are rich guys the biggest blue pill swallowers of all?

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

Are guys who have money the ones in denial about women the most? I am just curious, do these guys actually believe these attractive women go for them based on things other than their cash? Sometimes i wonder. It almost seems some of them actually believe these women are not using them as a utility, and that they “love them for who they are” lol. What do you think?

[MrDextroParticipant 111]

Real tough to say. Although Most, know… that is why their wife will be the “hottest” of them all. professional sports’ players will have a 10/10 wife on the looks scale, they can afford it…so why not, if you’re blue-pill. However rich old men, oh yeah they know their 20yr old wife wants them for money, but hey they don’t give a f~~~, and they know she doesn’t love him. So maybe most “bought” their wives and know this. I couldn’t imagine a wealthy man having a 300 pound land whale. Which goes to say f~~~ it, if you want a relationship try to get at least a 6? IDK, different strokes for different folks’.

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

What about “average” rich guys. You know…guys who make your basic 6 figure salary. Do they understand that the only reason an attractive woman is with them is because of his money? I get the sense there is a certain level of denial there. Almost like “this hot girl is with me, so im not gonna think about why shes with me too much”. Im guessing they must know on some level.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I tend to think that a wealthy man who swallows too many blue pills won’t stay wealthy for very long.

The very fact that they’ve managed to retain their wealth shows they have to have at least a little sense of self preservation about women.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

WOTGM wrote:

I get the sense there is a certain level of denial there. Almost like “this hot girl is with me, so im not gonna think about why shes with me too much”. Im guessing they must know on some level.

To their credit or detriment, women are really, really great actors. Most of them even manage to convince themselves that they’re not gold diggers, which might be part of the reason that they are able to play the part so convincingly. I think there’s probably more than one reason for it, though, not the least of which is probably that whichever man would buy into it more than likely has super low self-esteem (possibly why they’ve worked so hard to get so much money in the first place), and thus while they might have some reservations about it, when they’re with the woman, they feel rapture. When they’re apart, he probably is full of doubt, anxiety, and anger and suspects the worst of her. Another reason is probably because while he was working his way up to being that rich, he probably didn’t have much in the way of a social life and got rejected all the time, so to finally have a hot girl paying attention just seems like things finally going his way.

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

KingOfTheSea wrote:

WOTGM wrote:

I get the sense there is a certain level of denial there. Almost like “this hot girl is with me, so im not gonna think about why shes with me too much”. Im guessing they must know on some level.

To their credit or detriment, women are really, really great actors. Most of them even manage to convince themselves that they’re not gold diggers, which might be part of the reason that they are able to play the part so convincingly. I think there’s probably more than one reason for it, though, not the least of which is probably that whichever man would buy into it more than likely has super low self-esteem (possibly why they’ve worked so hard to get so much money in the first place), and thus while they might have some reservations about it, when they’re with the woman, they feel rapture. When they’re apart, he probably is full of doubt, anxiety, and anger and suspects the worst of her. Another reason is probably because while he was working his way up to being that rich, he probably didn’t have much in the way of a social life and got rejected all the time, so to finally have a hot girl paying attention just seems like things finally going his way.

I was going to bring that up. The guy who has money probably did not always have money, and SHOCKINGLY no beautiful women were around him back then (in spite of his “amazing” personality, “sensitivity” and “good humor” which we all know is what women “really want”). So he must at some point say to himself “gee whiz, she’s telling me how great I am, but where were these women when I was broke? I’m the same guy I was back then and I couldn’t buy a date!”

Then again, the look in some of these guys eyes when they kiss these women…I don’t know man. I really think some of these men have convinced themselves “I’m such a sexy stud, it has nothing to do with my ca$h! She just loves me for who I am, and is attracted to me because I’m so hot!”. Meanwhile guys like me see through the charade from a million miles away.

Forgive me for sounding bitter, upset or whatever. I just think it’s so disgusting to keep seeing this over and over and over again. I live in a major city and I have to witness this vomit-inducing female behavior over and over and over again. At some point, it gets to you.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

TBH i dont think wealth has much to do with blue/red pill

Look at leonardo dicaprio- pretty red pill if you ask me

the only difference is why you’re becoming rich, as a mgtow i aspire to be rich for various reasons. none of which have anything to do with women

as for the rich old guys who get those young models, i think they’re prefectly aware that those women dont “want” them, they just put up the fascade so they can “feel” good.

as for  the average rich guys, remember most guys are brought up into being told they have to be successful and rich to gain women’s attention, so it would seem normal with that man got lots of attention(from his perspective) he would attribute it to his wealth and not question weather that is good or not

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

I am far from rich, but in my 20s I was incredibly intoverted and shy. I wasn’t “ugly” or “fat” but I was definitely “poor.”  Put myself through college, worked s~~~ jobs for years.

I had two girlfriends, both of whom were overweight and expecting marriage. Now, they weren’t gold diggers. But I knew they knew they were the best I thought I could do.

It was frustrating because I knew I was physically in better shape then both if them. I knew I was smarter than both of them. But I also knew that the in-shape girls wanted more. They wanted a guy who was social, to give them connections. They wanted a guy who was comfortable with who he was, which I wasn’t.

I went to law school with the very specific idea that if I could tell women “I am a lawyer” I could stop being invisible.

And f~~~, IT WORKED. But I had no idea why, really. I just thought being a lawyer made  LOOK better. Or I wanted to believe that.

I married a sexy little 21-year-old, the hottest thing I had ever had sex with. Of course, first I dated her, and HATED her, but assumed it was because of who I was underneath the “lawyer” – that I couldn’t really be the man she wanted, but I had better try.

In fact, she HATED me too, but was dependent on me for the lifestyle she wanted.

I suspect that mutual hate happens  lot with rich guys, because the extremes are even more pronounced.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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