Are you “gay”?

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

From the get go let me set one thing straight, I f~~~ing hate that word! You know, the g word, its just so f~~~ing GAY!

Anyway….

I guess it will be a common response that xx will have if you tell them you are mgtow. Typical of the fragile xx ego, if a guy is not interested in me he must be g**.

Has anyone ever had this thrown at them and if so how did you react?

Also what is the mgtow line on homos?

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

I mostly don’t give a s~~~ about other men’s sexual orientation. I don’t really think gays would fit into the MGTOW theme very well though. I don’t believe that being gay is a choice, so you can’t really “go gay” as your own way if you weren’t that way to begin with. If you never wanted women, and aren’t attracted to them, where’s the red pill? Gay divorce is a pretty new concept, but I guess they could have issues too, but with both partners the same gender it’s not the same at all.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[AttonParticipant]

If someone is a homosexual or not is irrelevant, it does not change the fact that they are men. No amount of rhetoric, surgery or public opinion will ever change that. If they are not married then I take no issue with homosexual men being mgtow.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

I don’t have an issue with it either. I just meant that I didn’t think MGTOW would attract too many gay men due to differing life experiences. I didn’t mean they shouldn’t be allowed here, and it’s certainly not my place to make such a decision.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[RoyDalParticipant]

Paul Hogan solved the gay versus straight issue for me in his immortal cult classic film Strange Bedfellows.

Adam Sandler did a thinly disguised remake, I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry .

Either one serves adequately to illustrate the way I shall address this non-problem, if, and only if, the problem should arrive.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh…
People can f~~~ elephants in their living rooms for all I care. Just don’t ask/demand that I accept it as normal, and expect me to pay the clean up costs.
As for the gay part, what ever floats your boat sweetpea, it honestly doesn’t affect me.
Most gay men, unlike all women, understand that the words NO and “I am not interested” are not personal attacks, just declining the offer.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

There’s at least two ways to counter shaming.

1. Troll them and be completely comfortable with the notion. Eg. “Yes I am gay, do you have a problem with gay people?”

2. Answer the question in a way that leaves them in self-doubt. Eg. ‘Maybe I am gay’ *with a smile on your face*

They are expecting a reaction so flip it back on them and make it look like it’s their insecurity that is the problem.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

From what I’ve seen around the web, “gay” is very commonly thrown out as an insult by women in response to MGTOWs. It is hypocritical too, since so many women profess to being sympathetic to the gay crowd, and very quick to accuse people of being homophobic. It is pretty obvious that they don’t really mean to say being gay is bad, but are just stupidly using it as a handy shaming word. If you turned it around and accused them of hating gays I’m sure there would be a lot of senseless babbling going on.
“No, I’m not gay, but I am shocked that you could be so intolerant in this day and age. No wonder so many men are giving up on women!”

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

That’s a good one Survivor! Haha the old agree and amplify trick to make them look absurd. I think that’s actually the easiest way to approach that.

If someone ever asks me that I’m going to reply with what you said, while pretending to jerk an invisible dick in my face.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 42]

Gay? yea I’m gay, as happy as a calm 3 clicks down from a sewerage treatment plant. Homosexual? No way, I couldn’t involve myself with a hairy starfish hole, and not run off puking! Are there any GAY women? I could do that! I consider myself a lesbian level 5! I’m all over that!

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

Yeah, I went through this when I was younger. I was 26 years old, never married, no kids and didn’t have a girlfriend so the guys I worked with started asking me if I was gay.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

As long as they are not interested in me I have no problem with gay men.

I get accused overtly or covertly of being gay because I have never been married and I’m over 40.

I just say women don’t want to get married anymore.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

You will be called many things to be shamed into doing what others want. As long as you realize you only have to answer to God and yourself, you’ll be good. If you don’t believe in God, then just answer to yourself.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[RennieParticipant]

Yeah had to listen to that a whole lot in high school and you knew it was probably some t~~~ who was putting other people up to it.

I even had gay guys from the school trying to add me on facebook, even though I never talked to them before in my life.

Theronius wrote:

It is hypocritical too, since so many women profess to being sympathetic to the gay crowd, and very quick to accuse people of being homophobic.

Alot of them are not as tolerant of alternate lifestyles as they pretend to be.

[Anonymous 42]

Rennie wrote:

I even had gay guys from the school trying to add me on facebook, even though I never talked to them before in my life.

Hey Rennie, that’s from being good looking! We called it “Queer bait” back in the day! Wear it as a badge of honor! Even gays know what GOOD MAN looks like! I even had gays proposition me! MORE THAN ONCE!
I never went looking for any kind of sex,,,, sex found me! 11yo!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Spacemonkey wrote:

Also what is the mgtow line on homos?

-Some men like titties
-Some men like booties
-Some men like feet
-Some men like dicks

IDGAF which one you like. If you’re a good person I don’t care.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Spacemonkey wrote:

Also what is the mgtow line on homos?

-Some men like titties
-Some men like booties
-Some men like feet
-Some men like dicks
Very simply and very well put. Not bad poetry either.

IDGAF which one you like. If you’re a good person I don’t care.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Spacemonkey wrote:

Also what is the mgtow line on homos?

-Some men like titties
-Some men like booties
-Some men like feet
-Some men like dicks

IDGAF which one you like. If you’re a good person I don’t care.

Very well put. And very poetic too.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

RedDawn wrote:

There’s at least two ways to counter shaming.

1. Troll them and be completely comfortable with the notion. Eg. “Yes I am gay, do you have a problem with gay people?”

2. Answer the question in a way that leaves them in self-doubt. Eg. ‘Maybe I am gay’ *with a smile on your face*

They are expecting a reaction so flip it back on them and make it look like it’s their insecurity that is the problem.

I’ve only been asked if I was gay as an attempt to shame me once. I just gave a big smile to the guy and he backed off very quickly. Being 6’2 and he being a short guy probably made the creepy smile extras intimidating.

As for gay men being Mgtow, I don’t see why not. If they recognize marriage for the fantasy bulls~~~ it is and put their effort into other things besides trying to find a unicorn, they got it figured out.

[paulorenauxParticipant 1]

In some MGTOW groups on facebook I am, there’s a really big gay-hate…
It’s obvious that the gay movement sucks because they behave like pop-music divas the whole time, and that’s annoying. In the other hand, a guy that’s not into women understands me completely.

As my great-grandma said when she thought I was gay:
“Sweetheart, no one cares what you shove and where”
wise words from the old lady

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