Are therapists any good?

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

I have a negative view on therapists, as they did jack s~~~ for me and my ex-wife. I also read online that they talk s~~~ about you behind you backs and share confidential info about you to others.

Ideas?

[Anonymous 6]

Only when you get a happy ending at the end. Make sure you tip them.

Oh you weren’t talking about that kind of therapist? Ohhh my bad….

What was i talking about again……

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

ForeverDone wrote:

I have a negative view on therapists, as they did jack s~~~ for me and my ex-wife. I also read online that they talk s~~~ about you behind you backs and share confidential info about you to others.

Ideas?

You got 25000 rigth here 😀
Vent your s~~~ out, get advice, get info, compare notes, get to your own conclusion, and is f~~~ing free.

Thank you KM.
Thanks MGTOW

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

ForeverDone wrote:

I have a negative view on therapists

So do I. I think they’re all full of s~~~. A fabricated profession.

ESPECIALLY marriage and “relationship” therapists. As useless as teets on a bull. And it’s only about feminizing/emasculating the man to appease her – which is against her innate desire anyway.

I don’t believe in therapy and I know that’s unpopular to many, but I am of the opinion if you can’t make a relationship work between you and she… it’s already over. If you have to work to make it work, you’re with the wrong person. Simple as that.

To me it’s SO stupid to see a man and a woman ( who just don’t like each other very much ) being told “so this is what I want you two to work on for next time. Jack, I want you tell Jill you love her 3 times this week. And Jill, say thank you a little more often. That’ll be $200. Next week same time, then?”.

F~~~ off.

Successful advice would be to recommend: “I don’t love you anymore. Goodbye.” and then one person leaves. The End.

You know the expression “it’s complicated?”. It really isn’t.

There is this idea floating around that everyone should “talk” more. No . Everyone should STFU more. If women learned how to STFU, 50% of their relationship issues would disappear overnight and they would be happier. You think any couple’s counsellor is willing to say that? “SHUT THE F~~~ UP AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL IMPROVE.”

If I were a couple’s counsellor, I would be broke, because the appointments would be 30 seconds long and they would be cured in one session. I’m not even saying that to be funny.

•••

Number one piece of relationship advice I would give people… put your goddam phone away.
I’m like that with my friends too. TURN IT OFF. I insist.

Carnage wrote:

Thanks MGTOW

Good people here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Let me break it down for you, the actual term is “Psychotherapist”

and it is pronounced Psycho-the-rapist.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Anonymous 25]

the concept of therapy is misguided.

for example, if someone wasn’t a great chef and wanted to be, they wouldn’t go to therapy for that. you’d go find someone who is a great chef and learn how they do it

if someone wasn’t great at relations~~~s and wanted to be they’d find out someone who was good at it and learn how they do it (John Gottman)

same with learning chess or anything else. you model excellence

(this is one reason I think feminism is stupid and does a disservice to women. women aren’t modelling excellence when they act on the advice of feminists, they are modelling angry crazy women that are miserable and unhappy. And that’s exactly what the women who are listening to them become).

therapy focuses on problems rather than solutions too. They will focus on the problem of someone being ‘depressed’ rather than focusing on the solution of being happy and finding out how people who are really happy do it (that’s Martin Seligman’s work)

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

I went to one before my divorce, He said ” divorce her”.

If you want more crazy, see a therapist.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Number one piece of relationship advice I would give people… put your goddam phone away.
I’m like that with my friends too. TURN IT OFF. I insist.

Thank you for that little gem. Take it a bit further. Leave it at home. Learn to have conversations again. So much good advice here.

I am like that with friends too.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

A phoney non-job. A bogus science.

No real questions and no real answers, it’s all ‘relative’.

No exams (only coursework), leading to worthless qualifications from diploma-mill colleges.

Is it any wonder that it attracts hordes of women?

Women always cluster in bulls~~~ occupations like ‘Therapist’, ‘Counsellor’, ‘Nutritionist’, ‘Dietician’.

[JVBParticipant]

So do I. I think they’re all full of s~~~. A fabricated profession.

100% KM. They take advantage of the fact that the average person doesn’t know that they personally have the strength to overcome anything. These physicopathegests(whatever the f~~~ they are called) do not need to be.

Peace is > piece.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

Only when you get a happy ending at the end. Make sure you tip them.

Oh you weren’t talking about that kind of therapist? Ohhh my bad….

What was i talking about again……

LOL. I needed that.

Carnage wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I have a negative view on therapists, as they did jack s~~~ for me and my ex-wife. I also read online that they talk s~~~ about you behind you backs and share confidential info about you to others.

Ideas?

You got 25000 rigth here
Vent your s~~~ out, get advice, get info, compare notes, get to your own conclusion, and is f~~~ing free.

Thank you KM.
Thanks MGTOW

Very true. I share the same sentiments.

Keymaster wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I have a negative view on therapists

So do I. I think they’re all full of s~~~. A fabricated profession.

ESPECIALLY marriage and “relationship” therapists. As useless as teets on a bull. And it’s only about feminizing/emasculating the man to appease her – which is against her innate desire anyway.

I don’t believe in therapy and I know that’s unpopular to many, but I am of the opinion if you can’t make a relationship work between you and she… it’s already over. If you have to work to make it work, you’re with the wrong person. Simple as that.

To me it’s SO stupid to see a man and a woman ( who just don’t like each other very much ) being told “so this is what I want you two to work on for next time. Jack, I want you tell Jill you love her 3 times this week. And Jill, say thank you a little more often. That’ll be $200. Next week same time, then?”.

F~~~ off.

Successful advice would be to recommend: “I don’t love you anymore. Goodbye.” and then one person leaves. The End.

You know the expression “it’s complicated?”. It really isn’t.

There is this idea floating around that everyone should “talk” more. No . Everyone should STFU more. If women learned how to STFU, 50% of their relationship issues would disappear overnight and they would be happier. You think any couple’s counsellor is willing to say that? “SHUT THE F~~~ UP AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL IMPROVE.”

If I were a couple’s counsellor, I would be broke, because the appointments would be 30 seconds long and they would be cured in one session. I’m not even saying that to be funny.

•••

Number one piece of relationship advice I would give people… put your goddam phone away.
I’m like that with my friends too. TURN IT OFF. I insist.

Carnage wrote:

Thanks MGTOW

Good people here.

Agreed. I think it’s bulls~~~ too. When are you going for your license?

Aposematic wrote:

Let me break it down for you, the actual term is “Psychotherapist”

and it is pronounced Psycho-the-rapist.

lol.

Old Rottweiler wrote:

I went to one before my divorce, He said ” divorce her”.

If you want more crazy, see a therapist.

Yea, been there, done that, have the t-shirt and legal bills to prove it.

Anonymous wrote:

the concept of therapy is misguided.

for example, if someone wasn’t a great chef and wanted to be, they wouldn’t go to therapy for that. you’d go find someone who is a great chef and learn how they do it

if someone wasn’t great at relations~~~s and wanted to be they’d find out someone who was good at it and learn how they do it (John Gottman)

same with learning chess or anything else. you model excellence

(this is one reason I think feminism is stupid and does a disservice to women. women aren’t modelling excellence when they act on the advice of feminists, they are modelling angry crazy women that are miserable and unhappy. And that’s exactly what the women who are listening to them become).

therapy focuses on problems rather than solutions too. They will focus on the problem of someone being ‘depressed’ rather than focusing on the solution of being happy and finding out how people who are really happy do it (that’s Martin Seligman’s work)

Some how I think they focus on the wrong things or something completely different just to get more billable hours.

Monk wrote:

A phoney non-job. A bogus science.

No real questions and no real answers, it’s all ‘relative’.

No exams (only coursework), leading to worthless qualifications from diploma-mill colleges.

Is it any wonder that it attracts hordes of women?

Women always cluster in bulls~~~ occupations like ‘Therapist’, ‘Counsellor’, ‘Nutritionist’, ‘Dietician’.

I thought it was because they “Want to make a difference”. Hehehe.

JVB wrote:

So do I. I think they’re all full of s~~~. A fabricated profession.

100% KM. They take advantage of the fact that the average person doesn’t know that they personally have the strength to overcome anything. These physicopathegests(whatever the f~~~ they are called) do not need to be.

I just think it has a lot to do of what we all see from modern society. All this bulls~~~ wasn’t here 20 – 30 years ago. Can there be such a thing as too much information and advice? Especially when it’s the wrong information or advice. Wrong may be a strong word. Perhaps misguided would be a better fit.

[Anonymous 3]

Some are better than other. I live in a state where the penalty for disclosure of confidential information is harshly punished, and can be enforced by the client.

Most of the counselors I went to during my adolescences where alright. Sometimes they hit the mark right on the head, and sometimes they were full of s~~~. The older I got, I started becoming increasingly disagreeable with my therapists.

When I found about MGTOW and the Red Pill, I cut off relationships with my therapists. MGTOW has done more for me then licensed therapists with Masters degrees, which normally costs quite a bit if he’s in high demand.

[GrumpyParticipant]

IMHO
Most therapists are more mentally and emotionally f~~~ed up than the people they are licensed to <cough cough> help.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Anonymous 0]

I went twice, then it got repetitive.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

I went twice, then it got repetitive.

lol.

[TBL225Participant 168]

Therapy can be good if you find the right therapist. I saw a therapist for a few months and learned a lot about myself. A good therapists makes you form your own questions about yourself and answer them on your own. If you find your therapist telling you to do something, they’re not a good therapist.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

TBL225 wrote:

A good therapists makes you form your own questions about yourself and answer them on your own.

That I do all that time. The only therapist I went to was for marriage, and just listened and said nothing.

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Are therapists any good?

Nope.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

You have to know sitting across from you, is a person who would probably drive you nuts if you lived in the same house with them for a week lol. I hate to be cynical, but one person who read a bunch of psychology books in college, has not figured out the most complex organ in the universe = the human mind. But their paycheck comes from making you believe they have.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Are therapists any good?

I really have no idea! I slept with a dental assistant once but she was just okay…

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