Are there any feminists in your family?

[CodeBleuParticipant 161]

Anthony wrote:

but they don’t like the word c~~~

For the record they don’t like the word “c~~~” because it hits too close to home.

[Anonymous 5]

Anonymous wrote:

Sister. . . . a radical feminist.
Told her to stay the f~~~ out of my business and life 17 years ago.
No regrets, just another stupid person I didn’t have to deal with.

I know the words – that’s .. how they say? Truth of being- to live without regretting? My thoughts to your post. In temperament I lie daily to keep segment’s of my family relations intact. But just as your sister – telling the truth, and being “you” can create a division. But a indifference that dose not affect you but others deeply. Freedom always has a cost. You made the right decision – insanity is hard to fight against.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Oh yeah. Whether she knows it or not, EVERY woman born in the last 60 years thinks like (and looks at the world / men) like a feminist ……. even through no fault of her own. They are not even interested in competing with that kind of cultural bombardment because they are so happy to embrace — and parrot — the very latest feminist mantra without even thinking.

They are on complete auto-pilot and don’t even question their own toxic mentalities.

Are there any feminists in your family?

You better believe it. Do they all consciously KNOW it? No. And that’s the scary part.

I am FAR more cautious of the woman who doesn’t know how truly feministed she is. If there were an overtly “radical feminist” in my family, I wouldn’t worry about her because she’s OBVIOUS. I wouldn’t see her as a problem.

I had TWO really good “female friends” (whom I never slept with) since my early 20s. One of them I have known since the 9th grade. They used all the NAWALT / classic / feminist / shaming / mantra / bulls~~~ all along – and they had NO idea.

THEY were a problem.

I don’t speak to either of them anymore for that reason. Very toxic in my life. They don’t even understand why I don’t wish to carry on a friendship with them anymore. To explain it to them, would be opening a can I just don’t want to open. Would rather let them be. It would be a like trying to awaken a sleepwalker. Bad idea.

One is unmarried and childless. The other is married with 2 daughters to a blue pill mangina who makes me physically ill. Had brunch with them in 2008 and that was the last time.

Now it’s just “happy birthday! Thanks for remembering” and that’s it.

Same goes for other long time female co-workers I wouldn’t call “friends” anymore either. the last time they were in town and contacted for a get-together, I lied and told them I was out of town myself on business.

I do not permit one feministed foot in my personal life anymore. Family included. If I am in the same room with one, it’s “Hi! Hows it going. It’s been a long time. Looks like rain. Care for a waffle?.” Limit the interaction to the absolute minimum and keep it light and fluffy.

My 19 year old niece (cousin’s kid) is so feministed, it’s ridiculous. She’s 19 and already yammers on like she wants to be the president of NOW. She tried to project her toxic bulls~~~ on me at a family gathering 2 years ago. I finished her off. She will never f~~~ with uncle Keymaster again. That’s for sure.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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