Greetings gentlemen,
I am an 19 years old Vietnamese man (I just like to sound old and different from the blind blue pill takers). I have already graduated from high school and are under “internship” in a family business. If you could have guessed my account name, I am a music appreciator; I love rock, heavy metal, blues, jazz, classical, and any music that is melodically harmonious or have deep meaning. Apparently, my favorite word is “moderation.” If someone asked me if I’m left brain or right brain, I would say middle (maybe slightly to the right because I value individual freedom). Moderation in food, material, you name it…
Since Vietnamese is under Asian culture group, it is very common to see people prioritize the group over individual. That is what I dislike and disagree because of opposing ideologies, and is why I am known as an oddball, outcast, weirdo, etc… in my own society. But hey:
“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” – André Gide
Group priority aside, stereotypical Asian parenting is not very far from my family’s parenting. Expect it to be authoritarian, geriatric supremacy, harsh and unjustified punishments (dysfunctional I might add). My life decisions were made without my consent or opinion, which had a very negative result to my social competence. After several attempts coming to terms with them and have always fail, I was devastated and disappointed at my own family. I sought emotional comfort from female because I was desperate for love and understanding. Of course, many rejected me due to my low self-esteem, low self-confidence, and being too desperate and clingy for a boy. It felt as if I was being suddenly left alone in the world against my will, I wept every night when I was 13-14 years old, while reflecting on my pathetic self. However, for every night that I wept is every mental strength is being reinforced. After letting go of my miserable past and re-embracing love, it only served as a truth that there is no love in this very life that I live. I guess you could say that I took the red pill when I was in late 17.
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“I am enlightened.” I thought to myself at that time.</p>
Here is a brief list of my new knowledge on females:
- In adolescence, girls would group themselves and start labeling which boy is considered as jerk and the reasons can varies (from simply attracted to the attractive girl, to cheating drama because that is considered as extreme in Asian culture, similar to teenage pregnancy in US) and they would collaborate to demonize him.
- When boys choose girls to their personal preferences, it is considered as shallow no matter what. Yet, the same does not apply to girls and their personal preferences.
- It is more likely that girl and her friends would team up and personally attack the boy for unfaithfulness. Yet, it is more likely that the boy would “turn the other cheek” when the girl is unfaithful.
- Since boys have higher libido in adolescence, girls take this as advantage to lure them into sex in exchange for personal gain, be it money or male slave.
As adulthood, girls grown up as women. Did an ugly duckling grown into a beautiful swan? Or did a disgusting caterpillar morphed into a graceful butterfly? The answer is no to both. It is a little demon just got herself more powerful and even more grotesque form; there is no word that can describe how hideous that monster is under the flesh of a woman. Here is why:
- They fabricate an ideal woman image to men; their acts were flawless. Once a man put a ring on their finger, witness the horror of that ideal image being shattered and that he had been living years of lies and deceits.
- They would use legal system to make false accusation of rape, harassment, violence, etc… to blackmail men into doing whatever they want.
- Demonization of men does not end here. As long as the law favor women, men’s rightful assets, properties, children (if they had), will be given to women. Without their fathers, children can now listen to a one-sided story of how horrible their fathers (whether if it is true or false) are and how saintly their mothers are.
- For some reasons, extramarital sex is becoming more acceptable in world (not just US, but in Asia gradually). Men at times might have children that were not his children. Even having solid evidence such as DNA testing, it is still possible for wives to force their husbands to take care of someone else’s kids.
Now, let’s think about it. Does anyone still find it’s worth having a woman with you? If so, please make your statements for your own arguments. Allow me to state the obvious: Attacking my personal opinion is a sign of losing, in both debate and self-control.
My answer to that question: Absolutely not. It is because I love someone for who they are (physical appearance and personality) and not their statuses (wealth, social position, etc…). It is just who I am. I simply dislike strong competition for an overpriced material (objectification here is used for better explanation and has no offensive intentions), as well as love in such a savage and unrefined manner.
Do you know what else that I am tired of hearing? It is “you’re still young, it’s still a long way in life”, “you haven’t meet the right woman yet”, “let it naturally happens.” What about my life? Why the hell would anyone in their sane mind would give more than 3 chances to people who would potentially blackmail and manipulate their life? Did women really think that men are nothing without them? I have just the right sentence for these “women”:
Aggressive animals like you could go extinct for all I care.
End of story.
Ninja 4 years, 5 months ago.
