Arriving at MGTOW on my life path

[PhoenixParticipant 7]

I’ve ready many of your stories on here and feel lucky with my own experiences. Some of you have been really f~~~ing burned.

In my own life I was always careful with women. I took great care with condoms especially. I never believed any woman who said she was on the pill. It just wasn’t worth the risk. Seeing male friends of mine getting trapped into 18 years of child support was especially painful (but naturally much more painful for them).

Another thing that’s really put me on this path now, is the way that one male friend of mine was decimated in his divorce. He had to declare bankruptcy and he’s been struggling with this legal s~~~-pit for a few years now. He has a kid with her and she’s often either messing with his visitation rights or trying to take him back to court for more money. Seeing what a multi-year s~~~storm a divorce can be, especially when there’s a kid involved, has been a real f~~~ing education for me.

I’ve never gotten married myself (and never will) and I have no children. I can see why some guys might like to have a kid, but it’s hard to find someone worth having one with in the times we live in.

At this stage of my path, I’m considering getting a vasectomy. I’m researching it at the moment. However I do feel a certain instinct to raise a kid, so I’ll think about adopting in the future. My own father was adopted and I can see how it can be a great thing. He didn’t also adopt though. I am his natural child.

I’ve gone through “on and off” phases with women. Sometimes I’ve dated and had girlfriends, and other times I just couldn’t be bothered with them. But I can’t see myself being the kind of MGHOW who swears off women completely. I enjoy sex too much. If I go ahead with the vasectomy though, I’ll have less to worry about.

I’ve appreciated hearing your stories. I can identify with many of them. I wish you well.

[…Spectator 1165]

The Phoenix: hey man, nice to see you. I read your intro, and you seem to be a very smart guy. took care w condoms….smart, observant enough to understand friend getting f~~~ed over…smart…… came to own conclusions watching friend get divorced…..smart…..considering a vacetomy….dood you are f~~~ing MGTOW! right on man.

there are some vasectomy stories on here and several of them i read included stories about women stealing sperm down the line. my take: go ahead and get clipped. then no more condoms when you want to f~~~. but before doing that, get your sperm into a sperm bank for the future for two reasons 01 if you ever wanna have a kid, you just go to the bank and 02 sperm is going to become so scarce that it will be a highly valued commodity as MGTOW catches on.

[Anonymous 42]

@The-Pheonix, nice handle, just shake off the ashes and fly in your new Phoenix avatar.

[PhoenixParticipant 7]

Thanks for reading and your responses.

I hadn’t thought about freezing sperm, I’ll look into what the costs are.

Take care.

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