Are you fine with never having kids?

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  • #653218
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    Blue Skies
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    just curious, Are you fine with never having kids?

    personally, I think having kids is overrated. Kids mostly benefit women.
    Even when I’m at retirement age, I won’t need kids to take care of me. I’ll have professionals.

    MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

    #653223
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Yup.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #653224
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    Manspread Mansplainer
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    Ya f~~~ ’em.

    Had my dad go all sanctimonius on me: “You need an heir to pass on your stuff too.”

    I joked I will leave everything to my youngest brother, I don’t know, long as the government/bank doesn’t inherit s~~~ I’ll be happy.

    Let the elites play their little race breeding game.
    My money is on robots wiping out the meatbags anyway.

    If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

    #653226
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    Wyr
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    Yeah. There’s a lot I’m never going to do in this life. I’m ok with that.

    Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

    #653229
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    Anonymous
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    #653234
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    I_see_broken_clocks
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    I wouldn’t want to deal with the red tape of even a surrogate, but there is one exception I would do if the technology gets there.

    http://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2017/04/25/525044286/scientists-create-artificial-womb-that-could-help-prematurely-born-babies

    I can only imagine what women would do if men started using this to make their own children. Of course you would still need to buy eggs, which sucks. But at least it would eliminate the birthing process, and in turn, no control over kids but your own. I understand this is probably just a pipe dream. But s~~~, one can hope.

    #653235
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    Faust For Science
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    You act as if having kids in an option for men in this day and age. Paying for kids is not the same as raising kids.

    #653238
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    Nagolbud
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    If I meet a unicorn and settle down on an island in panama I’d have kids…

    0100111*beep*0101010101101101~[A Glitch in the Matrix]~110010[transmissionterminated]000101101

    #653242
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    Black_knight
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    I’m more than fine, I’m actually ecstatic at not being (and hopefully never being) a parent. The older I get, the more red pill I become, the more resolute I am in my conviction NEVER to procreate – a conviction I remember starting at age 10.

    I wouldn’t want to burden another human by forcing them to live life in this horrific mess of a world shaped by humans, but not for humans.

    #653244
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    Ja[H]x
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    Yep. My choice may have been easier than some others, as both sides of my family are ravaged by cancer, heart disease, and a host of other genetic quirks. No man on either side of the family tree has lived past sixty-five for more than four generations, so the choice to not pass on that curse wasn’t hard, even before I took the red pill.

    Now I look back and realize that the vasectomy might just have been the single best decision of my life.

    ~Insert witty comment here~

    #653246
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    Anonymous
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    A man wants kids because he wants to envision raising them with love and virtues; teach them life skills, mould their impressionable minds to they can be confident, caring, and respectable adults.

    In return he expects unconditional and undying love reciprocated by his own creation. They will grow to resemble him in demeanour and even in physical aspects.

    A woman in this picture will always make it harder for him to do his job. State has provided a grown child (i.e. woman) ALL parental rights to appease her fragile ego.

    The kids you bring in this world end up going through pain and suffering. Because a man’s desire to be loved and to create his image is no longer worthy of respect by societal standards.

    As a man there is so much room to grow, to learn, to experience that I believe we are fully capable of loving ourselves.

    Much like the immense pleasure of completing an arduous task, the struggles and falls of conquering male sexual drive, and learning to be indifferent to ‘loneliness’, validation by society/women, and to foster confidence to slowly diminish moments of self-doubts – once we conquer ourselves – we have no option but to feel self-pride and love for ourselves.

    Kids can be a blessing. But their happiness and right to have mentoring by two grown adults (a man and a woman) has ceased to exist.

    So why bring something in this world that will never truly realize his/her potential at best, and at worst will be used as tools to manipulate the man once the woman drops her facade.

    Go your way, cultivate the child within. A man who can keep his inner child alive is a man to learn from.

    #653247
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    MonkeyMind
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    100%

    F~~~ that s~~~.

    #653251
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    Blue Skies
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    You act as if having kids in an option for men in this day and age. Paying for kids is not the same as raising kids.

    very true. Good point.

    MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

    #653252
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    Anonymous
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    Yes, enough people populating this rock already!

    #653264
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    Carnage
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    First I’m gonna enumerate the reason and for who, me having a kid is bad.

    1) the kid. Why?
    He is gonna grow up in a f~~~ed up world with s~~~ty society full of corruption and sickness.
    If a male he will end up Crazy, a total simp, in worst case a sub human chad, best case a MGTOW. But he will never know what love is, honor or any good thing on this s~~~.
    If a girl, Miley cirus will convince her to be a slut, media + nature… disaster. Best case scenario she get a simp and cheat with chad, or she get pregnant with chad and then gets a simp, worst case chad + chad. Or maybe a crazy cat lady.

    2) the planet:
    Tío much people here, this is insane.
    And I’m also crazy, I’m a controlled funcional psychopath, but I wanna see the world burn. My kid? He might start the fire, I don’t have the b~~~~.

    3) me:

    A kid is too expensive, to raise a kid only benefit a woman, not me.

    Kids this days do not respect the elders, at best case scenario they let you choose a nice nursing home and come visit once a month. Worst case they try to kill you for the inheritance.

    Kids? F~~~ kids.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #653305
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    DarkRyu
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    F~~~ YES! I always knew I’d never have kids, even as a kid myself. I always asked myself how someone could actually WANT to deal with some screaming, crying little brat that eats your food and forces you to spend mad $$$.

    Then I grew up and learned that 99% of babies are “oops” babies that the selfish ass c~~~ wants to have because SHE won’t be the one paying for them. Then it all made sense.

    #653362
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    Atton
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    I don’t have an objection to children just the way you get them.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #653319
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    Chase Pesos
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    I have 6 nephews and 2 nieces.

    My brothers are bound to slip up soon, all good here.

    Chase a check, never chase a chick...

    #653330
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    Anonymous
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    I am paying for kids I may never see again.

    The kids and I have great memories of doing things together. I can find a couple youtube videos of my children in marching band. I have their blankets. We each have a certain toy car, I have a couple and each child has one. It is our challenge coin of sorts. I carry one in my car, in my house and in the backpack, sometimes in my pocket. I am hoping they my kids hold on to their toy car as a last tiny string tying them to me. Sometimes a symbol will endure.

    This is it.

    we used to call our minivan “the bus” and my kids know the Type 2 Transporter is my favorite car.

    I gave my daughter one similar to one I had when I was a kid

    Since 2009, I feel like my kids were held hostage, and it was always cruel to have them for the weekend, and then have to give them back, usually to Chad in his f~~~ing work truck. If I kept my kids, many men with guns would hunt us down. They would probably have to kill me, if I was so desperate to run with the kids, I’d be locked away from them forever.

    I can not tell you how hard it was to leave then with the c~~~ and leave them behind to go into exile in far western Kansas. The seething rage being driven from my home and then from my children can never be extinguished. I know if I moved back to where my children are, there will be a resumption of hostilities, and I will be destroyed, this time being close, but unable to contact.

    Not a day goes by that I don’t think about them, wonder what they are doing, if they think about me. Kids do not have my address, phone number or email to contact me. All new since the no contact order went into effect. Maybe the kids could find my address through the state confiscation enforcement unit.

    Somedays I look at the clock, and calculate an eta if I got in the car right now and drove over there, and then what? Even if I stick a note on my daughter’s car with an email address on it, I am in contempt of court, and might be picked up, if my daughter tells her c~~~ mother. My daughter has a blog, and an invitation to email her on the site…critique her photographs or share. I thought about a dummy email address and send her some pics with me in the background and see if she figures it out, but again, breaking the no contact order. F~~~.

    The red pill I have to take everyday has to suppress this urge to visit my children. This urge to protect/see/be part of my children is so bloody strong. It’s just 8 hours in the car. Im writing this at 2am , I could meet her for lunch FFS.

    My c~~~ was from a divorced household. She used to tell me that in her shared custody world, her dad had rules and chores and a code of conduct, and at mom/Chad’s house, there were no rules, it was a free for all, and the mom lived to serve chad, and to hell with the kids. She felt pulled apart, living in two different worlds.

    I had to decide to let my kids go, to let them live in one set of reality. I had to give up time with the kids so I could go to school to get a career going. I loved my children so much I had to give them away to give them food, shelter and I could only hope love from their mother. I fought to keep them in my life for as long as I could, and then I had to let go. The c~~~ did a number on these kids. Cards I sent were returned in an envelope, run through a shredder. So I stopped sending cards. I tried, brothers. I tried. and I failed. I cant defeat the c~~~, and I cant defeat the court, and I have to fight my nature every damn day. I have to deny the deep rooted urge to be a father to my kids. I used to listen to talk radio, and every 30 minutes there would be an ad…be a father to your kids today…crushed me everytime I heard it.

    People ask me if I have children, I tell them I have 2 daughters but they are lost. Someday they will find me. People give me this piteous look. What do you say to that…Im sorry? me too. I am sorry. I am sorry I don’t kick the door in and take my kids back. I’m sorry the justice system wrecked me.

    I’m sorry I couldn’t fight any more. my bitter red pill assuages me to the fact that I did my best against a corrupt system. There was no way I could win any concessions, just constant loss of time and money. I expected fairness, and I got a boot up my ass. I have a cruel tormenting thought every day. Either the c~~~ and the cops are kicking in my door to kill me or my children will find me. I have read a lot of divorce survival books, and not one of them deals with this kind of agony.

    I have to embrace the suck, and move on. I hope I live long enough for my kids to find me.

    #653425
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    Anonymous
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    Are you fine with never having kids?

    You mean having HER kids?

    Paying HER child support while SHE and Chad ruin them and make them crazy?

    Having HER dial 911 manstraction and off you go to jail and worse?

    A man is no longer the proprietor of children or the family! That’s feminazi State territory, a place men simply are not allowed.

    F~~~ kids and the women that own them in partnership with the STATE!

    F~~~ it all together and GYOW!

    How f~~~ing stupid can a man be to sign up for ^^^that???

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