An Apology to Black Men

[RyderParticipant 28]

Dear Black Men. I’ve been p~~~ed with you for a good while now. I have looked at what you’ve let happen to the black family… how you’ve let black children be raised outside a committed relationship… and all of the damage that does to those kids, and to society as a whole.

But then I saw a video by a black man that plainly asked the question: Why stay around, when the woman doesn’t want you there? I wish I remember who said it. But it stuck in my mind.

And even though I went MGTOW on my TV (abandoning it 15 years ago… which I HIGHLY recommend, fellas), I still manage to see s~~~ like this come up on YouTube.

When I first saw the Maury Povitch show… using DNA testing to find out who the fathers were… I was disgusted. I couldn’t fathom anything about it. The horror of seeing this kind of depravity becoming entertainment on TV made me ill. But it was something about the women that made me ill most of all. How could they be SO wrong about who the father of their children were? Shouldn’t they be right nearly 100% of the time? And you can’t miss the fact that it’s black women the vast majority of the time… seldom whites… never Asians.

And this too stuck in my mind.

Then came my red pill revelations…. and all of these things gel for me.

Now I clearly see what these black men have been talking about for so long.

The biggest reason for single-motherhood, *IS* single mothers. They demand full control of their bodies (including when they are hosting a human life that they feel free to extinguish at a whim). Well. It is their body. And if they are single mothers… then it’s on them. Men can’t lie and say “but baby, I *am* wearing a condom”. So what’s going down, those women know… and if THEY can’t even keep track of who the father likely is… then we’re talking about a bunch of careless whores, totally engrossed in themselves. And even the women that DO know who the father is… chances are she might have never told him, never wanting him to know… but then looking him up when she wanted access to his back pocket… denying a child their father, and vice versa… and coming clean ONLY when she wants cash. That’s pure evil.. Then the next group of men… those that WERE told they were the father. Knowing how black women are conducting themselves… who can blame those black men for not believing her accusation? Why believe lying bitches? Finally, we have the men that know where their children are… and aren’t there for them… but even then, I’m convinced that many of those cases are entrapment… when the woman is telling lies about birth control… and using children to snare him so she can abuse him, and suck the blood out of him. It’s hard to blame a man for leaving that.

Now we’re at the end. The assholes that know where their kids are, and the woman is a good, honest woman where an accident happened and she and the kids need you…. but you elect not to be there. You’re not a man, and I despise you. But I now am certain that it’s very few men that fall into this category.

But to all those other men… the ones being wronged by those women. I know now that it’s on them… and I was wrong to loath you for it.

I am truly sorry.

These women… who in another time would have been decent women… have been radically altered by a feminized culture that is the core of this cancer. Feminism wants you blamed because you are men… and you’ve been politically and culturally scapegoated for it, and I fell for it too.

I want to leave you with one final thought. You know that feminism wrongly turned society against you as men and fathers. Please consider this possibility… and that is the leftist race hustlers have played YOU as well… getting you to believe that white people are evil and racist, and want to keep you down. Don’t fall for this like women have fallen for feminist bulls~~~. They need to believe that crap, because it gets them off the hook for the s~~~ they pull. And the race hustlers do the same… getting you off the hook for the s~~~ you pull.

Do what black women (and plenty of every other flavor woman) will not do. Cut the s~~~. Own up to how you live your life in a no excuses way. MGTOW your way out of the destructive tidal wave that is modern woman, and beneath the radar of the institutions she has corrupted. Respect yourself, stop making excuses, and be the best man you can be and I guarantee you your white brothers will welcome you with open arms. You’ll have all the respect and free beer that you can imagine.

Be seeing you.

R

I wash my Ferrari with the tears of lonely feminists.

[Anonymous 5]

Paul Proteus further explains the reasoning,,,and no, it’s definitely not white bashing

[RyderParticipant 28]

OK Lodoss… I don’t know if you are agreeing with me, or disagreeing… but I’d have to say that black women are pretty f~~~ed up these days… they’re clearly not wise… and yet they’ve been down the same tough road as black men…

Sometimes going down a rough road just means your feet are calloused and bleeding.

Maybe I didn’t make clear enough what I was trying to say… which was, in essence… black men have been getting blamed for the fatherlessness that feminism has created which most black women have subscribed to, to one degree or another. And I bought into that as well. I wanted to openly expose this mistake that many make, myself specifically.

I think black women have succumb to this more than anyone else, because the feminized left hit them from both sides… feminists AND race baiters were all over black women for decades. Government programs targeted them as well. It’s done a lot of damage, and we should acknowledge that, but in the end, if you claim your body as yours… then you have to be held accountable for what you do with it… and if you create generation after generation of children without men in their lives… then those black women need to be held to task. With rights come responsibilities.

And for the most part, it’s not the black men at fault here.

I wash my Ferrari with the tears of lonely feminists.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Women have ALWAYS been whores. That’s how they survived.

It wasn’t for money … at the start … it was for food, heat and protection.

That came from a man.

The state has removed men to weaken the family. The state is now their man.

However, by nature … they’re still whores …. and programmed to aquire assets via their charms.

They can’t fk daddy state …. so anything and everything else will do.

The brakes are off …. black, white, yellow ….. they’re just being released at different rates.

But yes … I agree … black guys were … and still are the petri dish for most ‘social improvement’

[Anonymous 5]

Ryder wrote:

Maybe I didn’t make clear enough what I was trying to say… which was, in essence… black men have been getting blamed for the fatherlessness that feminism has created which most black women have subscribed to, to one degree or another. And I bought into that as well. I wanted to openly expose this mistake that many make, myself specifically

Believe it or not I used to automatically think this of any man who left his family. That’s how brainwashed I was.
I used to listen and believe single mothers I was f~~~ing or trying to f~~~ and believe every word of their “Evil Ex” story.
I eventually realized (before the Red Pill) that sad sob stories about Ex’s was a massive red flag.
We’re conditioned to think it’s always the man’s fault,,,,,because women are such emotionally vulnerable, care giving, family conscious wives and mothers,,,well that’s what we were told.
Yep, I used to believe this s~~~ even when all of reality was otherwise.
I used to think it was just my wife who was a ruthless bitch, and wives of the men I knew, and the women in our social group, street and suburb. The girls from school and the women from work,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,it was just them!
Being an idiot I finally took it to the highest level, like other idiots, and started thinking it was just the women in my country.

Cognitive dissonance combined with ignorance beats reality every time.

[RyderParticipant 28]

Love the PaulProteus vid. He’s secure in having lived through a lifetime of being treated like a n~~~~…. he knows how it is, and has learned to accept the plight of it… and to walk around the land mines and hope for the best.

It takes skill and fortitude, and I respect that.

But I don accept the whole of it. His analysis is fundamentally right. But what he may be culturally missing is the *expectation* that white men have of themselves (hell, the whole world when you get down to it), which is to create, by their minds and hands, a better world. For everyone. That it’s their job to do for the simple sake of doing it. And they’re not used to losing. Asians aren’t either culturally, and they are kicking ass in most metrics (in the US) because of it. And it’s *all* a cultural thing.

But white men have a distinct advantage here… which is: they have no excuses. When you get up, every day, and nobody will give you the luxury of an excuse to not be 100% self actualizing, that gives you a vastly different perspective that comes with burden and a power all its own. But nobody is going to listen to a white man’s excuses. He can’t choose to let himself fall… with attending excuse (real or otherwise).

This is why white men kill themselves. They have no excuses… and they accept this. The burden of this is that when they fail… their fault or not, it’s on them. They don’t get to bitch and they don’t get to whine because nobody is going to listen to it (other men included).

You just put the gun to your head and pull the trigger. It’s your final duty.

What I’d say to Paul is: I know you’re wearing the old worn (yet formed and familiar) shoes of being f~~~ed over when you aren’t deserving, and you’ve learned to deal with that and keep yourself going… but there are some guys out there that can’t settle for that. The guys raised with the absolute expectation… the responsibility… to be successful and to be judged by it, are adding a new and positive twist to these events.

The goal here is not to lay low and hopefully not be crushed. The goal here is to win by taking freedom, and redefining the rules, and the road to success… with every intent to pull it off.

And there is reason to think we will… for we know, for certain, that the world literally depends on us to function.

What has happened with feminism, is that men have had to still be the movers and shakers of the world, and we have… AND we’ve gone a long way toward being able to do what women have done… and even besting them.

I know so many men that can cook circles around women. Master f~~~ing chefs… they can change a diaper with the lights off. Men have become more fair minded, while women have become less fair minded. We say: equality? Sounds great. You’re driving. We’re splitting the check. Let’s go to dinner.

In short, we’ve come further than women have. We’re still happy… and poised to be happier. We don’t need to have kids clutching our ankles in order to be happy… we’re lucky that way. We can just do what we’ve always done… and not have a woman or her kids to hold us back. They want to go to the sperm bank and try it on their own? Then it’s on them. Have a good time, ladies.

The key: We’re not bitter. We’re not vengeful. We don’t whine… and most important, we don’t want anything from anyone. Till y’all decide you want to make a fairer family court… we’re not even playing in that sandbox. Not threats… you just won’t find us there.

You can have have all the fool gays that fought to get into what we’re putting behind us.

We have the strength and patience to just let things fall where they may…. and truth become self evident.

I wash my Ferrari with the tears of lonely feminists.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

The feminist missile launch struck the black community first starting with “no fault” divorce and governMAN aid and black women ran to the checks,infiltrated the household kicked the “deadbeat” father out and the rest is history. Remember the “I dont need a man”slogan came from black women I heard it all my life,but everytime I turn around they are extracting a check from a man one way or the other or they sink. Black men are afraid to openly blame this quote”black queen” for her doings why? because like mangina’s they are scared they wont get laid by this invisible person. The meat of the problem in black society is the black women! She is raising thugs and whores end of story.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[HitmanParticipant]

nothing says your “sorry ” like $$$$$$ !!! lot of money been paid already , but i get what your’e saying ..clean your conscience if you must .. with my respect ..

[RoyDalParticipant]

Six or seven generations ago (the number depends on which family), during the FDR administration, many-times-great-grandma discovered she can do without a Patriarchal Dominance of a Father Figure for Her Children. All this time since the pre-WW2 years, she and her female descendants have been sitting around the table in gramma’s kitchen playing cards and gossiping. Their sons have been, and still are, running wild in the streets. Their daughters are busy spawning, for this is where their govt checks come from.

Yup. Pay them and they will do what you pay them for. It is that simple.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[HitmanParticipant]

o.k. ..1 kid every 13 years x ( from 1933 when FDR began his presidency ) 82 years ..= 6.3 generations ….my MOM was born before then ! ONE , count 1 ONE generation for my family ! …( slow breeders i guess … lol ! ) …

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

RoyDal wrote:

Six or seven generations ago (the number depends on which family), during the FDR administration, many-times-great-grandma discovered she can do without a Patriarchal Dominance of a Father Figure for Her Children. All this time since the pre-WW2 years, she and her female descendants have been sitting around the table in gramma’s kitchen playing cards and gossiping. Their sons have been, and still are, running wild in the streets. Their daughters are busy spawning, for this is where their govt checks come from.

Yup. Pay them and they will do what you pay them for. It is that simple.

Spot on! And I will add just ONE MORE THING TO THAT, which is THE REASON why this happens, to each and every man out there:

Women are praised and offered lots of free s~~~, because big pappa “State” NEEDS more kids to feed the grinder. This is WHY women who spawns a lot of little ones are the ones who gets more s~~~ out of ole pappa “State”.

Just like HENS in a egg production facility… The ones who lays more eggs, gains more food, so they can lay more eggs and keep future stock of hens growing and keeping the production of eggs growing too.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Anonymous wrote:

Paul Proteus further explains the reasoning,,,and no, it’s definitely not white bashing
<iframe src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/Jfmay9UpXvo?feature=oembed” allowfullscreen=”” frameborder=”0″ height=”281″ width=”500″></iframe>

very interesting perspective. thanks for that.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

From the above you can see why many black women want to get themselves a white man as they think the average ‘white boy’ doesn’t know about the BS that comes with dating the average black women.

Some of the things I’ve heard black women say:

‘get a white man, they’re easy to wrap around your finger’
‘white men have got more money’
‘you can slap a white guy and he won’t slap you back’
‘its easy to pimp a white guy’

Forget dating/cohabiting with a black chick, it’s not worth playing with a hand grenade when most of them will explode.

I don't need pussy

[Author]

Posts