Any cool ideas on how to deal with people telling me, "You're too negative"?

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Here’s what you say .. “Ok, you say I’m a negative person .. I don’t really know exactly what you mean .. but you call me negative, so I’ll accept your label.”

…. then go on to tell them .. in this Universe, yes, The One we all live in .. there are certain givens .. one law of this Universe is that opposites attract

“I am negative, or so you say .. and you want me to find a woman to date and marry .. then by the natural law that polar opposites attract and likes repel .. find me a Positive Woman.”

… there are no Unicorns.

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Avoid these people if you can. If you cannot, you can use my tactic, say “yes.. yes. Most definitely. Honestly yes. sincerely.”. Don’t say “pretty soon, I am trying, I am looking”. Everytime they ask, everytime give the same answer.

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

I attended a friend’s birthday party and bumped into a few women I know.

One of them asked me about my dating life and my mother. I told her my mother is not well because she just had heart surgery.

She told me it was because I’m not married with children. I was a bit offended but replied to her that my mother is not well because she is fat and doesn’t take care of herself.

It is amazing what some women can say to shame you and frame you as being negative when they dare to say negative s~~~ like that.

Looking back, going to that party was a waste of time, energy and money. I shall not attend these events in the future. Problem solved.

[Anonymous 7]

Sorry I’m sure there are great replies but I did not read.

I use to get this kind of s~~~.
When I made it clear that such topics were off limits in various ways, I no longer got this kind of s~~~. For good reason.

Nip that s~~~ in the bud by standing up for your self.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Gargamel wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

That is what stupidly naive people call someone who is a realist.

And you walk a fine line presenting this to them without making them hate you.

But one more thing:

If you are woman-free other guys with women will get pressured by them to shun you.

And so these guys pressure you to get a woman to restore the peace.

In the end, the women of your friends will cut them off of you.

You can say “I prefer to believe I am a realist.” and leave it at that.

Better yet, say you FEEL that you are a realist. Then if they keep harping on you, they are attacking your feelings, and then you go after them about that. Feelings are feelings and aren’t right or wrong, you put the negative pressure on them for ripping on your feelings.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Do a very loud unpleasant fart.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

I’d go with an old classic:

F~~~ off

The answer, is no.

[Anonymous 38]

Negative? Nah I’m a realist.

I enjoy my life and don’t want it ruined by a woman.

I don’t want to lose half my s~~~ if it doesn’t work out.

Like Gargamel said, drop the red pills.

Time to start letting these people know what you’re about.

[JakeParticipant 908]

ah when I am nice its like I am possed.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Just turn to them and say what Jim would.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

That is what stupidly naive people call someone who is a realist.

Not only is this reply spot on, I would in fact recommend you quote it word for word to people who address you with similar comments in the future.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

TheFreeManMGTOW wrote:

They say I am too negative.
I need to come up with a creative solution to these stupid questions from these people who are positively stupid.

Go to Amazon and get a used copy of Donald G. Smith’s book:
THE JOY OF NEGATIVE THINKING, and wave that at them.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

“Yeah, because there are c~~~s like you asking me stupid questions. Now go away, so that I can recapture my positive vibe.”

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

In Smith’s book THE JOY OF NEGATIVE THINKING he has a list of Problem Perennials (People), of which you will find many personal examples.

One of my fellow male workers said of our feminist supervisor something like the following: it is easy to be smiling, happy, and positive when you don’t know what to hell is going on or you are screwing things up and p~~~ing off people.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Badger wrote:

In Smith’s book THE JOY OF NEGATIVE THINKING he has a list of Problem Perennials (People), of which you will find many personal examples.

One of my fellow male workers said of our feminist supervisor something like the following: it is easy to be smiling, happy, and positive when you don’t know what to hell is going on or you are screwing things up and p~~~ing off people.

This describes exacty why women and children appear obliviously happy when stuff is going to s~~~.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

In THE JOY OF NEGATIVE THINKING, Donald D. Smith listed these characteristics for Problem Perennials.

1. They never learn.
2. They are constantly in need.
3. They are oblivious to other people’s needs.
4. They have to bring other people into their misery.
5. They cannot see the obvious.
6. They can tune any subject into the “problem channel.” [their problems]
7. They are unscrupulous.
8. They don’t want their problems solved.

Smith includes a chapter on Love and Marriage. His was a negative approach to the subject. Even better is the MGTOW way, because it eliminates all female Problem Perennials.

[narwhalParticipant]

Most every negative statement can be rephrased a positive statement.

You don’t want to be married?
I want to be single.

You don’t want kids?
I like the freedom that comes with being unattached.

You are afraid of commitment?
I am excited about making my own decisions about my life.

You can somewhat train yourself to phrase things in a positive way. Consider what you actually want instead of don’t want.

BTW, women phrase these questions intentional, with the premise that the subject of the question is good and desirable. Marriage is good. Kids are good. Commitment is good. The default position is that you must have a reason and there is likely something wrong with you if you don’t want these things. Everything starts with that premise, that’s the default. Reject the premise and create your own default position.

Why do you want to be married? Why do you want to have kids? Why do you want a commitment?

Ok. Then do it.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

I had to deal with this kind of s~~~ since always, and the best thing to do is to ghost.
Act like a blue pill, when someone say that you should get married, you say

You should get married !!
I think about it every day ! I’m just waiting for the right one, you know ? I’m really short on money now, so I don’t want to drag her into my problems, that why I’m waiting to go out and start dating, but some times I feel so alone it’s been (number of years) since my ex left me and I didn’t dated anyone, is hard.

Those words have power !! This is why is good to don’t give a s~~~ about your ego, some years ago I would need to take a shower after saying this kind of s~~~ hahahaha don’t worry about what other say or do, but remember that those who don’t follow the majority are always crushed by it. Play the BP, don’t let them know that you know all about their s~~~ show, don’t let they notice that you escaped the plantation, or else, people may start noticing you and c~~~s can’t sue those that they don’t know that exist.

Sometimes I say that I’m gay, sometimes I play the desperate BP, we should create a MGTOW Ghost Oscar, for those ghosting and making all the plantation believe that they still trapped there.

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

just do that 🙂

[HermitParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

Most every negative statement can be rephrased a positive statement.

You don’t want to be married?
I want to be single.

You don’t want kids?
I like the freedom that comes with being unattached.

You are afraid of commitment?
I am excited about making my own decisions about my life.

You can somewhat train yourself to phrase things in a positive way. Consider what you actually want instead of don’t want.

BTW, women phrase these questions intentional, with the premise that the subject of the question is good and desirable. Marriage is good. Kids are good. Commitment is good. The default position is that you must have a reason and there is likely something wrong with you if you don’t want these things. Everything starts with that premise, that’s the default. Reject the premise and create your own default position.

Why do you want to be married? Why do you want to have kids? Why do you want a commitment?

This was going to be my suggestion. Don’t say anything negative about marriage and women. Just focus on and tell them all the positive things about your life and how happy you are being single. If you say only positive things, they have no reason to call you negative.

“Why don’t you find a woman?”

“I’m very happy with my life right now.”

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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