Article about men being broke, not marriable

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  • #909731
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    EleventhEarlofMar
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    Titled: Broke men are hurting American women’s marriage prospects

    https://nypost.com/2019/09/06/broke-men-are-hurting-american-womens-marriage-prospects/

    So, somehow women are the victim in this whole mess. I watched from the early 2000s up to this point how men have been rubbished in the media. On TV, in ads or shows, men as husbands were portrayed as disfunctional buffoons while the wife was the one taking charge and making everything right again. In colleges acorss the land, men are considered potential rapists when they set foot on campus, and are told in “gender studies” classes how they are at fault for all the woes of the world. Quota preferences or false accusations of rape/harassment push men out of universities, or out of the workplace. Facts about the woes of the world such as homelessness are twisted to show how women are the victims, while men are ignored. Did you know that 1 out of 4 homeless people is a woman? That’s a creative way to say that 3/4 homeless people are men. Marriage is a raw deal for men, who can lose most everything they have in a divorce, and have little-to-no access to their children. The wife filed for the divorce because she’s “not happy.” They are also told they should “marry down,” but never is a woman expected to.

    Then there is the phrase “toxic masculinity.” Until I hear equalizing phrases such as “healthy masculinity” or “toxic femininity,” it comes across as nothing more than a misandric devaluation.

    How often have we heard in the movies or real life that “I don’t need a man.” “I don’t need you to save me.”

    It is no surprise that many men have pulled back out of society and opted out of family life. They see no point in putting up with the labeling, libeling and smearing of their gender. They got the message. They have pulled out, and gone a direction other than the societal norm.

    I expect nothing less than slanted tripe from the New York Post. The opening line is bad enough: “There’s a devastating shortage of men who have their act together,..” I for one am quite marriable. I have my act together. My finances are decent. My home is kept up and repaired. I don’t do drugs/smoke/drink – those just aren’t my thing. I do volunteer work.

    None of that matters though. I’m in my 50s, and past the demographic age I suspect this article is aimed towards.

    Rant done.

    #909734
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    Hermit
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    When it comes to women wanting to get married, it’s always about the money. ‘the lack of “economically attractive” male’ Oh man, that’s true love there. How disgusting women are.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #909735
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    EleventhEarlofMar
    EleventhEarlofMar
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    I didn’t see the other topic on this. Didn’t intend to make a duplicate post.

    #909736
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    FrostByte
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    Broke men are hurting American women’s marriage prospects

    Tick collars hurt a ticks blood-sucking prospects.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #909742
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Titled: Broke men are hurting American women’s marriage prospects
    https://nypost.com/2019/09/06/broke-men-are-hurting-american-womens-marriage-prospects/
    So, somehow women are the victim in this whole mess. I watched from the early 2000s up to this point how men have been rubbished in the media. On TV, in ads or shows, men as husbands were portrayed as disfunctional buffoons while the wife was the one taking charge and making everything right again. In colleges acorss the land, men are considered potential rapists when they set foot on campus, and are told in “gender studies” classes how they are at fault for all the woes of the world. Quota preferences or false accusations of rape/harassment push men out of universities, or out of the workplace. Facts about the woes of the world such as homelessness are twisted to show how women are the victims, while men are ignored. Did you know that 1 out of 4 homeless people is a woman? That’s a creative way to say that 3/4 homeless people are men. Marriage is a raw deal for men, who can lose most everything they have in a divorce, and have little-to-no access to their children. The wife filed for the divorce because she’s “not happy.” They are also told they should “marry down,” but never is a woman expected to.
    Then there is the phrase “toxic masculinity.” Until I hear equalizing phrases such as “healthy masculinity” or “toxic femininity,” it comes across as nothing more than a misandric devaluation.
    How often have we heard in the movies or real life that “I don’t need a man.” “I don’t need you to save me.”
    It is no surprise that many men have pulled back out of society and opted out of family life. They see no point in putting up with the labeling, libeling and smearing of their gender. They got the message. They have pulled out, and gone a direction other than the societal norm.
    I expect nothing less than slanted tripe from the New York Post. The opening line is bad enough: “There’s a devastating shortage of men who have their act together,..” I for one am quite marriable. I have my act together. My finances are decent. My home is kept up and repaired. I don’t do drugs/smoke/drink – those just aren’t my thing. I do volunteer work.
    None of that matters though. I’m in my 50s, and past the demographic age I suspect this article is aimed towards.
    Rant done.

    If modern women don’t need men to ‘save them’ or ‘take care of them’ what does it matter how much a man they are with, makes?

    The bottom line is a women will finally admit, because I don’t want to take care of a man.

    But men are supposed to take care of women, who admit they don’t want to take care of the man they are with….

    They do their best to avoid saying this truth because it clearly shows what hypocrites they are, on top of showing what ugly people they are.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #909746
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    Bub
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    I didn’t see the other topic on this. Didn’t intend to make a duplicate post.

    No matter, both threads are excellent.

    That message can’t be said enough……

    DO NOT MARRY, DON’T COHABITATE, DON’T KNOCK HER UP..

    #justdon’t.

    Just rolling down the road

    #909750
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    Stealth
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    By and large, women created the problem.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #909753
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    EleventhEarlofMar
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    Jennifer Lawrence commented in her role int he latest X-Men movie that “the women are the ones always saving the men. maybe it should be called X-Women.” That’s not verbatim, but more or less what she said. Funny, I remember Quicksilver (a male) saving a bunch of people in the one of the previous movies.

    That line from Lawrence killed any interest I had in seeing that movie.

    Brie Larson opened her yap at some awards show where she said something like “I’m not interested in what a 40-year-old white guy thinks about A Wrinkle In Time. It wasn’t made for him.” Throughout her anti-male tirade, she had to keep saying she doesn’t “hate white dudes.” She left me unconvinced of that.

    After that, I decided that the movie Captain Marvel was not made for me, and did not waste my money on it.

    #909755
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    Mr. Spock
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    Written by a female. Need I say more?
    Somehow a woman’s marriage prospects are supposed to be a man’s priority?
    Often the bad boy thug is broke and yet that doesn’t matter when pumpkin has the ‘gina tingles.
    Maybe an article needs to be written about how Western women are not worth marrying and are ruining the marriage prospects for successful males.

    Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

    #909768
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    Faust For Science
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    The one item articles like the above likely leave out is that most successful men whom are still single by the age of 35 years old are likely not going to ever get married.

    Those few successful men whom are 35 or older who are looking for a woman to be with are not going look for those women in western society. These men will look in foreign lands for legal, though young women to marry and these men will likely move to a foreign land to keep their spouse from being corrupted by western society. Such men live by the rule, “no hymen, no diamond”.

    As for the rest of us men. Well, for those women reading this. You have painted yourselves into corner. You want your cake and eat it to. Well, while you blame you victims, men, for you own foolishness, the men are walking away from society.

    Men no longer care about women and society, men just want to get away from madness and drama.

    #909772
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    Monk
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    The title says it all. You are nothing but a cash cow for an entitled whore. No man who is paying attention even needs to read the rest of the article.

    None of that matters though. I’m in my 50s, and past the demographic age I suspect this article is aimed towards.

    On the contrary, you are perfect, either for a 20-something gold digger or a burnt out older whore looking for a retirement plan.

    #909776
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    SpiderHerder
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    I didn’t see the other topic on this. Didn’t intend to make a duplicate post.

    Yeah, it’s fine, man. Great rant.

    I think if someone from another planet came here and read your post, he would turn the hell back !

    Really well said.

    #909780
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    IMickey503
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    Brie Larson opened her yap at some awards show where she said something like “I’m not interested in what a 40-year-old white guy thinks about A Wrinkle In Time. It wasn’t made for him.” Throughout her anti-male tirade, she had to keep saying she doesn’t “hate white dudes.” She left me unconvinced of that.

    Consider this. How can you not FEEL that not only your SKIN COLOR but your very existence as a man is not being attacked?
    When women see Racism everywhere? There was a Huston College that simply had 4 people on the cover of a school class schedule.

    No one saw any problem with it but a an entitled white girl. She was angry that he looked like he was struggling. Another woman from the college who was interviewed by the news said that she was really impressed she was running a race in high heels. She thought the whole thing was funny. Cuz no one else see’s the world as these people do.

    They are ENTRENCHED in hate. They can’t see anything else. THese people see signs everywhere. In fact, having fair skin is seen as being evil. Why? Look at the people who espouse this s~~~. THEY KNOW THEMSELVES to be this way. It’s ironic isn’t it?

    The very people pointing this stuff out do so SOLELY Since “To thine own self be true”

    You are not mistaken in the the hate they espouse. Even their very own clarification is a indictment of their inner self.
    And its not aimed at you. But they want to aim it at older men due to the fact they don’t want to p~~~ off younger men since they got the time on their hands to royally hurt their Feelings and destroy their sense of moral credibility and influence to other peoples lives AND MEME them to the B movie Graveyard.

    Like it or not, THERE IS A WAR for white men out here. And it is being brought to you for the sole reason that you are the only one that matters. Why? Like it or not, have you ever noticed that the ENTIRE WORLD COPIES YOU? Everything you DO! Where you go, people follow. And guess what GENDER can’t deal with that fact? It should be no surprise.

    There is in fact a Gender war. But it requires you to play along. You don’t play along, they can not have the control they really long for.

    In fact, what they REALLY don’t want you to do is have any say to the younger generation. It’s all masked as a WHITE person hate issue. But in fact, it is just a RUSE to normalize hate for men across the board. In fact, they are TRYING HARD to make this the STATUS QUO in Asian countries with resounding success.

    This is all a means of control. Why? Like it or not, women do not like the fact that not ALL OF THEM can be like the FEW. And you have to understand that. And since there is a large economic and Government incentive to do so, you are going to see it in ever larger numbers. Simply to break apart men. If they started to talk, the game would be over for so many women and the MEN THAT PRAY ON THIS TO MAKE THEIR OWN LIFE BETTER. SO basically the benefits of the few outway the many.

    Even the bulls~~~ racial divisions that they sell are all the same crap. Have you ever wondered why with all the Hoorah to stop racism, they never seem to push out Stormfront, or any other of the outlets that push racial secularism? But if you start talking about women? Oh dear god, you have to be shut down. Think about that for a second.

    Even the NRA is a HATE GROUP NOW? How can that BE? But at the same time, the police that happen to have the grunts reputation of being the problem for so many people and the corruption never seem to get the same treatment regardless of the amount of footage that we all see? Lets not even start with the corrupt court systems or politics.

    ALL OF THIS. EVERY SINGLE PART OF IT is to make sure as MEN you do not THINK or DO FOR YOURSELF.

    If women were found out? How many jobs do you think would be lost? How many Government Organizations would shrink to maybe a few people? Or how would our Budgets be Distributed differently? I want you to think about our NATIONAL DEBT going away in 1 year. THat’s not a joke.

    Without you supporting women, the state has no power over you since they can’t clutch your heart strings. They can’t manipulate your emotions. Your logic can not be skewed. And you keep paying like the Donkeys ass we all have been.

    SHAME is the TOOL they have been using against men since the dawn of time. And even the institution of marriage was for other people. Not for you.

    And lets not forget that its YOU that put in all this work. YOU do the thankless job of self discipline citizenship so the rest of the TRIFE can suck up and benefit from your hard work. Notice that when was the LAST TIME there was a COMMERCIAL that thanks men for being good husbands? Something that is as benign as can be. Yet is NOT ALLOWED to be promoted or even used as an advertisement. It would wake up TO MANY MEN. Not only that, but there would be LEGIONS of women that would be in trouble at that point since they could no longer abuse their privileges as WOMEN. Something happening today in the workforce in mass.

    THese artiles out there still work for LEGIONS of DUMB MEN out there. In fact, if you look at the hate our OWN PRESIDENT gets, its not about his policies, its the fact it’s EMPOWERING MEN!

    And you can see it on Twitter feeds being the best place for it. They attack you as a WHITE MAN for being successful. And if you do not SPEW the Religion of FEMINISM, you are going to get the AXE! Think about all those WEAK MEN and cucks and the men that PROFIT from all of it. Do you think they want to give up their reliance on this system even though its destroying their own futures? Hell no. People are LAZY!

    And even in a place where you should be able to tell the truth, WE HAVE JAPAN of ALL PLACES unable to cope with the fact of the truth. THAT WOMEN are the ONES THAT CAN FIX THIS PROBLEM SINCE THEY HAVE THE FREEDOM AND POWER TO DO SO.

    But why? DO YOU want to give up your Advantages in life as a woman? Would you want to live as many of us do in the dark? Or risk having your very Livelihood taken away? Worse still, the threat of being put in jail under false allegations? Or having your wealth taken away from you? No. So you have to sit quiet.

    The only power you do have right now is the VOTE. And right now they are trying to take that away from you as well. Even send you to jail if you do not do what they say. Make no mistake, we live in a TIME of TYRANNY! Men for the most part always have. It’s simply a matter of life being a man. You are the GOLDEN ticket to everyone great life.

    If more men knew this, what do you think women would have to do? Or Governments? Let alone the Business that profit from your generosity.

    You know that Unpaid labor that women keep talking about? YOU TAKE EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO FOR GRANTED! ALL OF IT!

    Crowder talks about this with his Labor Day speech.

    Bitchute
    https://www.bitchute.com/video/8DMc3UF9jw0/

    Like it or not, YOU are a WORK HORSE. THEY HATE YOU. And they NEED you to THINK JUST LIKE THEY DO!

    Your observations are WELL WARRANTED!

    So why is MARRIAGE such a PROBLEM FOR WOMEN? WELL? What are they going to OFFER YOU? Do they stand up for you? ARE they there protecting MEN’S RIGHTS? Are the MAJORITY of them ACTING or even BETTER THEN MEN? No.. No they are not.

    And let’s be honest here. These are no longer news outlets. They are TABLOIDS. We stop giving them power when we turn the power off. And that would be our attention.

    To further illustrate the point? If you are a WHITE guy? Expect this kind of treatment.
    https://www.bitchute.com/video/J0h0JACcEpg/

    But forget about Pamela Anderson. Even though she is going to outlive the rest of the Hollyweird Bitches since she does not play the Victim card like others have.

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #909791
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    Awakened
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    For every ONE LESS Marriage, there is one more Man that has a chance to seek out the Red Pill!!

    Who Cares for the reason(s) THEY SAY it’s happening?

    At least it’s happening, and that’s SPECTACULAR!!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #909792
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    Hermit
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    The one item articles like the above likely leave out is that most successful men whom are still single by the age of 35 years old are likely not going to ever get married.

    Men no longer care about women and society, men just want to get away from madness and drama.

    ……and why should they want to get married? A successful single man at 35 has the world at his fingertips. If he wants to get sex, it’ll be no problem as all kinds of women will be throwing themselves at him trying to tie him down.

    Why would anyone want to get married these days? The idea of settling down and raising a family is just a fantasy anymore. Women are no damn good. They are never satisfied. The want one thing today and something different tomorrow. They live by their emotions like little children.

    I was at one of my local hangouts the other evening talking to the bartender and he agrees that marriage is a joke. He actually asked the 19 year old waitress what she thought about marriage and if she thought it was a good idea. Of course what good is the opinion of a 19 year old little girl no matter what she says, but I thought it was an interesting experiment and I was glad he asked her. All she could say is, “I don’t know…..I’m not sure……”.

    I was at the same place talking to the same bartender last night and we were in a similar discussion with a 22 year old waitress. This goofy little b!tch was complaining that her female friends would always get boyfriends and give all their time and attention to them and she never got to see them anymore. I just kinda’ laughed and said no one should get too involved with anyone because it’s all gonna’ go to schit anyway and she was shaking her head in agreement, yet she has a boyfriend as they all do. Then I mentioned something about orgies and she quickly dismissed herself from the conversation, but the bartender laughed.

    As you said, Faust, I no longer care about women, society, or even what’s going on in the world. I just want to stay away from the madness, drama, bullschit and all the insanity and stupidity of the people and just live alone in peace and quiet. As always, I really can’t wait to get home tonight to that peace and quiet. My biggest problem at home right now is that my washing machine has been going to schit and I need a new one. I hate forking out all that money for new appliances, but it’s much less of a problem than having to live with a woman, so no big deal. I’ll just go appliance shopping. Much easier to get rid of a crappy washing machine than it is to get rid of a crappy woman. Much cheaper too.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #909894
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    IMickey503
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    Totally off topic. BUT.. If it’s one of those OLD SKOOL top loaders? FIX IT! It may last you another 20 years.

    There are 2 big problems that are EASY to fix. One his the “Dogs”. That is when the plastic part in the middle no longer agitates.

    Cost $5.oo to fix, and 10 minutes to do from start to finish.

    The other is the Gear Drive. Most of time, these just last the life of the washer. The motors also last a LONG time. This is a BIT harder to do. But not as worth it. Finding these parts and then the other issues popping up can be an issue.

    But the first one is an EASY fix. If that is the issue, then super!

    Stay away from the Front Loads. They are the MOST temperamental machines out there. They are FILLED with Electronics that BURN out. Seals that LEAK. Etc. Top Load Washers are made for the Wide World Markets. Where people are not going to put up with a machine that does not last 20 years. So they happen to be built better due to Foreign 3rd tier markets.

    I was tempted into getting a NEW set till I found out they ALWAYS have some kind of Problem that creeps up over time.

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #909956
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    22503

    Totally off topic. BUT.. If it’s one of those OLD SKOOL top loaders? FIX IT! It may last you another 20 years.
    There are 2 big problems that are EASY to fix. One his the “Dogs”. That is when the plastic part in the middle no longer agitates.
    Cost $5.oo to fix, and 10 minutes to do from start to finish.
    <iframe width=”500″ height=”281″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/kJ_HIlJULhw?feature=oembed” frameborder=”0″ allow=”accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture” allowfullscreen=””></iframe>
    The other is the Gear Drive. Most of time, these just last the life of the washer. The motors also last a LONG time. This is a BIT harder to do. But not as worth it. Finding these parts and then the other issues popping up can be an issue.
    But the first one is an EASY fix. If that is the issue, then super!
    Stay away from the Front Loads. They are the MOST temperamental machines out there. They are FILLED with Electronics that BURN out. Seals that LEAK. Etc. Top Load Washers are made for the Wide World Markets. Where people are not going to put up with a machine that does not last 20 years. So they happen to be built better due to Foreign 3rd tier markets.
    I was tempted into getting a NEW set till I found out they ALWAYS have some kind of Problem that creeps up over time.

    Less electronics is better, top loading is better, heavier actual switches and knobs are better than electronic displays and electronic panel/bubble switches.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #909993
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    Totally off topic. BUT.. If it’s one of those OLD SKOOL top loaders? FIX IT! It may last you another 20 years.There are 2 big problems that are EASY to fix. One his the “Dogs”. That is when the plastic part in the middle no longer agitates.Cost $5.oo to fix, and 10 minutes to do from start to finish.<iframe width=”500″ height=”281″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/kJ_HIlJULhw?feature=oembed” frameborder=”0″ allow=”accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture” allowfullscreen=””></iframe>The other is the Gear Drive. Most of time, these just last the life of the washer. The motors also last a LONG time. This is a BIT harder to do. But not as worth it. Finding these parts and then the other issues popping up can be an issue.But the first one is an EASY fix. If that is the issue, then super!Stay away from the Front Loads. They are the MOST temperamental machines out there. They are FILLED with Electronics that BURN out. Seals that LEAK. Etc. Top Load Washers are made for the Wide World Markets. Where people are not going to put up with a machine that does not last 20 years. So they happen to be built better due to Foreign 3rd tier markets.I was tempted into getting a NEW set till I found out they ALWAYS have some kind of Problem that creeps up over time.

    Less electronics is better, top loading is better, heavier actual switches and knobs are better than electronic displays and electronic panel/bubble switches.

    Absolutely agree with this. After only 7 years, my washing machine is crapping out on me. Something to do with the electronics. I’ve been shopping for just a simple washer without any of the extras, but that’s a challenge. I don’t think they make simple washing machines anymore without all the water saver bullschit and other extras.

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #909998
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    Grumpy
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    Despite being in the wrong age demographic.
    I dont see how a man being seen as broke and not marriageable (at any age) is a detriment to MEN.
    How it affects women is of no concern to me.
    I dont put my wealth/worth/assets/etc on public display because I earned it and I dont want it taken by someone else who had no part in accumulating it.
    How it affects women is of no concern to me.
    More women than men are financially unattractive regarding relationships/marriage in all honestly. Yet still, women almost always come out ahead financially/asset wise after the break up (at least for the short term) than men.

    In my age demographic.
    The topic is actually that almost all women in my age bracket are not marriageable/date-able/or even sexually attractive period.
    Not just due to finances/debt.
    For me its the unbreakable aura of misery and doom they all seem to project.
    Lighten up ladies, it’s just life and it will be over soon enough. Try to make the best of it and do no harm to others as you pass through it.

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

    #910068
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    Sky-O
    Sky-O
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    18934

    Men being broke = not marriage material

    Those broke guys should consider themselves lucky.

    In an ideal Pumpkin universe, all guys would have money.

    Then basically be broke after their divorces.

    Since the purpose of marriage for women is asset acquisition then any man that is deemed broke is spared the process of getting married then eventually divorced and winding up broke.

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