AWALT Experience

[M3GTOWParticipant 103]

Greetings fellow MGTOW,

I am writing this post to share my experience with a woman that I was with for a year. This is to save other men who will be on this website thinking their woman is ‘different’

So I see this girl who shows up new at work, kinda hot. (I was in serious rebound mode at that time, and she was a good f~~~ candidate)
The process of wooing her in starts, and viola, we are in bed after a few dates.
Everything is great for the first 6 months, of course it is. The excitement of hiding something at work, the thrill, etc. etc.
The next 6 months, s~~~ goes down the hill. She loses her job, gets a lower paying one. All her money is gone in rent and transport. I help her out (luckily got all my money back). I start paying for date nights. We start having fights because I am unable to spend all my time with her and all my money on her and she expects me to recreate the ‘magical moments’ all the f~~~ing time. I am expected to pick and drop her from work and home just so that she does not have to spend for transport.

Anyway, I was buying a new car and did not have any money or car for a week or so. She starts hanging out with a Chad who makes her feel ‘what she felt as love’ and sleeps with Chad. Next day she has the audacity to wish me morning baby and hey love and we go for a movie. She confesses afterwards. The breakup is ugly. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Story ends there. Shes probably busy riding Chads c~~~ and I am busy getting my life back on track.

Anyway after retrospection, I realized a few things –

1. Chad works with her in her new firm (same excitement rekindle bulls~~~)
2. Chads will remain Chads, you cant do anything about it.
3. AWALT, this does not change. AWALT. They lie, they cheat, they will be with you till the time you are resourceful to them.
4. Never trust anyone but your instinct and gut feeling. If your gut feeling tells you that shes with someone else. She is.
5. What I want from my friends is good company. What I want from a woman is SEX. I was earlier looking for a partner who will make me better, etc. But I think its better to spend time with my buddies and paying an escort miles hotter than my ex for SEX whenever I feel like it.

I dont miss her. I dont love her. The only thing affecting me is the fact that Chad is banging the daylight out of her and shes loving it. How to get over this s~~~ty ass feeling?

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22507]

You learned a great deal. Now the real trick is remembering it and never forgetting it.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

I understand the disappointment and Jealousy you are feeling.
Only time, will be reversing this to “I wouldn’t p~~~ on her if she were on fire”.
AWALT and very elegant Briffault’s Law demo.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Dark Ninja DaveParticipant 273]

An all too familiar story…

My way of looking at this, I am going to borrow a quotation that has been used before on this site that is quite apt (I may be paraphrasing slightly):

She was never yours, it was just your turn.

It sounds harsh.
But this will, more likely than not, apply to this new guy too.
It’s still the honeymoon period, with all the banging and other fun stuff.
Then it will reach that 6 month mark, as it did with you: reality will set in, time to take responsibility, there is always someone more attractive/wealthier/cooler than you on the scene, the bitching, requests for commitment. etc…
It all starts turning to crap for him.

Whatever you do, if there ever is an opportunity for you take her back, don’t!!!
Never look back, always look forward.

Stay strong, and don’t take any s~~~.

Cheers

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

You get over it by thinking where it could have headed if she delayed her natural instincts to crave new exciting c~~~. Financial pressures, shacking up, destruction of your hobbies and interests. You avoided all that – in part thanks to AWALT and ACALT ( All Chad’s Are Like That). You escaped relatively unscathed. Most men here weren’t so lucky.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

M3GTOW wrote:

Everything is great for the first 6 months, of course it is. The excitement of hiding something at work, the thrill, etc. etc.The next 6 months, s~~~ goes down the hill. She loses her job, gets a lower paying one. All her money is gone in rent and transport. I help her out (luckily got all my money back). I start paying for date nights. We start having fights because I am unable to spend all my time with her and all my money on her and she expects me to recreate the ‘magical moments’ all the f~~~ing time. I am expected to pick and drop her from work and home just so that she does not have to spend for transport.

I dont miss her. I dont love her. The only thing affecting me is the fact that Chad is banging the daylight out of her and shes loving it. How to get over this s~~~ty ass feeling?

Once the first six months are out of the way, women want to see if you are hooked so the s~~~ tests start. They also start to show their real personalities and think they don’t have to put any effort in any more. She brings the vagina so she expects the man to spend all his money on her and constantly arrange exciting nights out. As you say they expect the man to recreate the ‘Magical moments’ all of the time while she puts in zero effort. If you are not doing this then she will look for the tingles again, and nothing is more exciting than chad c~~~.

All chad has to do is message her saying “I am coming over in 20 minutes to f~~~ you, wear your sluttiest outfit to answer the door’, bang her over the kitchen table then leave once he has finished on her face. Nothing you could ever pay for or organise could give her bigger tingles than that.

You cannot win, you are just a temporary wallet until the next chad.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[StealthParticipant 5329]

Dark Ninja Dave wrote:

there is always someone more attractive/wealthier/cooler than you on the scene

Not necessarily. You could be the best-looking, wealthiest, and coolest guy around! The point is it doesn’t matter nor depend on you. She’ll cheat, lie, and steal no matter who you are.

Dark Ninja Dave wrote:

Stay strong, and don’t take any s~~~.

Words to live by. Doing this will avoid nearly every problem.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[HermitParticipant]

M3GTOW wrote:

The only thing affecting me is the fact that Chad is banging the daylight out of her and shes loving it. How to get over this s~~~ty ass feeling?

It wouldn’t bother you if you hadn’t let yourself have feelings for her, but you must have cared for her so that’s why you feel s~~~ty. What always worked best for me was to stick my dick in some other t~~~ and instantly I was over the one I cared about.

One time my x was telling me about this dude she got with after me. I don’t know why she thought I would want to hear this, but she told me that this guy “turned her on”. It had zero effect on me. I lost any feelings for her long ago and all she’s been for me since then is a mouth to put my dick in.

No woman will ever get me to care about her again. Anything I have to do with any of them is f~~~ ’em and forget ’em. Guess that kind of makes me a Chad, but it’s better than being a cuck.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

M3GTOW wrote:

I dont miss her. I dont love her. The only thing affecting me is the fact that Chad is banging the daylight out of her and shes loving it. How to get over this s~~~ty ass feeling?

I believe that you still do miss her and love her at some level, and that’s why you can’t get over that “s~~~ty feeling” about her sucking and f~~~ing another man.

THIS IS NORMAL.

Men have a tendency to actually LOVE the woman that they are with even after she casually moves on to the next c~~~. A woman’s “love” is very temporary, and she easily replaces with one “love” for a new “love” without much fan fare.

Remember, She was NEVER yours, she was just yours for a period of time, and now she is some other man’s cum dumpster for a period of time, but then she will move on again.

They just are what they are.

We as Men have BELIEVED the societal LIES that they are something more, but in reality they just are temporary cum depositories, and when we try to turn them into anything more than that (IE: Girlfriend, Fiancé, Wife) then that’s when we begin to punish ourselves.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 18]

Criminals and women are creatures of habit.

Look in her past and eject.

For a woman, the past is a script and people that ‘wronged’ her the antagonists. She must always be a protagonist in her own story – as most of us do – however, her script changes moment to moment.

Seeing women self-destruct in their 20s with irreparable damage is very satisfactory.

[HermitParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

in reality they just are temporary cum depositories,

That is ALL they are and if you realize this and treat them as such, life is so much more easier and enjoyable. Keep your emotions to yourself and don’t waste them on the cum dumpsters. Give them the only thing they deserve, a dick in the mouth.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Branched offParticipant 10926]

The modern woman has freedom to choose if she wants to stay in a relationship.
Women are fickle -what they think is a good idea changes often. W
omen are programmed to look for “better”.
These three things mean that hot women can do what they like when it comes to men and unless you are very high value that is exactly what they will do.

Being traded up by someone you loved and poured your energy and resources into hurts. It should hurt. It is natural. It is also natural to hate Chad as he was the catalyst for the break up. Its OK. Hold onto that pain. It is meant to hurt. It teaches you something. As to hating chad, it will pass (maybe quite slowly if she was really hot and good in bed) but it will pass. Chad didn’t do this to you and that will gradually sink in.

Chad is welcome to take your rubbish away if he likes because that is all she actually was. She was a drain on you. The only good thing she gave you was sex and it was not worth all the heartache and cost that came with it.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I don’t open up anymore. I don’t want to relive any of the pain. But that anger is real. It eats you. The only good thing is that it prepares you for any woman that comes your way.

Last night, another one tried. Rolled up my window and did not pay one lick of attention to her. And it felt good. Logic says that she had nothing of value to give me.

The work thing is interesting in that that is how it happned to me. It was weird that one day I showed up with our son at her work, and she got all p~~~ed off and worried. It was then I knew she was also having an affair the whole time during our realations~~~.

And you know? The worst pain is, you never understand it. But be careful. The second that you start to grow, not need them, or start becoming successful, they will come to destroy you anyway that they can with help from anyone that will listen.

The Advice men give you is to move on. But that is why it keeps happening. Very few men understand that this is only beneficial for the short term. It does work. But when there are children, or kids involved, it is a death sentence for the life you were programed to expect.

The part that killed me, is that the whole time, I saw one day long ago in the very beginning and had that gut feeling she was with another man when I started courting with her. And I CHOSE to ignore it. I think I even saw something one day, and I just blocked it out.

You got off lucky brother. Just don’t ever get fooled again. The pain will go away after time for you. But the lessons should never be forgotten.

This might help with the pain… She was never worth your time. And she had nothing in the first place. That’s why she went after you.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[M3GTOWParticipant 103]

The biggest lesson is that in today’s world, women have nothing to offer except for sex. They are selfish, cannot sacrifice, do not know the value of words or commitment. This girl is hot now. But she will hit the wall. I see it coming. The daily dose of drinking, partying and not eating right will hit her.

And once it does, when I am in my 40’s and I own my freedom, a good dog, a home. I will laugh at her misery.

I am Indian, my mom and dad have been married for 35 years, and there has never been a single fight at home. My mother has been his support system and sacrificed her career and life just to bring up 3 boys. Of whom, I am the eldest. You do not see such marriages nowadays.

Marriages a few decades ago were viewed as an unbreakable bond. In today’s world ha! I laugh in the face of marriage and commitment.

Women will always be emotional thinkers. I met a woman last night in a bar, kept complaining about my ex and behaved like a total narcissist for her to just walk out. What does she do? She takes my number and wants to see me tomorrow.

Am I going to do a P&D? Absolutely.

Am I going to care for a woman other than my mother? Never.

Am I going to spend time with logical thinkers, men and improve my life? Absolutely f~~~ing yes.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

@js33

Expect to hear from her again. Eventually her hand will slip while monkey branching and she’ll be thrown off the c~~~ carousel right into The Wall.

That’s when she’ll call you again. Be aware that you’re just one of many she’s going through in her address book looking for a wallet to lock down before it’s too late. Prepare for that phone call. Use it as a final opportunity to f~~~ with her (note I didn’t say “f~~~ her”), but no matter what, don’t get locked down. Send her sorry post-wall ass packing.

[JVBParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

@js33
Expect to hear from her again. Eventually her hand will slip while monkey branching and she’ll be thrown off the c~~~ carousel right into The Wall.
That’s when she’ll call you again. Be aware that you’re just one of many she’s going through in her address book looking for a wallet to lock down before it’s too late. Prepare for that phone call. Use it as a final opportunity to f~~~ with her (note I didn’t say “f~~~ her”), but no matter what, don’t get locked down. Send her sorry post-wall ass packing.

Simply outstanding

Peace is > piece.

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