Bachelor Nation – Poor lonely cat ladies

[AlbertParticipant 646]

I’ve just read an amusing article on cnsnews stating that 70% of young American men are not and never have been married. (The article is one month old so apologies if it’s been linked here before).

As usual the author complains that this phenomenon is mostly men’s fault for refusing to grow up and she worries about the ‘bleak prospects for millions of young women who dream about a wedding day that may never come’.

She goes on to say that ‘Feminism was supposed to bring women happiness… But the research shows that women today are much more unhappy then they have been in the past’.

Awww. Booo hooo. Those poor ickly snowflakes, left all alone, loved only by their cats. I’m filling up here guys :'(

The article is mostly horse s~~~ but there are some good MGTOW statements written in the comments section worth looking at.

Link : Bachelor Nation or why a man needs a woman like a bicycle needs a dead fish.

E=MC² Bitch

[HimeoParticipant 471]

And that means the girls have to live by the guys’ demands. And that means less romance. They don’t date. The girls, I have talked to numerous young women, lament the fact that they don’t have the opportunity to dress up and go out for an event.

That’s so unfair I want to cry myself to sleep. Men are such brutes!

Crouse says the decline in marriage and a corresponding rise in cohabitation is happening despite at least a decade of research demonstrating the societal benefits of two-parent families.

Because the only thing that matters is what’s good for the state.

“Even researchers from the left are coming out very strongly for the family and for marriage, and saying the two-parent family is necessary for children to do their best,” she told CNSNews.com. “It’s not just good for them, it’s the very best. It’s the gold standard. It’s essential for children to reach their potential. And that has to be communicated in the popular culture.”

Won’t somebody think of the CHILDREN?

[Anonymous 11]

They joyously ride the c~~~ carousel until they aren’t even qualified to work morning shift at the strip club, and they wonder why men want nothing to do with them. Magical thinking demonstrated in its finest glory here.

A man is better off playing Russian Roulette than getting married. We’re not so stupid after all. Are we now? I like the trend though up, up and away. Eventually even the cats will start to get wise.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Yet another stupid “What is wrong with men that they don’t want to get married?” hack piece.

Does it never even occur to these idiots to ask themselves: “What is wrong with marriage that men don’t want it any more?”

If customers stop going to a restaurant because the food tastes bad, the prices are too high, and half the time they don’t even get what they ordered, is it the fault of the customers?  Or is it the fault of the restaurant?

[RennieParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

Yet another stupid “What is wrong with men that they don’t want to get married?” hack piece. Does it never even occur to these idiots to ask themselves: “What is wrong with marriage that men don’t want it any more?” If customers stop going to a restaurant because the food tastes bad, the prices are too high, and half the time they don’t even get what they ordered, is it the fault of the customers? Or is it the fault of the restaurant?

They seem to have a problem with comprehending that they are the makers of their own mess, that their actions have consequences.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Rennie wrote:

They seem to have a problem with comprehending that they are the makers of their own mess, that their actions have consequences.

Probably because they have always expected men to clean up their messes and deal with their consequences.

And they simply can’t recognize the fact that that isn’t happening any more.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

Amazing, I was just discussing the new double standards in society, and how everything has been flipped upside down. I made reference to how if a man doesn’t want to commit to a relationship then he is being “immature” and not “manning up” by living up to the females expectations.
On the other hand if a guy wants to get serious, and the woman doesn’t then all of a sudden he’s the creepy stalker who can’t let go, and should again “grow up” and let her go.
Seems like societies expectations are all based on the female prerogative. So the fact that men aren’t interested in risking their futures on some feminist slut without any real benefit in sight is merely overlooked.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Anonymous 1]

I loved how the comments on the article went full Mgtow! (at least when I saw it)
Thank you for the share.

[ManocalypseParticipant 321]

sidecar wrote:

Yet another stupid “What is wrong with men that they don’t want to get married?” hack piece.

Does it never even occur to these idiots to ask themselves: “What is wrong with marriage that men don’t want it any more?”

If customers stop going to a restaurant because the food tastes bad, the prices are too high, and half the time they don’t even get what they ordered, is it the fault of the customers? Or is it the fault of the restaurant?

Exactly. Consumer resistance…

[ManocalypseParticipant 321]

That article is quite redpill in places but it doesn’t quite join up the dots. Some of the comments are spot on.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

 

Ok cupcake, I get the message that I’m messed up for being single.  I’m a abnormal, failure to progress, irresponsible incomplete person…  (her words if you read carefully enough) because I have not agreed to be responsible for the needs of someone else who is not going to reciprocate.  And because of this, my nation’s future is at risk…

Don’t hint around and dilute that bulls~~~ you are spewing at me sweetheart.  Spew it like Linda Blair blasting pea soup at the exorcist…  Let that s~~~ fly!!!

She gives herself away when she mentions ‘bleak prospects’ for women who dream of a wedding day that may never come.

“They’re not understanding how important it is for the culture, for society, for the strength of the nation to have strong families.”

If all that stuff is so important, especially the strong families thing, why are 70+ percent of divorces initiated by women?

I only had to read the first three paragraphs to get the message.  The huge numbers of men who are not falling for the trap anymore are an enormous loss for women.  Like any loss, the reaction to it follows certain steps.  Denial, bargaining, anger/frustration, acceptance.  This is bargaining.  This is acknowledging the loss, but trying to somehow use shame and insult and concern for the country’s future to regain that magical “wedding day” (aka jackpot retirement from responsibility and accountability day).

I didn’t need to read any further to know what the message was.  They stacked the deck deeper and deeper completely giddy at all that they were going to get from the rigged game, and then got blindsided by men walking away from that table.  Now, they don’t even have even the option to have the fair game to play anymore.  Only women would be so short sighted and entitled as to believe that this was going to last forever.

 

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[GoneGaltParticipant 361]

LOVE THE ARTICLE! I WANT TO LICK THEIR TEARS AS AN APPETIZER!!! TY!!!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

BrainPilot wrote:

Like any loss, the reaction to it follows certain steps. Denial, bargaining, anger/frustration, acceptance. This is bargaining.

Is it?  Don’t bargainers usually bring an offer to the table?  I’m not seeing them offering anything, just making the same tired old demands as always, only it’s not working for them any more. “Men aren’t being shamed into marriage?  Shame harder!  That’ll show ’em.”

I think they’re still in denial.

Other than that, I think you’re spot on.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Agreed sidecar,
and welcome to mgtow if I haven’t already done so. I’ve only recently starting seeing this ‘bad for the country’ thing start showing up in MRM in relation to mgtow. I interpret that as women trying to use the future of the country as a hostage to scare us back on to the plantation. To me, the message is: Come and serve our interests while sacrificing your own… or it will be bad for the country…as if to link patriotism to marriage??. That’s what seemed like bargaining to me…albeit a pretty hopeless and desperate attempt at it. This one actually uses the word ‘ominous’ in reference to the future of the country. I don’t think this author cares as much for the future of the country as she does for the future of women who aren’t going to have men sacrificing to provide for them anymore…

Interesting that these two threads showed up on my screen at the same time (at east for me). In one, it’s being pointed out that women on an online dating site considered 80% of (presumably single) men to be below average. In another, it’s being pointed out that 70% of single men are not planning to get married. It should be no great disappointment that we aren’t willing to get married if we are below average anyway…? Yet, in this one, a woman is insulting and shaming the men not planning to get married as perpetually adolescent and not normally progressing…blah blah blah…

Ironic isn’t it that while you’re being told you’re not good enough to play this rigged game, you’re simultaneously being told that there is something wrong with you if you still choose not to play…? Of course if you take the bait of being ‘good enough’ and accept that label in the form of a marriage contract, you will later be told again that you are not good enough, but the punishment for not being good enough at that point will be at least half of your assets, your children, your home, your rights and possibly your freedom.

The message I get from these two articles is that I’m never going to be good enough, but they still want to marry me so that they can profit financially from my inadequacy. Women don’t really want to BE married anymore. They only want to GET married because they understand this is a necessary formality they have to go through in order to get a divorce…which is where the real prize is for them.

I think I’ll just sit MY not-good-enough bachelor ass here on MY not-good-enough bachelor couch in MY not-good-enough bachelor house and watch sports on MY big ole not-good-enough bachelor wide screen while eating MY not-good-enough steak and drinking MY not-good-enough beer and occasionally scratching MY big not-good-enough bachelor b~~~~… and counting all MY not-good-enough bachelor money…

All I can say is thank God I stayed single long enough to get past the hormone surge in my younger days that led me to consider so many bad decisions (and make at least a few) with women. I could never have imagined how safe, and happy, and content, and financially stable it would feel to be not-good-enough once those hormone wore off.

I lose exactly zero sleep over the wedding I missed being in…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[AFTParticipant 2722]

BrainPilot wrote:

Ironic isn’t it that while you’re being told you’re not good enough to play this rigged game, you’re simultaneously being told that there is something wrong with you if you still choose not to play…?

It’s all about the female perspective, if you don’t want a serious relationship then you’re an immature asshole that needs to grow up and fulfill her requirements.  If she doesn’t want anything to do with you then its your fault for being a creepy stalker needing to grow up and leave her alone.  I used to say happy wife, happy life in my Blue Pill days, now I’ve discovered it’s no wife happy life.

Feminism, accomplished freedom to be promiscuous and gain rights without responsibilities but now men wake up to the bad deal of marriage, why should we get married with all the free poo tan floating around, and risk everything just so we can commit to one promiscuous woman fresh off the c~~~ carousel.  The problem with feminism, is they totally forgot to include any inducement for a man whatsoever.  What is in it for a man?

I’ll have to accept being just another free ride on the carousel, and accept being ridden, with protection, and no commitment, that’s the paradigm THEY set up, like children they are never happy, they got me on the carousal, given out free rides, I’m just giving em what they want.

 

 

 

 

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

BrainPilot wrote:

I’ve only recently starting seeing this ‘bad for the country’ thing start showing up in MRM in relation to mgtow.

I’ve seen it around for a few years now, though not coming from the MRM camp.  Then again I don’t pay much mind to the MRMs, so I don’t know how long they’ve been pushing it.  Not that it will do them, or anyone, any good.

I interpret that as women trying to use the future of the country as a hostage to scare us back on to the plantation.

It seems to me like there are a very few who realize that discounting the needs and wants of the people who provide for a society is actually bad (suicidal) for the society, and they are clutching at straws trying to find a way to stave off the inevitable result of their neglect.  They can see the writing on the wall, but they have no clue what to do about it.  They can’t seem to grasp that the negative result of taking men for granted can only be prevented by not taking men for granted.

To me, the message is: Come and serve our interests while sacrificing your own… or it will be bad for the country…as if to link patriotism to marriage??.

“Sacrifice your life for a society that doesn’t give a rat’s ass about you, never did, and will throw you on the trash heap as soon as your usefulness is over.  The future of our (not your) country depends on you.  Think of the children.”

They really are clutching at straws if they think that’s going to get men back in the yoke, which is why I think they are still in denial.  Who would agree to a bum deal like that?  Why should men care about a future they have zero stake in?  Did they never stop to consider that taking generations of mens’ children away from them would only make men stop giving a damn about “the children”?  Think of the children?  Why should we?  They’re not our children.  Not anymore.

Interesting that these two threads showed up on my screen at the same time (at east for me). In one, it’s being pointed out that women on an online dating site considered 80% of (presumably single) men to be below average. In another, it’s being pointed out that 70% of single men are not planning to get married.

Both have been in a dusty corner of the mainstream media consciousness for a while.  I think they get recycled every few months, though I expect the frequency to increase as things get more desperate.

Ironic isn’t it that while you’re being told you’re not good enough to play this rigged game, you’re simultaneously being told that there is something wrong with you if you still choose not to play…?

More hypocritical than ironic.  Which is par for the course with women and especially with feminists.

The message I get from these two articles is that I’m never going to be good enough, but they still want to marry me so that they can profit financially from my inadequacy. Women don’t really want to BE married anymore. They only want to GET married because they understand this is a necessary formality they have to go through in order to get a divorce…which is where the real prize is for them.

Exactly.  They don’t want you.  They never wanted you.  But they sure do want your money.  Like I said: hypocrites.

The only difference between a wife and a whore are a few letters and the whore’s up front honesty in business.

AFT wrote:

The problem with feminism, is they totally forgot to include any inducement for a man whatsoever. What is in it for a man?

That’s not the only problem.  But yes, they forgot all about that, and they still haven’t figured it out to this day.  He for She?  Seriously?  What’s in it for me?

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

T~~~ logic: Let’s destroy the family unit, chase men out of the house then cry foul when our daughters can’t find a work horse!

F~~~ing brilliant!

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Haha, this is just so freaking typical. That’s like coming up with a s~~~ty product, trying to sell it, and then blaming people for not buying it. The stupid is strong in this one.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[MentalKennyParticipant 2]

Inevitable that marriage is declining, no point for us to take part in a rotten system with no potential benefits.

[Anonymous 0]

or like, as more women have started to realise that so many of you are jerks, they can no longer find anybody worthy of their time and love and so cant find any men decent enough to want to spend their lives with. women are better off single than with a man who won’t treat her right.

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