Any advice for redpill rage?

[cj023Participant 723]

I don’t know how to explain it so I’m just going to type my thoughts. I’ve gone my own way for about 2 years now. I’ve found mgtow.com about 6 months ago and it’s really been more of a guide for me rather than a place to vent my frustrations. After taking the redpill you don’t really come back, sometimes I kinda wish I had never taken this. In the recent months I’ve even started dating again and I gave myself the false hope of nawalt, but alas it’s still just bulls~~~. My question is after taking the redpill and seeing society for what it really is how did YOU finally find piece with yourself and others? Keep in mind I’m a total shut-in right now, I can’t even go to work with all these idiotic blue pill men without wanting to puke. I know I can’t stay mad or disgusted forever. Any advice?

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I’ve been red pill for a while now. It took me a very long time to realize that AWALT. I kept looking for a unicorn that over the years I guess the mythical unicorn population kept shrinking until one day it dawned on me that if a unicorn does exist its less than 1 out of a million.

In terms of getting over my anger I read a number of books that helped open my eyes (Esther Vilar’s ‘ The Manipulated Man ‘) and some PUA books.

Then I read some articles on Evolutionary Psychology and watched some of Turd Flinging Monkey’s and Sandman’s videos.

The more I learned both from studying and from first hand experience the less angry I became. Also a lot odd comments that I heard women make to me…that I didn’t understand in the past…are now making sense along with a lot of past actions by women.

Women just ARE that way by nature. Just like a fish has fins and swims in the water…there is very little choice, just a lot of preprogrammed behavior followed up by daily reinforcements by culture.

So now instead of angry; I feel incredibly depressed.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

The rage is a byproduct of something else. You’re experiencing the cognitive dissonance of unlearning everything you’ve held dear to you. All of the years of gynocentric brainwashing, of being socialized to believe that women are superior because vagina, all of the media portrayals of men as idiots, and now you’re coming to the understanding that it was all a giant lie. The rage is quite understandable. Use it, don’t let it use you.

As you move forward in the newfound knowledge that MGTOW / TRP / Etc brings you, you will find peace, predictability, and consistency in your life. Happiness is also a byproduct. It’s a byproduct of physical, mental, and spiritual health. Healing is the destination. Happiness will await you there.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Happiness occurs when wants and desires are met. Unhappiness occurs when wants/desires are not met. If you are unhappy you need to adjust your wants and desires to a degree where they can be met. Our Gynocentric society has brainwashed you (through TV/pop music culture) and establish artificial wants and desires FOR you. These wants and desires cannot of course ever be fulfilled.

Your anger is the natural result of discovering that you have been lied to and manipulated your entire life…BUT once you realize this and can re-order your wants and desires based upon what you really not and not what you are told/programmed to want they will be in accord and CAN be met.
This is the point of going your own way—choosing what you want and desire, and getting those things because now they are realistically within your grasp….i.e. peace, serenity, knowledge, that is things that matter. Once you jettison the flotsam of societies dictates about what they claim will make you happy and replace this with what really will make you happy your anger will disappear.

[cj023Participant 723]

You’re all right, it’s time to REALLY go my own way. I’ve always wanted to climb Everest, go halibut fishing in Alaska, hike the appllection trail, get my pilots licence, learn to play drums, get my doctorate, and so much more! I’ve really thought about this and because of you guys and mgtow….what’s stopping me really?

[cj023Participant 723]

So just thanks for freeing my mind I’ll leave it at that

[Anonymous 42]

It will pass, even the fear of death and everything else will pass, you become a living ghost. The anger comes from the knowledge that society and women see us as worthless and disposable human beings. Peace comes from letting the motherf~~~er burn without one care for it’s survival.

The social engineering and cultural Marxism we’ve been subjected to has backfired in a big irreversible way that can’t be undone. The rage will eventually morph to indifference and that’s the end of the redpill rage, you become indifferent and truly don’t give a s~~~ about any woman’s safety, prosperity, or happiness, you leave them to fend for themselves in all the ruins they have created.

It’s pathetic how clueless they are to our indifference.

You can’t stop the redpill fires that rage through your soul, just let the flames consume what they must like burning chaff in a field, eventually there’s nothing left to burn. The fire goes out on its own.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

RealityBites wrote:

(Esther Vilar’s ‘ The Manipulated Man ‘)

This is an essential read.

RealityBites wrote:

The more I learned both from studying and from first hand experience the less angry I became.

This will happen given time.

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

The rage is quite understandable. Use it, don’t let it use you.

Excellent advice.

cj023 wrote:

go halibut fishing in Alaska

Fukushima f~~~ed the Pacific. DO NOT EAT FROM THE PACIFIC OCEAN!

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

cj023 wrote:

.what’s stopping me really?

Only what you allow to stop you.

[MACHOParticipant]

The more one is able to withstand reality, look at it in the eye and the more one grows in wisdom, once on the path one can pretend from time to time that reality can’t be that cruel but ultimately one learn to accept it, deal with it. It is a jungle out there and the old saying is still true “What does not kill you makes you stronger” But people seldom offer the red pill “if the hurting does not make you stronger it will kill you” The moral would be to learn to deal with pain and turn it into a victory.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Artboy99Participant 369]

I have been red pill for over 20 years now.
My advice is to fill your life and time with things that you enjoy doing whatever those things are.

[cj023Participant 723]

Thanks guys

[AutoliteParticipant]

cj023 wrote:

Any advice?

I don’t know what will work for you but what works for me is just staying focused on my survival. That occupies pretty much most of my time and effort. Being MGTOW/Red Pill is just one thing that contributes to my survival.

You’ve got to condition yourself to focus only on the things that you can control and just learn to accept that there are things over which you will never have control or the chance of ever changing…

[Anonymous 25]

I agree with PistolPete, it comes down to meeting your own needs. In terms of being more specific on what those needs are, science is doing the work for us and we now have a pretty good idea that these are basic human needs that need to be met:

Security — safe territory and an environment which allows us to develop fully
Attention (to give and receive it) — a form of nutrition
Sense of autonomy and control — having volition to make responsible choices
Emotional intimacy — to know that at least one other person accepts us totally for who we are, “warts ‘n’ all”
Feeling part of a wider community
Privacy — opportunity to reflect and consolidate experience
Sense of status within social groupings
Sense of competence and achievement
Meaning and purpose — which come from being stretched in what we do and think.

Meditation is focusing of attention, and a type of meditation is to pay attention to how your needs are being met or not. You can meditate and pay attention to the feelings of anger too, just observing them and you may even start to notice how it’s linked to needs being met or threatened.

[AutoliteParticipant]

RealityBites wrote:

I’ve been red pill for a while now. It took me a very long time to realize that AWALT. I kept looking for a unicorn that over the years I guess the mythical unicorn population kept shrinking until one day it dawned on me that if a unicorn does exist its less than 1 out of a million.

I like to use my “Green Garbage Bag” analogy. Let’s assume that for each and every one of us men there’s one green garbage bag with ten million dollars in it laying in a ditch along a road somewhere on this planet. That green garbage has has just your name on it and you’re the only one who can claim it and keep all the money.

Does just knowing for a certainty that this bag exists justify the time and effort that would be required to find it???

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

There are times and red pill rage is such era, where all you have to do is to not do stupid things and not follow stupid impulses. Rpr is resolved with time…

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Better angry than depressed.

Many mgtow have the problem of male malaise and lack of motivation.

Channel your energy into something productive and creative.

My advice in order of importance:

– stay busy with work
– exercise in fresh air
– have a healthy and balanced diet
– get sunshine
– have likeminded friends
– have hobbies and enjoy life

What not to do:
– don’t watch porn
– don’t watch TV
– don’t use social media
– don’t jerk off
– don’t play too many video games

And obviouslu don’t hang out with women/date.

Monk

[Anonymous 13]

RealityBites wrote:

So now instead of angry; I feel incredibly depressed.

Strangely, despite my hideous red pill ordeal, ever since, I’ve felt liberated and free.

Oh, I still have anger. I have that right now from simply writing down my last post brought it all back.

But no, I feel free now. Free to never have to do that s~~~ again, get a girl, try and make a life and do things with a partner in mind. My red pill told me it’s all nothing but a scam and a sham. My red pill was huge and blew me to a million pieces.

I’m picking up the pieces, and as I’ve done so, I realised I’m at peace and I’m free. I woke up!

I’m so f~~~ing FREE!

[JVBParticipant]

cj023 wrote:

You’re all right, it’s time to REALLY go my own way. I’ve always wanted to climb Everest, go halibut fishing in Alaska, hike the appllection trail, get my pilots licence, learn to play drums, get my doctorate, and so much more! I’ve really thought about this and because of you guys and mgtow….what’s stopping me really?

There you go bro. That’s the thinking!! Go for it and that rage will pass

Peace is > piece.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

As you get older it gets better some hobby some work out some study code learn new skills etc. It’s ok and normal to just rage out sometimes still happens to me but I control it and just hit the gym it never goes away that sense of wtf bbq fuk ass s~~~ c~~~ monkey dick screaming etc. With age it gets better but still f~~~s with you, at least your awaken now not a sleeping blue pill zombie your on the light side now bro

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