Are you lost?

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Since unplugging, are you lost?

Since really diving into MGTOW, I am, especially after my last relationsh1t. I’m also struggling with deprogramming myself and learning to live “for me” and only me. I’ve always lived to provide for my ex-wife. I’m trying hard not to chase women and define success by having or sleeping with them but its difficult.

I lack purpose and honestly, motivation (esp at work), and self definition. This is something I’m just beginning to really dive into.

I stumbled onto this MGTOW Youtube-vid-maker:

It helped. He’s quickly becoming one of my faves. He’s got some great stuff, worth checking out. Another fave is anything by Human. His production quality is excellent.

I’d love to hear from others about your journey to finding your purpose and self definition, and new goals.

[Anonymous 1]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

Since unplugging, are you lost?

No. I’m found.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.

From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

Since really diving into MGTOW, I am, especially after my last relationsh1t. I’m also struggling with deprogramming myself and learning to live “for me” and only me. I’ve always lived to provide for my ex-wife. I’m trying hard not to chase women and define success by having or sleeping with them but its difficult.

I lack purpose and honestly, motivation (esp at work), and self definition. This is something I’m just beginning to really dive into.

I stumbled onto this MGTOW Youtube-vid-maker:

This is normal, don’t react to it in self destructive way.
I left an abusive wife and even though it was what I wanted, I felt very lost. I had to leave the TV on day and night to drown out the silence. I had all the symptoms you described. I refused to see woman out of fear I would lose half my wealth again.

I found this site. Reading and posting helped me a lot. Over time the TV was turned off, the silence became my best friend and I started wanting to do things.

The more I fixated on myself, and my own well being, I became very confidant and self-assured. People liked the new me and this opened up many doors. I took pride in my appearance and started fixing up my home (to be man home), and even started seeing woman on my terms. I take daily redpills to keep me focused on my needs. I can’t feel sorry for my losses because I might not have made it here without them. Give it time you will heal.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

No. I’m found.

Was blind but now I see!

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

Sometimes the journey beats the destination. Don’t push it,just enjoy the ride. Self doubt is a universal human handicap. I too struggle with the silence during periods of my day, but there are many worse things than being alone, I guess it takes time to realise this.

[Anonymous 13]

I was a little lost at first.

The silence, needing the TV on for background noise etc.

Then after a while followed peace and tranquility.

ORDER, and no drama or chaos.

I could no longer stand the idea of a woman in my space.

They are a vexation to my Spirit.

I can read in silence and feel profound joy ALONE.

In marriage I was deeply lonely.

Not just lonely but also in abject misery.

I’ll take lost any time over that.

Since MGTOW and realising it’s not just me but the whole goddam world too, I’ve found profound peace and joy.

Lose the programming guys.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

I used to be lost and confused for a good portion of my life until I discovered MGTOW and now I live life for myself, happiness and success. I don’t look at life as something wasted on just living and then dying. For me life now is all about evolving, to constantly learn and grow and move on the road before me. Everything is clear as day now.

That’s the core of MGTOW — that you’ve burned or demolished the bridge behind you so you no longer have to look back anymore. You’re a new man, starting over, but this time nothing will get in your way to achieve your goals. The only path for us mgtowers now is forward.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

I completely empathise with your situation brother, I’m there as well but crawling out. This is the place to rebuild yourself in a positive way, without the bridle.

[Anonymous 13]

Also,

Alone but NOT lonely.

There is a world of difference.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Joey Alfio wrote:

That’s the core of MGTOW — that you’ve burned or demolished the bridge behind you so you no longer have to look back anymore. You’re a new man, starting over, but this time nothing will get in your way to achieve your goals. The only path for us mgtowers now is forward.

Life with a woman is an endless piggyback ride with her riding on your back. Shaking her off you can run again.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[X11Spectator 4520]

Lost is more fun, you wander arou d and everything is more exciting.

Also learn to lift big weights against gravity.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

I was lost at one point. Then I found this website. Taking the side road off the main ‘drag’ was one of the best things that ever happened to me.

[goodkid43Spectator 550]

AMAZING GRACE
written by John Newton, a former slave trader.

Amazing grace! How sweet the sound
That saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost, but now am found;
Was blind, but now I see.

’Twas grace that taught my heart to fear,
And grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear
The hour I first believed.

Through many dangers, toils and snares,
I have already come;
’Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far,
And grace will lead me home.

The Lord has promised good to me,
His Word my hope secures;
He will my Shield and Portion be,
As long as life endures.

Yea, when this flesh and heart shall fail,
And mortal life shall cease,
I shall possess, within the veil,
A life of joy and peace.

The earth shall soon dissolve like snow,
The sun forbear to shine;
But God, who called me here below,
Will be forever mine.

When we’ve been there ten thousand years,
Bright shining as the sun,
We’ve no less days to sing God’s praise
Than when we’d first begun.

The word “monk” implies a scientific realization of the truth of religion; of God and life after death. Think on these things.

God bless, Michael

[Anonymous 3]

thanks for video. was lost for 40 yrs. woke up & paid a real price for the rage, shame & guilt I was carrying. my process took me to meditation retreats ( 1995 ) For awhile I called myself “the last free man ” Found MGTOW in May of this year. And now developed a new freedom & a new happiness.You can do it.

[DiogenesParticipant 373]

Solitude is a great asset if you get lost from yourself.

Women in general can’t stand to be alone. I think that without a steady stream of being noticed by others and interacting with others they begin to doubt who they are and whether they actually exist.

For a man, though, nothing is more natural than being alone with his thoughts. It is how he stays connected with who he is and to the reality of his unique, individual existence. I can’t think of a single great man of the past who did not prize regular periods of solitude.

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