am I the only MGHOW and Nofapper who exists?

[BraceParticipant 467]

I must say it’s rather hard, not watching porn not stroking it especially when living in a conservative society where access to sex as a service is not possible either I’m close to 200 days nofap but after dumbing my gf few weeks back (we never had sex) nofap started to get harder, I have to see though being a mghow and being hardmode open my eyes alot on how our society chuckles us with our attraction to women and how clear minded I am not responding to urges cuz of women body “sexual transmutation”?. but am I to do nofappers ultimate goal is intimacy with women through relationship and marriage and since I’m a mgtow I’m against relationships and marriage but I don’t have access to sex services. it enabled me to focus on other aspects of my life but there are times I become too horny and it becomes extremely hard. especially when I get triggered by seeing something online. I feel that Nofap and are conflicting philosophies at times but when combined good outcomes could come out of it. such as losing 18kg in this period and doing good in post grad school etc.
sorry if I made few english mistakes. English is my 3rd language. would love to hear from others who gave nofap a shot and what they have learned from that experience being MGTOW as well.

[Anonymous 11]

No, there are others.

My fapping has dropped 10 fold since Hurricane Matthew too much stress on me recovering from it. I’m still ahead of a lot of other folks so that probably explains it. The city condemned a house two blocks over due to the damage.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Brace wrote:

sorry if I made few english mistakes. English is my 3rd language

Mine too. I continually marvel at men (in many introductions) who APOLOGIZE for imperfect English as a 3rd language. I once made a stupid typo online and a woman called me “illiterate” for typing “there” instead of “their”. She couldn’t even conjugate a verb in her OWN first language, and when I asked her how to say it in German or French, she disappeared pretty fast.

—

I admit I see no appeal or benefit in “nofap” as a practice or discipline. In fact, when I was in my late 20s, a man once recommended “fapping” before going out on a date…. and that was truly MANTASTIC advice.

My posture and pace was more relaxed, there was no anxiety or urgency, I spoke less and more slowly, and I barely cared if sex happened at the end of the evening.

Men have a biological need to ejac like we need to take a p~~~. I see more value in taking care of business, so my hardwiring doesn’t distract from things that matter more.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Brace wrote:

I feel that Nofap and [MGTOW] are conflicting philosophies at times

They’re not.

Going Your Own Way means refusing to marry, refusing to cohabitate, and refusing to procreate, because these are the three ways men are enslaved in our society. There’s nothing in any of that about masturbating, one way or the other.

If masturbating helps some MGTOW deal with the hormonal pressures that would otherwise push them into marriage etc., then by all means those MGTOW should masturbate. However if a man with the self discipline to refuse to masturbate also has the self discipline to refuse marriage etc., that’s also Going His Own Way.

So long as you stay free, however you manage to stay free is up to you. If masturbating helps that, then masturbate. If not masturbating helps that, then don’t masturbate.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

If you need a sexual release – masturbating will do the job. No complications, expense, commitment. Nothing wrong at all with that. After reading through the many travails of men here – imagine how much collective misery could have been avoided if we all fapped before jumping in to a committed relationship with a woman.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I’ve tried but the longest I can go is only a few days. Fapping has helped me from making stupid mistakes. Just last night I was thinking about asking out a girl who I’ve seen at my gym for a few weeks now. Once the fapping was done, the thoughts of the girl were out of my head.

To each is own, if you master it, more power to you. I do believe there are medical studies that show ejaculating helps keep your prostate healthy.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

I fap enough to make up for several of you guys.

[Anonymous 1]

This is a little off topic (and I’ve experienced this too in relationships), but I have friends who prefer fapping to sex with their gf’s/wives.

Things start off well, but when she starts piling on the pounds and farting infront of you, then the eroticism and sexual allure is lost.

I was in a 5 year relationship and she threatened to go elsewhere if I didn’t have sex with her.

I told her that was absolutely fine with me. Our relationship ended shortly after.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

I don’t see the point in nofap, I associate it with religion, and religion also tell that a man should marry…
I strongly suspect that the nofap is a religious idea meant to push a man towards marriage, so nofap it’s probably the worst thing to do as MGHOW.

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[Anonymous 1]

Bluepill nofappers have the goal of a relationship and eventually marriage, those guys do not even know what they are getting into. You are not alone brother, I too practice celibacy with a nofap mindset, that is a journey, and I am not of those extremists that says “I AM NEVER GONNA FAP AGAIN”. I just want to be a man that do not watches porn, and I see nothing wrong with it, as I see nothing wrong with people that want to watch it, to each his own.

I am a MGTOW noporn, as for fapping, I can honestly say that rubbing one out does not sound that bad to me(without porn it feels like the first times when you had to use fantasy), I plan on exploring more things in the future, trying a flashlight or a doll seems all experiences worth a try.

But hey, you go your own way, and I go mine, but remember that you are never alone.

[Anonymous 1]

Samsquanch wrote:

I’ve tried but the longest I can go is only a few days. Fapping has helped me from making stupid mistakes. Just last night I was thinking about asking out a girl who I’ve seen at my gym for a few weeks now. Once the fapping was done, the thoughts of the girl were out of my head.

Our greatest problem is that females have invaded all our spaces, that is why controlling yourself has become more difficult. And the worst thing is that they feel free to dress as sluts, no wonder you feel like approaching one and asking her out to bang the s~~~ out of her.

Self control takes a lot of discipline and willpower nowadays.

[JVBParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

They’re not.

Going Your Own Way means refusing to marry, refusing to cohabitate, and refusing to procreate, because these are the three ways men are enslaved in our society. There’s nothing in any of that about masturbating, one way or the other.

If masturbating helps some MGTOW deal with the hormonal pressures that would otherwise push them into marriage etc., then by all means those MGTOW should masturbate. However if a man with the self discipline to refuse to masturbate also has the self discipline to refuse marriage etc., that’s also Going His Own Way.

So long as you stay free, however you manage to stay free is up to you. If masturbating helps that, then masturbate. If not masturbating helps that, then don’t masturbate.

Definitely what he said !!

Peace is > piece.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Can’t remember the last time—was long ago; and the only porn I look at is cartoon porn; more funny than sexy…unless its Japanese then its just weird. Pokemon has HOW many? WHAT?

[BraceParticipant 467]

lol I didn’t expect to receive that much replies in only 2 hours. I’m also thankful that all of u showed support even though it goes against what you believe in, I respect this alot.
I would definitely say that nofap is not for everyone. the main reason I gave up porn and masturbation is cuz we in the family we have addictive tendencies, it’s a double edges knife since if it’s channeled properly one could end up specialized in a field and makes tons of money in the process potentially , my dad is a nephrologist practices clinically and teaches at the university but at the same time he struggled with nicotine addiction 2-3 packs a day. almost cost him his life few years back ( would blame it more on my mom putting constant pressure on him though than cigarettes)

that and my preference in porn started to deviate from what I deem acceptable and felt that I needed to stop and reset.

another reason is that I no longer want to feel dependent in pleasure to the women body. and it honestly worked I derive more pleasure from doing other things than watching P. I also feel way better about myself than when I started. I feel I am in control over my body and thoughts which is nice and spills over to other areas of life 🙂

[BraceParticipant 467]

Anonymous wrote:

No, there are others.

My fapping has dropped 10 fold since Hurricane Matthew too much stress on me recovering from it. I’m still ahead of a lot of other folks so that probably explains it. The city condemned a house two blocks over due to the damage.

sorry to hear about that. I hope u and ur family are alright.
I definitely know how u feel. my life changed completely when ISIS entered our house stayed there for 2 years and them and the Libyan army started a guerrilla fight in it. stole everything and made tons of damage.

I think thats part of the reason why I stopped fapping for a while as well.
if your interested u can see before/after pics of the amount of damage done to the property. we made the album to spread awareness and to some of the lying media that seem to want to cover up on whats happening in Libya.
here is the album.
https://www.flickr.com/gp/38592521@N04/4Q0E1P

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

The last time I jerked off was in 2005.

I’ve been 100% monk since then.

You have to watch your prostate!
Mine used to act up a bit but got better since I’ve been eating pumpkin seeds.

And stay the f~~~ away from porn of course.

Monk

[Anonymous 1]

Meister wrote:

And stay the f~~~ away from porn of course.

Can I ask why?

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Anonymous wrote:

Meister wrote:

And stay the f~~~ away from porn of course.

Can I ask why?

because it will make you horny

Monk

[Anonymous 1]

Meister wrote:

because it will make you horny

On the contrary…..Once I’m done.

I don’t understand the logic in denying biological needs.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Anonymous wrote:

Meister wrote:

because it will make you horny

On the contrary…..Once I’m done.

I don’t understand the logic in denying biological needs.

It’d take too long to explain properly but I’ll try to do it in a nutshell:

I’ve been practicing yoga and meditation for over 15 years.

When you watch porn you program your consciousness to think about sex.
You might feel a superficial temporary relive fron jerking off to it but your sex drive will return not too long afterwards and in spades.
If you watch porn you will also draw sex and low bitches into your life. You might not notice this but it happens. It’s a metaphysical law.

The purpose of not fapping is to transmute the sexual energy into other energy.

This is hard to do and requires a disciplined lifestyle.
I don’t drink, or smoke or take drugs.
I only eat healthy food and no sweets. I do not socialize with almost anybody.
I exercise regularly and het fresh air and sunshine.

When I was 24 I ghosted my entire family and everybody I ever knew. And I control my thoughts because thoughts eventually manifest as matter.

If you are not willing to do all this then just smoke, drink, fap and be jolly ?

What I do works but is extremely hardcore and certainly not for everyone.

Monk

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