Another Reason to be MGTOW

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Quick side note: There have been a few times in my life where I got the hottest girl around. One summer at camp one of the hottest girls that showed up that year liked me of all people. Just that fact alone gave me such a big high that I got addicted to the idea -“Buck Fitches is the coolest guy at camp because the hottest girl likes him.” I didn’t realize it would lead me into a lifestyle of always chasing the hottest girl and becoming depressed when things didn’t go my way. Guess what? Things barely ever went my way after camp that year…

Now for the main part: Obviously we all have tons of different reasons for being MGTOW, but this morning as I woke up I kept thinking about one reason in particular that makes me proud to be MGTOW so I figured I’d share it with you guys…

I love the fact that I don’t give a s~~~ anymore about hooking up with the hottest chick possible. I used to have real anxiety because I so desperately wanted the hottest girl in the room to be hanging on my shoulder rather than some other guy. Then what would happen as girls gave their attention to other dudes instead of me is I’d despise those guys for no reason at all -other than jealousy. I wouldn’t like having them around because it made me realize that I’m not the coolest alpha male in the world. This put a lot of unnecessary distance between me and a bunch of cool dudes.

I always knew I needed to change and quit giving a damn, but I just couldn’t. The anxiety of “having the HOTTEST girl” was too much for me to handle and I really couldn’t fight it off. Idk about you guys, but this was a real problem for me and it caused me to act so childish and immature countless times. I hate the old me.

Then I joined MGTOW and one of the side effects is that you really don’t give a s~~~ about the hot chicks and who they obsess over because you know it’s all a big trap. So naturally I stopped caring and now I feel so free. Like literal chains have been broken and I can socialize in enviroments where other guys are way “cooler” than me, but I don’t hold it against them.

This is just one of the benefits.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

BuckFitches wrote:

Quick side note: There have been a few times in my life where I got the hottest girl around. One summer at camp one of the hottest girls that showed up that year liked me of all people. Just that fact alone gave me such a big high that I got addicted to the idea -“Buck Fitches is the coolest guy at camp because the hottest girl likes him.” I didn’t realize it would lead me into a lifestyle of always chasing the hottest girl and becoming depressed when things didn’t go my way. Guess what? Things barely ever went my way after camp that year…

Now for the main part: Obviously we all have tons of different reasons for being MGTOW, but this morning as I woke up I kept thinking about one reason in particular that makes me proud to be MGTOW so I figured I’d share it with you guys…

I love the fact that I don’t give a s~~~ anymore about hooking up with the hottest chick possible. I used to have real anxiety because I so desperately wanted the hottest girl in the room to be hanging on my shoulder rather than some other guy. Then what would happen as girls gave their attention to other dudes instead of me is I’d despise those guys for no reason at all -other than jealousy. I wouldn’t like having them around because it made me realize that I’m not the coolest alpha male in the world. This put a lot of unnecessary distance between me and a bunch of cool dudes.

I always knew I needed to change and quit giving a damn, but I just couldn’t. The anxiety of “having the HOTTEST girl” was too much for me to handle and I really couldn’t fight it off. Idk about you guys, but this was a real problem for me and it caused me to act so childish and immature countless times. I hate the old me.

Then I joined MGTOW and one of the side effects is that you really don’t give a s~~~ about the hot chicks and who they obsess over because you know it’s all a big trap. So naturally I stopped caring and now I feel so free. Like literal chains have been broken and I can socialize in enviroments where other guys are way “cooler” than me, but I don’t hold it against them.

This is just one of the benefits.

Well said. Also, consider who the hot chicks are. They are the excessive skinny ones, small breast, narrow ass, and all the girls want to look like her. I never understood that. Women do not understand what men want. We explain it time and time again, yet you still see them portray beauty as something that looks like it fasted for a year in the sun, and you can almost see the skeleton through the skin.

I had always gone for a little more meaty girls, not to be confused with fat, but would be teased for letting the hot one get away. It is a lose, lose for a man playing the game. We do not get what we want, and we get what we have taken away.

[Anonymous 7]

This was never a problem for me.
I never had the looks or game to score the hottest girl around.

Had a few gf in years past.
Now I thank my lucky star that weeminimums were not attracted to me. It kept me from getting married then divorced.

[Anonymous 3]

I am so cool I’m an iceberg floating in the Artic Ocean.
What I like best is the ability to turn away, I practice every time I step outside my “Hermitage” One word “NO”

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Anonymous wrote:

I am so cool I’m an iceberg floating in the Artic Ocean.
What I like best is the ability to turn away, I practice every time I step outside my “Hermitage” One word “NO”

I wish I was like this. I would have not had the nightmare of marriage, and to deal with all that ensued. It took horrible experiences to get me there.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

I can relate to this a lot. I have only dated a handful of girls in my life mainly because I’ve always had high standards(primarily with their looks because they’re all bitches). After my last relationship, where I thought I had scored with the Buxom Blonde who enjoyed the same hobbies I did… I realized no matter how good they look, their female nature will always make it a bad deal to be in a relationship. Since the breakup, I’ve focused on going my own way and improving every aspect of my life. I am attracting females who many guys want but now I don’t have that desire to be with them like I did before.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

I’m with you on that for sure. I’ve always been into curves! But now I just don’t give a f~~~. I don’t care for sex anymore because I look at what the trade really has to offer: Moments of pleasure for hours of misery / confusion / anxiety…

I also hope this doesn’t make me sound c~~~y. There were like three instances out of thousands where I got the hot girl and my point is those three times gave me such a high that I turned into a drug addict who kept chasing the wrong thing. Chasing girls made me MISERABLE and everyone could see it

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

BuckFitches wrote:

I’m with you on that for sure. I’ve always been into curves! But now I just don’t give a f~~~. I don’t care for sex anymore because I look at what the trade really has to offer: Moments of pleasure for hours of misery / confusion / anxiety…

I also hope this doesn’t make me sound c~~~y. There were like three instances out of thousands where I got the hot girl and my point is those three times gave me such a high that I turned into a drug addict who kept chasing the wrong thing. Chasing girls made me MISERABLE and everyone could see it

I don’t think anyone sees it as arrogant. I think it is good to let people know it isn’t any better from any angle. The results are always the same. I dated the “hot” girl and the scraps.

I exclusively dated girls just as an experiment, because I was frustrated by how they all behaved, and wanted to see if there was anything different. From too skinny to land whale, they are all the exact same. I wish I could put it into a better way to explain, but perhaps in an acronym, AWALT.

[JVBParticipant]

Now that’s a man that has fully digested the blue pill. Good for broski.

Peace is > piece.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

In my 38 years I’ve had precisely 2 moments where the hottest girl approached me overtly for sex. I say moments, because that’s what they were – very brief. Once I was aged 26, the other aged 33.

In both moments I simply said no, because I genuinely didn’t want to. I simply gave zero f~~~s. There was zero desire. I felt nothing. (I’ve said no to 50% of the women who’ve approached me in my whole life for sex – these two hotties were simply part of that statistic).

On both occasions, the ensuing reactions were priceless, and still vivid in my mind. I’m talking shock, swearing, name calling, etc. The first time it happened, she made a point of finding me half hour later to cuss me again, lol. Getting those reactions meant more to me than simply f~~~ing them. I don’t think they’d ever heard ‘no’ before.

They’d have just been another f~~~, just like all the others I’ve f~~~ed, most of which have been fairly attractive.

It’s a very rare thing, and a lot of men won’t ever experience it. But if any men here ever expereince it, say no, the feeling of power will surpass anything you’d get from f~~~ing them, trust me.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Removed wrote:

BuckFitches wrote:

Quick side note: There have been a few times in my life where I got the hottest girl around. One summer at camp one of the hottest girls that showed up that year liked me of all people. Just that fact alone gave me such a big high that I got addicted to the idea -“Buck Fitches is the coolest guy at camp because the hottest girl likes him.” I didn’t realize it would lead me into a lifestyle of always chasing the hottest girl and becoming depressed when things didn’t go my way. Guess what? Things barely ever went my way after camp that year…

Now for the main part: Obviously we all have tons of different reasons for being MGTOW, but this morning as I woke up I kept thinking about one reason in particular that makes me proud to be MGTOW so I figured I’d share it with you guys…

I love the fact that I don’t give a s~~~ anymore about hooking up with the hottest chick possible. I used to have real anxiety because I so desperately wanted the hottest girl in the room to be hanging on my shoulder rather than some other guy. Then what would happen as girls gave their attention to other dudes instead of me is I’d despise those guys for no reason at all -other than jealousy. I wouldn’t like having them around because it made me realize that I’m not the coolest alpha male in the world. This put a lot of unnecessary distance between me and a bunch of cool dudes.

I always knew I needed to change and quit giving a damn, but I just couldn’t. The anxiety of “having the HOTTEST girl” was too much for me to handle and I really couldn’t fight it off. Idk about you guys, but this was a real problem for me and it caused me to act so childish and immature countless times. I hate the old me.

Then I joined MGTOW and one of the side effects is that you really don’t give a s~~~ about the hot chicks and who they obsess over because you know it’s all a big trap. So naturally I stopped caring and now I feel so free. Like literal chains have been broken and I can socialize in enviroments where other guys are way “cooler” than me, but I don’t hold it against them.

This is just one of the benefits.

Well said. Also, consider who the hot chicks are. They are the excessive skinny ones, small breast, narrow ass, and all the girls want to look like her. I never understood that. Women do not understand what men want. We explain it time and time again, yet you still see them portray beauty as something that looks like it fasted for a year in the sun, and you can almost see the skeleton through the skin.

I had always gone for a little more meaty girls, not to be confused with fat, but would be teased for letting the hot one get away. It is a lose, lose for a man playing the game. We do not get what we want, and we get what we have taken away.

Slender women are meant for f~~~ing, curvy women are meant for baby making, and chubby women are what you get when you make a baby with curvy women.

[Anonymous 3]

A hot young ” chick” to me is a woman in her 50’s. & there really isn’t that many of them around that are even worth looking at. I am closer to 70 than I am to 60 & it took a lot of major f~~~ ups between ” hot chicks ” & here. But very glad I made it.

[HermitParticipant]

Removed wrote:

I don’t think anyone sees it as arrogant. I think it is good to let people know it isn’t any better from any angle. The results are always the same. I dated the “hot” girl and the scraps.

I exclusively dated girls just as an experiment, because I was frustrated by how they all behaved, and wanted to see if there was anything different. From too skinny to land whale, they are all the exact same. I wish I could put it into a better way to explain, but perhaps in an acronym, AWALT.

From my experience, they are not all exactly the same. Yes, I agree with AWALT, but there are varying degrees. The lesser attractive ones, seem to appreciate you more. I’m not talking about the obese ones, but the ones who are just plain that don’t have the outstanding beautiful features; the ones that no one looks at. They appreciate you more and will do more for you and ask less of you.

There was one instance, I f~~~ed this gal who was “not so attractive” and afterward, I s~~~ you not, she got up and asked me if I wanted a sandwich. The question caught me off guard. To my recollection, I have never had that happen. We f~~~ed and she got up and made me a sandwich. I’ll never forget that. Not a bad f~~~ and not a bad sandwich either.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[joetechParticipant]

I’ve had the hot ones and I’ve had the ugly ones. They all hit the wall eventually and you’re left with what’s inside that person. The woman who treats the waiter at the restaurant like s~~~ is going to step on everyone in her life…men and women. Best to just avoid all of them after a while. I’m too old to tolerate it anymore…hot or not, they all smell after three days, like fish and company.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 3]

I am going out for a haircut. Lot of fun for me posting today. You guys are great. What a relief it is to speak your own truth & be heard.
MGTOW

[Toxic BirdParticipant 23]

I can relate to the jealousy part. But not in regards to the hottest chick, but to any fairly attractive woman. This was mostly because I made my first sexual experiences rather late.
I always wondered how come some guys don’t need to do anything to attract women, while others, still good looking men, have to put extreme efforts into making a woman interested even in the slightest way. Well, women want a Chad, and the rest is invisible (unless you show money). I am glad that I am over this and don’t need validation from women anymore. That is a big burden I got to leave behind after I found my ways to MGTOW. I smile when I see a hot girl and think “I used to be desperate about getting a woman like you, but now I am free. May another poor soul be miserable.”

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Toxic Bird wrote:

I smile when I see a hot girl and think “I used to be desperate about getting a woman like you, but now I am free. May another poor soul be miserable.”

That’s beautiful. That’s how I feel now when I see hot girls too… I just see a whole bunch of headaches for whoever chases her

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Hermit wrote:

Uly wrote:

I don’t think anyone sees it as arrogant. I think it is good to let people know it isn’t any better from any angle. The results are always the same. I dated the “hot” girl and the scraps.

I exclusively dated girls just as an experiment, because I was frustrated by how they all behaved, and wanted to see if there was anything different. From too skinny to land whale, they are all the exact same. I wish I could put it into a better way to explain, but perhaps in an acronym, AWALT.

From my experience, they are not all exactly the same. Yes, I agree with AWALT, but there are varying degrees. The lesser attractive ones, seem to appreciate you more. I’m not talking about the obese ones, but the ones who are just plain that don’t have the outstanding beautiful features; the ones that no one looks at. They appreciate you more and will do more for you and ask less of you.

There was one instance, I f~~~ed this gal who was “not so attractive” and afterward, I s~~~ you not, she got up and asked me if I wanted a sandwich. The question caught me off guard. To my recollection, I have never had that happen. We f~~~ed and she got up and made me a sandwich. I’ll never forget that. Not a bad f~~~ and not a bad sandwich either.

I have not been so fortunate, and I dated girls from California to Georgia. That is quite a jackpot experience. Cheers to you, friend.

[HermitParticipant]

Removed wrote:

Hermit wrote:

Uly wrote:

I don’t think anyone sees it as arrogant. I think it is good to let people know it isn’t any better from any angle. The results are always the same. I dated the “hot” girl and the scraps.

I exclusively dated girls just as an experiment, because I was frustrated by how they all behaved, and wanted to see if there was anything different. From too skinny to land whale, they are all the exact same. I wish I could put it into a better way to explain, but perhaps in an acronym, AWALT.

From my experience, they are not all exactly the same. Yes, I agree with AWALT, but there are varying degrees. The lesser attractive ones, seem to appreciate you more. I’m not talking about the obese ones, but the ones who are just plain that don’t have the outstanding beautiful features; the ones that no one looks at. They appreciate you more and will do more for you and ask less of you.

There was one instance, I f~~~ed this gal who was “not so attractive” and afterward, I s~~~ you not, she got up and asked me if I wanted a sandwich. The question caught me off guard. To my recollection, I have never had that happen. We f~~~ed and she got up and made me a sandwich. I’ll never forget that. Not a bad f~~~ and not a bad sandwich either.

I have not been so fortunate, and I dated girls from California to Georgia. That is quite a jackpot experience. Cheers to you, friend.

There’s more to the story. I’ve had those kinds of gals on more than one occasion. Like an idiot, I pushed them away, because I wanted a gal with a prettier face, or a bigger set of t~~~. I look back on my young stupidity and kick myself. These gals seemed to worship me and would do almost anything I asked and I tossed them aside. Now, as I have become older, I’d almost kill to have a good gal like that, looks and t~~~ be damned.

However, I have to believe that I made the right decision, or I may have wound up marrying one of them and the divorce may not have gone as easy as it did with the one I did marry.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 3]

thats the ticket!!!

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