Are All Women Askholes?

[AlmostNiceGuyParticipant 210]

Not mispelled. Askhole: Someone who asks for your opinion, and then say they would do it, only then change their minds. Since I had to move in with my sister for college, my head aches from the constant bitching and whining of her not “losing weight”or “slimming (her) figure”. Based on personal experience, losing 15 pounds and reaching a point where veins were bulging out of my chest and arms, I recommended a thermogenic supplement, a “fat-blocker”(CLAs) and a fat metaboliser(L-Carnatine), as well as fasted cardio and eating less She then proceeded to bitch and moan abut how she “didn’t want any supplements that could potentially harm her”. So I said f~~~ it, and moved along. 5 Months of bitching, and binge, and whining, and binge some more, she wanted help. Hardly able to fit through doorways, she asked for her friends for help. Who gave her the same recommendation as I did. Then having the brain capacity of a toothbrush, she has the nerve to ask me “Why didn’t you say this is what I needed?” F~~~ This. F~~~ WOMEN. I swear to god, and I don’t take his name in vain, this is every F~~~ING EXPERIENCE I have ever had with women. Anybody else have seen these f~~~ing Varmint anywhere else, since this vermin is not gender restricted?

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

So your trying to say your sister is a standard 2015 American woman.

She wants fried ice.

Any more questions why we’re MGTOW?

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2760]

Ha! “Askhole”.  That is perfect description of one of my girlfriends.  Constantly asking questions.  During TV, Movies, church, funerals, didn’t matter the occasion, and most of the time not being bitchy, just a constant stream of inquiries.  Sometimes the answers were completely obvious if she would just take a second to think about it.

How about a nice big cup of STFU?

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Anonymous 42]

Hey AlmostNiceGuy, I’m never a nice guy, what you described is the female wall for men, they’ll drag you over and back until you are destroyed, or had enough. I find socializing with women to be impossible, your sister is what I would classify as the typical birdbrain with the attention span of a spark.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Females ask questions and then ignore our advice because they want attention and to feel like they are special. Here I am giving the fruits of my wisdom and experience to a female who claims she wants change in her life and then she completely ignores everything I’ve said and takes up yoga. All she wanted was for me to expend my value on her just so she could feel special.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

It’s not about information. It’s about attention. My father was married to my mother for over 40 years. That was no easy feat. The only advice on marriage he ever gave me was to learn to say three things to a wife in such a way as she would believe you when you said them. These were funny to hear from him at the time he explained them to me. But they are also very real. These are his quotes, and the explanations he gave for them.

1) “It doesn’t make any difference to me”. When presented with a decision between multiple options, consider A) What does a disagreement with a wife cost in terms of time and emotional energy? B) What is the value of the decision she is presenting me with? If A>B, then the decision between whatever the options are doesn’t make any difference to me. Sometimes the question is just a set up for an argument whose purpose is to get attention for herself and the decision among the given options doesn’t matter to her either. But she’ll disagree with whatever choice you make in order to have the argument and get the attention.

2) “That’s not my problem” Use this when being asked for an opinion about something the wife wants you to take an opinion about. Per the Pops: If you take a position and state an opinion agreeing with her, she will then demand that you take some action that she already wanted you to take, but didn’t want to ask you for openly. The invitation to state an opinion is not because she cares what you think. It’s because once you state the opinion (that you believe will agree with hers and satisfy her) you’ve made it more difficult to refuse to take whatever action she’ll demand you to take as a result of that opinion.

3) “I don’t know” He was careful to explain that when you use this, you must do it convincingly. You cannot just blurt out “I don’t know” and then continue to ignore her while doing whatever you were already doing, because she will figure out quickly that you are just stepping back from the trap. She’ll get mad about this, and that will cause a distraction from whatever more important thing you need to be doing, and that defeats the whole purpose of not giving her an specific answer. According to Pops, You have frown and squint your eyes, look up at the ceiling, scratch your head and pause for just a moment or two like you’re really making an effort to figure out the correct answer for her. Then shake your head side to side, look at the floor as if in defeat and say “Wow, I really don’t know…” as though you are surprised that she has a problem so complex that you couldn’t figure it out. But you made the effort and with any luck, that will satisfy her for a while and they’ll leave you alone and you can get back to whatever (more important thing) it was that you were doing or thinking about.

“But dad, doesn’t that still burn the time that you spent pretending to think about it?”.

“Yeah son, but you ain’t getting away from this for free, and it’s a lot less time than it will take for you to pretend to listen to her give you all the reasons your answer was wrong… if you were dumb enough to actually give her one…”.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2760]

Dammit, BP, you make so much sense it makes my brain hurt. No wonder you shouldn’t be in LTR — bitches heads be exploding with all that logic.

Thanks to Doc and BP for pointing out the obvious fact that I failed to get before:  She probably knows the answer and/or doesn’t give a s~~~, it is about the attention. DOH! This is actually very helpful to me in dealing with my current situation.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[AussieBlokeParticipant 144]

AlmostNiceGuy wrote:

she asked for her friends for help. Who gave her the same recommendation as I did. Then having the brain capacity of a toothbrush, she has the nerve to ask me “Why didn’t you say this is what I needed?” F~~~ This. F~~~ WOMEN. I swear to god, and I don’t take his name in vain, this is every F~~~ING EXPERIENCE I have ever had with women. Anybody else have seen these f~~~ing Varmint anywhere else, since this vermin is not gender restricted?

Your not alone there ANG, My ex would do exactly the same thing, not just about weight, but which phone to buy, how to deal with problem people, you name it she asked me, I’d give her my advice, and she would promptly igonore it. Without fail she would eventually get the same advice from someone else and follow it, when I would ask her why she finally chose to follow my advice, I would get the old “not yours, so an so’s advice”. eventually  just stopped giving the advice.

The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

[AussieBlokeParticipant 144]

AlmostNiceGuy wrote:

she asked for her friends for help. Who gave her the same recommendation as I did. Then having the brain capacity of a toothbrush, she has the nerve to ask me “Why didn’t you say this is what I needed?” F~~~ This. F~~~ WOMEN. I swear to god, and I don’t take his name in vain, this is every F~~~ING EXPERIENCE I have ever had with women. Anybody else have seen these f~~~ing Varmint anywhere else, since this vermin is not gender restricted?

Your not alone there ANG, My ex would do exactly the same thing, not just about weight, but which phone to buy, how to deal with problem people, you name it she asked me, I’d give her my advice, and she would promptly ignore it. Without fail she would eventually get the same advice from someone else and follow it, when I would ask her why she finally chose to follow my advice, I would get the old “not yours, so an so’s advice”. eventually  just stopped giving the advice.

The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

[FangParticipant 102]

This is common practice amongst the XXer’s and I honestly don’t know if they intentionally do this just to annoy us, intentionally to get attention, or they’re really that dense.

The “Opinion Shopper” routine is the most irksome and usually occurs in situations where there are multiple options.

XXer: “Fang, should I buy a, b, c, or d?”

Fang: “C is the most reasonable choice.”

XXer on phone to mom: “Mom, should I buy a, b, c, or d?”

XXer on phone to sister: “Sis, should I buy….”

In this scenario, she already knew exactly which one she wanted, and she will continue to call people until she gets the answer that supports her already determined decision, even though her choice might be the worst one for her.

The next scenario is the “Anybody But You” routine. She really don’t know what she wants so she asks you. You tell her “a.” She gets on the phone to mom who concurs with your decision of “a.” So she gets the tuskless mastodon that is her best friend on the phone and is again told “a.” Does everyone see where this is going? She will continue to contact her hive mates until she hears an opinion different from yours even though your input is the appropriate answer.

The next scene is the “Why didn’t you tell me?” routine. XXer asks for input and you tell her “a.” A day or two goes by and she asks you again. Same response. She calls for advice. Another day goes by and she lets it be known she called someone else for advice. Finally she will make the purchase or otherwise close the deal and then tell you “You know I really could have used your input!”

Also realize that this can end in disaster! Shoes on sale, she can’t decide on the color. You give her your input. A few days later she asks for your opinion again and you give it to her. Of course she’s waiting for you to tell her to buy both pair. When she finally goes to buy the shoes, one color is sold out in her size. It doesn’t matter which one, it is now your fault that she didn’t get the ones she really wanted.

You know, even writing about this seems almost degrading. Well, to lower oneself that far into the chasm of stupidity that is female really is degrading so I suppose I shouldn’t complain. My bad.

[Anonymous 14]

Its not their fault really. Its due to something called the Bitch Mode or Modus Bitchus in Latin.

Bitch Mode is a result of some intense gynocentric experimentation on women for generations and it triggers quite arbitrarily.

Here is an example of it in action;

[Anonymous 42]

@Triklops , how many times do us men catch them in visual scan mode, and we act like we don’t notice. PUA’S move on this, like a shark moves on blood! Women are so stupid, they deserve to be devoured, and even then, they just don’t learn.

They don’t like Cat Crunch, but they shouldn’t have scratched in the first place! I truly have no heart for the creature of woman, only a burned out hollow cavity, but it’s been filled with MGHOW reenforced concrete for a long time. AWALT, two faced!

[Anonymous 14]

MG-Tower you know if I had a dollar for every time I caught women staring at me, even after I made gestures suggesting that I’m not amused, boy I’d have been rich. So rich I wouldn’t have to work for the rest of my life.

I myself just ignore most women in public and never them any attention regardless of how good looking they are. I just refuse to give them any chance to incriminate me at will. And this outright p~~~es of those attention whores to the point that I even got accused of having typical male indifference at times.

Some of those bitches also kept staring at my crotch even though I didn’t have a boner or anything that made it obtrusive. They just kept staring at it as if its a piece of f~~~ing candy they just bought and they were trying to decide how best to have it.

Because your know, its only wrong when a man does it!

Witness a few such perverted c~~~s in action courtesy Crotch Cam:

[Anonymous 42]

That’s not a fly on the wall, that’s a fly on his b~~~~.

It reminds when I pulled in to a gas station with my snowmobile, two girl behind the counter kept checking me out up and down for the whole time, I was uncomfortable.

It wasn’t me they wanted, it was my money, new sled, new suite, and a pocket full of money. I just know from my former PUA days, I probably could have invited them both to the ski house, and had lots of fun, but I don’t touch women anymore, I’m hands off for good. I like my life just the way it is. It’s not worth the risk.

[RennieParticipant]

Especially bad when you get ones staring who you know to have a boyfriend and you have to wonder what their motives are.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Askhole

“Let a woman in your life…. and patience hasn’t got a chance.
She will BEG for your advice,
Your reply will be concise,
And she’ll listen very nicely then go out and do precisely what she WANTS!!”
– My Fair Lady | Best Picture 1964

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If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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