Almost 10 months off the plantation

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Here it is – time flies.

10 months ago I was still living in financial shackles. Misery. A lying selfish money suck was my prison guard and I saw no way out.

I was scared of divorce rape (rightly so), but the benefits of divorce have clearly outweighed the negatives of staying married.

1) How about your happiness – not passing in the hallway a lying, manipulative money suck every day and instead living in peace and doing what you want when you want.

2) Knowing that now the court documents are signed and filed the financial stuff is cut and dry. No more being bamboozeled for paying for this, that, etc and having no recourse. The selfish one spent all of her money on herself and all of mine went to mortgage, utilities, insurance, cars etc. NOW I WRITE ONE CHECK and she is bitching because it isn’t enough. Suck it: the agreement is signed, bitch.

3) Not begging for sex, acting nice to a total c~~~ so she might feel amorous and dole out some Tang. Ha!! I get more tail in one week now then I used to get in a month – no begging involved and no financial ties.

4) Better relationship with my kids: Seeing two parents in a miserable relationship is horrible for kids. I walk around with a perpetual smile. My kids and I do more together and have a blast. I get 50/50 and there’s a chance I may be getting 80% soon (thats for another post).

5) Cash Flow is better. Granted I lost a s~~~ ton of 401(k) my monthly cash flow is way better. My female lawyer addressed that right off the bat. “Uh, no. This changes today. Her money is hers and yours is hers – no longer the case”. My fem lawyer grew to hate my STBX. I ended up paying HALF of what the ex wanted in child support, kept my pension and bought her out of the house at an absurdly low valuation of the home.

6) Finally how about the freedom from her little “surprises” like, finding out at tax time she defaulted on a loan against her 401(k) and now I’m paying the penalties? How about discovering that back up credit card for a rainy day was taken from your wallet and has been used for nail spa and clothes without you knowing for the past month? Or when she got veneers on her teeth and just sends you the bill? Bwahahahahah. NO MORE OF THIS S~~~.

If you are still living with a selfish entitled womanchild then GET THE F~~~ OFF THE PLANTATION. LEAVE.

Life on the outside is better. Get your ducks in a row, be stealthy and see a lawyer.

Everyone I spoke to who has been through divorce kept telling me that this year would be HELL. It hasn’t been. Maybe I was expecting much worse, but I was pretty damn happy the minute I walked into my new apartment. Other than scraping by when paying lawyer fees and the barrage of hateful texts and phone calls in the middle of the night cussing me out, its been great.

Don’t wait as long as I did. Get out.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

CombatRoll wrote:

Everyone I spoke to who has been through divorce kept telling me that this year would be HELL. It hasn’t been. Maybe I was expecting much worse, but I was pretty damn happy the minute I walked into my new apartment

I think the Experience of Freedom far out weighed ANYTHING that she could do or say.

Once the emotions are Gone. So isn’t their influence and meaning.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Congratulations on your new life and walking the path of the free man!

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Respect @combatroll !

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

CombatRoll wrote:

If you are still living with a selfish entitled womanchild then GET THE F~~~ OFF THE PLANTATION. LEAVE. Life on the outside is better

Amen to that !

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

I was feeling a little down tonight (for good reason) but your post has cheered me up!

Thank you and congratulations.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Max Power wrote:

I was feeling a little down tonight (for good reason) but your post has cheered me up!

Thank you and congratulations.

Well, this makes my day- Keep your chin up and best of luck!

[Anonymous 42]

Awesome reminder!!!

[RykerParticipant 177]

Well done: “Luck is good planning carefully executed”

While there is life there is hope. Freedom!

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Well done a 10 month upside is great ,

[HermitParticipant]

CombatRoll wrote:

Here it is – time flies.

10 months ago I was still living in financial shackles. Misery. A lying selfish money suck was my prison guard and I saw no way out.

I was scared of divorce rape (rightly so), but the benefits of divorce have clearly outweighed the negatives of staying married.

1) How about your happiness – not passing in the hallway a lying, manipulative money suck every day and instead living in peace and doing what you want when you want.

2) Knowing that now the court documents are signed and filed the financial stuff is cut and dry. No more being bamboozeled for paying for this, that, etc and having no recourse. The selfish one spent all of her money on herself and all of mine went to mortgage, utilities, insurance, cars etc. NOW I WRITE ONE CHECK and she is bitching because it isn’t enough. Suck it: the agreement is signed, bitch.

It’s been over 6 years for me, but I know exactly how you feel. I was also terrified of divorce rape and thought I’d be living in my truck, but it all worked out better than I could’ve hoped.

Passing her in the hallway? I’d have such a feeling of relief and peace when I saw her drive away to her job and then get a sick feeling every time I heard that damn garage door open when she would come home. It feels so good now to live alone and I’m always happy.

Money sucking bitch for sure. She bought new appliances when the old ones worked just fine. She wanted all stainless steel just because she liked the way they looked. She never even used the dishwasher, but bought a brand new one to match the other new appliances. She was forever buying new s~~~, spending money unnecessarily and she still does it and even my son can see it. My bank account is doing so much better now that I’m divorced.

One of the happiest days of my life was when the lawyer handed me that divorce decree with the judge’s signature on it. After years of misery, it was finally over and I knew what real freedom was that day. I had to go in for jury duty today and being there in the courthouse remembering the day my divorce was final made it a little more bearable. That feeling of freedom was euphoric.

So here’s to us! We’ve escaped the plantation and we’re never going back!

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[joetechParticipant]

Congratulations! Don’t forget to look me up next time you’re in town. We’ll celebrate!

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Y’all are my heroes who are giving valuable foresight to other men.
I don’t have to get married because you allow me to see the future.

CombatRoll wrote:

passing in the hallway a lying, manipulative money suck every day

Hermit wrote:

such a feeling of relief and peace when I saw her drive away to her job and then get a sick feeling every time I heard that damn garage door open when she would come home.

I can read between the lines. I don’t like my heart being hurt or living in an environment where DREAD is constant monkey on my back. That is extremely unhealthy and could lead to a bad thing. Thanks guys. I will just stay single monk style.

[Anonymous 7]

I still remember the post about how your ‘lying selfish money suck’ signed the papers without realizing that was all she was going to get.

Out-F~~~ing-Standing!

[HermitParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Y’all are my heroes who are giving valuable foresight to other men.
I don’t have to get married because you allow me to see the future.

I can read between the lines. I don’t like my heart being hurt or living in an environment where DREAD is constant monkey on my back. That is extremely unhealthy and could lead to a bad thing. Thanks guys. I will just stay single monk style.

Dread isn’t a strong enough word. It was the ultimate life sucking misery. I actually put a .357 magnum to my head while that awful c~~~ was sleeping blissfully in the very next room. Among the thoughts going through my mind, was one about the fact that she’d probably be more upset about the mess than my suicide. I can hear her bitching about me as she’s cleaning up the blood and brains and also bitching that she’s tired because the gun shot woke her up.

I’ve never been so miserable in my life. Never experienced such hopelessness, such a vacuum where joy, peace and contentment could never exist. I was begging for death to come and I didn’t care which one of us it took.

Nothing, NOTHING good can come from legally binding yourself to a woman. Marriage needs to forever become a thing of the distant past.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

CombatRoll wrote:

Max Power wrote:

I was feeling a little down tonight (for good reason) but your post has cheered me up!

Thank you and congratulations.

Well, this makes my day- Keep your chin up and best of luck!

Cheers bro.

[Anonymous 12]

[LosPukeParticipant 514]

As much of a joy as it is to read your post, CombatRoll, I must admit that I’m looking forward to future posts from you. Ten months? Wait until ten years have passed you by without that bitch. You’ll sit and wonder…”Did I really suffer through that?” “Was that me?” It will be such a distant memory, and you’ll have truly LIVED for so long, that you’ll swear that it all happened to a different guy. That has been my experience so far. I just celebrated 11 years post divorce and I’m ALWAYS grateful that I divorced my bitch. Life is short. Live abundantly.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

very good. Hermit, i had the gun to my head also. combat, it is amazing how fast we can recover. thank god we made it.

Get a vasectomy.

[No CountryParticipant 759]

Very glad you are off of the plantation. This is good news to hear. I hope your story gets out to men who are on the fence about divorce.

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