Arab Women

[gamespot1114Participant 20]

Hello everyone,

As a Middle Eastern man living in America, I feel the need to warn all of you about Arab women and the culture in general, because all you hear in the media is how bad things are for women, but nothing about the men. I touched upon this topic in my introduction thread, but I would like to expand more on it here. I am 27 years old living in Chicago, and I have grown up here among the Arab community in Chicago, which has a very large Arab population. Anyways, growing up, I was raised to treat women as not just as a Princess, but rather as a Queen, and it was my job to throw my life away and focus on hers and become a rich doctor or a lawyer and protect and support my future wife. This is how I was raised to think, and as a result of all the stress I had incurred living under these conditions, I grew bald and angry at everyone. I’ve been going MGTOW for over a year now, but it’s now that I’m finally ready to share with everyone the fallacies that exist with the Arab culture. Arab women are raised to believe that they are Queens who live to be served by men. Every one of my cousins and even my sister and mother both act as though they are untouchable Gods who must be revered and served by men. It’s a sickening sight to behold. Anyways, I’ve asked many of my cousins and friends who are Arab women why they don’t work (some of them do work, but as cashiers in retail and s~~~ like that), and they have ALL given me the same answer-“Because you’re a man, and men were born to work.” Arab women truly believe that men were born to work for them and be their slaves. I’ve asked 27 Arab women this question (all of them friends and family, and yes I know it’s weird I kept count lol), and they all gave the same exact answer. My Dad is a blue pill mangina who lives to serve his wife, who is unfortunately my mother. My dad has high blood pressure, diabetes, asthma, and heart problems as well, and is incredibly overweight, all because of the stress my evil mother put on him to go and work and bring her resources. Every time my dad takes a nap after working for 15 or 16 hours straight, she yells at him to wake up and lock himself in his office to work, and unbelievably he does it!! He just says, “Yes my love, I’ll do as you will” (translated from Arabic to English), and he locks himself in his office to work and gather resources for that evil bitch who doesn’t even let the poor man sleep. My dad is gonna die soon because of how much stress his wife is putting on him, and I fear that I will lose my father very soon, even though he was and still is a huge asshole to me and treated me like garbage because I wasn’t “man enough” for him to accept, he’s still my dad, and I don’t wanna see him die like this. Arab men teach their sons to be blue pill manginas, as my father has taught me to be, and never give their sons any real guidance on how to be a real man. I’ve had to figure that out for myself, and thankfully for me, I was smart enough and strong enough to defy my family and my culture. I’m the only Arab man that I know that has become a MGTOW, and the only man in general that I know that is a MGTOW. I’ve been trying my best to convince my friends about going MGTOW, but then they told their girlfriends and cut all contact with me, as expected from a blue pill mangina. And I saved the best part for last, my younger brother is getting married to an Arab woman who is a controlling and extremely manipulative bitch, and I’ve been warning him about her for 2 years now, but he’s still planning on getting married. Here’s the best part-I told him last week to leave that bitch, and he told her (like I knew he would) what I’ve been saying about her, and she then told him to leave me as his brother and side with her, AND HE DID!!!! My brother told me that I’m no longer his brother and that he’s pushing out of his life for good, all to satisfy this evil bitch who has her claws sunk deep into his head. That’s right fellas-women are so good in their craft of manipulation that they can even drive brothers apart from each other, and my brother and I were best friends, but that didn’t matter to him at all. He still pushed me away from his life all to satisfy her. I know that any woman would do what she did and not just because she’s Arab, but I hope this still gives everyone a glimpse into the mindset of an Arab woman, and how truly despicable they are.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

dude, you can’t save those in thrall to women, it will only alienate them from you. As much as you want to save them the pain and anguish, they don’t understand. Just be there for him when things go bad…. and they will. Live your life as an example of your choice and freedom. When someone asks you how.why you do it, THEN you clue them in to MGTOW. Until a man has felt this pain, he won’t believe you. I wish it weren’t like this, but it is. Save yourself, fist and foremost. Help those WILLING to help themselves.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[constraints_theoryParticipant 43]

@gamespot1114: great post man really enjoyed it very informational shedding some light onto how women in other societies and cultures are not just the westernized american females we run across day in and day out over here. this further goes to prove that indeed all women are the same different races, cultures perhaps but over all all the same. and i think that is the problem some men have is that they think if they can find a woman from another country that they will be much better off. so adding to the the list western women,  eastern women, middle eastern women… whoa we just circled the globe! haha thanks one again for a great post take care my friend.

@Smitty the Great One: you are right my friend. i can say that what you just described happened to my brother in his first marriage unfortunately the blue pill mentality is too strong and all only sees through those blue pill filtered lenses. sometimes people just dont learn and will consistently make the same mistakes again and again regardless if you try to help them see the light sort of speak.

 

I've killed worse than you on my way to real problems.

[darkoverParticipant 14]

I’m asian and my half uncle married an arab woman. Fortunately for him, she’s quite ok overall. It’s surprising to me that things are that bad where you grew up. As in really shocking.

As for the brothers thing, I can *empathize*. Smitty is right though. They’re viewing the world through a completely different perspective, one that’s fed to them by the media and feminism. It’d be very hard to get through.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

@Smitty: Exactly.

Men can’t pull other men to MGTOW.  It’s women who push them to it.  All you can do is offer them a cold beer and a sympathetic ear when that eventually happens.

Or the Arab equivalent of a cold beer as the case may be.  Coffee maybe?

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Great post, gamespot.  Thanks for sharing that.  I really enjoyed the read.  And I have to tell you that one of the lines that you wrote has just inadvertently become an all time favourite of mine: 

I grew bald and angry at everyone

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I don’t know why but that statement simultaneously struck a chord of sadness, angry, and humour (just the way the wording hit me) all at once. 😀

Cheers.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I get tired of hearing about the “need” for women’s rights in middle eastern countries.   I knew some middle eastern guys and some white guys who lived over there.  The women are not terrorized at all.

I worked with one man who help install air filtration systems in Abu Dhabi.  He told me stories that if any foreigners even looked at a woman, the men would literally kidnap and kill the foreigners.  Middle Eastern men are really protective of their women.  I somehow doubt their wives have a hard life.

I went to a party one time, in college, and the majority of the people were middle eastern.  I had the impression that middle eastern women prefer to stay with the men of their culture.  They seemed to completely ignore the white guys.  So much for “escaping” oppression.

Half of the reasons the west is “against” the middle east is because of women’s rights.  It is PC bulls~~~.

And on a side note, Welcome gamespot.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Here’s a video from that Karen Straughan that touches on gynocentrism in Arab  and Muslim cultures.  I don’t know how to embed videos here so I’m just posting the link.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eqYEVYZgdo

One of the things that really sticks in my mind from it is how young boys in Iraq and Afghanistan whose fathers have died have had to resort to male prostitution, with all the risks that entails in Muslim countries, to support their dependent mothers and sisters, who have no obligation in their culture to even support themselves.  Meanwhile the west is getting its collective panties in a twist over educating those girls so they can take jobs away from men who need the work to support their families.  Of course the girls aren’t required to spend their income on anyone but themselves.

[gamespot1114Participant 20]

Thank you all very much for your insights and words they are much appreciated!

[Anonymous 5]

Hey gamespot. What is your user name on gamespot? You frequent any forums there?

[darkoverParticipant 14]

I’ve viewed some of the videos on this site and noticed some instances where some may understand that non-western societies, especially Islam and the Middle East may have a “rape culture”. Now, rather than say specifically about one culture, I’d argue that it’s not possible for any surviving civilization to have a culture that allows or promotes rape.

My first argument is that most modern and affluent cultures have taken on the western model of marriage regardless of the what they originally were. As long as there’s sufficient technology for ideas and products from the west, women are “empowered” much like their sisters in the west. Since they’re now as financially capable, if not more capable than the men, and have instant global feminist support, legislation will and have changed to give them power. Men who get raped by other men have little say and are shamed, men who get raped or attacked by women are doubly shamed in many non-western cultures also.

Secondly, in those cultures that favors men in the past, it is possible for a man to rape a woman under two possible conditions. (i) He is of a much higher social status. (ii) He’s her husband and she’s refusing sex. I’ll elaborate more on (i).

Let’s reverse the situation and have the noblewoman be the one who drags a male peasant, have her way with him and subsequently kill him. It’s not by virtue of her gender that she’s doing this, but by virtue of her family’s status in society. For a man of equal or lower status to rape a woman, he must be prepared to face all her relatives, friends and husband not to mention the immediate society. Notice that even in India, a supposedly rape culture, male-dominated country, the rapists get swift retribution once their deeds are known. If rape is completely acceptable to the men there, none of the rapists would have been killed in their own prison cells. Even in the most male-dominated environment for many animal species, males fight off other males from their females. Not due to “chivalry” or some other abstract concepts, but simply because it makes innate sense for a male that has invested in the female to be with said female. That’s why a man who violates this will face retribution from other men in any culture. I note that said retribution is often more severe (death) than in the west which is kind of an irony.

There can be rapes in wartime and in times of strife. This is true of any culture. But a culture in its own borders cannot allow rape. Such a culture will be destroyed from within. Anything that threatens the institution of the family has great capacity to destroy the entire civilization. And of such things that can threaten the family unit systematically, it seems that feminism is one of the strongest.

 

 

 

[gamespot1114Participant 20]

MrPops238,

No I don’t have a username on gamespot I just used it because i liked the name lol but I do frequent the site very often to check out news on all the latest games

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