Anyone have a criminal record because of a woman?

[CloakandDaggerParticipant 12]

I really wish I never met my Ex.

She accused me of assault and retracted that statement with a letter to my lawyer, all said and done they dropped the charge to disorderly conduct I took the deal. Now I have a criminal record. I’m 25 and just getting started in my career so I’m not sure how this will affect me…

I never really imagined this happening to me because I stay out of trouble and don’t make problems.

Anyone else not been so lucky? With all the talk of divorce and domestic violence accusations I’m sure someone has been in this situation before. Did it ever affect your life or stop you from doing anything?

[chirParticipant]

That was her lawyers plan. You taking the plea means she has more leverage. That’s all she wanted. Didn’t care how it f~~~ed your life. Its all about her and her neeeeeeeeeeds.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Yes. You are not alone in that.

edit: Chir nailed it & to answer your ?, Yeah it f~~~ed my life. I had to revamp it alot.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

CloakandDagger wrote:

I really wish I never met my Ex.

Join the club.

I was in a similar situation. What’s crazier is after I was arrested she went to the D.A. and explained that she didn’t want to press charges. Moreover, she went as far as to leave notes and cards on my truck apologizing for her actions and getting me in trouble. Despite all of this the D.A. refused to drop the charges. I completed a pre-trial diversion program and the charges against me were dropped. (It was all about money) After three years I had my record expunged. Did it change my life? Absolutely. Did I let it stop me? Absolutely not. You will recover and live a full life. She was just another example of how your life could have turned out had you stayed with her.

Stay tough brother.

Phantom wrote:

Yeah it f~~~ed my life. I had to revamp it alot.

Sorry brother. That sucks.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Not criminal no. Women have gotten me in trouble with my school teachers, work bosses, union bosses, human resources managers, and their girlfriends. None of it was serious enough to really damage me. Each time it happened, I got more self contained and less likely to confide in some woman just because she smiled at me and acted “friendly.” Thus, I learned a lot. I ought to have learned a lot quicker than I did, but all’s well that ends well.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[UntamedParticipant]

Having a criminal record will keep you from accomplishing certain professional goals, adhering to certain organizations and will generally be a disadvantage, obviously.
But what is even more f~~~ed up is that, in the future, cops will treat you differently because you are “known” to authorities to be __________. Now, when you get pulled over for a simple traffic violation, the officer will f~~~ with you to try to get you riled up and be able to arrest you much more easily.
I don’t have a record anywhere, my kids mother wasn’t out to destroy my life, her lawyer and the courts were.
Remember that even if a weemin doesn’t want to put you in jail, and eventually prison, the state does. That’s why they passed laws to take over grievances for instead of Jane Q. Public.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[HitmanParticipant]

Arrested, yes..d.a dropped the charges , case sealed..unbelievable stress. .all because of a woman!

[CloakandDaggerParticipant 12]

Slayher wrote:

CloakandDagger wrote:

I really wish I never met my Ex.

Join the club.
I was in a similar situation. What’s crazier is after I was arrested she went to the D.A. and explained that she didn’t want to press charges. Moreover, she went as far as to leave notes and cards on my truck apologizing for her actions and getting me in trouble. Despite all of this the D.A. refused to drop the charges. I completed a pre-trial diversion program and the charges against me were dropped. (It was all about money) After three years I had my record expunged. Did it change my life? Absolutely. Did I let it stop me? Absolutely not. You will recover and live a full life. She was just another example of how your life could have turned out had you stayed with her.
Stay tough brother.

MGTOW Age wrote:

Yeah it f~~~ed my life. I had to revamp it alot.

Sorry brother. That sucks.

Yeah, that’s pretty much my same situation. The state doesn’t like to drop DV charges even if she says that she lied. Do you guys think the disorderly conduct conviction should be enough to limit my employment opportunity in the future? I’m just finishing up my bachelors degree and its really weighing on me for when I join the job market.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Same here – DA arrest, plead to disorderly conduct. Can’t get a US citizenship because of it (have to wait 5 years)
She went to court trying to get it dismissed, but the prosecution wouldn’t do it, because they already had enough evidence from my testimony to stick with charges. I was told that if I kept my mouth shot – they’d have to dismiss it. But because I admitted on tape what I did, although what I did was in retaliation, – and because anything physical – push or shove or trying to open or close doors – is considered an assault, so they had the case.
This was my biggest red pill I ever had to swallow. All hope in marriage was lost at that point
I have another DUI records – so this is not the only one. I hope this won’t come to bite me when I want to purchase firearms.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[KeymasterKeymaster]

If any of you know (or watched) MGTOW Messenger / Messenger Rising’s videos…. he told me his story personally. TEN years of his life destroyed. Months in prison. Endless bulls~~~ to deal with. His whole “spirit” is gone. Like a beaten dog. Because of a c~~~ who didn’t even accomplish anything!! She just wanted to make his life a living hell.

This 19 year old kid’s f~~~ing life is over because THIRTEEN jealous and vindictive bitches thought they were “teaching him lesson” – attempting to destroy him by FRAMING him because 13 little bitches can’t handle rejection.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3029727/He-needs-taught-lesson-Lawyers-teen-accused-raping-13-girls-say-social-media-chats-prove-framed-player.html

ONE woman tried to get away with similar with me.
And WHY? Because I did NOT f~~~ her. Try and wrap your head around that one.

She did not succeed.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[WallyParticipant]

Learned a lot from Messengers videos, truly inspiring.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Slayher wrote:

Sorry brother. That sucks.

Thanks bro, but in the end it woke me the hell up & I am no longer enslaved.
Damaged goods in society, maybe, but at least I am free now.
I have made many mistakes & I am no angel in any stretch of the imagination.
I would like to think that my dues have been paid and my account is now clear with

God, the universe, and humanity.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Phantom wrote:

Thanks bro, but in the end it woke me the hell up & I am no longer enslaved.
Damaged goods in society, maybe, but at least I am free now.
I have made many mistakes & I am no angel in any stretch of the imagination.
I would like to think that my dues have been paid and my account is now clear with

Right there with you man.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

CloakandDagger wrote:

Yeah, that’s pretty much my same situation. The state doesn’t like to drop DV charges even if she says that she lied. Do you guys think the disorderly conduct conviction should be enough to limit my employment opportunity in the future? I’m just finishing up my bachelors degree and its really weighing on me for when I join the job market.

A lot will depend on what field of work you want to invest your life in. I understand and empathize with your situation and some of your employment opportunities may be limited. However, finish your bachelors degree. That shows employers you have the ability to follow through and overcome obstacles. Despite this setback your life is not over buddy.

Stay MGTOW, go forward with your life, and succeed!

[CloakandDaggerParticipant 12]

Slayher wrote:

CloakandDagger wrote:

Yeah, that’s pretty much my same situation. The state doesn’t like to drop DV charges even if she says that she lied. Do you guys think the disorderly conduct conviction should be enough to limit my employment opportunity in the future? I’m just finishing up my bachelors degree and its really weighing on me for when I join the job market.

A lot will depend on what field of work you want to invest your life in. I understand and empathize with your situation and some of your employment opportunities may be limited. However, finish your bachelors degree. That shows employers you have the ability to follow through and overcome obstacles. Despite this setback your life is not over buddy.
Stay MGTOW, go forward with your life, and succeed!

The area I want to go into is logisitcs and supply chain management. Because of my location, I’m looking to join oil companies, trucking companies, and docks/sea transport, and airports. I’ve thought about joining the military and the National Guard has said that disorderly conduct shouldn’t be a problem. I’m assuming that the other services will not have an issue. I would want to be an officer so I’ll have to check into that a little bit more. I’m doing a double major and I’m planning to get my masters too if that makes any difference.

I have worked very hard in college and have a good GPA, won scholarships, am looked upon very highly by my professors and advisors and have networked and won distinction with CEO’s and high level executives of major companies and corporations in my area and am also the president of my majors university club. I’ve basically been trying to build my life up to make up for the record.

I guess my point in all of this is that I feel that my career options have been limited by a cheating vindictive woman trying to “teach me a lesson”. This scar on my characters image really bothers me because it does not represent who I am. I’ll never see her again, yet these consequences have to stay with me for the rest of my life.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Russky wrote:

I was told that if I kept my mouth shot – they’d have to dismiss it.

Yes, yes, yes. That is what all my lawyer relatives tell me. Let your lawyer do all, repeat all, the talking. Keep your mouth shut until legal beagle arrives. No lawyer? Keep mouth shut anyway. Hey dummy! Dummy up!

CloakandDagger wrote:

The area I want to go into is logisitcs and supply chain management. Because of my location, I’m looking to join oil companies, trucking companies, and docks/sea transport, and airports. I’ve thought about joining the military and the National Guard has said that disorderly conduct shouldn’t be a problem. I’m assuming that the other services will not have an issue. I would want to be an officer so I’ll have to check into that a little bit more. I’m doing a double major and I’m planning to get my masters too if that makes any difference.

A pal of mine did this. He came out of the military as a contracts management specialist. He parlayed that into a civilian career. Men like him are rare in the job market, and he has had constant employment.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 9]

Hell no.

I don’t even present an aggressive demeanor to females. I’m as laid back as I can back, and I rarely initiate the sex if it happens.

I’ve heard of too many instances as this, but I wish you the best going forward.

My freedom, and a clean slate aside from a few speeding tickets >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> any dealings with an emotional bitch looking to ruin my life.

A record will do that to you.

[Author]

Posts