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I am a monk.
I have never been promiscuous in my life. I have had sex literally with only one woman… my ex wife. That’s it.
This is partly for religious reasons but I know for an absolute FACT that I would feel disgusted with myself if I were to go out and just look for some quick lay with a dumb whore whose name I don’t even know. F~~~ that noise. It’s a waste of time, money, and energy that I could have spent doing things I love that help me improve myself as a person.
Even if I wasn’t religious I wouldn’t go chasing vagina. That’s inviting a whole lot of risk and drama into my life. A constant headache. A drain on my resources.
I’m not insulting the OP here but I laugh at the notion that cold approaching women in public makes you somehow more “alpha” or manly or whatever.
No. It doesn’t.
That’s just animal instinct. Stray dogs can do that, and do.
You are risking STDs, assault/harrassment charges, and getting the woman pregnant with the subsequent loss of custody and child support orders (and jail if you can’t pay). All that, just for the 10 seconds of pleasure when you shoot your load.
It’s mind-numbingly stupid.
It’s not my habit to be this blunt in person with people. Usually I will just smile and nod if people excitedly tell me about “how I got laid last night.” But here, this is where we give men the hard truths they should hear for the benefit of their health, both mental and physical.
Because women sure as f~~~ don’t care about your health.
"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul
Anonymous43I support your efforts to get women as long as you do not use my wallet, or my doinkus. Have a good time.
Thanks guys for all of your inputs.
Respect for standing up to the gynocentric machine that is designed to enslave men and f~~~ it up to take our power back.
You dudes are part of a small band of men that have the b~~~~ to do this. Most men are emasculated pussies.I respect that.
Red pill go down the hoooooooole. It’s bittersweet, but it’s packed full of nutrients 🙂
Achieve Individual Greatness!
Some of you guys are being harsh on the OP. The core mantra of MGTOW is to reject long-term relationships, marriage and co-habbiting.
There’s nothing wrong with spinning plates or getting laid if that’s your thing.
Some of you guys are being harsh on the OP. The core mantra of MGTOW is to reject long-term relationships, marriage and co-habbiting.
There’s nothing wrong with spinning plates or getting laid if that’s your thing.No we’re not—we are just answering his question which was: Feel so jaded by women after cold approaching them in Toronto. Can you relate?
Answer No because I’m not a pussy worshipping/chasing adolescent governed by the demands of my c~~~, instead of my brain. You ask—you get.
Anonymous54Blah blah blah.
Hahah!!!
Dont care!! Hahah
Anonymous54Cold approaching is pua nonsense.
Its how to be a creepy guy.
Hit on all of them, and sonner or later youll get a yes.
From the” lowest bidder”
Not how I did it.
I make them want to come to me.
I am a monk.
I have never been promiscuous in my life. I have had sex literally with only one woman… my ex wife. That’s it.
This is partly for religious reasons but I know for an absolute FACT that I would feel disgusted with myself if I were to go out and just look for some quick lay with a dumb whore whose name I don’t even know. F~~~ that noise. It’s a waste of time, money, and energy that I could have spent doing things I love that help me improve myself as a person.
Even if I wasn’t religious I wouldn’t go chasing vagina. That’s inviting a whole lot of risk and drama into my life. A constant headache. A drain on my resources.
I’m not insulting the OP here but I laugh at the notion that cold approaching women in public makes you somehow more “alpha” or manly or whatever.
No. It doesn’t.
That’s just animal instinct. Stray dogs can do that, and do.
You are risking STDs, assault/harrassment charges, and getting the woman pregnant with the subsequent loss of custody and child support orders (and jail if you can’t pay). All that, just for the 10 seconds of pleasure when you shoot your load.
It’s mind-numbingly stupid.
It’s not my habit to be this blunt in person with people. Usually I will just smile and nod if people excitedly tell me about “how I got laid last night.” But here, this is where we give men the hard truths they should hear for the benefit of their health, both mental and physical.
Because women sure as f~~~ don’t care about your health.
My God, do I have another account and am posting under a different name while I am asleep? Are you my identical twin I dont know about? So much yes.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
Anonymous1Please don’t think I’m being offensive, but you seem to be playing with fire. Any of these women could ruin your life and reputation with one phone call.
Steer well clear would be my advice.Blah blah blah.
Hahah!!!
Dont care!! HahahAin’t that so Old Sage. You know Brother.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Just a few thoughts. I’m speaking for myself mainly and some of it is based on observations on this site. Most of the men on this site have had their ass reamed and then cauterized with a flamethrower by women, sometimes multiple women, multiple times. Then they got re-f~~~ed in the Family court system, their magina friends, and the entire gynocentric system that they were programmed from birth to serve. Your on the wrong site to get PUA info. Most of us would just as soon bury the bitches as look at them. So coming here for PUA info is going to get you some significant abrasion.
You wouldn’t go to an alcoholics anonymous website and ask for advice about getting drunk – would you. That’s the closest example I can think of. We see women as alcoholics see the drink.
Anytime you get involved in romantic entanglements you risk your freedom and thus the path of your way.
Been monk myself for 15 years but to give you a point of view I get hit on more by women simply by ignoring them and just being myself.
If what you are wanting is to have sex, I don’t blame you just be aware of the risk: pregnancy, loss of you money and time, the risk of STDs is enormous! And the possible loss of your life, seriously women are nuts, they tell me they are!
Just be careful brother.
"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."
Honestly dude, i can relate to a lot of what you’re saying. I’ve “cold approached” women in every environment imaginable. Everywhere from classrooms and bars to f~~~ing waiting rooms and in lines at the store. And of course there were a lot of girls online, thats where i had the most success by far. My life was all about pursuit.
It started off innocently enough. I just wanted a gf. And I’d meet girls, but they’d let me down, or cheat on me, or whatever. I started to realize they were all sluts, so i started just using them. Then of course i got laid a lot more, and they wanted relationships more…but as soon as I’d relationship with them, they’d turn into the same disgusting women that turned me off in the first place.
I reached a point just like where you are at now. I hated even talking to them, it made me sick to my stomach when I’d think about interacting with them. I was ready to be done. Even though i was getting laid i did not want to do it anymore. I knew that my ultimate fate was to become MGTOW but was not quite ready to accept it. Of course right at that point, i met a NAWALT unicorn, and gave it one last shot. That is another story entirely.
Here is what will happen to you. You will reach a point, if you haven’t already, where you are so disgusted with women it will completely overpower your sex drive. If it hasn’t happened yet, it will after you keep approaching. It will surprise you how quickly it happens. At the same time, your sex drive will start to decrease. I dont know how old you are, for me it happened at age 30. Your desire will decrease due to your libido decreasing and your disgust for women increasing.
If you want my honest advice, here it is. 1) you can simply pay for sex. It is relatively easy, and doesnt require you to interact much. Even though i make enough money, i hate paying for sex because i do not like to give money to whores. But i do occasionally. I wont pay more than $100 per lay though. Eventually i plan to travel so i can experience better and cheaper whores.
Option 2) is to buy a sex doll, or several. Tbh, this is my preference. Say what you want about it, call me a doll f~~~er or whatever. I kid you not, i enjoy it more than like 90% of the girls ive banged, and ive banged a lot. There are a lot of girls i probably never would have pursued if id had that option, and probably shouldnt have. I thought it was weird at first too. But now, i believe dolls are simply better than real women. Sad but true, and also a hell of a lot safer. I have nearly had my life literally destroyed by multiple women, and many men on here have had their lives destroyed. Something for you to consider.
Finally option 3 is to keep casually dating. I do not recommend cold approaching especially in a feminist hellhole like Toronto. You WILL be attacked, arrested, or lose your job eventually if you continue. No i am not exagerrating, this happens to lots of PUA’s. You are playing with fire. But you can meet women casually through tinder, online, or acquaintances. Funny thing is even though i still do this, i no longer try to f~~~ them. I used to be very seductive, but now i prefer not to most of the time. Ive dated girls i knew i definitely could have f~~~ed and made no effort. I am a lot more selective now because frankly, the hell they can unleash on your life is not worth it in most cases.
THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE I HAVE FOR YOU IS THIS: stop worrying so much about women. Eventually they will become less important to you. Focus first and foremost on your career. Your financial well being will always be important to you, especially as you age. Make as much money as you can, spend as little as possible, start saving and investing. You can retire in your 40s or 50s if you are smart. The more gynocentric and male hating our society becomes, the more it will become necessary to have some backup plan or way out. It is going to get harder and more dangerous for men every day. Plan ahead.
Also, focus more on your hobbies. Find meaningful ways of spending your time besides chasing women. You can kick ass and become the best jiujitsu guy in your city. You can learn a new skill like playing an instrument or fixing up cars. You can travel the world. And for f~~~ sake man, get the hell out of Toronto. That should be your mission in life right now. But I mean there’s a million things you can do. Without a woman tying you down and spending your money, your options are limitless.
Whatever you do, do not marry, impregnate, or cohabitate with women. They have too many legal advantages over you. If you really don’t understand why, that is why you need mgtow. Instead of worrying about how to f~~~ more women, learn how to protect yourself from them. Otherwise, i guarantee you, one of them sooner or later will completely destroy you and permanently f~~~ up your life. Don’t let it happen.
That’s sorta what MGTOW is about in a nutshell. May not be the answer you were looking for, but…well, it’s up to you to decide if it is right for you.
Here is what will happen to you. You will reach a point, if you haven’t already, where you are so disgusted with women it will completely overpower your sex drive. If it hasn’t happened yet, it will after you keep approaching. It will surprise you how quickly it happens. At the same time, your sex drive will start to decrease. I dont know how old you are, for me it happened at age 30. Your desire will decrease due to your libido decreasing and your disgust for women increasing.
That happened for me earlier this year, dramatically. I have about 1%-5% of the sex drive now that I probably had in 2014.
I had 2 girlfriends for 3 months, since I started dating each of them within days of each other and didn’t expect anything serious to develop with either of them, and they got more serious over a couple months. So I picked one to break up with.
Neither of them were disgusting acting, or such, but I had no illusions about unicorns being a myth. My disgust with women as a whole has definitely overpowered my sex drive. I can still have sex with the gf, enough to make her happy, but I just find myself not able to initiate things. I can still respond; I’m not disgusted per se to do it and its not some sacrifice I’m doing giving in to doing sex, but it just lacks importance to me.
After my rather intense study of romance, love, sex, marriage, relationships, neurology, evolutionary biology, etc during the summer of 2016, the next project I started pursuing was discarding emotions. Only within the past month or so do I realize how successful I have been. At this point, nearly all emotions are abstract concepts.
I realize I no longer feel fear of anything, including death. I believe love is an illusion, and I’m incapable now of falling in love. I’m almost impossible to make angry now, and I no longer give a fuk about most things that used to bother me. Over the past month or so, I believe I have effectively scrapped all remaining emotions.
As such, I don’t particularly feel like I should allow myself to ever be “legally” be subjugated by a corrupt and irrational society.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
I’ve had my fair share so I turn it down when they bat their eyelashes, twirl around to advertise and the dumb s~~~ they do.
Living for the validation of women or anyone is an empty game. You will not find whatever it is you are looking for until you understand that.
Chase a check, never chase a chick...
I just find women in my city of Toronto have very s~~~ty outlooks…
Say no more.
As a westerner, I believe Toronto should be nuked from space.small town women
I’d suggest this for any PUA activities.
women that do believe in MIGTOW, and tradition. They are on our side.
No they aren’t. It’s not choosing a side, it’s living your life free of their demands.
So once again what should I do for sex, intimacy….just take care of myself until I meet a woman who is red pilled or what?
I sense this occupies a large portion of your thoughts, hopefully not to your own detriment.
Personally, I’ve killed off that part of my brain. When the need arises, there are hoes who do stuff for money or a quick wank can eliminate any need for a woman whatsoever.I can also make my own sandwich and do laundry.
Good luck finding the NAWALT but you will likely be disappointed, especially when something younger and hotter walks by I’m guessing.If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.
Surprised no has mentioned this yet but Stealthy would have told you to go get a fleshlight. Cheaper than a sex doll or prostitute and according to him felt life like. I haven’t had the chance to go out and get one yet but I know a lot of guys on here have one and use them. Just keep the sleeve clean and turn it inside out to air dry for a day or so and it should last you years.
Guys,
I’m just going through a weird phase in my life right now and wanted to know if any of you guys have been or are in a similar phase or situation. I used to love to walk up to women “cold” on the streets and pick them up. I actually got excited by it as it was something most guys didn’t have the b~~~~ or prowess to do. I thrive on things that challenge me, hence why I started my own business, got into MMA, Brazilian jiu jitsu and wanted to meet women in a more obtuse, socially risky way (on the streets) as opposed to behind a screen like a pussy. However, here are the facts with cold approaching women I’ve observed here in Toronto.
(Maybe this is a Toronto thing or a Western thing or a feminist epicentre thing)
In a month, I was able to get over 30 numbers
5 of them turned into dates—-not that great btw.
1 lay——This was a good experience but then the girl just turned cold the day after as if she was micro chipped to turn on/off.
However the rest of the women just turned out to be bats~~~ crazy, dumb, emotionally juvenile, erratic, some wanted me to pay for play( I told them to f~~~ off)I just find women in my city of Toronto to have very s~~~ty outlooks on themselves, on the world, on love, men, relationships, they see people, relationships as dispensable more than men, many are on psychotropic drugs, are mentally, emotionally wrecked, have been used/abused and have holes in their soul now, permanent disfigurations which they expect any future partner to put up with, many are just so brainwashed by the zio global, socialist, marxist, radical 2nd/3rd wave feminazi philosophies that tell them women are superior, men should be inferior or their equals, etc. That’s why you’ll see so many women date these metrosexual, weak, beta men(It’s all for money…while they have a side alpha dick). Whores!
I am trying to go out on the streets again and cold approach women as I do want/need sex but based on my experiences with these f~~~ed up, child like characters that are incarnates of female form, I’m feeling a bit sick to my stomach approaching them. I almost feel like I’m disrespecting myself by going up to them, knowing what wicked, f~~~ed up, disrespecting, ill mannered little girls women are.
Do you think I am being arrogant, prideful or do you also feel like “What the f~~~, who the f~~~ are women….that I should go up to them and try to get their attention or attraction. F~~~ that. They should come up to me. If they don’t. NP, I’ll be rogue and focus on other areas of my life that are more rewarding”.
NOte. I just find that in Toronto or other major western, heavy feminist centres, the women are sooooo f~~~ed up…..that it makes me feel uneasy even looking at them as I know the biochemistry and pscyhology behind their fake, clean, angel like outer shells. I feel less like this when I am approaching foreign women, older women(post millenial age), small town women, women that believe that men should lead and women should obey them a bit, etc.
It’s these western bred, brainwashed wenches that Oliver Reed and the other hellraisers like Sean Connery would often label as shameful, rude dames that need to know their place that I have an issue with.
Its winter also and so far been meeting women, here and there online but really want to go back on the streets however for the last week, I’ve been feeling a bit sick to my stomachwhen the thought of approaching these western, f~~~ed up, dumb, juvenile, one trick pony, monotonous,
drone like, zombie like feminist women has crossed my mind.I know you will say AWALT and I do agree but I’ve had better dealings with non western bred women. or women that do believe in MIGTOW, and tradition. They are on our side.
RE: Lauren Southern, Camille Paglia, Faith Goldy, women on the right…or even alt right, as opposed to the leftist bats~~~ crazy SJW, men hating, pill popping, emotionally wrecked, dog’s dinnerleft over type women that are so frequent in Toronto, in my case.
So once again what should I do for sex, intimacy….just take care of myself until I meet a woman who is red pilled or what? I will go out on the streets and only approach women I think are a bit more well mannered, humble, non feminist types( I can tell…I am very perceptive and read pantomimes very well). What do you guys do??? Just abstain from sex, pay hookers( i will never do that…its self degrading) or what?
Thanks
So you can only close the deal once with 30 numbers? That is only a 3% success rate. At my worst, I’m a .450 hitter. Please don’t come on here gloating about a .003 batting average. You won’t get out of single a with that.
Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.
Anonymous54I pull up on my Bike, and just snap my finger.
Hahhha
There are NO women who believe in mgtow.
There are a few women that think they know what mgtow is and claim to be supportive – but they dont because they are not men.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
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