AWALT – How about mothers? Not single moms, but Moms in general

[Anonymous 1]

Before everything, I would like to state that I respect my own mother, even when I see that she has the same tendencies as all women. She tried to manipulate me one time just to ask money (she’s still working but somehow still cannot support herself because she spends it on ‘helping’ random people or burn them all at church). She suddenly messaged me one time ‘I’m sorry for doing this. I’m a bad mom…”, and when I run panicked thinking that something’s wrong, she openly admitted that she LIED to get me go to meet her. Again, I’m not hating her, but I found that behavior is more clearer now that I found MGTOW. She’s a woman, and AWALT.

Now I always cut her talk or simply say no when she started to be selfish and guilt trip me to help her financial problems. A cold hard ‘NO’, not the wimpy ‘I’m sorry but I can’t do it blablabla.’ But a simple no without any explanation.

Problems with women in my countries, unlike the western, are more involving mothers. Not single mothers, but mothers in general. EVERY MOTHER here thought that they’re the principals of all great values:
– They’re entitled, and felt that the law isn’t apply to them.
– If they drive vehicles, they will drive terribly, and never took responsibility if anything bad happened because of that.
– A mother physically smack officers who tried to give her traffic ticket.
– They ALMOST ALWAYS cut queues because they think they have authority of every queue because they’re moms.
– They doesn’t like to be critisized and perceived themselves as know-it-all.
– They posted bogus-fear-mongering-sensational-health-news on family groups without recheck them, and took it personal when confronted that it was a hoax.
– They posted Quran/Bible quotes about motherhood to their children to guilt trip them, despite those religions came from cultures that treat them as they are (read: devilish).

Even my once okay girl-friends (friends who happened to be girl, not lovers) turned entitled once they’re married or have children. They become preachy, know-it-all, can’t take criticisms, etc. Even though I wasn’t born yet at the time when men who shut their women up are seen as normal, I think it was a better time.

[bladeParticipant]

I notice with old people say 75 and up there is like a hirackey where the men run the conversation but they have respect for the woman but the old boys run the chat .

Woman of today use there children as a tool and a weapon as well . My ex snatched my daughters after not wanting them to keep herself from going to jail for tax fraud of using my buisness number . Kids add bonus points to the pussy pass

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 1]

blade wrote:

Woman of today use there children as a tool and a weapon as well . My ex snatched my daughters after not wanting them to keep herself from going to jail for tax fraud of using my buisness number . Kids add bonus points to the pussy pass

This is sickening. The using of children for personal gains. We have a case here where a woman, with children, wearing hijab, producing counterfeit vacciness. When finally executed, she turned up the predictable waterworks, acted all histerical, and said “HOW ABOUT MY CHILDREN? OH POOR THEM BECAUSE THEIR MOM HAS TO GO TO JAIL? OH I’VE BEEN VIOLATED”

I mean, really? Somehow they managed to willing to look/sound stupid just for their own gains.

I’m sorry to hear about your daughters. How are they now? You still meeting them?

[Anonymous 42]

Moms are women, and women? They’re all on the same cart, some much worse than others. I see their traits and must remain silent to preserve the artificial peace, the real trick is to preserve your dignity. All women are indignant and ungrateful toward men, they’re born that way and now with gynocentrism festering over the top with indignant and arrogant behavior.

I walk away without saying a word, without correcting them, and become just that much more colder. (-75f.)

Welcome the the Arctic ladies, this is where you lead one another with all your slanderous and denigrating words that now flow from your mouths like a blizzard. Great job ladies! You really know how to treat a friend.

MGTOW is a place for men to stay comfortable, warm and dry.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

AWALT

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

– doesn’t like to be critisized and perceived themselves as know-it-all.

Yes. My mom still tries to talk to me like a 5 year old. I understand “she’s a mother” and I’m her son, but on one of her big birthdays a few years ago, we were all sitting at the table, she forgot potholders and I offered to get them from the kitchen, and she barked at me to “Just BE QUIET and SIT DOWN”.

I have not visited for the holidays since, and had to remind her WHY. It was the last time I permitted her to speak to me that way. I was too polite for too many decades simple because “she’s my mom”.

Mothers also think their sons exist to take of her in old age. She never said it directly, but she has frequently asked “who’s going to take care of you in old age?”….. and made repeat comments about a couple we know who never had kids. “They don’t have anyone to take care of them in old age”.

I finally told her of knock it off. “Please don’t tell me you had children to be taken care of in old age”.
I don’t really want to know she was only thinking about herself.

My father also worked for 35 years at the same job. When he was younger she talked him into turning down another opportunity because he would lose his pension. She wasn’t think about HIM. She was thinking about herself. I know this, because she once said “I’m so glad your father stayed with [company] because I often wonder where I would be today if he hadn’t.”

When she said that, I set my knife and fork down and couldn’t finish the meal.
She had NO IDEA what she just said.

Otherwise my Mom is great. But she is EXCELLENT at deliberately at getting under my skin.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[narwhalParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Yes. My mom still tries to talk to me like a 5 year old. I understand “she’s a mother” and I’m her son, but on one of her big birthdays a few years ago, we were all sitting at the table, she forgot potholders and I offered to get them from the kitchen, and she barked at me to “Just BE QUIET and SIT DOWN”.
I have not visited for the holidays since, and had to remind her WHY. It was the last time I permitted her to speak to me that way. I was too polite for too many decades simple because “she’s my mom”.

Yep. It’s probably been 20 years now, but I went over for dinner to my parents house one evening. It was quite clear that she was in a bad mood and going to take it out on me and Dad. I informed her that if she was going to yell at me, I was going to walk right out the door. She started yelling and I walked. My Dad just looked at me with a ‘can I come with you?’ look on his face.

My mother is pretty wise and has not made that same mistake again. She can be in a bad mood, but she does not get to take it out on me. And there is absolutely nothing disrespectful about setting healthy boundaries with your parents.

Kind of related, but a couple weeks ago my mother was babysitting my brother’s kids while they were out of town. My nephew (13) was wanting to installed a light he could voice control from his Amazon echo. Since I’ve done that myself, and set it up for my mother, she was asking what she needed to get for my nephew. It was a rather frustrating conversation as she is consciously naïve when it comes to tech stuff. In the process of trying to tell her what she needed, my brainy nephew had already found the items on the internet and quoted the price (on speakerphone). Then it came up that my nephew was also about to build his own computer. So I politely told mom to get off the phone and get out of the way. The boy can handle this.

It’s amazing how she could not realize that her assistance was nothing more then a hindrance.

Ok. Then do it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

narwhal wrote:

I informed her that if she was going to yell at me, I was going to walk right out the door. She started yelling and I walked. My Dad just looked at me with a ‘can I come with you?’ look on his face.

You have to do this. As difficult as it is. She should have already started dialing it down when you turn 18, but if a man is 27 or 30 or 35 or even 40 and his mom still DARES say s~~~ like “be quiet” or “sit down”….. my teeth grow HAIR.

She will still try and tell me I dry my hands with “the wrong towel”.
I’ll smile and say are you f~~~ing kidding me with this?

When she pushes , I hold nothing back. I once was driven to a point where I said “Hey! I’m not your husband. I don’t HAVE to listen to you”. I thought she was going to start crying.

I don’t really care, because I know female tears are bulls~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

Mum died when i was ten years old . She was a real good mum

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

You mean those, so called Good Mothers, who think their daughter can do no wrong?
Oh, i especially like the ones who claim their best of friends. (And not mother/daughter).

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

blade wrote:

Mum died when i was ten years old . She was a real good mum

@blade I paused and deflated a bit when I read that. Can’t imagine.

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I also have a cousin who’s mom (my aunt) taught her kids self-reliance very early on and NEVER nagged, bossed around or pestered. She was a teacher and spent most of her time quietly reading. He actually told me recently how he wished his mom was more like mine.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

This might sound f~~~ed km . But i look at life this way . If that bad things didn’t happen in life i wouldn’t be the person i am . Loved my mum she was a good mother and because she died when i was young i held her old fashioned values and it made me a good parent with my daughters when they lived with me for three years . Freaky thing is her mother mum died when she was ten and went and lived with her sister who was older than her . My grand father took of with a woman before her mother died and owned a well known company that was in the uk . Grand father got jacked by a gold digger . History repeats .

Ps km . I remember you saying ya mum was a nurse .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

I’ll talk to my mom maybe twice in a year and it’s all I can do not to completely lose my s~~~. Why do I even bother? Well, I still believe that old “honor thy father and thy mother” crap. I thought the controlling behavior might stop when I moved out, but NOPE, so I don’t ever visit. She knows why, but she just can’t help herself.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 1]

blade wrote:

Mum died when i was ten years old . She was a real good mum

I’m sorry. It’s terrible.

The motivation behind this post is really to try to see that mothers aren’t perfect, but not to completely dismissed their respected part of our lives.

Keymaster wrote:

Mothers also think their sons exist to take of her in old age. She never said it directly, but she has frequently asked “who’s going to take care of you in old age?”….. and made repeat comments about a couple we know who never had kids. “They don’t have anyone to take care of them in old age”.

My mom never told me this, because she already accepted that I won’t be married. But her friends (who are also moms) always bring this point up. To this question I always answer, “I’ll hire a nurse.” They also always like to push me to marry so that I’ll have someone to take care of me. Get out of here, I can cook and clean myself, and I don’t need annoying women to tell me to shave my beard or cut my hair or stop me from getting tattoos because it will look bad (for them of course)

Keymaster wrote:

You have to do this. As difficult as it is. She should have already started dialing it down when you turn 18, but if a man is 27 or 30 or 35 or even 40 and his mom still DARES say s~~~ like “be quiet” or “sit down”….. my teeth grow HAIR.

I once walked out unannounced from a family function because I felt that I did enough socializing and I didn’t feel any further use for me to be there. My mom pushed me to stay so she wouldn’t look bad. I just left without telling her and she called on the phone me angrily. I answer “when I said I wanna go, I’m not asking permission. I’m letting you know”

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

Moms are women, and women? They’re all on the same cart, some much worse than others. I see their traits and must remain silent to preserve the artificial peace, the real trick is to preserve your dignity. All women are indignant and ungrateful toward men, they’re born that way and now with gynocentrism festering over the top with indignant and arrogant behavior.

AWALT. When I got older I started to automatically ignored her, without even red pilled. I felt bad at first, but now I know I’m doing the right thing

[Anonymous 1]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

I still believe that old “honor thy father and thy mother” crap.

I used to put my mom on the pedestal. But something went off after I’m working and doing good for myself: our talks are always about money

[OdinParticipant 524]

I respect my mother too, not because she raised me; that’s what parents are supposed to do; but because she treats me how she wants to be treated. I do notice a lot of AWALT tendencies. Being manipulative, telling me I’m going to be alone if I don’t get married, trying to revoke my ‘man’ card if I don’t do her favours. One thing I’m bummed about is that I respect her because she holds traditional family values (she hates feminism) and hasn’t screwed over my Dad, kinda sad that I even brought this up because these days, women are generally pieces of s~~~s and are not worthy of respect; even when they demand it so much, they can screw you over in a freaking heartbeat and you know what? I’m scared. Not afraid to admit it – call me a pussy idgaf.

After becoming a MGTOW, it’s like being free from the matrix. You notice their ugly behaviour, and being named and shamed for calling them out on it doesn’t affect me more than it should.

[Anonymous 1]

Yep. We can see the tendencies eventhough it’s harder to criticize our own mothers. What worse is mothers are used to their womanly tactics and not seeing it as tactics anymore. They ‘works’ and part of their SOP.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Take the MOM out of the equation please when it becomes a MGTOW issue – this is an emotional deal – breaker that screws up our logical thought processes.

I believe every man here will agree that it is fine to respect your mom if she did good by you. This is probably the only exception to the AWALT rule and is very specific to the child – we most all have a special relationship with our moms. No one else needs to.

However there is a limit to this. Moms will use their children as it is in their nature. There needs to be a cut-off for this.

Nothing in life is 100% – if it was we would all not need to be here.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Keymaster wrote:

ou have to do this. As difficult as it is. She should have already started dialing it down when you turn 18, but if a man is 27 or 30 or 35 or even 40 and his mom still DARES say s~~~ like “be quiet” or “sit down”….. my teeth grow HAIR.

I have Indian and Chinese friends and have seen grown men wupped by their moms. It’s their culture. LOL.

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