Another young MGTOW brief history

[dondanteParticipant 12]

Hey everyone,

Very new to MGTOW, took the red pill about 1.5 weeks ago and damn what a pill it was! One of those cascading kind of moments where I felt like a lot of things that had confused me at one time or another in my life were explained in a matter of moments; every event I could think of had new light shed on it by the realization of the true nature of women.

Quick backstory: I’m 28 and just graduated college last summer, and now I’m in the corporate world albeit for a smaller company. I was never a hardcore mangina but definitely a little bit of a white knight in my own mind. My first relationship was extremely long, age 15-20, and this girl wanted to marry me so hard, something told me I had to get the hell out of that relationship, and it was hard but I did. Didn’t date for almost 3 years after that but I’ve been in the dating game pretty much ever since.

All my other relationships were 3 months at the longest, I tended to get really bored with women and their s~~~ tests, and just all around their general prowess at being a complete resource drain. They always drained my energy and resources, as much as they could anyway, but for some reason I still thought I wanted them. My mother was bipolar and she mostly raised me, and I have been tired of her crazy s~~~ for a long time now, so I always wanted to find my NAWALT.

Well I’ve thought I’ve found her a few times in the last 5 years, and every time it’s been a total disappointment. Either you can’t get the girls you really want because you’re a nice guy, or did get the girl, started to fall in love with her, then became too nice and get left. There is no winning even when you win, so I say f~~~ all that!

Also being in an office workplace in an HR type of industry has quickly shown me what to expect out of working with women. I’m so glad I found MGTOW and took the red pill, I feel like I easily have the tools to deal with crazy work bitches now.

I consider myself to be an intellectual, and all I see is freedom, peace, and a lot of time to learn and hopefully accomplish great stuff in this one life I get!!

Thanks for reading if you made it this far! Proud of all you fine gentlemen out there!!!

 

 

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Well dondante, welcome to the manosphere! I guess most of us could also congratulate you that you made it this far being here, making a proper introduction before and rather than going to any other subsection  within the forum and giving counter arguments and/or stirring up s~~~ like some either white knight mangina or worse as a female troll would do. There’s absolutely nothing personal here so rest assured about that, but you wouldn’t believe to what lengths some uninvited “guests” go as newbies to try (!) to sabotage us, some of that even from time to time being quite hilarious stuff but the general treatment of that being just reading it and maybe go for an inner brief chuckle about it but then ignoring it just like our founder of the website recently advised us all to do and deal with this (all of us can barely be careful enough whenever facing such intruders especially as this community keeps growing and growing it is bound to be happening more frequently…).

Anyway, welcome again brother and you may well consider yourself lucky enough to have taken the red pill in time as to say early enough in your fairly young life…   … oh and by the way being an intellectual is a good thing for you, because it can save you a lot of trouble and therefore serve you well in here.

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Welcome.

I am confused about the first relationship. What went wrong?

There is no winning even when you win, so I say f~~~ all that!

This sums up everything well.  I don’t think a lot of men realize, or want to realize, that they are alone even when they are in a relationship.  Men need to understand this.  It is paradoxical because that is why they entered to begin with.  Men enter relationships because they are horny and/or insecure.  Once you understand that about yourself, the “desire” literally fades away.

I noticed, at the age of 11 or 12, that all the girls I liked were never interested in me.  When I became disinterested, then suddenly I was “awesome”.  I remember being 13 years old and a solid 1/4 of the girls in my class were after me.   I was “relatively” popular in high school and parts of college.  I could/can walk up to a group of 4-5 girls and walk away with all their numbers.  No problem.  Be out on a date a day or two later.   It is because of this, that accepting the red pill was easier for me.

During my junior/senior year I started down the MGTOW path after finding a “NAWALT” type of girl that was not NAWALT.  That was the turning point for me.  About a year later I discovered MGTOW and everything just slid into place.  It was like waking up.

I have been the “mangina in love” before.  To be frank, I hated it.  I felt like and was a miserable slave.   Erotic love dulls the mind and weakens the will.  It robs men of their wisdom and understanding.  It is like driving a car without a steering wheel.

I just said “F~~~ it” about 5-6 years ago and went my own way.  Few problems since.  Life became real simple.

 

I think you will learn a lot here.  A lot of guys on this forum lean towards the intellectual side in one form or another, so you should have no trouble fitting in.

 

[dondanteParticipant 12]

Thanks for the response guys.

I want to specifically respond to John Doe really quick: the main thing wrong with that first relationship was we were very different people.

I was an only child who moved around a lot when I was young, and was raised without any religion (thank god). She was the oldest of 4 and raised in a Mormon family. She quickly got rid of most of the more religious aspects of her own behavior and speech in an effort to keep me, but in the end we were just fundamentally different. She’s now married with a baby and that’s what she always wanted, so I’m happy for her, but so glad it wasn’t me haha.

Luckily being an only child and moving around a lot gave me two great qualities I feel; the ability to be alone and the ability to make friends easily.  It’s exactly like what you said, that confidence which comes from being comfortable with yourself does make it so much easier to take the red pill. I think it probably deepens the true effects of the red pill, but I’m only one person so I can’t know that for sure.

I’m transitioning to the stages of the red pill of self-fufillment. I’m back to working out and getting stronger, hitting the heavy bag, devouring more information, and I might even be able to own my own home soon. I have no complaints!

Thanks again, I look forward to the best of the interactions I’ll have in this company.

[Anonymous 42]

John Doe wrote:

I don’t think a lot of men realize, or want to realize, that they are alone even when they are in a relationship

Hey john D, when you finally realize you’re alone, that’s when you get things together.

@dondante  I agree, moving and loosing all your friends, gives you the ability to socialize better than most, and you learn cultural differences, it gives you insight.

 

 

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

DonDante  welcome to the forum good intro and your response to John doe was classic “your happy for her but glad it wasn’t you” I laughed at that. Enjoy your freedom.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

She quickly got rid of most of the more religious aspects of her own behavior and speech in an effort to keep me, but in the end we were just fundamentally different.

One of the few things that p~~~ me off is when a man, or in this case a woman, changes his/her beliefs for the purpose of sex.  To me it shows a lack of integrity, which we know women lack, and places sex on a pedestal.  People make mistakes mind you, but to change one’s beliefs or ideas just to get laid……….s~~~.

 

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