Any Ace MGTOWs?

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

I hear this genetics no matter where I go here, (we NEED this, we NEED that) so I was just wondering; do we have any asexual MGTOWs among us? I myself ain’t no purist; I like sex every now and then, usually with a year solo in-between, but this “urge” other men talk about? Feeling it all the time? No, sorry. So I meant just to ask; am I alone? No-one else feeling only the occasional desire or perhaps none at all?

PS: damn this took alot to ask about; I’m drunk by now and I still feel awkward for asking! It seems like sex is all alot of people think about 24/7, and not feeling whatever they feel, or at least not so strong, not as often, it creates a feeling of being an outsider you would never believe….

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Since the vast majority of women see men as slaves, I am no longer as interested in women once I have a chance to talk to them. This has lead to an overall loss of interest in women and rise of interest in more productive activities.

As a relationship is a depreciating asset just waiting to implode and my other interests build on themselves and become more important and interesting I find myself having very little drive to interact with women at all.

My family all knows my point of view at this point so are no longer surprised by my loss of interest in female subjects I have almost no reason to kow tow to females on any level.

But my band is going great. Will be recording in a top notch studio this weekend.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

I respect that, in a way I share that sentiment. But even if given any global situation of men and women of my chioce I still would have a limited interest (not non-existing, but close). What I feel,, or rather not feel, hasn’t any connection to hypergamy, feminism, societal laws or anything like that, it just doesn’t exist in the same shape others express.

[Anonymous 1]

So I meant just to ask; am I alone? No-one else feeling only the occasional desire or perhaps none at all?

No, you are not.
I always had a curiosity about sex, but never had this uncontrollable urge people seem to think men have.

I did stupid things when I was younger (haven’t we all?) but it was a crave for AFFECTION, with sex being a pleasant side effect if it happened. It never did (didn’t got neither the affection or sex from the opposite gender). That is why I never dated, and the sexual experience I have are from prostitutes, and even then, only 5 times so far (I am 33 years old. Lost my virginity at 32). And to be honest? Sex is overrated, at least for me. I find myself enjoying porn, and sometimes even my own imagination, a lot more than the “real thing”.

It just bugs me how overrated sex is, and to what lengths pussy beggars are willing to go to acquire/justify it.

I am not asexual though, but I think sex is grossly overrated.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Not asexual, but i’ve become really lazy when it comes to persuing women these days, even for casual sex. Part of it is due to my age as i’m now 40. Been there, done that. Most women bore me stupid, and the ones in my age range now are either bitter old hags, single moms or wrinkly land whales. None of which appeal to me, and all of them think they’re entitled to the moon and the earth just for turning up. They bring nothing to the table and are nothing but a burden to me.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Not to long ago I considered myself an asexual. I don’t anymore, but I had my reasons. I have absolutely no interest in fapping to porn. The only way I am able get hard is if I fantasize about being in a relationship or if I watch anime and I like the characters. I have other strange fetishes too but they aren’t as strong as the previously mentioned. Basically, I’m a f~~~ed up heterosexual but not quite asexual.

P.S. I like awkward conversations. You should hear some of my band’s conversations. We used to get into the strangest conversations about masturbation.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

Tiga K wrote:

Not to long ago I considered myself an asexual. I don’t anymore, but I had my reasons. I have absolutely no interest in fapping to porn. The only way I am able get hard is if I fantasize about being in a relationship or if I watch anime and I like the characters. I have other strange fetishes too but they aren’t as strong as the previously mentioned. Basically, I’m a f~~~ed up heterosexual but not quite asexual.

P.S. I like awkward conversations. You should hear some of my band’s conversations. We used to get into the strangest conversations about masturbation.

You are aware that this is like half of what people of AVEN says? The demis to be more precise. I’m not judging, and ain’t eager to put anyone in any box either, but can’t help but draw some parallells….

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

Sex is overrated.

Sometimes I find myself thinking “yeah, it would be nice to hook up with someone and have fun and sex”, but then I realize that I need to spend time going somewhere, getting to know that person and etc. Seriously, I would rather watch a movie or anime or read something if I want to spend my time on a not that constructive activity.

Spending my valuable time on trying to get sex? Nah… This thought alone just kills my sex drive.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Begging is no way to get pussy. I know we’re generally down on PUAs here, and maybe for good reason, but that said, I did internalize a lot of Neil Strauss’ wisdom in “The Game” and it DID definitely get me laid more. I felt a little “icky” doing some of it, but it did work, and it taught me a LOT about the true nature of women which ultimately led me here. So there’s that.

Now understand, I got laid reasonably often – maybe 1-2 girls a year that I didn’t have to pay for (directly). Nothing wrong with the “direct approach” to getting laid – honest working girls right there, but I digress. I have always had a very high libido. There were times I could whack it 12 times a day or more. The average was 2-3, but there were the intense times that (pardon the pun) came in spurts.

I always thought that was normal. But then again, I never subscribed to the “your body is a temple” philosophy, and flatly rejected ALL religious notions of sexual conduct. F~~~ that. If the bonobo have taught me anything it’s that when it comes to sex, the human body is MOST DEFINITELY an amusement park as long as your not causing someone else any harm.

Personally, when I have sex with a live female I find it such an intense and satisfying experience that all the dress up, and 50 shades of grey kind of crap only detracts from it. I had one or two women who just could understand this. I guess they had to do that crap for their ex’s so they didn’t understand when I wasn’t into it. They would try to surprise me with that stuff and get all butthurt when I wasn’t into it. But they never took the time to ask what I was really into, or refused to accept that “plain vanilla sex” was the ultimate thing for me.

I’m not sure where I’m going with this, so I’m just going to stop writing now.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[MaxParticipant 887]

Tiga K wrote:

P.S. I like awkward conversations. You should hear some of my band’s conversations. We used to get into the strangest conversations about masturbation.

Go on

I became a MGTOW because this was the only logical solution for a man survive in a world replete of gynocentrism and biased against men!

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

@ Scandinavian

Yeah, they like to call that grey area or something: where you are somewhere between asexual and sexual. The thing that convinced my I’m just is a f~~~ed up heterosexual is that my fantasies are always somehow related to a woman. I don’t think I would be honest with myself if I said I am truly asexual.

@ Max

Like getting my erect dick stuck behind my leg because when I masturbate I like to use my thigh and right hand and one day my hand went a little to fap happy and rammed my dick behind my hamstring. I had to wait a couple minutes until the erection calmed down and I could return it to a comfortable position. That’s one of the more interesting stories but not the only one.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I abstain, but that is not the same thing as being asexual. The hassles of dating, the dangers of incurable diseases, the other dangers of legal action, and the hassles of getting rid of the clingy former girlfriend, any and all of these override my urge to get laid these days.

Been there, done that, escaped with hide intact.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

My fleshlight and some porn takes care of the regular “needs”.

Of course I get turned on when a great piece of ass is in the room but I’m not sitting there with my tongue hanging out, drooling and at her complete mercy.

I have a healthy sex drive, and I have convenient ways to take care of it without having to chase women all over the place.

I would think asexual would mean a complete lack of sexual drive or interest.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

I havn’t ever seen any two people agree on a final definition, but the one I’ve taken to heart is “person without sexual need” (compare “need” to “desire”). And in that I fit like a glove, I guess “drive” could interchange with “need”, as I do on the odd year feel desire, but no real need.

But like mentioned; there still has never been any complete definition carved in stone.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

i suggest you go to a local zen buddhist temple, you can learn to meditate. It’s probably a good idea to go to a retreat where you meditate for longer durations. This should help you with sexual surges although it maybe completely get rid of them.

I haven’t had sex in 15 years although I had plenty of chances. Women disgust me because of too many cheating bitches. Even porn isn’t doing that much for me anymore. The meditation works for me.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

i suggest you go to a local zen buddhist temple, you can learn to meditate. It’s probably a good idea to go to a retreat where you meditate for longer durations. This should help you with sexual surges although it maybe completely get rid of them.

I haven’t had sex in 15 years although I had plenty of chances. Women disgust me because of too many cheating bitches. Even porn isn’t doing that much for me anymore. The meditation works for me.

I’ve tried taoist type stuff. If you’re referring to sexual mutation, I have tried that and had some results with it. I can go a few days without feeling a need to masturbate because my body has learned to better use that energy for other purposes.

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