All is Quiet on the Western Front

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

So, as stated in earlier threads – I’m 6 weeks off the plantation and in my own place.

The Selfish One has been teeter-tottering between a total f~~~ing bitch and apologetic.

She will not discuss divorce ands says she is not moving forward. Then I find out from her friend that she has retained a lawyer.

I’ve selected my lawyer and I will retain her tomorrow.

The Selfish One (SO) stated she would not use my child against me. That lasted about 3 weeks.

Right now all is quiet, but it is like two armies massing opposite each other on a battlefield and periodically we will probe the others’ defenses and skirmish a little and then retreat.

I’m going to extend an armistice and see if we can settle amicably or if this is going to be full out bloodbath.

We shall see….

[foolsgoldParticipant 5646]

Take no prisoners. Burn that c~~~ to the ground.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Good luck soldier.

Hope you survive.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CoolbreezeParticipant 442]

Good luck! Stay true to your kid no matter how f~~~ed their head gets

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Good luck brother.

CombatRoll wrote:

She will not discuss divorce ands says she is not moving forward. Then I find out from her friend that she has retained a lawyer.

Holy Crap! She lied? That never happens…………She’s just throwing s~~~ against the wall right now to see if anything sticks. If you show any weakness now, you can guarantee she’ll go back to that tactic in the future.

Name, rank, and serial number only soldier. Give her nothing.

Order the good wine

[AutoliteParticipant]

Like someone famous once said: “Walk softly but carry a big stick”.

Sincerely, best of luck…

[GregB0Participant]

CombatRoll wrote:

if this is going to be full out bloodbath.

Make sure that you have all your defenses in order prior to starting the blitzkrieg. Best of luck

Coolbreeze wrote:

Stay true to your kid no matter how f~~~ed their head gets

Absolutely! Do not leave them behind or abandon them to the SO under any circumstances…

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

The calm before the storm, Brother. Brace for Impact.

Once my SO (Selfish One) lawyered up she put all moral responsibility on him.

Get used to this saying: “Well my lawyer said…”

The lawyers will drag this out as long as possible, make things as vague as possible and CONSTANTLY try to barter better deals on her behalf. They will use past divorce raping history to prove that its “the societal norm” for you to become a wage slave for princess.

Prepare for legal extortion that would make an Italian Mobster proud.

My Best Advice: Try to amicably discuss negotiating between you two, WITHOUT lawyers. Explain very reasonably that the ONLY ones who win in a drawn out divorce/custody battle is the lawyers. You BOTH will be paying out the nose for YEARS on ridiculous lawyer fees.

Explain how both lawyers will try to draw this out as long as possible, so they both get paid premiums. They will both make flowery promises, only to start the negotiations that are never ending.

Legal Precedent is NOT in your favor. “Other Princesses” got the keys to the castle, why shouldnt yours?

Good Luck Brother.

[Anonymous 18]

Let’s add ‘Selfish One’ in MGTOW vernacular.

Modify as necessary but it is defined as: The female-turned-c~~~ prior/during divorce proceedings.

Or just call her a woman.

[Bastisimo1Participant 423]

Be very careful that the friend isn’t a double agent, no matter how well intentioned- use her to tell her stuff you know will get back to the ex to put her off guard.

Most importantly pretend you are devastated- ex’s like to know your on your knees they get a perverse satisfaction from it. Use this to your advantage/ get a deal you can live with but via the friend pretend you are distraught and financially flattened

Get onto high devious manipulation mode but always seem the injured distraught party

Think Machiavelli

And men are deploying the most devastating weapon of all – indifference. In this final battle who cares least wins.

[RumpoleParticipant 994]

Do to her what Sherman did to Georgia.

[LonestarParticipant 333]

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m going to extend an armistice and see if we can settle amicably or if this is going to be full out bloodbath.

I’m going to give you some advice that a friend gave me. He has been married 4 times so I consider him something of an expert.

1.Don’t try to be friends. 2. File first, or quickly thereafter. I filed first and I controlled the pace. I slowed things way down. I had lots of money, she didn’t and time wasn’t her friend. 3. Cash does not exist so horde it in a very safe place. 4. Paperwork is key. Find every record you can: financial, birth certificates, SS cards everything, put in a very safe place. Divorce is a paperwork nightmare. 5. Assume that every time you talk to her you are being recorded. (video, audio)
As to point 1 (don’t try to be friends) If shes getting her ass kicked in court she’ll want to play nice to get you to ease up. F~~~ that. In the legal sense knock her down, and then kick her, then kick her to get her rolling, don’t stop till its over.
Make things so f~~~ing horrible that she’ll never screw with you again.

So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key. Eagles

[LonestarParticipant 333]

CombatRoll wrote:

She will not discuss divorce ands says she is not moving forward. Then I find out from her friend that she has retained a lawyer.

I used this myself. The Ex told me she wanted a divorce in September, and then proceeded to list the assets that she wanted. I said fine, lets just wait till after the holidays are over. That was exactly what she wanted to hear. I had her served at work, the first week in October. She was upset that I “broke my word”, I simply said I changed my mind.

So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key. Eagles

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

as a veteran of my own and a ring side witness to many other divorces, I can promise you that the advice from Nomadic above is the most financially efficient. If you and she can agree on terms for a split, you can download the forms for free and get done in many states with only the filing fees from the court clerk’s office. Often, the two of you can get the clerk to tell you (for free) how to fill and file the standard forms. If you try this with her (without lawyers) and it she refuses, it cost you nothing to try. If it does work, you will both save a ton of money on the fees of lawyers who are experts and playing you against each other for their own financial gain. Good luck, and keep us posted…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 7]

Hang in there brother.
No matter what c~~~ stunt she pulls time is on your side.

Age, Wine, Milk and all that.
Imagine the schadenfreude you will expericece when her life is complete s~~~ and tries to monkey branch back.

Gwads I really like the word schadenfreude

[AttonParticipant]

A brutal war over a marriage contract what a waste of money.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

She will accept your offer, or she won’t. You will end up in front of the judge, or you won’t. You have little control over the legal process. Once you accept that, it will not hurt as much.

I tried to negotiate with her. Her demands forced me to get a lawyer. Her lawyer’s demands have forced me to spend days producing documents. Ultimately, the legal system will extract its pound of flesh from each of us. I am slowly coming to terms with this and my stress level has diminished.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 13]

Hope for the best.

Prepare for the worst.

Good luck, Bro.

[NomadgParticipant 249]

Everything you say and do can and will be used against you in court or other proceedings. Say nothing other than short and curt child related texts. Try the amicable approach first. Women deal in emotion, not logic so it is difficult to get them to understand. The attorney’s will stretch this out for over a year and milk you each month with a bill. It is the biggest waste of money you will ever endure. Remember, she is fighting for your house, your pay, your pension, and of course the guaranteed child support payday. Every asshole mangina beta orbiter and all her worthless friends will be telling her “go girl” in obtaining what is rightfully hers…your stuff. Never surrender.

It's never to late to be what you might have been...

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

Autolite wrote:

Like someone famous once said: “Walk softly but carry a big stick”.

That would be Theodore Roosevelt!

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

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