Another s~~~ test

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Tired and saddened coming home from a trip Wednesday to visit my 95 year old father who is terminally ill. This on the heels of a major global lay off at the company I have worked for over 10 years and watching close co workers being shown the door. Friday night comes and I want to just lie down exhausted and stare out into space. Instead I get hammered by a woman who is supposed to love and support me because I failed to pay attention to her that evening and needed time to grieve. Whoever said women were nurturing and softer needs a reality check. I think a stranger on the street would have shown more support that evening. I was told she “hated” me, that “I thought of no one but myself (nevermind I work 11 hours a day supporting her and her child). Is it me? Or is it just women in general. Rhetorical question. I am sure. I gave her a piece of my mind, but that only served to aggravate her. So I am now convinced – there is no time safe for a man – even when he is at his lowest – women will ALWAYS promote their agenda first. We are nothing but utilities.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

I work 11 hours a day supporting her and her child

You say her child. Do you mean to say that you don’t have any children with this woman?

If not then it’s time to move on.

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.”

I’m sorry that your dad is sick. Now is the time for you both to be emotionally available for each other. This can’t happen when you have a woman that is intentionally blocking this because of her insecurity.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10932]

Hang in there brother. I hope the best for your father.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[UntamedParticipant]

So sad to learn about your father, brother. I hope you decide to spend as much time with him as you can instead of giving away your time to an ungrateful bitch. What you tell us here strikes a nerve. The way she treated you while you already felt like crap is, I’m sure, very familiar for many here. You’re not alone. Hang in there and get her out of there.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Sorry to hear about your father as well. You can tell a great deal about people when times are tough. You now realize that you can never trust her and she isn’t there for you to lean on when you need it. She isn’t your friend. Consider thanking her for revealing her true self to you as you are walking out the door.

Order the good wine

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Do what your dad needs and then you, f~~~ everybody else and make your life!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[33wolfmanParticipant 216]

They are all alike. When my now ex-wife had a stroke I visited her almost every night in a hospital that was about 50 miles away from our home. When I had a break down and was in a VA hospital she only visited me twice, and the VA was only 30 miles away. The excuse I was given “Oh, I’m to busy to visit you regularly”. She had a part time job and one kid in the house at the time. When she had her stroke I worked a full time job and looked after both of her kids. Who had the busier schedule?

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

My thoughts are with your father, and you, Sir, and the workplace situation.
My thoughts are with your new future, changed, that also awaits you.
Matters are revealed, for those who have eyes to see.
Life is short, to live it with a hater. Better to live it alone, by default.
And resistance to change, in the end, is futile.
Because change is a constant element, in this world.
Cheers.

[Dr PhibesParticipant 155]

I wish you peace and strength as you work through these issues. Take care of yourself.

"The wisest follow their own direction." -- Euripides

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Whoever said women were nurturing and softer needs a reality check.

First off, Sorry to hear about your Pops, I wish you nothing but the best, and positive vibes Bud.

Women are anything but nurturing or considerate of basic human feelings after a while. I was going through a tough time, and work was s~~~, and there was some family issues I was dealing with as well. I came home one night and just wanted to vent to my girlfriend at the time about everything because she asked me how my day was. Normally you’d think that this would be an open invitation for someone to listen, yeah no….I had a better chance of sharing with a Dog.

She then began to berate me, and belittle me in saying “i sound like a f~~~~~”, “Man up”, “quit this woe is me bulls~~~”. Oh it was bad, really bad. I felt beaten up three ways will Sunday, work, family, now home. I just packed my s~~~ and eventually left. the female nature is not very nurturing at all. They love to kick you while you’re down.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Whoever said women were nurturing and softer needs a reality check.

First off, Sorry to hear about your Pops, I wish you nothing but the best, and positive vibes Bud.

Women are anything but nurturing or considerate of basic human feelings after a while. I was going through a tough time, and work was s~~~, and there was some family issues I was dealing with as well. I came home one night and just wanted to vent to my girlfriend at the time about everything because she asked me how my day was. Normally you’d think that this would be an open invitation for someone to listen, yeah no….I had a better chance of sharing with a Dog.

She then began to berate me, and belittle me in saying “i sound like a f~~~~~”, “Man up”, “quit this woe is me bulls~~~”. Oh it was bad, really bad. I felt beaten up three ways will Sunday, work, family, now home. I just packed my s~~~ and eventually left. the female nature is not very nurturing at all. They love to kick you while you’re down.

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Thanks men for the well wishes and positive thoughts. Means a lot. Women are great at nurturing – but that instinct extends no further than their own self.

[Anonymous 3]

Men are even better at nurturing, because their potential extends far beyond mere instinct. Men conquer the primitive aspects of their biology and achieve what can’t even be dreamed of in the female collective brain.

I too was faced with the same test when I was down. My then GF, who was suppose to be my rock, told me “How do you think our future child and I would feel if you do this? You are a man so behave like one!” Yes, eventually I did. I started to behave like a man… who goes his own way.

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