anyone come from a divorced home?

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

I’ve honestly NEVER wanted to get married in my life.  I’ve never even entertained the idea.  I think that a lot of this stems from my childhood when i would always see my parents argue which took a psychological toll on me.  I honestly never saw them happy together  for a moment in my life.  My mom cheated on my dad with her “friend” that i would always play with when i was little but never even connected the dots until years later which was actually pretty recently.  I am pretty convinced that the household I grew up in f~~~ed me up because i legitimately used to cry myself to sleep when i was young.
The f~~~ed up part about it is my dad is still blue pill after all that and still expects me to give him grandchildren (never understood that perspective.  It’s my life).  My mom feels guilty about her past and is now there for me and tries to make up for it.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Yes, both my parents are divorced twice over (once to eacother) so i saw my direct family go through three divorces by the time i was in my early twenties.

Abolutely no way would i ever get married.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

My parents never divorced. It’s forbidden in our culture. But the constant disdain and growing resentment they have for one another is enough to make me think they would if they could. They are constantly wanted my siblings and I to pick sides. This isn’t the main reason I go MGTOW but it certainly fuels the fire.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

my parents were old fashioned and happy.  my mother is a good woman who enjoyed housework and raising children.  my father died when i was 11 so no divorce but raised by a “single” mom, albeit not the stereotypical toxic single moms we have now.  so when i got married, i was prepared to stick it out through thick and thin.  My exwife came from a divorced home so she wasn’t.  constant threats of divorce and her neglecting me (she never learned how a husband is supposed to be treated) led me to finally get rid of her.  Ironic since I was the one prepared to stick it out but the writing was on the wall.  If I didn’t, she would have.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[MDawgDizMizzleParticipant 73]

Yeah. My dad was always out working during the day and racing by night while my mother worked at the MTO to come home straight to me. She gave me all the love and attention while my father f~~~ed off to meet with my current stepmom. I actually don’t mind the divorce. I got a pretty rad stepdad growing up and love my siblings, step and half.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Yes.

 

I would wish it on nobody.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 12]

Yep mine divorced when I was about 8, back then in the mid 80’s it wasn’t as common as it is  now. My mother was the first person to make me realize how alone I really am. It was a crappy divorce and both sides used me as a propaganda tool against the other as well as telling me stuff that an 8 year old just shouldn’t have to hear.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

Yes. My family has been through all the divorces I ever want to see in a lifetime.

My mom married a guy in late 1983 who was actually over a decade older than her father. Why? Because she got an unplanned pregnancy…my older sister, who was born in the spring of ’84.

When I was born in 1985, my father was 61 years old. The marriage lasted another 4 years. My mom hated him because she thought his suggestion of wanting to prepare all 3 of us kids for better education in private school was that “he was trying to get rid of us” and the divorce was an ugly one.

She married again in April, 1990 to an Air Force sergeant, convinced that military men were loaded with money and government benefits that would make her life better. She even stopped working after the honeymoon in preparation for what she thought was coming to her. But sergeant pay is not as impressive as she thought for raising the 3 kids, or the four more she had with him up to 1995. She complained constantly about how the money wasn’t enough, and threatened to leave him until he agreed to leave the military in 1996 to seek better options. There were few offered to him. Hell, we got worse off financially in the years to come and she still refused to get a f~~~ing job to better the income he brought in from three jobs total. She was perfectly content with sitting on her ass and doing nothing but watching TV and subjecting us seven kids to physical and verbal abuse that grew worse as we got older.

She finally tired of my step dad and divorced him in 2001, taking him for 3/4 of his pay, and even though he lived in some basement room for $260 a month and lived off Ramen noodles, my mom still complained that the checks weren’t enough and threatened to deny him his visitation rights unless he paid more. Luckily he didn’t have to because she got a job at the post office that she liked and began dating some well-to-do truck driver who owned nine rigs, as well as his own, and got distracted by the money he was spoiling her with.

She married the trucker in 2003. The guy was a bit weird but he was an okay guy in the time I knew him. Unfortunately, this marriage sure didn’t last long. He saw her true behavior, couldn’t deal with her psychotic outbursts, and they were separated 6 months later. He filed for divorce but she refused to do the paperwork, convinced in an act of paranoia that he was a “Mafia hit man” and would try to have her killed if she made a court appearance, so the divorce wasn’t finalized until early 2014, when she was engaged and planning her fourth wedding. The guy she married is one I don’t know much about because by now, we all knew how this show was going to turn out, so why bother?

Sure enough, they divorced within six months. Apparently she went on a psychotic outburst and he told her to stop acting like a spoiled bitch. She said he was a “mean man” and wanted out of the marriage. Sucks to be her because she got NOTHING out of it. She tried to keep his car and threatened to smash it up and wreck it if he tried to claim it. He came by with the police present to get his car and the cops told her they’d arrest her if the car was in any different condition than he last saw it in. She got nothing, not even a dime. My mom is now a homeless vagrant living in a cardboard box, and at the age of 55, she has hit the wall of old age enough to be unattractive, and can’t get any other man interested in her. Our family has disowned her, all us kids are grown and want nothing to do with her. She has plenty of time to focus on the failures of her life.

What goes around, comes around. LOL.

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