Almost too good to be true…

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

Well, I’m having the best time here. I’ve been on vacation for over a week and I’m so content with everything. Actually, even work is great. I don’t even have the desire to travel anymore (as a way to escape one’s reality).

I’ve always wanted to get to a point in life where I found inner peace and would be satisfied with the way things are. Well, here I am. It’s a strange feeling. I do however feel like I’m waiting to awaken from this newfound bliss.

I was telling a coworker a month ago how I was almost nervous to see what crap the universe had in store for me. It seems so unnatural NOT to have grievances or annoyances. But I don’t.

I know I’ll enjoy every minute of it for as long as it can last. And if I have shiit coming my way, I’ll deal with it when it arrives.

Anyway, wow. I still have some things from my past to understand and let go, but it’s pretty smooth sailing now.

Thanks to you guys, this site and millenia of wisdom written by great men.

MGTOW until my last breath.

Bless you, guys.

[AutoliteParticipant]

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve always wanted to get to a point in life where I found inner peace and would be satisfied with the way things are. Well, here I am.

I’m nowhere anywhere near that point in my life. I figure that I might hit that point if I should get Alzheimer’s. Wish me luck…

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

Autolite wrote:

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve always wanted to get to a point in life where I found inner peace and would be satisfied with the way things are. Well, here I am.

I’m nowhere anywhere near that point in my life. I figure that I might hit that point if I should get Alzheimer’s. Wish me luck…

All right. I’m rooting for you ! lol

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

so what breakthroughs did you make?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

I dunno. Little things.

I was a bit depressed this summer, drinking a bit too much and being angry at my former family.

I’ve stopped drinking. Started working out. I’ve accepted the fact that even if I go somewhere else, it won’t be better.

I like my job, I like my house, it’s quiet. Getting back into reading.

The stress has gone down a bit. For now, at least. lol

And since this is New Year’s Eve, I really wish the best to all of you, MGTOW.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve always wanted to get to a point in life where I found inner peace and would be satisfied with the way things are. Well, here I am. It’s a strange feeling. I do however feel like I’m waiting to awaken from this newfound bliss.

I could have written the exact same words. It is strange and, like you, I keep waiting for something to happen – the proverbial “other shoe to drop.”

However, I am now realizing that nearly all the stress, angst, frustration and other negative emotions were coming from having a woman in my life… The sea was always stormy, a hurricane always on the horizon and my boat was never good enough.

Now I have calm waters and smooth sailing as far as the eye can see.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

^^ Good to hear.

And now you know that your boat was always good enough, it was just not designed for two.

[EGParticipant 1851]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

so what breakthroughs did you make?

Seems like his “breakthrough” was his finding MGTOW in the first place. 🙂

SpiderHerder wrote:

I’ve accepted the fact that even if I go somewhere else, it won’t be better.

This is where I get stuck. On one hand I know that there is no such place as The Land of Only Nice People. The grass isn’t any greener anywhere else. To move would be to replace one bunch of @ssholes with another. But on the other hand I know there are places that are a lot less blue-pilled than where I’m currently at. I’m the one swimming against the current here in this neighborhood with it’s abundance of blue-haired fat girls who hold hands and kiss in public. Once upon a time they were my peeps. Now they’ve made it clear they don’t want me around through word and deed. A lot has to do with my own self-reflection over time; six years ago when I moved here the world wasn’t as toxic toward men. Plus I was younger and still DJing and partying a lot. This is the neighborhood for that lifestyle. As for me, I’ve gotten a bit too old for that sort of thing, at least on the regular. I could see myself being happier and a place that’s quieter, less liberal, less blue-pilled, and with fewer women around.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

I’m in Florida now for the winter. my problem with that is, down here I run out of things to do and I get bored. At home I have my work, golf, my clubs, and my kids. Here, I love the weather, but I’m truly alone. I’m really debating on bringing one or more of the women I’ve dated and slept with down here to stay with me for a week. If I do it will seriously escalate the relationship, and we all know what dark paths that can lead to.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Swimcat wrote:

I’m in Florida now for the winter. my problem with that is, down here I run out of things to do and I get bored. At home I have my work, golf, my clubs, and my kids. Here, I love the weather, but I’m truly alone. I’m really debating on bringing one or more of the women I’ve dated and slept with down here to stay with me for a week. If I do it will seriously escalate the relationship, and we all know what dark paths that can lead to.

Get a dog. A dog will take up as much of your time as you’re willing to afford it…

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Swimcat wrote:

I’m really debating on bringing one or more of the women I’ve dated and slept with down here to stay with me for a week. If I do it will seriously escalate the relationship, and we all know what dark paths that can lead to.

So really, you are asking us to tell you that it’s a bad idea, even though you already know that.

IT’S A BAD IDEA!

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

The mgtow way. Live a happy health life to spite the hell out of them.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

SpiderHerder wrote:

I dunno. Little things.
I was a bit depressed this summer, drinking a bit too much and being angry at my former family.
I’ve stopped drinking. Started working out. I’ve accepted the fact that even if I go somewhere else, it won’t be better.
I like my job, I like my house, it’s quiet. Getting back into reading.
The stress has gone down a bit. For now, at least. lol
And since this is New Year’s Eve, I really wish the best to all of you, MGTOW.

Good, I’m glad for ya. Happy New Year to you and everyone. Here’s for an even better, more unnecessary-drama-free 2020.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

743 roadmaster wrote:

The mgtow way. Live a happy health life to spite the hell out of them.

You got it, man !

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Good, I’m glad for ya. Happy New Year to you and everyone. Here’s for an even better, more unnecessary-drama-free 2020.

Thanks, man. I think 2020 will kick ass. LOL

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3758]

EG wrote:

This is where I get stuck. On one hand I know that there is no such place as The Land of Only Nice People. The grass isn’t any greener anywhere else. To move would be to replace one bunch of @ssholes with another. But on the other hand I know there are places that are a lot less blue-pilled than where I’m currently at. I’m the one swimming against the current here in this neighborhood with it’s abundance of blue-haired fat girls who hold hands and kiss in public. Once upon a time they were my peeps. Now they’ve made it clear they don’t want me around through word and deed. A lot has to do with my own self-reflection over time; six years ago when I moved here the world wasn’t as toxic toward men. Plus I was younger and still DJing and partying a lot. This is the neighborhood for that lifestyle. As for me, I’ve gotten a bit too old for that sort of thing, at least on the regular. I could see myself being happier and a place that’s quieter, less liberal, less blue-pilled, and with fewer women around.

Well, it seems that the grass where you live isn’t even green at all. In your case, it seems that moving away would improve your daily life. Also, it would allow you to distance yourself from your family too.

Do you have plans for 2020, EG ?

[EGParticipant 1851]

SpiderHerder wrote:

EG wrote:

This is where I get stuck. On one hand I know that there is no such place as The Land of Only Nice People. The grass isn’t any greener anywhere else. To move would be to replace one bunch of @ssholes with another. But on the other hand I know there are places that are a lot less blue-pilled than where I’m currently at. I’m the one swimming against the current here in this neighborhood with it’s abundance of blue-haired fat girls who hold hands and kiss in public. Once upon a time they were my peeps. Now they’ve made it clear they don’t want me around through word and deed. A lot has to do with my own self-reflection over time; six years ago when I moved here the world wasn’t as toxic toward men. Plus I was younger and still DJing and partying a lot. This is the neighborhood for that lifestyle. As for me, I’ve gotten a bit too old for that sort of thing, at least on the regular. I could see myself being happier and a place that’s quieter, less liberal, less blue-pilled, and with fewer women around.

Well, it seems that the grass where you live isn’t even green at all. In your case, it seems that moving away would improve your daily life. Also, it would allow you to distance yourself from your family too.
Do you have plans for 2020, EG ?

Not plans per se. More like storm clouds on the horizon that I must hunker down for. Best to be prepared.

I used to love the place where I live, and I still do if not for the people who’ve taken it over. It’s been six years since I moved here and I don’t know if I’ll make it to seven. If and when I move from this building it will be to somewhere far away from here. Since I’m older now, each move has to count and I can’t afford to have any false steps. My plan today is for my life to look different by next NYE than it looks today. I’m sure I can make that happen. How it will look, though, I have no clue. All I have is a vision if the type of peace I want to surround myself with and the motivation to keep moving in that direction. That’s the plan.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Sounds like you have found that inner “Zen” that we all look for.
Congrats!
Acceptance and being at peace with one(s)self is the gateway to change.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

EG wrote:

My plan today is for my life to look different by next NYE than it looks today. I’m sure I can make that happen…. All I have is a vision if the type of peace I want to surround myself with and the motivation to keep moving in that direction.

That is first step. You have a year to make it happen. Will be here before you know it, and you can be living the life you want.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

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