Asking for a Friend.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I will cut to the chase. When is it okay for a husband to hit a woman in the face and leave her with a busted lip?

Is once or twice okay a year?

What about leaving a knot size bruise on a woman’s head?

How about doing it in front of the kids?

Today, I helped a woman clean up her lip. Put some Neosporin on it. And seal it up. Hopefully, it will heal. She works with the public, so her looks are pretty important.

Her realtions~~~ has been abusive like this for a while. I know couples get into fights. But when would it be okay to do so?

Today, I overheard exactly what that stereotypical abusive guy is like. And you know, I had to tell that guys brother to keep it together.

On the inside, I know he wants to return that same busted lip. But I told him that would do nothing. It was really his sisters choice to keep staying there in that realtions~~~.

Its weird being that guy that has to play the neutral party. I know each way the choice is f~~~ed. There is no solution.

And I have to tell ya, there is nothing that is going to change.

See, what gets me is that I know many of you men have been accused of being Abusive. But then you run across someone who really is. And then all the same instincts play up. In the Back of your mind you know anything you do is just going to make it worse. So what do you do?

What simply boggled my mind is that I got to hear just how a woman would make any action that they did okay. Make it seem as though it was okay to use physical violence to hurt someone and then try to explain it away. Then use the “you are cheating on me” or “You are a whore” , …..Its just the way that abusive talk that I think so many of us men have experienced when our wives did it to us.

Its hard to describe the ways that man would do it. But I tell you my brothers, I heard exactly the flip side of that today.

I have to wonder, how much we men have been through, and how we have been falsely accused. And here I am staring someone in the face who had that just happen to her.

I would like to tell this person who is the brother of his sister what to do? And is returning the favor a welcomed idea.
The calmer of you may have a better insight. As of know, I don’t know what to tell that man.

I would have to ask, if it was your sister, what would you do?

With all the false accusations we see, I have to wonder why is it that the men that do indeed do this seem to get away with it. And the rest of us, who I believe would never do such a thing, get shafted for it?

I have to wonder… if you were a woman, would you give up the safety of having financial independence? Have a father around? Or is it simply better to just part ways?

Again. I’m asking for a Friend. But I want you to imagine that it was your sister. And your 3 nieces and nephews.

In retrospect, through all I have been through? I would never lay a hand on a woman. I don’t care what was said.

I would just like some advice to tell that person. Because if it was me? Or it was my sister, I sure feel like returning the favor. But I know there is no good that will come from it. Just a further broken home.

What a wonderful day this was. Was.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Abuse, no matter what the gender is always abuse.
Once is too much.
The issue I, and many here have, is that too many people feel abuse is only a one-way street and men must accept abuse and not strike back “no matter what”.

It’s also been my experience that when word of abuse is kept a secret, where the woman doesn’t admit it or doesn’t leave, is when it’s a Chad.

The beta is the guy who gets his name dragged through the mud, whether or not he really did anything.

I only “believe her” when I see it firsthand, unless Chad admits, or brags about it himself.

Bruises, cuts and scrapes can, and have been faked in order to support a woman’s false claims.

I think there are many guys in this forum who’s life has been destroyed due to a false claim.

In answer to your question. I would say it’s only warranted in self defense, just like it would be with any another person.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

It has always boggled my mind that there are some women that will DO ANYTHING and put up with ANYTHING to keep “their” man.

He can be the most abusive, lazy, cheating, drunkard POS to ever exist, and she will be faithfully waiting to serve him his dinner and suck his co(k on demand.

Then of course you have your average garden variety lil cupcake that will just suddenly transform into the biggest bitch from hell to punish her husbank after he has given his complete life to keep her “happy”.

Women come wrapped in pretty packages, but you have NO CLUE what’s really inside.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

I don’t answer distress calls from people who make bad relationship choices. The same couple that fights all night and ruins everyone’s good time is the same couple that f~~~s all night later. They get off on the drama, captain save a ho can’t rescue stupid.

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Awakened wrote:

It has always boggled my mind that there are some women that will DO ANYTHING and put up with ANYTHING to keep “their” man.
He can be the most abusive, lazy, cheating, drunkard POS to ever exist, and she will be faithfully waiting to serve him his dinner and suck his co(k on demand.
Then of course you have your average garden variety lil cupcake that will just suddenly transform into the biggest bitch from hell to punish her husbank after he has given his complete life to keep her “happy”.
Women come wrapped in pretty packages, but you have NO CLUE what’s really inside.

This is Gospel.

To a tier accurate beyond all belief.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

“has been abusive like this for a while”
It takes two to fight, it also takes two to make it last over a long time frame. All of us know a woman with a few words can wound deeper then a physical hit. What ever they had is over, now it is pulling something together for the kids involved.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

iMickey503 wrote:

I will cut to the chase. When is it okay for a husband to hit a woman in the face and leave her with a busted lip?
Is once or twice okay a year?
What about leaving a knot size bruise on a woman’s head?
How about doing it in front of the kids?
Today, I helped a woman clean up her lip. Put some Neosporin on it. And seal it up. Hopefully, it will heal. She works with the public, so her looks are pretty important.
Her realtions~~~ has been abusive like this for a while. I know couples get into fights. But when would it be okay to do so?
Today, I overheard exactly what that stereotypical abusive guy is like. And you know, I had to tell that guys brother to keep it together.
On the inside, I know he wants to return that same busted lip. But I told him that would do nothing. It was really his sisters choice to keep staying there in that realtions~~~.
Its weird being that guy that has to play the neutral party. I know each way the choice is f~~~ed. There is no solution.
And I have to tell ya, there is nothing that is going to change.
See, what gets me is that I know many of you men have been accused of being Abusive. But then you run across someone who really is. And then all the same instincts play up. In the Back of your mind you know anything you do is just going to make it worse. So what do you do?
What simply boggled my mind is that I got to hear just how a woman would make any action that they did okay. Make it seem as though it was okay to use physical violence to hurt someone and then try to explain it away. Then use the “you are cheating on me” or “You are a whore” , …..Its just the way that abusive talk that I think so many of us men have experienced when our wives did it to us.
Its hard to describe the ways that man would do it. But I tell you my brothers, I heard exactly the flip side of that today.
I have to wonder, how much we men have been through, and how we have been falsely accused. And here I am staring someone in the face who had that just happen to her.
I would like to tell this person who is the brother of his sister what to do? And is returning the favor a welcomed idea.The calmer of you may have a better insight. As of know, I don’t know what to tell that man.
I would have to ask, if it was your sister, what would you do?
With all the false accusations we see, I have to wonder why is it that the men that do indeed do this seem to get away with it. And the rest of us, who I believe would never do such a thing, get shafted for it?
I have to wonder… if you were a woman, would you give up the safety of having financial independence? Have a father around? Or is it simply better to just part ways?
Again. I’m asking for a Friend. But I want you to imagine that it was your sister. And your 3 nieces and nephews.
In retrospect, through all I have been through? I would never lay a hand on a woman. I don’t care what was said.
I would just like some advice to tell that person. Because if it was me? Or it was my sister, I sure feel like returning the favor. But I know there is no good that will come from it. Just a further broken home.
What a wonderful day this was. Was.

Self defense is one thing.

Abuse isn’t self defense.

I have no problem defending against anyone attacking me, I care not about ANYTHING, I will defend myself. I don’t have to be anyone’s passive punching bag or be injured or die from their attacks.

Abuse isn’t self defense.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

iMickey503 wrote:

Awakened wrote:

It has always boggled my mind that there are some women that will DO ANYTHING and put up with ANYTHING to keep “their” man.He can be the most abusive, lazy, cheating, drunkard POS to ever exist, and she will be faithfully waiting to serve him his dinner and suck his co(k on demand.Then of course you have your average garden variety lil cupcake that will just suddenly transform into the biggest bitch from hell to punish her husbank after he has given his complete life to keep her “happy”.Women come wrapped in pretty packages, but you have NO CLUE what’s really inside.

This is Gospel.
To a tier accurate beyond all belief.

Some don’t believe they can monkeybranch or on their own get to a better position than they are in. They would rather stay than go to a lower lifestyle.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Yes, there are men who are no good – but that’s not my problem.

As Spleefer says, don’t respond to distress rockets, because if you do, you are White Knighting and getting involved. Even if it’s at second or even third hand, you are involved and that’s not good.

Getting involved in other peoples domestic disasters never ends well.

[bladeParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

How about doing it in front of the kids?

Woman these days put them selves before the kids . Repeat rinse and wash you watch .

I know woman like her nothing but fvcking drama , trouble and bulls~~~ . A couple of years ago she wanted me to f~~~ her and glad i treat mgtow like a jedi art because she was pregnant six months later .I still see her but very rarely . She is a chadoholic always got problems . She her self i can not beleave she is not in jail with 16 assaults with 2 of them being police . 3 kids to 2 men . She only has the baby now but she shouldn’t even have that . She is very attractive and you wouldn’t think butter would melt in her mouth . When ever she has met a descent bloke she fvcks them of .

Tell your friend to turn on nfg and stand clear . Don’t feel sorry for her because thats how woman get attention is threw drama and trouble .

Fvck her she is a piece of s~~~

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Everyone is right. Stay out of it.

Its not worth your time or hassle. We often forget that women make the choices these days. If they want to stay, they do. Its their choice.

Again. Thank you my Brothers. My mind is at ease once again.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Monk wrote:

Yes, there are men who are no good – but that’s not my problem.
As Spleefer says, don’t respond to distress rockets, because if you do, you are White Knighting and getting involved. Even if it’s at second or even third hand, you are involved and that’s not good.
Getting involved in other peoples domestic disasters never ends well.

Never get involved in others domestic disputes/arguments. Never. Do. NOT. Do. It.

You are not law enforcement. You also really have no idea what is totally going on. you have no idea who’s the bad guy here. you might be seeing who is now losing the fight. You may have no clue as to what, when, why, how, etc. The cops usually do not either, but they have authority to use more force than you do, and stop violence and keep the peace. you do not.

White Knights often end up dead. Attacked by both parties. Stay the fuch out of other peoples sh1t drama. This is opposite to not drawing attention to yourself. Don’t be a g-d idiot.

Coming to the aid of a woman who may have instigated the mess that’s now unfolding is outdated. Chivalry is dead. It deserves to ge dead given the state of women today. Second its sexist to assume she needs your help. We are told they are better than men in all things. Why in the movies we have 90 pound women kicking the ass of 250 pound men without breaking a sweat.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

The “friend” is really you, right?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[HermitParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

It has always boggled my mind that there are some women that will DO ANYTHING and put up with ANYTHING to keep “their” man.
He can be the most abusive, lazy, cheating, drunkard POS to ever exist, and she will be faithfully waiting to serve him his dinner and suck his co(k on demand.
Then of course you have your average garden variety lil cupcake that will just suddenly transform into the biggest bitch from hell to punish her husbank after he has given his complete life to keep her “happy”.
Women come wrapped in pretty packages, but you have NO CLUE what’s really inside.

I’m wondering if it could be the same woman in both situations, but reacting differently. If you took the biggest bitch who punishes the husbank who gave his complete life, and put her with the abusive, lazy drunkard, would she serve him and suck him?

Look at how women are. They’ll walk all over the good guy, but are drawn to the bad boys. Remember how illogical all women are.

I’m not advocating violence, but obviously women get so far out of control that you really only have two choices. You either give ’em a smack once in a while, or you stay the hell away from them. I’ve never hit a woman in my life, but at the very least, they could really use a good whipping from time to time. Children need a good spanking sometimes to straighten them out.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Don’t get involved.
You will become part of the problem and a convenient patsy for her.

The reason I say that is because there is always 3 sides to every story. Hers, His, and the truth. Unless their lives are recorded 24/7/365 you will only hear one skewed side of every story (unless there is REAL evidence showing the entire encounter).
Abuse is a word that gets thrown around easily because the definition changes continuously and can encompass the tiniest “infraction”, whilst allowing the first person to claim it the mantle of victimhood regardless of their role in the situation.
Getting the shyte slapped out of oneself is not (or more precisely, is rarely) a random act that happens unprovoked, there is always an action or words that precipitate a physical response.
Do you know exactly what provoked the physical response? (Que the victim blaming B.S) That is an appropriate and legitimate question.
Sometimes the truth hurts, however lies ALWAYS hurt.
There is NEVER a time when a person, regardless of gender, sexuality, status, or circumstance should allow themselves to be the recipient of physical violence without answering it in kind.
If you attack me, I have the duty to defend myself. That is both the correct, if not righteous response to your aggression toward my being.
If I attack you, the duty to defend yourself against my aggression is also both correct and righteous.
If we attack another, that too is a righteous response on their behalf.
There are times to walk away, there are times to stand and deliver, there is NEVER a time to lay down and take it like a dog.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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