Hey everyone,
So yea, I noticed an article that I really related too, and noticed some people refer to this site. I’m not always keen on people “spamming” but in this case I would say it’s needed. So pat on the back you drew me in. I actually scanned a lot of what you had in the forums and also found it insightful and even hilarious at times.
My my story is kinda simple, something many of you can relate to and after some of the stories I seem I almost feel fortunate. I seen previous comments about an influx of people saying WOW I never knew about you guys,and not to be stereotypical I find myself I that boat. Again, I must comment onthe insight many have show in the posts, and I have been in a similar mind state for about two years. In fact, when the blue pill as you guys described finally faded I was devastated… A story it seems you see and know too often. I honestly wish I stumbed on this back then. I just want to talk about the perspectve before seeing any of this resource.
– two years ago I was having relationship issues for what seemed no reason. Perhaps she was getting bored or cheating who knows. Just drawn out nonsense, with me open to communicate and receiving the 8 year girl responses to everything, such as “because” , and ” I just don’t know”. Like many relationships it went sour, oh well. Yea I had a hard time getting over it but more importantly so where all my friends… I am 29 and they are all around my age. With all the girl issues, us guys got together like usual but this night there were more than usual. I remember sitting away from everyone and realizing we (8 ) guys were all sitting in my kitchen bitching about the bs our girlfriends were putting us through. I knew something was up, this is more than chance and in fact all of those relationships are over… In fact, I put two and two together with how much I have seen woman just destroy men… Driving them to drugs, killing their babies ( yet keeping the kid from when they cheated and still expected to act as the father) the guys all falling for this bs over and over again because of “love” or whatever. It was hard for me and this last few years have been so tough to get through, weather it was my ex texting me about how she is so happy now, as just to rub it in… Or the big depression that followed for awhile, to even me battling myself because I can’t accept the fact I want nothing to do with woman and their games. They know who to destroy man, and do it well. I know the rabbit hole goes deep, but even the first few months of the veil being removed were tough. Especially because I am that nice guy that got walked over, and one thing I read here I found unsettling but true was “beta providing male”. I am sorry that’s just not me ! I was raised by single mother and it took me until my adult hood to accept why my father wouldnt want to be around…. My mother had me at 17 and although I love her, she is a hard person to be around sometimes… Although I spent most of my time with her, mainly learning that I need to be a sensitive caring guy and all that crap, I did come to a conclusion early on that woman’s idea of love if what you or they do for you. In her case whenever her and I would argue when I was a teenager it was always I did this for you, I bought you this, etc ( even seen it with a pathetic girl I was breaking up with ) She could never and still to this day doesn’t understand love isnt purchasing power, but maybe if she wasn’t so mean, honestly it seemed as if subconsciously she hated me, like I was a bad boyfriend she couldn’t get rid of.
So so yea in not gonna bitch about mommy issues more or anything just give y’all some insight into my point of view. I do wonder what your thought are in the situation I had growing up, single scorned mother raising a male…. And also if this trend is getting worse or if it’s always been this bad.
So so yea nice to meet y’all, this place is awesome.
