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Greetings gentlemen,
I am an 19 years old Vietnamese man (I just like to sound old and different from the blind blue pill takers). I have already graduated from high school and are under “internship” in a family business. If you could have guessed my account name, I am a music appreciator; I love rock, heavy metal, blues, jazz, classical, and any music that is melodically harmonious or have deep meaning. Apparently, my favorite word is “moderation.” If someone asked me if I’m left brain or right brain, I would say middle (maybe slightly to the right because I value individual freedom). Moderation in food, material, you name it…
Since Vietnamese is under Asian culture group, it is very common to see people prioritize the group over individual. That is what I dislike and disagree because of opposing ideologies, and is why I am known as an oddball, outcast, weirdo, etc… in my own society. But hey:
“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” – André Gide
Group priority aside, stereotypical Asian parenting is not very far from my family’s parenting. Expect it to be authoritarian, geriatric supremacy, harsh and unjustified punishments (dysfunctional I might add). My life decisions were made without my consent or opinion, which had a very negative result to my social competence. After several attempts coming to terms with them and have always fail, I was devastated and disappointed at my own family. I sought emotional comfort from female because I was desperate for love and understanding. Of course, many rejected me due to my low self-esteem, low self-confidence, and being too desperate and clingy for a boy. It felt as if I was being suddenly left alone in the world against my will, I wept every night when I was 13-14 years old, while reflecting on my pathetic self. However, for every night that I wept is every mental strength is being reinforced. After letting go of my miserable past and re-embracing love, it only served as a truth that there is no love in this very life that I live. I guess you could say that I took the red pill when I was in late 17.
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“I am enlightened.” I thought to myself at that time.</p>Here is a brief list of my new knowledge on females:
- In adolescence, girls would group themselves and start labeling which boy is considered as jerk and the reasons can varies (from simply attracted to the attractive girl, to cheating drama because that is considered as extreme in Asian culture, similar to teenage pregnancy in US) and they would collaborate to demonize him.
- When boys choose girls to their personal preferences, it is considered as shallow no matter what. Yet, the same does not apply to girls and their personal preferences.
- It is more likely that girl and her friends would team up and personally attack the boy for unfaithfulness. Yet, it is more likely that the boy would “turn the other cheek” when the girl is unfaithful.
- Since boys have higher libido in adolescence, girls take this as advantage to lure them into sex in exchange for personal gain, be it money or male slave.
As adulthood, girls grown up as women. Did an ugly duckling grown into a beautiful swan? Or did a disgusting caterpillar morphed into a graceful butterfly? The answer is no to both. It is a little demon just got herself more powerful and even more grotesque form; there is no word that can describe how hideous that monster is under the flesh of a woman. Here is why:
- They fabricate an ideal woman image to men; their acts were flawless. Once a man put a ring on their finger, witness the horror of that ideal image being shattered and that he had been living years of lies and deceits.
- They would use legal system to make false accusation of rape, harassment, violence, etc… to blackmail men into doing whatever they want.
- Demonization of men does not end here. As long as the law favor women, men’s rightful assets, properties, children (if they had), will be given to women. Without their fathers, children can now listen to a one-sided story of how horrible their fathers (whether if it is true or false) are and how saintly their mothers are.
- For some reasons, extramarital sex is becoming more acceptable in world (not just US, but in Asia gradually). Men at times might have children that were not his children. Even having solid evidence such as DNA testing, it is still possible for wives to force their husbands to take care of someone else’s kids.
Now, let’s think about it. Does anyone still find it’s worth having a woman with you? If so, please make your statements for your own arguments. Allow me to state the obvious: Attacking my personal opinion is a sign of losing, in both debate and self-control.
My answer to that question: Absolutely not. It is because I love someone for who they are (physical appearance and personality) and not their statuses (wealth, social position, etc…). It is just who I am. I simply dislike strong competition for an overpriced material (objectification here is used for better explanation and has no offensive intentions), as well as love in such a savage and unrefined manner.
Do you know what else that I am tired of hearing? It is “you’re still young, it’s still a long way in life”, “you haven’t meet the right woman yet”, “let it naturally happens.” What about my life? Why the hell would anyone in their sane mind would give more than 3 chances to people who would potentially blackmail and manipulate their life? Did women really think that men are nothing without them? I have just the right sentence for these “women”:
Aggressive animals like you could go extinct for all I care.
End of story.
Welcome,
Great intro, you really seem to have a handle on the situation as it pertains to yourself.Well said introduction.
“you haven’t meet the right woman yet”
I’ve heard that more times than you can possibly imagine. Also as you get into your late twenties watch for your parents putting pressure on you to settle down.
“you haven’t meet the right woman yet”,
When friends or relatives try to pester me, I tell them I haven’t met “Miss Right” yet. If I’m in a nasty mood, I tell them Miss Right broke our engagement and ran off with a biker gang of criminal drug dealers, but she will get out of prison in 5 years with good behavior.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
“you haven’t meet the right woman yet”
Aka “The fact that you have standards is not tolerated.”
By the way, welcome here and enjoy your stay 😀
It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.
“you haven’t meet the right woman yet”
heard it sooo many times …. but really if you didnt found some UNICORN before 30 years olds you can forget about it , cause all your gonna find is miss old , miss divorce , miss single mom , all those ” miss that werent right for 30 men before you beside shagging them” but supposedly would be the right one for ME? If you have standards and you dont want used up sluts and/or gold diggers,once your past your 30s its pretty much over for you; you cqn throw down the towel; you have “failed” those c~~~s “atractive bad boy” test and you are nothing more then a spare Wheel in case they fail to land their pretty boy in their twenties mid thirties. Dont bother with them.
Oh and for the youngsters still in their twenties ; there are no Unicorns ; shag them and leave them be
“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” – André Gide
really like that,
new myself
welcome
Thank you for your warm welcomes.
Throughout my life, I am more of a think before doing person. Again with “moderation,” I took risks only if it is worth it. But when I read the message on MGTOW homepage. I felt a strong sense of belonging flows in me, like how a wandering warrior had found a lord that shares his idea and interest, and he is willing to die under his lord’s name.
In this world where people foolishly and irrationally shaming one another (be it “slut shaming, virgin shaming, stalker shaming, etc…”), I have found a new philosophy that is worth dying for. There are no men or women in this world could control your life, as long as you broke off from their “sweet lie” world and are immune to their stupid and aggressive words.
With just that much thoughts, I joined MGTOW without hesitation. I acted reckless, didn’t I? But I am ready to admit my weakness and accept the fact that I am just a man.
“you haven’t meet the right woman yet”
I have heard this too, as most of us have, it encourages you to hold out and waste time and energy looking or waiting for that magical unicorn. But once it doesn’t work out, they spring the NAWALT argument at you, the cycle begins anew.
With just that much thoughts, I joined MGTOW without hesitation. I acted reckless, didn’t I? But I am ready to admit my weakness and accept the fact that I am just a man.
Recklessness? Nah, I’d consider it instinct.
Anyways welcome and enjoy your time here.
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