And so it begins…. The Money Grab

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  • #775922
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    CombatRoll
    CombatRoll
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    As I near month 8 of being off the plantation, the “negotiations” (ass rape) begins.

    Her contribution over 20+ years:
    for 4 years she has paid health insurance
    for 4 years a car payment.
    Saved NOTHING and has little in 401(k)
    Money falls through her hands like water.

    My contributions:
    Paid mortgage for 20+ years.
    Bought every car except the one she has made payments on for 4 years.
    Paid all home, car insurance for 20+ years and health insurance up to 4 years ago.
    I have 20… yes TWENTY times what she has in 401(k)
    Paid all childcare
    Paid for every vacation
    Paid for every Gas, electricity, and water bill
    Paid off her credit card debt multiple times
    She screwed me on veneers for her teeth, expensive gifts and wasteful things for the house. Blah Blah Blah
    Basically I’ve proved everything.

    On top of it all, she has stolen money from savings, stolen my debit/credit cards and my check book when she “needed” things.

    So, of course in light of her incredible contributions to the household she should get half of everything right?? So says the law.

    #775944
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    Two Time Winner
    Two Time Winner
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    I feel your pain as I just went through it, divorce final March 26, 2018. During the 24 years we were married I earned three times as much as she did. She took progressive lesser challenging jobs each one paying less even though she has a Masters degree. Yes, I paid for it and the two years it took to complete. Finally she quit working entirely 5 years ago. I am a CPA and averaged 55 to 60 hours each week during the time we were married. During tax time it was nights and weekends. Did cupcake complain about the money I was bringing home, no, she complained that I was not spending enough time with her,

    While working she purchased about two thirds of the house hold groceries. Not sure where all her money went, we didn’t have that many candles or pillows. Not a hell of a lot in the 401k account. Of course, I paid for all the other house hold bills including the mortgage (in 15 years), paid for vacations, bought her a couple of cars and gave in to her every whim. None of that s~~~ matters, family court is not designed to be fair. It is designed to screw men.

    It is not right, it is not fair, hell, it is not even moral. But that is the female “justice” system. It is designed to take assets away from men and give them to women. You don’t have to like it, but you have to take it, or spend the rest of your life in jail.

    TTW

    I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

    #775980
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    Sky-O
    Sky-O
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    But you had access to her pussy for two decades!!!

    That’s worth something when running MPCs (Married Prostitute Calculations)

    The court is going to give her a bunch of stuff because of that in accordance with the financial slavery contract known as marriage.

    Unless you have video of her torturing the kids. Or video of her in a five guy gangbang in your bedroom:

    It’s payback time for princess and she will now unveil who and what she is in court.

    #776029
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    Atton
    Atton
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    Consider a second passport.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #776090
    IMickey503
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    Consider a second passport.

    Consider a second passport.

    (It’s time to start the wave. )

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #776094
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    PuniShredder
    PuniShredder
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    I’d burn it all before I Gave any to the c~~~! LONG before divorce I’d have it all removed, sold, GONE! F~~~ these bitches..Machiavelli mode!

    Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

    #776134
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    I’d burn it all before I Gave any to the c~~~! LONG before divorce I’d have it all removed, sold, GONE! F~~~ these bitches..Machiavelli mode!

    I like how you roll!
    Try to minimize your assets and burn the rest.They think we owe them for a fishy,stinky, meat hole f~~~ that!

    Never lose sight of what brought you here.

    #776136
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    Anonymous
    38

    Ah the old state-sponsored transfer of wealth from the oppressor to the oppressed.

    Men, heed this warning! If you must deal with women follow these golden rules:

    Don’t marry
    Don’t have kids
    Don’t get a joint bank account

    Then she will have no rights to your assets or future earnings should you break up.

    #776214
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    Anonymous
    12

    Now is the time to sell the boat and hide the money, join a “gambler’s association”, see a Psycho doc for depression and gambling, do a short trip to las vegas to “lose” money and gamble your life away, and pretend you have nothing when the lawyers discuss.
    And provide a paper trail as proof best you can.

    one cannot reach into the pockets of a nekkid man?

    #776648
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    Oz-Bloke
    Oz-Bloke
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    All part of the Vagina Monetization Scam (VMS). Too late for some of us who have already been divorce-raped, but at least many young men are now MGTOW wise and can avoid a similar fate.
    .
    Divorce Middleman MGTOW
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    Typical divorce house dog meme MGTOW

    #ManOut

    #776651
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    Anonymous
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    I know some of the advice was “tongue in cheek”…but make sure you don’t get tagged for “wasting of assets.”
    You might get raped harder for ANY change in ANY thing (selling a stock, cashing a bond, etc.).

    Unless there were very unusual and careful safeguards carefully crafted and instituted:

    Who paid the bills doesn’t matter.
    ALL HER MONEY, ALL YOUR MONEY WENT INTO ONE BUCKET.
    ALL BILLS WERE PAID FROM THE ONE BUCKET.
    THE ONE BUCKET GETS SPLIT BASICALLY IN HALF.
    [That is, if you are LUCKY.]

    [BTDT and the pain is very real.]

    #776823
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    NoMore
    NoMore
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    It’s the conundrum of the group project in school. One person does most of the work. One person rarely shows up. Pass or fail, they all get the same grade.

    It sure as hell isn’t fair.

    I’m looking at paying STBxW child support that amounts to the average yearly FAMILY income in my area. She can basically do nothing for the next 15 years and live like the average family here. That ignores the money she will get from the division of property.

    It sucks.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

    #776858
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    CombatRoll
    CombatRoll
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    I know some of the advice was “tongue in cheek”…but make sure you don’t get tagged for “wasting of assets.”
    You might get raped harder for ANY change in ANY thing (selling a stock, cashing a bond, etc.).

    Unless there were very unusual and careful safeguards carefully crafted and instituted:

    [That is, if you are LUCKY.]

    [BTDT and the pain is very real.]

    What angers me most is that I’ve been the honest one the entire marriage, doing the “right things” with money and she consistently has stolen from savings, run up cards without me knowing, etc.

    Now I’m strapped for money and we’ve legally separated and I need funds. I have a ton in 401(k) and she has nothing. Yet I can’t take any out? I may take some out anyway and just take my lumps.

    What would be the smartest way or is it too late? I guess I should have siphoned some out before leaving. Hindsight.

    #776932
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    Vlad
    Vlad
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    Too late, I’m afraid. Since divorce going official, all your actions may be viewed through prism of “trying to evade lawful obligations”. The same applies to both former spouses, it would be nice to study local law to see what obligations SHE has…

    If you have reliable friends, it may be good to appear some debt chits “I borrowed money from them to cover my wife’s inconsiderable expenses”, yadda yadda…
    Good way to test loyalty, with money you are about to lose 😁.

    Also document EVERYTHING. You can’t win legal battles without “ammunition”, and everything that can help you be raped not too hard counts.

    Marriage is the tomb of love (c)Giacomo Casanova

    #779975
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    Won'tGetFooledAgain
    Won'tGetFooledAgain
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    As soon as you buy a house, even if she has never put a penny towards it she considers it “Her house”. As far as she is concerned she doesn’t really want to have sex with you like she does with chads, so you giving her a house is payment for access to her pussy.

    Once she thinks she can grab enough cash and prizes in the divorce she will start flirting with Chad on Facebook and the wheels are in motion, you are history.

    I know women who are living in multi million pound houses that they did nothing to pay for who still try and tell me their husbands are losers. Deep down this is not because he didn’t earn enough money (because he clearly did) but because he is not top 20% Alpha and didn’t give her the tingles.

    So they have the house and financial security so decide to go for what will make them happy, tingles, feelz and drama with Chads.

    For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

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