Ashley Madison Fallout

[WarPiggParticipant 21]

So, in a nutshell…divorced about 6 months ago, I’m moving on, new house, time for my hobbies, etc., etc. She is living in the basement of her cousin’s house and hating it. She divorced me, I didn’t want the divorce and at times still struggle with feelings for her but getting better all the time. Learning that life can be good single.
Today, as I was reading an article about all the fallout from the AM cheater website, I saw a link to check email addresses…guess what? My ex’s email addressed popped up. I had not suspected she was cheating when we divorced but evidently she was…or at least trying.
So, mixed bag of emotions….hurt that she did but damned glad I’m out of it now and not having to deal with a cheating whore of a wife.
Was with her 27 years…man, you NEVER know people like you think you do.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Double check the email source and make sure it’s reliable and not just somebody’s tool for collecting valid email addresses.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

27 yrs…I can’t even fathom the pain at that magnitude. My stint was about 8yrs marriage x2. Yeah, I had to learn my lesson twice. Still, it gave me almost 16 yrs of basically coming to the same realization, and why we are here on this site.

The mind f~~~ from it is carnal, raw & brutal, putting it mildly.

WarPigg wrote:

man, you NEVER know people like you think you do.

Ain’t it the bloody truth!

[RebaneParticipant 215]

WarPigg wrote:

Was with her 27 years…man, you NEVER know people like you think you do.

I have been on this earth just a little bit more than 27 years. I can’t imagine the hurt. It’s natural you had higher expectations, but women can be masters of manipulation. So I’ll say, good riddance! Too bad she is probably post-wall now and her manipulations will not serve her well anymore. You on the other hand can thrive.

[UntamedParticipant]

After 27 years it’s going to take some time to settle into a healthy routine. I was married 11 years and it took me three. This site is a great source of info and reason.
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[RoyDalParticipant]

Untamed wrote:

After 27 years it’s going to take some time to settle into a healthy routine. I was married 11 years and it took me three. This site is a great source of info and reason.

Good point. It took me about the same time to get over my most serious LTR. In the end, I did get over it — mostly by moving on with my life and doing new and interesting things that gave me satisfaction. While I was busy, my emotional roller coaster settled down by itself.

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[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

WarPigg wrote:

So, in a nutshell…divorced about 6 months ago, I’m moving on, new house, time for my hobbies, etc., etc. She is living in the basement of her cousin’s house and hating it. She divorced me, I didn’t want the divorce and at times still struggle with feelings for her but getting better all the time. Learning that life can be good single.
Today, as I was reading an article about all the fallout from the AM cheater website, I saw a link to check email addresses…guess what? My ex’s email addressed popped up. I had not suspected she was cheating when we divorced but evidently she was…or at least trying.
So, mixed bag of emotions….hurt that she did but damned glad I’m out of it now and not having to deal with a cheating whore of a wife.
Was with her 27 years…man, you NEVER know people like you think you do.

I would like to check this link, is it retrievable on Google (at work so can’t look atm).

[DDJParticipant 1880]

I have a bit of an IT background and the links I saw appeared legitimate, as I checked a couple I knew wouldn’t be listed and ones I thought might. Got a hit but all others were not there. With that said, there were a lot more women then the media is portraying… most media sources are white knighting in an effort to try to paint Ashley Madison as a male only site…but we all know that’s not the case.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[VicParticipant 6]

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

I would like to check this link, is it retrievable on Google (at work so can’t look atm).

https://ashley.cynic.al/
I know the guy who made this site from a tor community – he’s a bro.
it’s reliable and not collecting the info. So feel free to check the emails of those you suspect.

There’s another reliable guy uploading the full thing (including the cards and massages). It’ll be up in a week or so he promised.
There were others but AM and authorities took them down.

"There's nothing more dangerous than a man who wants to make the world a better place" - Banksy.

[Anonymous 9]

When you dig for dirt that’s what you’ll find my friend.

Cheating ass c~~~s playing the role of wife for the children, and when you’ve gone to sleep for work she’s up plotting on who next to f~~~/suck.

For the sake of sanity, stay single.

[WarPiggParticipant 21]

The ashley.cynical.al is the site I used…I was careful NOT to use the phishing sites.
UPDATE: I emailed her and let her know that I knew…she basically said ” I’m sure you would like to believe that but it’s none of your business”.etc, etc.
Yeah baby, you’re right, it’s none of my business now but still kinda f~~~s me in the head. This was a woman that I had two sons with and although I knew from day one she could be a royal bitch, the one thing I was sure of is that she was a more moral person than me….when I was younger, I didn’t “cheat” per se but would look at porn, did the phone sex a couple of times, etc., but mostly because she was a decidely non-sexual person, rarely interested in sex or if so, only under the “right” conditions, i.e. not argueing for the previous week or something. I, on the other hand, was your typical 25-30 year old horn dog.
Seems that around the time she turned 42 or so, her hormones starting peaking while mine were slowing down. Ok fair enough, but she seems now to have a prediliction for married men. I guess I could see if she wanted to divorce me and find another mate but it appears she has turned into an 18 year old male.
F~~~ing shame I never benefited from it…but, I know she’s on a self-destructive course and I want nothing to do with it. Sad that my sons’ mother is a lying, cheating whore. Oh well, whaddya going to do? Answer…Go My Own Way!

[WarPiggParticipant 21]

I WAS WRONG!
The site I used was allaboutashley.cr

The other sites require YOUR email…this one just has you input either a suspected email address, nickname or phone number.

One of the BIGGEST stupid f~~~ing mistakes she made was using an email address with her first initial and OUR last name, neither of which is common. Dumb bitch!

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