Another One Bites the Dust!

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Like you needed another cautionary tale about marriage, or commonlaw relationships, but here goes.

Was just talking with a friend this weekend over beers.  A mutual friend is splitting up from his commonlaw “spouse” after a 10 year relationship, they have 2 kids together both are under 10.  He, of course is the primary income earner in Oil and Gas.  She works some s~~~ job that pays f~~~ all.  Here are the highlights:

• She cheated on him with multiple friends in our circle, and has left him at the house with the kids.
• She wants “maximum liquid assets” essentially looking for a big payout to go away.
• I’m told she wants to pretend to be a good mom on Facebook, but not much else to do with the kids.
• She rationalizes cheating by saying he was inattentive/didn’t ever bring her flowers.
• One of the kids is struggling in school, she blames him because he “didn’t move the family to a better neighborhood so the kid can go to a better school”.
• He says they’re on a tight budget, she says he should sell of his trailer, quads and anything else he likes so that they could move.
• He works mad hours, and is taking courses to make more money, but she says he’s “not around enough”.  When he is around, she’s a nag.
• He didn’t marry her because I think she cheated early on in the relationship.  Now because they’re not married, he isn’t able to get an At Fault divorce, so she’s getting 1/2, under commonlaw separation.
• He may end up having to pay alimony while she moves out and f~~~s around with our mutual friends.

My friend’s wife put her in touch with a good lawyer so she can “get the maximum she’s entitled to.”  My friend is livid with his wife and asked her why the f~~~ she did that (she’s not even really friends with the cheater, she only knows him through her husband’s friendship).  She responded “I think after 10 years, the woman is entitled to everything she can get.”  I looked at my friend and silently thought “if you get divorced, this is your future buddy.”

 

 

 

 

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Strongly advise any married/common-lawed man to keep a stash of his cash in cash in a box or safe and NEVER inform the bitch.  They are all blood-sucking lazy whores like your friend’s skank above is.

In Canada, he is very likely f~~~ed royally.  Here in the states he would just be f~~~ed majorly, but f~~~ed is f~~~ed.  With the downturn in oil/gas right now, he may have a bit of an out, but I recommend he puts in fewer hours if possible at the moment, or make a deal for hours now and pay later if his company is good with that.  Also would downplay the “studying to increase income” aspect as she will get a chunk of that.  Getting rid of my cheating ex-whore cost 6 figures back in 95 after a mere 3 years marital bliss, and that was without kids, and after I ditched s~~~.  He needs to “dispose” of anything that can become liquidity pronto – get that s~~~ out of his name and out of this cheating c~~~’s reach.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I highly doubt she can get alimony if she can’t prove she was contributing into the relationship. Considering the fact she isn’t taking good care of children. He should keep all records of everything written or recorded (conversations, emails, texts, etc).

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I have little experience with the financial aspect of divorcing. What I do know is that is the state that I live in practices common law marriage. This law has benefited no one here except single moms. At my previous job I met a woman with a son who was living with a man who also has a child.  She felt it was the best way for him to help raise her child without her having to share her financial assets. Then I was naive but now I know how revolting her plan was. I will never let a woman live with me ever. Visit every now and then sure. Anything more, absolutely not. Good luck to your friend OP.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

My friend’s wife put her in touch with a good lawyer so she can “get the maximum she’s entitled to.”  My friend is livid with his wife and asked her why the f~~~ she did that (she’s not even really friends with the cheater, she only knows him through her husband’s friendship).  She responded “I think after 10 years, the woman is entitled to everything she can get.”  I looked at my friend and silently thought “if you get divorced, this is your future buddy.”

After many years of pondering this question, the only thought I have is “that is what women do.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

MOWsince95 wrote:

Strongly advise any married/common-lawed man to keep a stash of his cash in cash in a box or safe and NEVER inform the bitch. They are all blood-sucking lazy whores like your friend’s skank above is. In Canada, he is very likely f~~~ed royally. Here in the states he would just be f~~~ed majorly, but f~~~ed is f~~~ed. With the downturn in oil/gas right now, he may have a bit of an out, but I recommend he puts in fewer hours if possible at the moment, or make a deal for hours now and pay later if his company is good with that. Also would downplay the “studying to increase income” aspect as she will get a chunk of that. Getting rid of my cheating ex-whore cost 6 figures back in 95 after a mere 3 years marital bliss, and that was without kids, and after I ditched s~~~. He needs to “dispose” of anything that can become liquidity pronto – get that s~~~ out of his name and out of this cheating c~~~’s reach.

I don’t f~~~ing understand it though.  Marriage is supposed to be that commitment to lifetime support and all of that.  Someone who explicitly goes out of their way to AVOID MARRIAGE gets f~~~ed even harder than someone who gets married.  How does that make ANY SENSE?  He’d have been better off marrying the c~~~ so that on separation he could get an At Fault Divorce?

What the f~~~ is wrong with our system.  His “spouse” – because that’s what she is even though he never legally tied the knot – is so stupid I’m surprised she even knows the words “Liquid Assets”.  That’s lawyer talk for getting f~~~ing paid for being a whore.  He should hit her for child support if she leaves and he gets custody, be she could balance that out by asking for spousal support.

 

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

I highly doubt she can get alimony if she can’t prove she was contributing into the relationship. Considering the fact she isn’t taking good care of children. He should keep all records of everything written or recorded (conversations, emails, texts, etc).

She can and probably will get spousal support in Canada.  She was contributing to the relationship until very recently, mostly as a stay at home/part time working mom.

Taking good care of children is subjective.  Based on all the rationalizing I see going on right now, I’m sure in court she’ll claim she was super-mom and he drove her to suck on other men’s dicks.  It’s only recently now that she sees dollar signs and an escape from parenthood that she’s f~~~ing off into another man’s bed, and she’ll keep up appearances of being their mom on Facebook with occasional visits.

Edit:  How does one go about hiding assets from the spouse?  I’m pretty sure my partner is doing this as she never seems to have money, but works a regular job.

 

 

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

This is what I would do. For cash I would buy gold with most of it. Then get a safety deposit box, not from the bank though you can not trust those suckers. If possible have it under friend’s name so they won’t be able to find it. You need to buy from a dealer that you can trust. I suggest Euro Pacific Canada because they are trusty worthy company. There is a lot of fake gold out there.

As for his toys sell it to a friend or family they trust, friend would be ideal. Sell it real cheap and he should able to use his stuff. Sell it for about 20% and he can buy it back let if he wants or as rent.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Anonymous 5]

Here’s a real life example divorce case in Canada.
Dave explains the general guidelines the courts take when assigning alimony despite the disgraceful behaviour of a wife

 

 

[BDParticipant 1146]

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

She rationalizes cheating by saying he was inattentive/didn’t ever bring her flowers.

Oil and gas workers have longs shifts, sometimes they are gone for weeks at a time, she no doubt enjoyed the money he was sending home.

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

I think she cheated early on in the relationship.

Well…. if this red flag didn’t teach him…..

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

My friend’s wife put her in touch with a good lawyer so she can “get the maximum she’s entitled to.”

That guy is next. Too bad.

Women will always side with women. No matter what. I had a LTR run around on me with another guy, it got progressively worse and worse, people telling me stories and then one night she showed up at 5am after being with him, I called her a c~~~ and dumped that bitch. That bitch told my female friends(Long term friends whom my LTR hated and never wanted to know, and never wanted me to visit out of jealousy) that I had called her a c~~~, and my female friends attacked me on FB and terminated our long friendships. They all went around badmouthing me, and became best friends!

Stay off of FB, keep your female friends at an arm’s length, or don’t keep any at all,  because they will always side against men.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

Anonymous wrote:

Here’s a real life example divorce case in Canada. Dave explains the general guidelines the courts take when assigning alimony despite the disgraceful behaviour of a wife <iframe src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/SaC-2lj6HNg?feature=oembed” width=”500″ height=”281″ frameborder=”0″ allowfullscreen=””></iframe>

Jesus f~~~ing christ.  The only person who wins are lawyers and the ex wives.

[Anonymous 4]

Christ….Every time I think The US is f~~~ed up, I realize that we’re not bad off compared to places in Europe and Canada…DAMN…SUCKS UP THERE!!

 

EVERYONE should be MGTOW There man…I’d have to set the bitch ablaze.

[Anonymous 5]

That Joe Rogan vid is insane. I can’t believe that c~~~ is stealing so much money from that guy.

No wonder Robin Williams offed himself.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Anonymous wrote:

That Joe Rogan vid is insane. I can’t believe that c~~~ is stealing so much money from that guy. No wonder Robin Williams offed himself.

I literally, was watching it like that, it’s that harsh. Face-palming trough it.

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[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

BD wrote:

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

She rationalizes cheating by saying he was inattentive/didn’t ever bring her flowers.

Oil and gas workers have longs shifts, sometimes they are gone for weeks at a time, she no doubt enjoyed the money he was sending home.

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

I think she cheated early on in the relationship.

Well…. if this red flag didn’t teach him…..

Canadian SportsFan wrote:

My friend’s wife put her in touch with a good lawyer so she can “get the maximum she’s entitled to.”

That guy is next. Too bad. Women will always side with women. No matter what. I had a LTR run around on me with another guy, it got progressively worse and worse, people telling me stories and then one night she showed up at 5am after being with him, I called her a c~~~ and dumped that bitch. That bitch told my female friends(Long term friends whom my LTR hated and never wanted to know, and never wanted me to visit out of jealousy) that I had called her a c~~~, and my female friends attacked me on FB and terminated our long friendships. They all went around badmouthing me, and became best friends! Stay off of FB, keep your female friends at an arm’s length, or don’t keep any at all, because they will always side against men.

 

My friend is next.  I see that coming already she’s laying the groundwork for her divorce plan.

She comes from money, so even though they don’t make a lot of money, she spends like she’s a millionare.  They’re floating their boat on credit.

She’s already manipulated the situation so that she is on an unpaid leave of absence from work.  No kids yet.

 

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Not that I would ever live with a woman. Those days are long gone.

Common Law Marriage in New York
A “common law marriage” is one in which the parties may hold themselves out as a husband and wife, and under certain circumstances, be deemed married without a marriage license or ceremony.

New York does not allow the creation of a �common law� marriage, a relationship in which a couple lives together but have not participated in a lawful ceremony. Unlike some other states, in New York a couple cannot acquire marital rights and responsibilities by living together for a particular period of time. You do not need legal action to end such a relationship, if it was created in New York.

However, New York does recognize as valid, common law marriages created in other states if the legal requirements of those states have been met. As a result, legal action is needed to dissolve legal �common law� marriages performed in other states and foreign countries in compliance with their licensing and ceremonial regulations. The courts are available for determining the rights of parties now living in New York.

As long as a couple lives together as husband and wife, the question of validity of their marriage is unlikely to arise. However, for purposes of inheritance or the benefits of pension plans or social security, a valid marriage is required.

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