At 39, she feels invisible

[Emperor HeracliusParticipant 317]

At 39, I feel invisible

“Dear Meredith,

I’m 39 and have been single for something like four years now. Dating used to be a fairly exciting, positive, and rewarding experience. However, as years progress and I’m creeping closer to 40, I get fewer requests for dates and am less in demand. Nothing about my situation has changed drastically; I work in academia, I hear I’m attractive, I believe I’m kind, thoughtful, etc. Even so, the people I find interesting and would want to pursue seemingly are no longer looking for me; they either want to meet someone who’ll be in a position to start a family on a very specific timeline, or have already done that and are looking for casual encounters (nothing serious!).

I’m indifferent about producing children, which used to work in my favor with men. That’s no longer true. I’m beyond tired of short-term and casual relationships. That was fun before, but now just feels like killing time. For context, I *have* dated single dads, the recently divorced, and ethically non-monogamous men in an effort to give myself more options. I’m convinced I find myself in an invisible population of women. Who’s looking to date me? I really have no idea. Maybe you or your readers can offer some suggestions. Perhaps this is how women turn to cradle robbing or find themselves paired off with senior citizens. How much do you have to “expand your options” before you run the risk of settling? Is it time to embrace cynical spinsterhood?”

"Admit no woman to the imperial councils. Be accessible to no one. Share with few your most intimate plans."

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Boom!

Mic drop….

Peace brothers

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Emperor Heraclius wrote:

I’m convinced I find myself in an invisible population of women. Who’s looking to date me? I really have no idea. Maybe you or your readers can offer some suggestions.

Didn’t exit the c~~~ carousel fast enough. Oh whaaaa.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

HA HA HA! That is all too funny. So she’s been kicked off the c~~~ carousel. How typical spent years riding c~~~ after c~~~ and now that the wall approaches (I’m sure its already hit) she finds she is no longer in demand—her sexual market value is 0…maybe some 60+ year old guy might be interested but I doubt it. Sorry fresh out of prince charmings.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

This warms my black heart.

Fuck this planet.

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

It’s very simple honey, instead of making connections and bettering yourself, you simply screwed around your entire youth with chad and now no one wants you because you have hit the wall.

-signed Men.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

[Anonymous 11]

Hey, sweet cheeks, if you’re reading this, closing time at your local dive bar would be my recommendation. Beer goggles will do all the work for you.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Emperor Heraclius wrote:

I *have* dated single dads, the recently divorced, and ethically non-monogamous men in an effort to give myself more options.

I had to look that up. Might be a trend as good men say no to relationships that box them in.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Answer to her last question is a resounding YES. Do us all a favour and go get lost laydee. Oh and don’t forget to pick up your cats and wine on the way out.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

Maybe she should go her own way

Oh wait, she doesn’t have the independence to accept being solo for life and must depend on a man to; make her feel special, give her confidence, make him listen to 20,000 words a day, etc, etc.

Poor girl, I hope the c~~~ carousel was worth it!

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

39 f~~~ing years old and she still doesn’t think she needs to lower her standards or settle.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Emperor Heraclius wrote:

How much do you have to “expand your options” before you run the risk of settling?

Funny she asks that AFTER hypergamy doesn’t work for her anymore….

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

She should start a whole new career as a secret agent for the CIA—because she IS invisible!!!

[MurineesParticipant 704]

Time to get a kitten.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Come on now, which one of you is Meredith?

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Ethically Non-Monogamous? Is that like Polyamory? Or just “I’m gonna f~~~ whoever I like, just so you know. Take it or leave it.”

‘Cause if it’s the latter, I’ve been Ethically Non-Monogamous my entire life and just didn’t know it.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

Samsquanch wrote:

39 f~~~ing years old and she still doesn’t think she needs to lower her standards or settle.

She deserves a hot 25 year old man with a $200k+ trust account and all her dreams to come true
/sarc

What a joke women have become, they keep giving us good reason to stay MGTOW.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

She’ll feel invisible up until 100,000 men are all sending her PMs. That’s the thing with these attention whores. Greedy bitches.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Anonymous wrote:

Hey, sweet cheeks, if you’re reading this, closing time at your local dive bar would be my recommendation. Beer goggles will do all the work for you.

Fuck this planet.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

Some of the comments were pretty funny…
Just goes to show she reaps what she sowed.
Truth hurts, Life’s hard… and the Wall will leave them invisible apparently!

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