. Saved to my motivational folder.

I felt similarly after my divorce and getting out of my crappy marriage. Her affair was the best thing that ever happened to me!

[Anonymous 6]

Your eyes have been opened and they will never be closed again! That is one of the greatest gifts that you will ever receive.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Congrats to the OP!! I recently got divorced as well. Although, I can’t help but still feeling trapped. She only lives like a few miles away, as it’s walking distance to my son’s high school. I feel suffocated at the thought of running into her around here with new pussy at my side. I guess I still care about her feelings in that regard. Anyone ever feel like this? How did you mitigate it?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Northern Soul wrote:

Just general contentment

That’s “happiness” for a man.

Truly.

Being content is where it’s at.

Northern Soul wrote:

I am not sure I would have kept my focus without the forums and this community – so a big thank you to you all.

Big thanks right back to you.

Northern Soul wrote:

As the old saying goes …..why is divorce so expensive ? Because it’s worth it.

While I understand the point you’re making, that’s the only part I can’t bring myself to accept. A woman makes herself so unbearable to live with, that paying her ANYTHING to f~~~ off and get lost is actually considered “worth it”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Shadow1275Participant 1178]

Grats Soul you’ve earned it. Now go enjoy your life however you want to

He who is Brave is Free - Seneca

[BigGreg3000Participant 54]

NS, your story is inspiring and thought provoking. My younger brother got divorced a year ago, although he did it (for the most part) to be with another woman.

He was lucky and didn’t lose much treasure like you did; then again, perhaps not losing enough made it easier for him to keep sucking down the blue pill.

You lost a lot, and chose the red pill. Much as I love my brother, I personally think you made the superior choice.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Thank you for the inspiration NS…It gives us who are still in this process of separation some hope that things are going to get better…Thank you…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[BufordParticipant 935]

Always good to see a brother coming out the other side smiling.

Second star to the right, and on until until morning…..

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[billtaichiParticipant 141]

Congrats on getting off the plantation. I recently divorced also and I can say at first it was hard and I had a few times where I questioned what I was doing but after only 2 months I now KNOW I made the right decision as even with all the issues I still have to deal with I am much happier, much more relaxed and I feel hopeful about the rest of my life and I did not feel that way before leaving. I am slowly reaching out looking for new hobbies, finding new groups of friends, it takes time but I feel great.

I also found that the MGTOW forums here and other places really helped me stay strong through the whole process, when I felt weak right after moving out and thought about going back I would read some more stories here or other places and my resolve would strengthen , I cannot overestimate how much the MGTOW community helped me just by being there and letting me know I was not alone. It took a very short time for me to turn things around so that I am very glad I made the decision I did.

Enjoy your new life man!

[NovaeGSpectator 132]

make that c~~~ pay for what she did

[Gone GhostSpectator 222]

Congrats Northern! A good friend of mine went through the exact same experience by the sound of your post.. It took a huge toll on him and nearly cost him his life. It’s great to hear that you have made it out the other side
and have so many positives to focus on 🙂

I am a massive believer now in stripping out all of the unnecessary stuff and living a low maintenance contented lifestyle, so I like the part about off grid.

MarketWatcher wrote:

Great to hear! “It is only after you lose everything that you are free to do anything”. FC

Enjoy your freedom!

Spot on reference Market~~~cher!

~ Were you listening to me, Neo? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress? ~

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Nero wrote:

Congrats to the OP!! I recently got divorced as well. Although, I can’t help but still feeling trapped. She only lives like a few miles away, as it’s walking distance to my son’s high school. I feel suffocated at the thought of running into her around here with new pussy at my side. I guess I still care about her feelings in that regard. Anyone ever feel like this? How did you mitigate it?

Is she a narcissist? They never really let go. All you can do is ignore them and low or no contact. They are a special female blend of evil. Forget the bitch, work through and destroy those lingering deceptive feelings, move on and never look back.

Well done Op. Enjoy your freedom 🙂

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

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