Alimony for life? Are you serious?

[ByronParticipant 465]

I don’t see ANY logic in paying alimony to women in this day and age (can’t equal women support themselves??)… let alone paying alimony FOR LIFE. This is absolutely inhumane! This is a travesty of immeasurable proportions!! This could not be the law, surely, it must be a cruel joke.. alas it is the law.

I believe this issue needs more attention as this law is sexist beyond belief (ABSOLUTELY MIND BOGGLING!). All the feminist fighting for equality seem to ignore this issue completely (not surprisingly). Why aren’t women paying alimony to men if they are the ones making more money than their husbands? Is the gender the only criteria here? It is, and is 110% sexist without a shadow of a doubt.

Alimony for life is the worst. Apparently if you’ve been married 10 or more years, your ex-wife is entitled to being taken care off for life. What?? For life? Imagine giving fat checks to a whore that cheated you, said she is not happy and filed for divorce herself, and hates you on top of that. Just imagine it for a second. No hope of ever stopping paying her. You will be 80 years old and still be paying a large percentage of your money to a morally twisted and absolutely ugly inside and out leech. Alimony for life must be abolished and it must go down soon. This is unbearable and should not be tolerated any second longer!

Another archaic aspect of is it is that the alimony seems to be also a percentage of your income, rather than what’s necessary for a human being to survive (like $700 and a roof). People with millions end up paying ridiculous amounts of money to their ex-wives. Does a woman really need 50k per month to survive? Really?

This thread is inspired by a video I just watched. It is a sad video but I suggest you take a look:

I’d like to thank Terrence Popp for making it! This and all his other videos are absolutely great.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Terrence is great huh. Even great men like Robin Williams can be brought down by a vagina. Robin made a great quote ,”I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.”

One mistake can ruin 20-30 years of your life, letting one woman manipulate you into that mistake can ruin your life. It’s not worth it.

Here is another video about what you are talking about….

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[kizellParticipant 368]

Great quote Bullet……..F~~~ing great quote

[ByronParticipant 465]

Great stuff, Terrence! Thank you for that video. The quote is awesome too, so very true.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Four different things that we often confuse as being the same:
1. Logic
2. What is right, and what is wrong
3. Justice
4. The law

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[kizellParticipant 368]

It is absurd,  and most women would agree, but they would not argue against it either.

Alimony is absurd in all cases, but alimony after the kids are legal adults is legal theft.  Only poverty promotes more evil than the courts.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7662]

If a man does not learn to say “No”, there is no limit to what will be asked of, and taken from him.  The only source of limit there can be to what is taken from a man is the limit the askers impose on themselves, and the limit the man establishes within himself.  Learn to say no to the requests directed to you, or say goodbye to all the things you have that are worth taking from you…

 

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Byron wrote:

I don’t see ANY logic in paying alimony to women in this day and age (can’t equal women support themselves??)… let alone paying alimony FOR LIFE. This is absolutely inhumane! This is a travesty of immeasurable proportions!! This could not be the law, surely, it must be a cruel joke.. alas it is the law. I believe this issue needs more attention as this law is sexist beyond belief (ABSOLUTELY MIND BOGGLING!). All the feminist fighting for equality seem to ignore this issue completely (not surprisingly).

Its one of the reasons I’ll never get married.  Its just an antiquated law.  I could understand why alimony was needed several generations ago…if a woman married at 19, only had a high school education, and her work experience consisted of a couple years of being a secretary or something, and she was popping kids out by 20 and devoted her life to raising 7 kids…then at 50 her husband left her…I could completely agree with alimony as that women would be royally f~~~ed.  She would be too old to get any return on investment from education and after 30 years out of the work force with no marketable skills would find it practically impossible to get any sort of decent job.

But today…its a f~~~ing joke.  I could marry a college educated woman, not have any children with her, and if we split I could be on the hook for alimony simply because I make more money than her.  Why?  As far as I’m concerned once a relationship ends its f~~~ing over…whatever benefits, whether it be financial, emotional, or sexual, one may partner may have received from the other ends unless it is voluntarily given.  If they can’t live with that, perhaps they should think twice before cheating, treating their partner like s~~~, or terminating the relationship.

[ByronParticipant 465]

It’s just so demoralizing to know you’ll have to pay alimony until you die. It’s absolutely barbaric. Courts show no fairness or mercy at all.

Take Robin’s money now you greedy whores! I believe he is in a much better place now as he was a GOOD man!

[RoyDalParticipant]

I am not completely sure alimony killed Robin Williams. He was known to be on two medications, both of which have “possible suicide” as listed side effects. Granted, being in hock up to his ears was not a mood elevator, but many men have borne that alone without dying from it. Add psychoactive drugs to the mix, and you’ve got something.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ByronParticipant 465]

RoyDal, I agree with you that it was not just that.

Alimony is rarely the sole reason for such occurrences. However, there is much more behind the whole disappointment one starts to carry with each failed relationship and the peak at the vile nature of the human race each time that happens (and what better example than those women that pretended to love him and turned against him for money, shameful!). I guess he was a BluePill till the very end, which is indicative of the good person he was, as he was unable to recognize the cruel and shameless nature of those useless leeches (it’s indeed very difficult to recognize them for what they are when you are a good and honest guy yourself, as you are projecting those qualities on the people around and believe they are more like you).

Drugs/Alcohol will also make you depressed by default when you try to stop taking them as it’s a natural withdrawal. I guess it was all too much to handle at one point.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Is it coincidence that now women are sometimes out earning men ….. all of a sudden women are now saying alimony might be a bad thing?

That’s the beauty of women. It’s her perogative to change her mind …. apparently.

They really are horrible people.

[rorickParticipant 682]

@iliveagain I have seen it the moment women are expected to pay alimony, they will change their views and say that alimony is only for losers.  They are like f~~~ing chameleons.

[Anonymous 5]

It is insanely unfair what the courts allow c~~~s to get away with.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7662]

For me, the saddest part of the whole lifetime alimony story is the enormous number of those guys who don’t see that whole marriage contract for the lie that it actually is.  I feel enormously fortunate to have been just cynical enough to have looked at that invitation to marriage, mortgage, kids, then divorce alimony and child support and sense it to be the fraud that it is… just in time to back out of it.

It saddens me to see how successful that lie has been.  I do not believe that either cash or financial assets should ever change hands on the basis of marriage or divorce.  In any adult chooses to be a parent, that adult is responsible for 50% of the cost of raising that child.  But if it’s true that we are all equal, then we are all equally capable of taking responsibility for ourselves and for the our own individual 50% share of the responsibility for the children that our decision has produced.

For me, alimony is just child support paid to a child masquerading around in an adult’s body who was a participant in a temporary adoption masquerading as an adult marriage partnership.  If you are so helpless and incompetent that you cannot take responsibility for yourself after a divorce, then you were not competent to have adequately held up your end of the marriage contract in the first place… and so probably owe your ex husband some compensation for having wasted his time on you.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[HitmanParticipant]

ditto brainpilot ..great video bullet ! this is the REAL stuff !

[avillaxParticipant 280]

It happens in the Mangina countries only (USA, Canada, UK, Australia) the English speaking countries are the ones with the most self-entitled women, they don’t even get it: http://www.expats.cz/prague/t-180357.html?discussion%3A+expat+life

To me, whoever is willing to pay the lifetime alimony is nothing but a sheep fool ready to bend over to the system and be humiliated by women. If I were in your situation I would cash my pension and move to Mexico or the Philippines before losing it hiring a lawyer or showing up in court already like a criminal.

It’s not a fantasy, it’s perfectly doable. For instance, you can rent an apartment by the beach in a Mexican town for $120 per month.

[Gone SurfingParticipant 216]

Why aren’t women paying alimony to men if they are the ones making more money than their husbands?

It is happening. In my opinion it alimony will be scrapped when there are enough women paying it to they husbands and complaining that it is unfair. White night judges will then change the law because it is unfair to womynz.

http://www.marieclaire.com/career-advice/tips/a5996/women-paying-alimony/

Personally i would never get married but if some lurkers are considering it then check the laws where you live and if there are alimony payments then only date women who earn more than you. Setting them up for the payments in the future.

[Gone SurfingParticipant 216]

Reddit comments on women paying alimony.

http://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/2uj2dq/anderson_cooper_women_complain_about_having_to/

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Is it coincidence that now women are sometimes out earning men ….. all of a sudden women are now saying alimony might be a bad thing? That’s the beauty of women. It’s her perogative to change her mind …. apparently. They really are horrible people.

It’s normal when they like it, it’s sexist when they don’t.
Basically female standards in a nutshell.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

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